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kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 36 (view)

whats a decent job Posted: 1/5/2007 10:03:55 AM
Know what you mean photog. It seems as though a mans attractiveness depends on the size of his.....wallet...Being a woman I have had many women friends that set a criteria for their prospective loves... I would think a loser job is no job or ambition..I dont want to support my lover but i do not want him to think that he has to support me...

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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What's all this about opening the door for ladies business? Posted: 3/27/2006 7:05:21 AM
I like it when and man opens the door, I like it when they pump the gas in the car, And I like it when they fix things too. They've always gone hand in hand. I guess I too have been lucky and have found this in men quite often...

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 77 (view)

Ugly people Posted: 3/23/2006 12:34:32 PM
I think the words used were distasteful. And I am not 'lying' when I say that I do not judge people regarding ugliness. This is just my opinion.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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Ugly people Posted: 3/23/2006 11:41:15 AM
I don't see people as ugly. What is ugly to you may not be to another.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 40 (view)

Is it just me...or do woman lack confidence? Posted: 3/22/2006 10:43:52 AM
I agree that confidence comes with age.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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I found someone... Posted: 3/20/2006 6:58:51 AM
To pay or not to pay... (btw: bye OP) I've done both. POF rules because of the forums. A very casual way to get to know others. I've gone on my share of dates. Enjoyed all of them. Met many great people. All free. It is not up to the site to screen your potential dates, that is up to you. As far as (Wo)men lie, people that pay fib too. I guess I am not getting the rationale of the OP regarding pay sites versus free sites.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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whats the biggest turn-off on a first date? Posted: 3/20/2006 6:36:48 AM
Shallowness or no personality. No sense of humor. Lagging conversation or a one sided conversation. Zero manners. Dressing inappropriately for where we are going. Usually you can sum up the person instantly and know if there will be a second date.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 29 (view)

distance relationships Posted: 3/17/2006 12:29:00 PM
I would think that distant relationships are hard to maintain. Both have to be independent and totally trustworthy. Even getting to see each other once or twice a year would be a strain. But I guess if it were meant to be and you found your magic, then go for it.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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The stupidity of expectations Posted: 3/17/2006 11:55:24 AM
I agree with Pandy. We all have a guideline that we except but we all need the flexiblility. as Mandrake said that we all change so our expections change too.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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Degrees of cheating - Illusion or reality? Posted: 3/14/2006 2:53:03 PM
I agree with Robbie. If my bf gave oral to another woman,then it would be to please her. If he was getting head then I'd think he was a horny lil toad. If it were penetration, it would be to please both.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 139 (view)

Has anyone ever used ice cubes for sex? Posted: 3/14/2006 10:04:06 AM
I like the ice and altoids during oral but I'm not sure about an ice cube inserted during sex. I enjoy the intensity of sex but it seems it would be too much of a distraction.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 40 (view)

A question for the women on orgasms and one night stands Posted: 3/14/2006 9:57:56 AM
Women can go into a one nighter and orgasm if the man can bring it on. Women need the release too.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 61 (view)

Is a 9 year age difference too much? Posted: 3/14/2006 9:43:05 AM
As said previously. It is only an issue if you make it one. Age is just a number.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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Making the second date - what made your decision? Posted: 3/14/2006 9:36:03 AM
nipper922: I agree. Also you get lost in time.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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why do women shy away from guy that doesnt drink?? Posted: 3/14/2006 9:15:43 AM
maybe it is an age thing but it seems the older people aren't into drinking as the younger ones.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 109 (view)

What sends shivers down your back? Posted: 3/14/2006 9:04:00 AM
Breathing heavy in my ear while nibbling on my lobe. Kissing with passion in the rain. Being in love.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 32 (view)

Ok, Let's Reverse It. What Do Women Think Of Guys That Only Talk About Sex? Posted: 3/14/2006 8:13:56 AM
There is a time, place and person. Also the relationship I want or have with them. If we are starting to date and all you do is talk about us under the sheets, then it's a turn off. If it is a friend I've known for awhile and we're both frustrated, then sex is sometimes all we talk about.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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How many chances... Posted: 3/12/2006 5:23:19 AM
How many chances also depends on how much I like them. Everyone has a life and responsibilities. Running late or forgetting to get back to them is trivial. We all do that sometimes. No one likes to be lied to and that is a deal breaker. Never get a second chance, especially if you can lie straight to my face. I never understood why people lied..It would just be another burden.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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In response to the thread HellGibson made about looks. Posted: 3/12/2006 5:06:52 AM
It's the same thing in other threads. Looks attract and personality (intelligence) keeps us. We all have different likes and dislikes. Things that are exceptable or not exceptable.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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What do women really want - the answer not the question Posted: 3/10/2006 5:45:21 AM
In a relationship it shouldn't be one person making the decisions for both. I agree with the OP that I like to make decisions for myself and about myself. It all depends on when you take control and relinqish control. yin and yang.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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kissing after oral sex Posted: 3/10/2006 5:29:18 AM
No hangups about that here..I love kissing after oral. Everyone has the right to have sexual preferences in bed... All that matters is that your partner has the same as you. I personally wouldnt keep dating a man that didn't kiss me after he ate me or after I gave him a bj..

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 180 (view)

morning sex... Posted: 3/10/2006 5:12:26 AM
Love sex anyway, but morning sex is a big plus. Being all warm and comfy...mmmmmm..just rolling over....mmmmm. I prefer romance in the morning. Sex in bed then sex in the shower then sex over the kitchen table...mmmm. It's all good...

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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1st date kisses. Posted: 3/10/2006 4:34:23 AM
such a sweetheart you are techno. It's all in the kiss.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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1st date kisses. Posted: 3/10/2006 4:30:32 AM
!st date kiss is intimate.But I like a kiss on the first date. Just a peck on the lips. If the attraction and chemistry is there,why not? Signs? With me it is standing toe to toe. Touching some non-sexual part (clothing, arm, hand, ect...)

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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P.D.A. Posted: 3/6/2006 12:28:08 PM
PDA is good in moderation but too much and I gotta go. I don't want anyone grabbing my crotch or boob in public. It isn't a turn on for me. I have a tendency to touch a man in the butt or back as we walk. Holding hands is cool.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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The most ridiculous things women look for in a date Posted: 3/6/2006 12:03:50 PM
We do kinda look for retarded stuff in a mate. We also find retarded reasons to dump someone..lol. I know women that won't date a man with rough hands, hair on their chest or a thick neck. I'm really not sure what that means. It's like if men like this have cooties. I think good hygiene is important as well as being well groomed and appropriately dressed for the occasion.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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Riddle me this... Posted: 3/6/2006 11:44:52 AM
Yea alot of people do misrepresent themselves. Most do not.. It is great when someone is involved in the forums. You get to know more than what is in a profile...

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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ideas of large members and oral Posted: 3/6/2006 11:09:04 AM
I agree with Alpengeist. Do what you can it's all good to them. Or you can just give him a hand job and lick the sack and other things..

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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What hobbies do you girls like? Posted: 3/6/2006 11:03:53 AM
I like watching ultimate fighter. I like to play pool. Cars are cool but I like to watch a man change the oil. Love music, weightlifting, swimming and martial arts. Also enjoy the arts (music, dancing, plays, art museums)

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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The Code Posted: 3/6/2006 10:25:52 AM
I guess I know very little regarding men. What a silly thing this "code". I don't get it. You'd belittle yourself for a guy that has no balls to be honest and upfront with his own woman.. Would the code still stand if the tables reversed? She starts seeing someone else would you tell your buddy? If things became hot and heavy between you and her, would you tell your buddy? I covered for friends in college but now I'd be in their face telling them to choose. I would be a good friend and stay out of it.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 38 (view)

middle aged dating and peoples baggage Posted: 3/6/2006 10:09:39 AM
There are so many things that could be classified as "baggage". Depends on whether it is a light bag or heavy bag.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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how many here are after 45 and without children Posted: 3/5/2006 10:28:43 PM
I don't know twobits. Anything is possible these days. I have a son 25 and have no regrets having him in my life. My sis is 43 and her and her hubby chose to be DINKS (double income no kids). She has no regrets and she is very happy with her lifestyle and choice.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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Ladies, please explain what this means.. Posted: 3/5/2006 10:19:50 PM
Aw RD if you were in Ohio, I'd play twister with you.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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There are four aspects to every person in life, sex and dating. Posted: 3/5/2006 9:39:17 PM
body and mind are the first things to give (attraction and intelligence). The heart opening follows when you find that special someone. I'd never give away my soul to another but I would join souls with that person.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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Ladies, please explain what this means.. Posted: 3/5/2006 1:08:06 PM
I am young at heart and have an appreciation and joy for life. I don't like men to act "OLD" which alot of men in my age group do.. Younger men have that spice for life when older men just sit and stare. Young men seem to give you a reason to act crazy and wild. They can also relate to you better then men your age. I've never talked to people (potential dates) about aches, pains and bills. I also don't like to hear about them from the men. Nor do I want to hear how much you hate your job. So you see it goes both ways.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 120 (view)

Single Dads -- especially sexy?= DILF ? Posted: 3/5/2006 12:20:22 AM
I dont know and cant really put my finger on why single dads seem more attractive...Maybe the adult role they now play vs being an adventurous person.. I'm not saying all single dads arent seekers of the adreniline rush but they seem more cautious with life.. I dont know how to put it. It's just a feeling.. My son is 25 and I have been a widow for 19 years. Engaged 3 times..I understand not needing a replacement parent..My son and I have a connection that is special. Beyond words. As far as the age (s) of the children it would be tough to catagorize. I have had issues with teenage girls in the past. They were VERY protective of their dad I was dating. Most of the men I date now have kids, they don't bother me...

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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MEN!! afraid of sex? Posted: 3/2/2006 1:49:33 PM
I really can't relate but do understand..That is a major responsibility for a single person to endure...Sounds like you are just a very fertile woman...I have heard of tri protection and still conception...I would hope that if love were involved that the man would understand abstinance. I have known women in the past that have wanted children so they "guaranteed" their chances..I can understand why men would also be afraid. I am 45 and I remember when my gyn insisted that I get a rubberband method of a tubal (rubberband tubes instead of burning them). I was 40 at the time, engaged to a 47 y/o..we DID NOT want kids..Drs.will do what they they think is right for you.. Even though I am not engaged now, I still don't want to birth any babies..my son is old enough to give me grand kids when he is ready. Do what you feel is comfortable...I don't see how sex would be enjoyable if you had fears.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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The Code Posted: 3/2/2006 12:36:35 PM
I know only a little regarding this "man code" thing but I do think the code should have no place in this ..Isn't there a man code that says not to put your good friend in a "no win" situation? You talk about your loyalty to a man that seems to have no problem putting you into a corner. Whatever happened to your own ethics, morals and inidividual code? YOU must have them since this seems to bother you...If you do not say something soon, in the long run, everyone will lose something.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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Message Posted: 2/28/2006 7:35:48 AM
I used to reply to everyone but when you say no thanks to some, it is an ivitation to send hate mail. Now I dont. Profiles without a picture is always iffy. Depends on the profile. If the profile says nothing then again, I don't respond. OP: are you sending emails out?

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 292 (view)

If you had your choice to travel tomorrow where would you go? Posted: 2/27/2006 6:45:37 PM
Some place very warm. Africa. It's cold and snowing here. England I'd save til it got warmer.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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does their have to be chemestry Posted: 2/27/2006 6:38:27 PM
The chemistry has got to be there.It is not something that comes with time. It's there or it isn't. Don't lead her on. If she isn't looking for a friendship then good bye. It's tough but in the long run, she'll understand.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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soulmates Posted: 2/22/2006 6:57:31 PM
lol.I'd hope that if my soulmate were within a 75 mile radius, I'd already have found him. Never question a woman's thought process...

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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do you feel you will meet better quality and more honest people on a paid dating site? Posted: 2/21/2006 11:35:03 PM
I think you improve your chances on a free dating site. More people. Here on pof, it's nice to have the forums. Some people on paid dating sites are also on here.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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What is the deal with Women? Posted: 2/21/2006 10:58:40 PM
I think it all goes back to self esteem issues. Though you see it and don't like it, it is not your problem. They choose to stay with this type of man. All you can hope for is that one day they grow tired of being the gum on the bottom of someones shoes.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 70 (view)

For the ladies...Ever go on a Man Hunt? Posted: 2/21/2006 3:16:27 PM
Along time ago yes.When you had the need to feed,toys were never enough. Now I do the FWB

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 39 (view)

Long distance relationships Posted: 2/21/2006 10:22:18 AM
Long distance relationships do seem to take more work. You both have to be pretty independent. It's hard to know if the chemistry is there if you've never met. I'd take it one step at a time. Enjoy what you have NOW and don't think about relocating yet.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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do past bad relations affect the presant? Posted: 2/21/2006 10:13:11 AM
Sometimes you have to get rid of your emotional baggage in order to move on. If you don't, you'll keep attracting those types into your life.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

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This is a dating sight....right? Posted: 2/21/2006 10:03:35 AM
Sometimes we like to think we are the only ones. Reality is that it is common to go out with a few people for the first dates. Then you meet someone you like and want to make it exclusive.

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 47 (view)

Physical attraction vs. Mental attraction Posted: 2/21/2006 9:47:58 AM
attraction draws me in and intelligence keeps me...If I can talk to someone easily but not physically attracted, then we are just friends...

kymber

Joined: 12/19/2004

Msg: 27 (view)

forums Posted: 2/20/2006 1:37:30 PM
I do hope someone doesn't judge me by my last 5 posts...it would seem silly...Judge me by ALL of my posts..lol I don't think posting in a certain thread or on a certain subject in a bad thing and I really don't think it decribes the person...

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