what the hell is this world coming to, anyway? is that saying true, that all good men are either taken or gay?

Things like, 'Master', 'My Lord', 'My Liege', 'God', hell even 'Mein Fuhrer' are OK, but not daddy.

I don't know... perhaps "pretty" generally applies to feminine things, whereas "handsome" is a more masculine term.

^^^^ Looks like you clicked on post like 6 times....

LMAO!! I liked this :P Thanks for makin' me laugh.. =)

So I guess what I would put to you Forum friends is this....

Are "compliments" in a relationship a neccesary part of continuing to be sexually attracted to someone? or does it really matter?

i'd suspect you are losing them because you do not evidence any interest in their interests.

The case is rarely ever closed, and apologies are rarely sincere.

"When you speak to me using that tone/words/expression, it makes me feel small and worthless. If that is your intention, job well done. However, if you care about me, care about making me feel happy, loved and safe, then let's find a way to fix this in a way that works for both of us."

I just like to kill things".

spending the holidays single..

bud, get yourself a muscle car or some street rod to play with. I myself never been ina relationship, so you know I say **** it. Once I get me a house, I am going to have me a muscle car and a couple of huskies. I think the longer you are single, the more selfish you become.

[noting the angst of the emotion-laden oxymoron "all alone."] To me, that's a great example of Peace on Earth. No one around to ruin the mood. This one's for you!

I don't understand why women (and men) put themselves into these types of situations. Is it loneliness, low self esteem, could you please this question.

That was pretty bad of her. It would have been nice of her to be more considerate.

Im thinking he timed it that way cause he was just to cheap to buy me a christmas present.lol


I think a psychologist would say that was an act of pure hostility.

All this "let's be friends" business is overrated anyway.

Some people just HAVE NO F-ing CLUE about nonconfrontational personalities.

It doesn't have a damned thing to do with "respect" it has to do with the SEVERELY uncomfortable situation and a significant psychological paranoia that it will get NASTY if it's done in person.

If a relatively passive person is going to break up with an aggressive confrontational person, GUARANTIED it won't be in person, and respect has nothing to do with it.

Ok, I'm gonna be honest here. If the sex sucks and I don't deem it "fixable", then no, the relationship will not last. We might end up as best friends, I'm not gonna throw him to the wolves or anythign.

Once you start having bad sex, your libido goes down as well...so then you just don't care if you have it or not. IT's like if every time you baked cookies they didn't taste good...would you buy a cookbook or just stop trying to bake cookies? Well I stopped trying.

But if I met another low libido crappy lover...sure, I'd try to fix the problem. But if it didn't work, Adios, amigo! Because I will NOT settle again. Ever.

If your partner has low libido AND sucks at sex, just how motivated do you think he is to try new things?

Course this is the same guy who was jealous as hell of me having a vibrator!!!!!!

I wouldn't stay. I think sex is as important as anything else and I want the whole thing. Not one or the other. This is such a personal thing. Those with a moderate libido might be happily content with a mediocre sex life when all else is great and those with a high libido need to be sexually content.

How many times in life have you actually had "mind blowing" sex ??? come 'on , that rarely happens, specially in the beginning ..... if everything else is sooooo wonderful , then sex is just one thing you need to work on, just like communication, TALK ABOUT IT ..... if they want to make you happy and have a great relationship in every way, she / he will do what it takes to make you happy .
Life is about learning and if people would just relax and be more open minded, i think it would be a lot happier place !!!!

You shouldn't be having sex outside of the bond of marriage anyway...serves you right to be dissatisfied....sin is sin...fornication is for pigs wallowing in mud. Shame.

Should I?

Hind site is 20/20. He just realized what a d**k he had been.

–adjective.
1. extremely small, as in size, amount, extent, or degree: minute differences.
2. of minor importance; insignificant; trifling.
3. attentive to or concerned with even the smallest details: a minute examination.

What's funny is right before I picked up my mail, I had been thinking "I'm happier than I've been in awhile". And his note didn't spoil that happiness. If anything, it made me smile knowing that I did the right thing for ME.

start swimming - hope u got your waterwings Eagle - I sitting here in a good old Queensland with thunderstorm underway and about 33 degrees c and loving it:bye

You know, I find this post fascinating - I have a friend of mine who started dating a guy and found out he had diabetes - and she gave him the boot.

Personally, if there was an attraction I could not imagine to end a relationship based on diabetes/high blood pressure/asthma, etc. these are all diseases that can be managed with medication/diet, but to each his own I guess.

Possibly this person had someone in the past that did not care for themselves properly with their disease, I don't know....

It is a mystery to me, that is for sure

Thanks Dovelett, don't think we have it in Australia but I at least know what to do with it now if I come across it.

there are many who put on a good act and there are those that don't need to "act" to be 'good'. those that try too hard and that are showy in their "goodness" are usually needy for acceptance--the constant pat-on-the-back. . a truly "good" person doesn't need to announce their kindness, therefore they might be a little harder to "spot", but they do exist.

there's those that love to bask in the limelight of their 'goodness' and 'kindness'

I'll be picking out tunes on my new (slightly used and abused) Martin D-41. Gawds, this guitar sounds sweet!!!!!!!!!

Nope! Sick of cooking and catering for all my crew...looking for a man that likes it to step up to the plate

well - nothing like licking a plate clean is there!!

P.s. Sorry for jumping on the 'adventurous' bandwagon, it's funny once or twice but an entire thread of innuendo can be boring :)

good: -if they save kittens from trees or babies from burning buildings
bad: -if you have seen them shirtless in an episode of "cops"