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Joined: 12/19/2006

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Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 7/12/2008 7:48:01 PM
So I'm just curious. Did you hear from him again? How long has it been?

Joined: 12/19/2006

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How do you get over someone that you loved and they treated you badly? Posted: 7/12/2008 7:44:14 PM
No-one needs that. Wouldn't going back be the last thing you would want..

Joined: 12/19/2006

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Why do most women act like money isn't an issue? Posted: 7/12/2008 7:35:36 PM
i don't know where your coming from. i find this untrue

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he doesn't wear a condom Posted: 7/12/2008 7:09:34 PM
I'm surprised that you needed to ask that question. Can people in this day and age still be so naive..?

Joined: 12/19/2006

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Do abusers repeat there patterns Posted: 7/12/2008 6:22:54 PM
In short. YES. I have lived around alot of that in my life and nothing ever changes.

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Girlfriend not affectionate Posted: 7/6/2008 11:08:37 PM
Thank you everyone i know what i must do now... It's going to be hard but its whats right. Better for both of us.

Joined: 12/19/2006

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Girlfriend not affectionate Posted: 7/6/2008 9:01:56 PM
You may need to ask yourself if your compatible emotionally and physically with expressions of affection. That's my problem.... there is none whatsoever. Can any relationship be like this? I guess I'm looking for a fix but maybe there isn't one and I need to be strong and just accept that and move on. Thank you all for the quick replies.

Joined: 12/19/2006

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Girlfriend not affectionate Posted: 7/6/2008 8:57:57 PM
Just to make it clear. I don't mean sex. That doesnt bother me weather it happens or not. (Although it has and she basically didn't move/do anything making me feel I was taking advantage of her). And this is not all about her not hugging and kissing me. There IS more to it... I tell her I like her, miss her, etc but i get none of that back. At the same time she does say she "really likes me" when i bring it up. Its as if shes saying these things just because I am annoyed, as if shes just telling me what i want to hear. This is all very confusing. She seems to have problems getting close to me but just doesn't want to admit it or shes trying to make out as if it's not happening. I feel shes pushing me away in doing so.

Joined: 12/19/2006

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Girlfriend not affectionate Posted: 7/6/2008 8:22:25 PM
Ok going to make this brief. I did just type a long msg but lost it.. My girlfriend shows no signs of affection so to speak. It's as if I'm doing all the work (that's how I feel anyway). She won't hug or kiss me etc. Whereas compared to this i am all over her. She says she want's me so stay the same and even complains when i stop being affectionate because she can sense something is wrong. But then that's how I constantly feel (that there is something wrong). In her words "I'm not the touchy feely person". I find this a vital part of a relationship. I'm constantly bringing it up and it's ruining us. We fight about it more and more as it becomes a bigger problem for me. She says I'm making her feel like there is something wrong with her. (is there?) She tells me that it's just her and that its not that she doesn't want to but that she feels uncomfortable. But he cant tell me if she will ever feel comfortable... This is so opposite to all my other relationships. I fell this should all be mutual so it gets me depressed. We all need affection in a relationship. Otherwise everything is perfect we have a happy normal relationship. Just a few questions.. Am i right to feel this way? What do i do? If she likes me doing it why cant she bring herself to initiate it? Is a relationship like this worth it? I really like this girl but can't take it. I want out but my feelings for her take over and i cant bring myself to do it because otherwise (and so soon which is rare for me) I'm falling for this girl.... I need to do something though, its screwing with my head really badly.... Thus I'm here. I did get some useful information via a search "show her the door" but i simply cant do this. And besides that's totally unfair.

Joined: 12/19/2006

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Can I afford a girlfriend? Posted: 4/29/2008 12:11:06 AM
Unless your girlfriend is a prostitue then i see no reason why you can't "afford" to have a girlfriend. ha ha ****in classic really cracked me up

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Advice please on my daughter and her new bf Posted: 12/28/2006 5:00:57 PM
Advice please on my daughter and her new bf Posted: 12/27/2006 740 PM Shes an ADULT ... treat her like one... give her that respect Well there we go great someone said it. Shes 19 what the ** is wrong with people these days. You should all feel ashamed. Invading someones privacy like that. Im sure she DOES NOT want the whole world talking about her relationship let alone weather shes had sex or not. Drop it im sure seeing as though shes 19, not 10 but 19 she can WORK THIS OUT FOR HERSELF. maybe thats why shes gotta leave.....YOUR A NOSEY ** ARENT YOU

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