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takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

Msg: 43 (view)

Is sensuality acquired or are you born with it? Posted: 8/18/2009 6:45:05 PM
Sexuality is acquired..... It is about your confidence....it is about your being comfortable with your body and what you have learned about you! It is your ability to please a man and please yourself. It is about knowing the way you walk, talk, hold your head, move your hips, touch your hair and how you smile. It is about how your know men and that it is not just visual but the little things that drive us crazy... Yes....your not born with this....it comes easy to some of us and others find it extremely difficult.... It can come in many forms....suttle sexiness is nice to see in a woman....hopefully a hint of things to come!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Cum volume enhancers.... huh? Posted: 8/16/2009 6:33:33 AM
My gut feel is that it must have something to do with your partners ability to build this muscle reaction. Given the right diet and exercise this will give you control as well. If a woman is open sexually she usually loves seeing a large amount of cum. As for the guy the feeling is obvious....it feels amazing! Diet...exercise....lay off the masterbation...lots of foreplay....and the right partner. God...memories...LOL.

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

Msg: 58 (view)

Penis size vs Breast size Posted: 8/9/2009 7:40:57 AM
My personal opinion is that women saying penis size doesn't matter are lying. Thickness especially... As far as breast size men are visual....it may not be the size it can be the shape or the nipple area....the great thing about people is we are all different and different combinations can work! Personally....attitude and personality is a huge differentiator!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Cum placement Posted: 8/9/2009 7:35:46 AM
There is always something extremely erotic about seeing lots of volume whereever it tends to end up. After all isn't this the point....make things visual for both of you. Ask first and know what is a turn on and what is a no no! Then it becomes your choice afterwards....surprises are fun!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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At the drive-in movie, do you remember? Posted: 5/31/2009 6:03:08 PM
Ahhhh...the drive-in movie. Yes I had a 4 screen one growing up. It was a great place to have a summer date. Last time I had 2 kids with me and we watched the first movie and they fell alseep right after the second one started. Those were the days...lol

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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I need a man's opinion Posted: 5/31/2009 6:00:01 PM
Sounds like things are moving fast. I wonder how you become an excellent lover in 2 weekends??? Is this a distance relationship? If it isn't he must have more important things then you at this point like kids, married or high profile job. What matters is what you want if you even know. Why don't you date a few men and not focus on just one. I said date and not sleep with....at least right away!!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Slept with 83 people Posted: 5/31/2009 5:54:33 PM
Wow....I bet you wish you didn't find that out. Those things tend to be used as ammo in fights. Good luck!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Do Some guys take longer to warm up to a woman even though she is attractive to him? Posted: 12/13/2008 6:05:48 AM
Hmmm....I would say a confident person can let the other person know quickly there is attraction. There is no harm at all getting to know someone more fully. The initial attraction is physical and the deeper attraction is chemistry. Everyone moves at a different pace and may want or need different things in their lives at that moment in time. This is why people grow together and also grow apart. Life is simple and relationships can be too....it is us that makes them complex and we may not be able to help it either!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Women licking a guy below his balls... Posted: 11/30/2008 2:30:19 PM
Just enjoy....open up....anything goes! Balls and below is the best isn't it

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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What words would you LEAST like to hear after sex? Posted: 11/30/2008 2:28:22 PM
Okay...how about....wow...that was amazing....3 hours and you were fabulous. I see you like being dominated. Your very submissive aren't you. My your cold...so you want a blanket? Oh nooooooo.....your stiffening up. Ok....you were alive when we started....hmmmm....yes I think you were

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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What words would you LEAST like to hear after sex? Posted: 11/29/2008 12:54:03 PM
I really am a man.....couldn't you tell!!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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What food gets you in the mood? Posted: 11/22/2008 5:54:12 PM
Nothing heavy....hard liquor!! Ok...kidding. I would say a nice rum followed by some oysters/martini's, and some fruit and cheese with a chocolate dip and some small amount of liquor with or without coffee.... Keep it very lite but tasty and for dessert....

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

Msg: 70 (view)

Why does anyone have to lower their standards because of age? Posted: 11/22/2008 8:35:38 AM
Kirota, I agree with you completely. Whatever relationship you want with a person there must be value in it otherwise why bother. Life is too short! This goes for friendships, romantic relationships or that very special someone. Never sell yourself short but be aware of what you really want and what the other person wants as well. In this way everyone will be happy and your find those realtionships more fulfilling.

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Cum volume enhancers.... huh? Posted: 10/18/2008 4:00:32 PM
I find this hit and miss....sometimes when you don't think you will have lots of volume (due to masterbastion) you do and sometimes when you haven't masterbated for several days you don't have a lot. What I do see is the thickness builds over time.....the thick jelly like cum is cool too.....you can compress it and it returns to its shape.... Filled half a shot glass once just to see how much there would be. We can talk can't we....this is not freaky is it?

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Older? on the scrap heap! Posted: 9/6/2008 7:18:50 AM
My first reaction is....what is this guy taking about!! Personally, I wouldn't get tied down to a committed relationship (ie. Marriage) until at least 30 anyways. Life is much different these days and depending on your lifestyle and your career goals your fine not having a single committed relationship until you can handle it. There is always the right person out there for where you are in your life. Good luck!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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sustained/erection Posted: 8/12/2008 6:25:58 PM
Generally I can control myself for as long as I want through a number of ways. Just don't let yourself get into a position where she is moving her hips in a milking type fashion as that is exactly what you can expect.

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Does penis gets bigger the more you use it? Posted: 8/11/2008 4:58:44 PM
Penis size varies slightly from time to time. If you want to use warm oil and have a little time you can ensure it gets as big as possible. I know I can vary as much as 1 to 2 inches and thickness as well. Like I said....part of it is being turned on and I do agree the more you use it the larger it stays. I think a males penis stops growing once he hits 18. In those early years it almost hurts when easily stretched to the full thick extense. In later years it needs a lot more attention to become extended to the full extense. Same thing with internal body pressure.... To prove my point just look at how young boys can pee a long way with lots of pressure....not as easily for men as they get older. No yawning please.....lol

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

Msg: 70 (view)

Bad Sex Posted: 8/10/2008 9:17:58 AM
Way back.....simply she was dirty....not outwardly dirty but she was. I just couldn't after that and she never understood. You need to be very clean and tidy especially the first time. I am sorry for no details but I am sure you can imagine....

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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best first questions to ask Posted: 8/10/2008 7:57:25 AM
Ask them about their ex's.....that is not a good first question. That requires a level of comfort to be asked and answered honestly. The one about the height and weight is usually a no go for all women so that is out. I would simply ask them about interests, what they do, what they like to do....etc.... When the ice is broken ask them about what they are interested in as far as the opposite sex.....what do you look for in a man/women.....does that represent your past relationships (this doesn't go into detail but could...). The idea is to have fun and get to know each other.....too serious a set of questions feels like your a lawyer or something.....

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Why does everyone assume women have better orgasms than men? Posted: 8/10/2008 7:45:53 AM
I would say that the top percentile of women have more intense orgasms then the top percentile of men. They also have them more often. On the other hand I think men in general enjoy orgasms much more then women do. The reason....mainly hangups about being in touch with their sexual selves.

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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why do guys like to cum on a girl's face? Posted: 8/9/2008 5:47:58 PM
That's a big duh.....they ask or generally are very receptive. Why do women think guys just dream these things up....lol

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT Posted: 8/2/2008 6:37:02 AM
Classynhot....you know your very right. It's not like your 20 and sleeping around with everything that moves. You know your body and your mind and haven't developed as many hangups as many people seem to do. You have gained likes and dislikes and just want to experience life. Frankly, I think many women would be jealous in a fashion that they feel too cold or closed minded. Your lucky....stay young at heart and mind and enjoy yourself.

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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HE BLOWS HIS LOAD IN MY MOUTH WITH NO ORGASM ALERT! Posted: 7/12/2008 3:41:10 PM
I guess your in need of some communications help. You should at the minimum discuss how he likes it and you like it before things get too heated. This communications is actually foreplay. If you were blowing him didn't you think he would eventually lose himself? Communication and preparation......

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Blowjob....what should they call it? Posted: 6/24/2008 5:26:03 PM
Gee....I need to ask more things. These answers were hilarious and I could actually imagine being asked for one of these sayings.....too funny

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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What body clues do ladies give off if they are Aroused ??? Posted: 6/24/2008 5:21:06 PM
Can't stand up as it is way too noticable in a crowded room. When it looks like a tent it is very embarassing but when she wants to take you somewhere what else can you do....especially if the next thing starts happened and the wetness grows....

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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What food gets you in the mood? Posted: 6/24/2008 5:17:24 PM
A nice quiet dinner for two....not too heavy....possibly italian with a nice glass of wine. For dessert homemade sundae including chocolate sauce and whipped cream. Homemade and messy but goooooooooooooooooood......fingers and tongues get too work. It may be messy but that is why you take the comforter off the bed first...lol.

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Why do men ask so few questions? Posted: 6/22/2008 7:06:35 AM
Men ask questions.....we sure do. The difference is that when we ask we expect an answer and not a question....lol. Women ask the same basic question until they get the response they want to hear and not the answer. Men that know how to play this game with women are mainly false but have a lot of success. Players....yes that is the name. All of us relatively direct shoot from the hip men pay the price for this even though it isn't our fault. This is called life...lol. Soooo....listen and accept the answers you get instead of getting the response you want. This is similiar to the myth that women don't want to change their man....BS

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Smarter ladies have worse sex Posted: 6/22/2008 6:56:41 AM
Wow.....IQ of 154. That is the top 1% of all people! You spend way too much time on here for that.

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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making oral sex taste better Posted: 5/31/2008 2:33:24 PM
Peaches, pineapple, mango and celery are all good. I love fresh pineapple and eat it 4 or 5 times a week. That tingly gum works best for us guys before....and after.

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Blowjob....what should they call it? Posted: 5/31/2008 8:07:00 AM
I read the replies and laughed.... I agree with several of the alias names you all came up with. It must have been named after a lousy BJ. Some of the other names describe it much better They should be long, slow and have a strong result and lead to other things. Thanks all...

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Blowjob....what should they call it? Posted: 5/30/2008 7:19:06 PM
Sometimes you have to wonder why this name ever happened. I did a search and couldn't find this so I am creating a new thread. Blowjobs are not described well at all by their name. What would you call them and why?

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Orgasmic breasts Posted: 5/25/2008 8:03:37 AM
I think I have posted this before but women easily beat us guys in experiencing pleasure from sex. This is yet another example.... Must be the trade-off from the pain of childbirth....

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Why do girls usually tend to hide and Guys want to show off how many people they have slept with? Posted: 5/23/2008 7:20:04 AM
Rule of 3...wow...then when she said she lost count all us guys need to run....

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Who works harder in bed, men or women? Posted: 5/18/2008 2:26:18 PM
Works....lol. Based on what? I agree that to be truly enjoyable there needs to be effort on both sides....lol...work...that is funny!!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Women want to change men - do men ever want to change? Posted: 5/18/2008 6:23:32 AM
Number one....why do women want to change men? You would think that whatever attracted them to you in the first place was enough. If it wasn't please move on... That being said, all people change. That is life! Can be financially driven, family driven, health driven or something tramatic that happens close to you that makes a difference in where life takes you. But why would you want to force something to change.... and I am not talking about quitting smoking or something like getting more fit at the gym.... I would work on yourself and how you relate to others....otherwise you maybe looking for trouble.

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Sexual Routine Posted: 5/11/2008 5:31:53 PM
You need to get out and expand the dating community. You are a young guy. Hey...go find a cougar and I am sure she will enkighten you....lol

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Are there pros and cons of dating a woman with much older ‘children’? Posted: 5/11/2008 1:59:19 PM
I don't see any problems with older kids unless your kids are still at home and your dates are closer to their age then yours!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Can men and women be friends? Posted: 5/11/2008 1:56:57 PM
From a man's point of view....sure casual friends that are part of a group. I would say any one one one type friend there is some sexual tension regardless of whether anything more then that happens. Girls can have a girlfriend and guys can have a guy friend....and then there are group friends. Thats it!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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woman bad in bed? Posted: 5/6/2008 10:20:48 AM
I think it is generally agreed that both man and woman need to move and communicate durind sex to be classified as being good or fabuluous. I say try being adventuous and tell him what you want and help him discover what you like. Never say no to new things as you never know what you both end up liking. Never leave sex as a one way person decides everything or it will end up be boring eventually no matter how huge your orgasm is or how great they look. Spice it up....people!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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He only calls for dates..no chit chat Posted: 5/1/2008 4:46:33 PM
I agree with the one guy that said men prefer face to face. Endless chit chat about things is the same as dragging a guy out to a mall to go clothes shopping or to go look at drapery...lol. If it was about sports, women, business or even you as a couple he would be more interested. One think....he is clearly interested in you as he CALLS YOU to go out.

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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How long can ya go? Posted: 3/27/2008 7:26:42 PM
I don't even want to admit how long....but could be measured in years

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Sugar Momma's Posted: 3/27/2008 7:24:18 PM
I am not sure about Sugar Momma's but I do remember in University there was a guy in 3rd year Science that was house sitting for a Prof and ended up providing escort duty to some of the Prof's friends and colleague's wives. I know he started having sex with many of them and he was driving a used Porsche by the time he entered grad school!!!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Long but worth the read... Posted: 3/2/2008 6:22:35 AM
Post 98.....great stuff.....I'll have to give that a try. My experience is she is relaxed and really sexed up through lots of foreplay. She mounts and starts losing the ability to ride up and down. She need help and through that help she just keeps bucking and releases huge amounts of fluid....like water breaking...lol. Found it hard to repeat consistently though so thanks for the insight!!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Why do women go to the restroom in groups? Posted: 11/28/2007 6:03:20 PM
Isn't this a "blonde woman" joke! Why do blondes go to the ladies room in groups? Because they don't have bread crumbs and need to find there way back.

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Why must you know my bra size prior to a date?? Posted: 11/28/2007 5:52:57 PM
It's a handicap of being a bra salesmen....professional curiousity!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Why do men have their friends call you? Posted: 11/28/2007 5:49:17 PM
That is a women trick....real men don't do that!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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FASTEST YOU HAVE EVER GOTTEN SOMEONE IN BED Posted: 11/28/2007 5:47:20 PM
I was buying a mattress for my bed and the sales lady offered to help me try it out. Thank god it was closing time ...

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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Women and Question asking Posted: 11/25/2007 3:55:14 PM
I have been asked all those....lol

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

Msg: 45 (view)

not cumming during BJ? Posted: 11/20/2007 7:11:27 PM
The closest I remembered was I was stroked once for 30 minutes until I was very large and thick. It felt great and she was using both hands and lots of lubrication. You would have thought I could cum but just couldn't. I don't think I can....I don't think a lot of us guys can. No problem coming otherwise and lots of control.... There are lots of opinions....but is there any sure fail methods....ladies!!!

takemenow89

Joined: 12/23/2006

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not cumming during BJ? Posted: 11/19/2007 5:49:34 PM
I want to experience this at least once in my life. Message 22....are you saying there is a specific way to do this.....can you demonstrate....

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