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 Author Thread: DATING OUTSIDE YOUR RACE
 Angel Silhouette
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 73 (view)
 
DATING OUTSIDE YOUR RACE
Posted: 8/7/2009 7:44:05 PM
Nearly everyone is outside my race. ;)
 Angel Silhouette
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Photos,,,Why do you post 10 yr old photos of yourself????
Posted: 8/7/2009 7:41:28 PM
In regards to the original post (don't kill me, I'm bored and it's only on page 3 >.< ); while I don't have any 10 year old pics of myself on my profile, with the exception of my hair and more recent weight loss, I look exactly the same now as when I was 23. A 10 year old photo of myself wouldn't really be deceptive of how I look now. :p

Yours truly,

Dorian Grey.


:3
 Angel Silhouette
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Making a decent 1st impression??
Posted: 8/7/2009 7:28:17 PM
Think of it this way: You saw immediately who they really are.

If those same men arrived dressed to the nines, charmed and beguiled you, exchanged contact info and subsequently arranged some future dates; wouldn't you feel immensely let down when they ended up back in the stained jeans, torn beaters and worn sneakers?

As it turns out, the first impression they left with you was accurate to who they truly are, and those who aren't interested in that type of guy ended up being very lucky that they didn't have to actually talk to them to find that out. ;)

Don't get me wrong, I do understand why you'd rather they dressed up; it was a nice party and it may have felt like the atmosphere was brought down by what may have been perceived as a bunch of rednecks dressed for a dirty south barbeque. I just wanted to play a bit of devil's advocate, there. :3 Well... sort of. >.<
 Angel Silhouette
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 13 (view)
 
an evil thought i had while browsing...
Posted: 8/7/2009 7:14:00 PM
As much as I'd like to be all frowny about the OP, I did get a bit of a chuckle out of it. It may be stereotyping, but it is one that is widely accepted and understood.

Cheers DC
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Who's interested in a Northwest Florida gathering?
Posted: 9/12/2007 4:28:59 PM
D'oh! That's the day of the seafood festival. (>.<)
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 25 (view)
 
What is it with women and/or me?
Posted: 8/8/2005 9:05:18 PM
I feel as if you don't know enough about me to say what you have said, but I did not find it necessary to say more than I did in my previous posts. In fact I feel some resentment towards you for some of these accusations you've levelled towards me, and it upsets me that somehow you've read that into my previous posts here. I would address each of your assumptions about me, but correcting you would not be a constructive use of my time; suffice it to say that you are incorrect in your summation of my problems. Until you get to know me better, please don't try to diagnose my issue.



Kage come on man stop your whinning and get in the game. I think your problem is all in confidence. Women can sense when a guy has confidence or not, it's all about the body language. Pick your damn head up and walk like you have a back bone ( I was a Marine Drill Insturctor, can you tell?). Look her in the eyes, not at her breast when you talk to her. This is a big one so pay attention, DON'T, and I repeat DON'T talk about your ex or any other woman that you have had a relationship with or stood you up (and from the way you talk, this could be a long list). Listen and pay attention (again take your attention off of her breast) to what she is talking about and think about what you are gonna say before you say it. Also, forget all those stupid come on lines that one of your buddies told you, hell they probally never worked for him either. Finally, take a bath (Hold on, don't get upset, I'm only advising you, not telling you that you smell bad) with something that smells good, and go buy yourself some GOOD (not cheap) cologne or body spray. Remember, science has shown that men and women are attracted by body scents, so it could not hurt. Finally, forget what you see on TV because that is less than 1% of all the women you will meet in your life time. Be realistic, find you someone that you can talk to, not just look at.
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 21 (view)
 
What is it with women and/or me?
Posted: 8/7/2005 4:35:21 PM
Don't give up man, we all have dry spells when nothing seems to work. Have faith ...When it rains it pours! And...for the record I'd go out with you if you lived close by :)


Well my dry spell has lasted 2+ years now and every time I get stood up it really hurts my feelings. It's kind of you to say you would, but I'm sure you're saying it just to be nice. All current evidence points to my being completely unwanted by the opposite sex. I probably shouldn't say anything while I'm depressed like this, though.
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 19 (view)
 
What is it with women and/or me?
Posted: 8/7/2005 1:40:01 PM
Man, I think I'm really going to hang it up.
I just got stood up... Again. I know I said it happens so much that I'm used to it, now, but it still hurts. A lot.
I'm so depressed now. :/
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 15 (view)
 
What is it with women?
Posted: 7/30/2005 2:25:18 AM
Ok, oddly enough, (not to change the subject /too/ much) I've gone from being lead on, stood up, and brushed off to having some crazy stalker lady obsessing over me. (not any of you ladies, but she did start messaging me from this site a while back)

Man I've got bad luck...
 kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 13 (view)
 
What is it with women?
Posted: 7/28/2005 7:43:15 PM
Now now, don't generalize everyone of us. I personally have never considered a woman easy, needy, OR desperate even if she came home with me on the first date.
What's good for the goose is good for the gander. If we all didn't want to make the first move becuase we don't want to appear that way, the human race would be doomed.


When WE make the first move, Y'ALL think we're easy, needy, or desperate.
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Can't win for losing
Posted: 7/28/2005 11:27:17 AM
I was at a local karaoke bar, a regular hangout for me because I love singing, and I start chatting a girl up. She not only gives me her email address but gives me her phone number, kisses me on the lips and tells me to call her tomorrow. I was really excited and starting to feel good about myself, so the next day I did as she asked and tried to call. Then I tried the next day... Then the next day. I also sent her two or three emails in between.
She didn't seem drunk when she gave me her number, but I guess I'll never know. Perhaps she thought better of it afterwards. Doesn't matter I guess. It was a good feeling for that night at least, to be attractive and wanted. I know I sound like a loser, but after a year of being stood up and treated like I have a plague, I feel like one.
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 8 (view)
 
What is it with women?
Posted: 7/23/2005 9:32:39 PM
I've got my own "What is it with women" though. I've been stood up so many times that I'm accustomed to it now. I've only had 1 woman /not/ stand me up in the past year or so and it was my ex-gf who wanted me to go see a movie with her. It's gotten so that I go expecting to get stood up, now. They always seem really eager to go out on the date, but when time comes to meet me there.... Nothing? (Talking about people I've already met and talked to, not ones I meet on the internet... because I haven't met anyone on the internet :p)
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 5 (view)
 
What is it with women?
Posted: 7/17/2005 6:20:23 AM
lol one of my friends tells me, "You have to make the first move, so she can make all the rest of your moves for you." My problem is not really walking up and saying hi, it's that I have no clue what to say after that. I'm not normally a very verbose person, especially if I'm talking to someone I'm attracted to, that and I seem to have developed a taste for my foot. Dunno why, I just keep shoving it into my mouth.
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 14 (view)
 
why don't anyone respond to my profile
Posted: 7/17/2005 6:14:23 AM
lol My profile used to be so short, too.
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 11 (view)
 
why don't anyone respond to my profile
Posted: 7/16/2005 5:47:19 AM
Hey wow, can I get you guys to critique mine as well? I've been here for a couple of years now (I think) and oh so rarely do I get any responses.
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 19 (view)
 
why do men just want sex
Posted: 7/16/2005 5:43:06 AM
While there is the nearly insatiable need to pass on your genetic code to ensure the success of your lineage, perhaps the need for sex for many men is a need for acceptance. Perhaps it is just a search for that physical high that can only be achieved through a union, and not an auto-erotic experience.
Personally, I've never given it much thought; I'd always just grudgingly accepted it as a given that men were walking hormones that would do or say anything to get into a woman or girl's pants. I can't claim innocence to this because I get aroused at the drop of a hat... If it's a sexy hat. :p I don't blame biological urges for this, though, I don't really blame anything, I simply accept it. I can't explain why men want sex so much, but I can say that you might be turning a blind eye to members of the female gender. All may be yellow to a jaundiced eye, but I would rather believe that this is situational. I see women call other women "slut" or "skank" with acid in their tone, and I know I don't need to explain why. You can say all you want that the ratio of women who act that way is outweighed by the ratio of men that act that way, but until a study is made of the percentage of "sluts" of either gender is made and numbers and ratios recorded, it is always going to sound biased to those who aren't chomping at the bit to agree with you. I'm not looking for an argument here, because I'm sure there are many things that can be said to invalidate what I say for some, so if you disagree with me then please feel free to do so unopposed.
I'll admit that I want sex, but more than that I want a life long relationship and family. I don't really want to be faulted for wanting sex, though I'm sure if you've already made up your mind and generalized all men, you will anyway. Does it concern me if you do? Yes, but only because, as a human being, I seek acceptance from my peers.


On a side note, to address your generalized 15 minute deed comment; when I say I want sex, I mean I really want it. 15 minutes wouldn't even begin to satiate me. Unfortunately I tend to wear my partners out and, of course, that's not really a good thing. I'm left wanting more and she's completely exhausted and not wanting any for another day, maybe two or three. In the interim I start to wonder if I'm no longer attractive to her, or maybe she might be getting tired of me, etc. Of course that's a whole 'nother subject which probably doesn't belong here. :p


To blame your urges on biology is a cop-out. It suggests that men are so weak that they simply can NOT (with millions of years of evolution) over come their 'genetic programing'. Now, I know in Victorian times we were made to lay back and think of England, but women are actually the more sexual of the two creatures. Men just flaunt it. While men are rolling over and snoring after their 15 minute deed, most women stay awake still in need. (that was not meant to rhyme, please forgive me). So, if you still insist that you simply cannot overcome your biological urges, then maybe it's time for women to rule the world considering we have more control. (ah hell it was worth a try) Anyway, the point is, we want sex too, we just don't walk around with our skirts hiked up ready for some action. The end.
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Hurricane Dennis and the Panhandle news
Posted: 7/16/2005 4:57:08 AM
Here in Pensacola things didn't go too badly. I lost power for two days and lost a shingle from my roof. During the hurricane... Well... I kind of slept through it. Not like Ivan... Ivan was really frightening here. You kept thinking that it was just going to ball up a fist and crush your house flat. My parents lost their entire office and warehouse in Ivan, and it was solid cinderblock; Dennis barely knocked down power lines.
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Are there any decent, down to earth non players left in South Florida?
Posted: 3/22/2005 7:08:02 PM

Therefore YOU guys are leaving us to the 'wolves' and then sitting back and complaining about how you get none of the action

My response was based on the old and tired "Why can't I find any nice guys." lament that I see or hear so often. The reason you are left to the wolves is because, like wolves, the players move in very quickly for the kill. I don't know what kind of animal you might classify the 'nice guys' as, but they're always left trying to figure out what happened after the blur of fur and fangs.


It very well could be that you 'boring guys' could step up a bit knowing what you know and be more adventurous

Perhaps the nice guys are as adventurous as they want to be and want a woman who is just as dull as they are. Some 'boring' guys are boring because they don't have anyone to do anything exciting with. They surround themselves with their own ilk and sit around and be boring together. Some 'boring' guys aren't boring, but no one ever knows because they don't care to find out.
What do you consider adventurous, though? Rock Climbing, Street Racing, Horseback Riding, Roller Coasters, canoeing? We don't know. We know what we like to do, what we might consider adventurous, and we'd love to find a woman who finds those things fun and adventurous and may introduce us to even more adventurous things to do.


The truest problem is that YOU guys KNOW what we want and YOU guys are not acting on your intellegence.

No, we /don't/ know what you want as often as you know what we want. It's not that women are so very complex, it's more that we think in different colors. Nice guys rarely know what women want. Maybe because we're too nice, maybe because we're naive, maybe we're too shy to show that we might have an inkling of an idea of what you want, or maybe we've just not had enough experience with women to know. Players, on the other hand, always know what women want; that's why they're players.
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 31 (view)
 
stupid pick up lines
Posted: 3/22/2005 12:49:51 PM
I'd like to thank both of your parents for creating someone so beautiful.
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 15 (view)
 
HAPPY ST. PATRICKS DAY!
Posted: 3/17/2005 8:48:00 PM

so thats why youre so cute!


ty ty ty ^_^

It's annoying, though. My mother is Chinese and my father is the mix, but I don't look nearly as chinese as my half chinese friends. I get more people thinking I'm latin/hispanic than anything else.
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 13 (view)
 
HAPPY ST. PATRICKS DAY!
Posted: 3/17/2005 2:28:57 PM

that sounds great..^^^^^^^^ i got irish blood in me tooo..........i started the same thread on the regular forums today and acutally had a response from ireland.......cool


Heheh, I've got Scotch, Irish, Chinese, and Cherokee blood in me
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 7 (view)
 
HAPPY ST. PATRICKS DAY!
Posted: 3/17/2005 10:15:40 AM
I do get asked that quite frequently, though. You wouldn't believe a few of the queries. :p
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
I WOULD LIKE TO COVER YOU WITH............
Posted: 3/17/2005 10:12:07 AM
Heh, ok, unoriginal I admit. Sorry bout that.

Hmmm, how about stripes of caramel, chocolate shavings, whipped cream and cherries
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 2 (view)
 
I WOULD LIKE TO COVER YOU WITH............
Posted: 3/17/2005 10:07:51 AM
Myself ;)
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 5 (view)
 
HAPPY ST. PATRICKS DAY!
Posted: 3/17/2005 10:06:02 AM

oh please, please......hahaha............you knew this was coming..........for the sake of the lovegoddes and myself.............WHAT DO YOU WEAR UNDER THAT KILT....................


Nothing more than God has graced me with upon my birth. ;)
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
HAPPY ST. PATRICKS DAY!
Posted: 3/17/2005 9:39:22 AM
Happy ST. Patty's! ^_^

Wearing my Kilt to work. Diversity council says I can, so let's hope people don't raise too much of a stink over it :p
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Are there any decent, down to earth non players left in South Florida?
Posted: 3/16/2005 9:38:07 AM

It seem like down here its what u look like, what u make and what u drive.


Yeah, sucks doesn't it.


Are there no real nice people out there that want to know u for u?


There are a few of us, but the most prevalent attitude 'round here seems to be "We want adventurous, confident and dangerous A*holes, not boring and predictable nice guys with questionable confidence."

Decent guys who are nice and don't play games aren't really hard to find, we're all over the place. Just look for the lonely ones. :p
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 16 (view)
 
what's your favorite time of day?
Posted: 3/14/2005 5:57:48 PM
Late night. I've been nocturnal all my life; always preferred night to day.
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Have Hormones/Will Travel
Posted: 3/14/2005 12:43:19 PM
My apologies :(
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Have Hormones/Will Travel
Posted: 3/14/2005 11:47:42 AM
Whoops!

Wait... Was that a bad thing?
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Have Hormones/Will Travel
Posted: 3/14/2005 11:19:27 AM

need more info than just pensacola babe...figuring a couple hours each stop...we are 5/6 so far
gonna have to borrow a friggin' van or bus soon...lol



Ah, :p thought you were going to contact us via PoF mail to get the details ;) I'll mail you the info. :D

Though only a couple of hours each stop? Just planning on stopping to say hi? ;)
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Dirty Talk or No Talk
Posted: 3/14/2005 10:45:35 AM

Hello. Kage..I'm numer 2...LOL


Silly girl, I've not 'met' you yet. ;)
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 122 (view)
 
Introduce Yourself Here.
Posted: 3/14/2005 10:43:23 AM
Hello from Pensacola
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Have Hormones/Will Travel
Posted: 3/14/2005 10:18:16 AM

Look out gentlemen!!!

We're going on a manhunt so now's the time to flaunt yourselves!!!

Step up and be counted for a listing in the tour guide--- Men On Parade!!!!

It's that time of year for riding in cars and looking for boys!!


I'm in Pensacola and would love to be included on the tour, I'll guarantee you an unforgettable time ;). Pack a lunch and come with plenty of time to spare, especially if there's more than one of you :D
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 109 (view)
 
can you describe what kind of lover you are with one word..,,,
Posted: 3/14/2005 10:09:51 AM

Hey there cutie!

I'm sure you are^^^^!! LOL

Adding you to the menu for this spring!! LOL


Rowr! ;) If this was meant for me, I thank you very much :D
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 99 (view)
 
can you describe what kind of lover you are with one word..,,,
Posted: 3/10/2005 8:08:12 PM
Indefatigable
 Kageboushi
Joined: 2/12/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Dirty Talk or No Talk
Posted: 3/10/2005 5:48:33 PM
I've only ever met one girl that liked to be talked dirty to.
 
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