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Thread: mattress and your back health
truckman123
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mattress and your back health
Posted:
7/16/2007 10:45:45 AM
The memory foam pillows are great but the memory foam mattresses are not that great. Or at least they were not for me. I feel like they are hugging me tightly and it is harder to reposition myself in the bed.
truckman123
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All she wants to do is watch porn,have sex ,watch sports and drink beer
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7/16/2007 10:43:04 AM
What is wrong with you! You panzy!!! You have found the perfect woman. Hell I would kill for a woman who lounged around naked all day and had sex whenever I wanted. Most women now use sex as a control method. I say if your not satisfied then send her my way!!!
truckman123
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Thoughts on dating a non Christian. What to do?
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7/12/2007 11:08:05 AM
^^^ I will agree that pure religion itself is good but like you said people have corrupted it and I dont ever see the corruption to go away. I actually see it getting worse. People use god and religion as a marketing tool to make money and brainwash people.
Sure churches and religious people do some good for others but I think the harm from religion outweighs the good. Non religious people do good in the communities as well. I like the way atheists think. The only difference between an atheist and me is I believe in god. But I do not read the bible or fully believe it. The bible was written by men and has been rewritten many times and man is not perfect and so the bible is imperfect.
And yes there will always be wars. But I think there would be far fewer wars if religion did not exist. Back 100,200, 300, etc years ago people did fight for land that had water but these days with water readily accesible in many places those wars do not happen as often.
truckman123
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Thoughts on dating a non Christian. What to do?
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7/12/2007 10:11:50 AM
I do believe in god and I have a spiritual relationship. I think religion itself is a problem. You have all sorts of different religions out there claiming to be the one true religion and they try to brainwash there people into believing that. I am not spiritually dead either. I just have enough common sense to look at most wars around the world and see what has caused the and the answer is religion. I mean look at the middle east and Iraq, etc. Everyone of different religions believe theres is the true religion and they fight for dominance.
Religion is something that it seems we would of grown out of by now. Sure not all religions are the same and some are worse than others. But I get so tired of these religious people on there high horse trying to tell everyone how they should properly live there lifes.
Recently the pope tried telling the world that the Catholic religion is the only true religion and everything is false. I myself could care less what some old fool in his fancy robe and pope mobile has to say. He is just using this as an excuse to scare people into joining the Catholics so he can get more money for his church that is suffering from child molesters and corruption. Religion is a joke in my opinion. I dont try to talk anyone out of there religion and my gf is mildly religious and I never say a word to her because that is her choice to be religious. But I am sick of people using religion to hide behind there mistakes and blaming the devil for what they have done. It is old and lame.
truckman123
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Thoughts on dating a non Christian. What to do?
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7/12/2007 8:55:50 AM
It is nonesense how people will breakup with others or not date a certain person because they are not a certain religion. Religion is just a tool used over time to control people. I am really surprised it is still in existence today. It seems as a society that we would of advanced past religion by now. Religion creates a lot of wars, death, suffering and hatred towards others. I am non religious and never plan on being religious. I believe in god but I think people should have a personal relationship with god.
Churches are corrupt and brainwash people into believing what they want you to believe and they collect your money while in the process. I find church to be boring and brainwashing. The letter the op posted is a prime example of why religion is stupid. She probably doesnt even know that person but she is labeling him as a lower person who does not deserve her. The funny part is a lot of so called non believers have more common sense and are better people to get along with than the so called Christians. I think Christianity is a disease on society that needs to be eliminated. In fact I think the elimination of religion from the world would do a lot of good and end a lot of war, suffering, and death.
truckman123
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Is it possible to conceive while pregnant
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5/28/2007 8:25:19 AM
I dont have the web address but I thought it was impossible but according to the site I was on they claim it is rare but women have become pregnant again while pregnant. I asked a female friend about this and she said she has never heard of this.
truckman123
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Antidepressents
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5/23/2007 3:00:35 PM
I gotta say I feel much better. Before I didnt really give a crap about anything and felt really emotionless at times. Now I feel upbeat and happy, I wake up in a good moode, I eat better, I feel better, and I just smile for no reason. I dont plan on quitting anytime soon. I have virtually no side effects. I find lately I have a bit more of an appetite but I am sure I can control that.
truckman123
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Have you ever seen or experienced this
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5/23/2007 8:50:10 AM
Have you ever seen two people who get married but you know that those two are not going to last long term? Or have you ever in the past married someone but had the nagging feeling inside that this person is not the one for you but you went through the marriage anyway for whatever reason.
truckman123
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Antidepressents
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5/23/2007 7:35:01 AM
I have been started taking Celexa 40mg a day and have taken it now for about 3 weeks. I had side effects at first but nothing now. I am actually feeling better. I smile for no reason, get in goofy moods and just feel a bit better. I still have my moments where I get angry. But overall I am just calm and passive. The best part is that the medicine can be bought in the generic form and it only cost 4.00 at the local Wal-Mart retailer.
Before I took them I would feel upset, angry, mood swings, depressed at times and just uneasy a lot. Now I am a little nicer towards my gf and we get along better.
I want to hear some other peoples stories about there experiences with taking antidepressents.
truckman123
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how religious in your state?
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5/17/2007 3:34:57 PM
I live in south Alabama and this place is filled with those idiotic Southern Baptist who think they know what is best for everyone.
truckman123
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Will a P4 Northwood processor work in a Prescott board?
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5/14/2007 2:17:21 PM
I dont know the difference between the two processors and I am wondering if the Northwood processor I have work in a board that supports a Prescott processor. I have not kept up with all of the new processors that have been released.
truckman123
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Do you think she will get her insurance canceled?
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5/11/2007 10:37:42 AM
My gf is a bad driver and she is 24. She has bad judgement for judging distance and she doesnt seem to pay attention. But anyway she was on her moms policy and had two minor wrecks that were both her fault and they were covered under her insurance. Well she got her own policy with the same company and within the last year she has had two more wrecks that were her fault. One was about 4 months ago and now she had another one earlier this week that totaled her car.
Right now she pays 175 a month for full coverage with 1,000 deductible both on liability and comprehensive on a vehicle worth about 5,000!!! That hurts just to say that lol. But now I am worried she will get her insurance canceled or her rates will go up so much she will have to drop to liability just to be able to afford it.
I was hoping maybe some others have a little knowledge or work in the insurance business and could tell me more.
truckman123
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Guys and sandals
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5/11/2007 7:05:09 AM
I wear whatever feels good. I wear my sandals everywhere because they are comfortable. I dont care if anyone thinks they are or are not attractive.
It is all about comfort!!!
I also find a girl who smokes to be extremely unattractive.
truckman123
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Doctor Assisted Suicide
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5/10/2007 1:20:22 PM
Do you think doctor assisted suicide should be legal or illegal here in the U.S? I think it should be legalized only if a person has no chance of being cured and they are in constant pain and suffering that cannot be aided by medication.
truckman123
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Thoughts on dating a non Christian. What to do?
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5/7/2007 1:09:29 PM
To the op, your friend sounds like a religious nut!! Sorry to sound harsh but she is judging this guy so harshly and I doubt she really even knows him. Your friend is telling you to basically break it off with someone you seem to care about because of what people in the church, and others may think?!?!?!
I would tell a person like that to take a hike. Quit letting religion cloud your mind and realize that people who dont go to church are not bad people and there is nothing wrong with dating people who dont go to church. Just because a person goes to church does not mean they are a model person.
truckman123
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What is your favorite type of sex?
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5/7/2007 11:57:50 AM
My favorite type of sex is when I put my thing into her things and move my thing back and forth until crotch juice shoots out.
truckman123
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serious question
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5/7/2007 11:56:47 AM
Go to one of your local street corners and pick up a 10.00 hooker.
truckman123
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Thoughts on dating a non Christian. What to do?
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5/7/2007 8:30:36 AM
Forums like this just reinforce my belief that orgainized religion is stupid. If you like the guy and he can live with your extreme religious beliefs then what is the problem?
I think it is silly that people will stop dating or flat out will not date someone because of religious beliefs. Religion just creates shallow minded people.
truckman123
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Started taking Celexa today for depression/Ambien for tonight to sleep
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5/1/2007 6:57:27 PM
Yea, it was supposed to be 20mg and I didnt split the pill today and just took a whole one. It made me feel really weird and I was holding my eyes wide open for a while and it made me feel really awake. I think tomorrow will be 20mg for about the first 2 weeks. I remember I used to take 60 a day but I am going to just try and stay at 40.
truckman123
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Started taking Celexa today for depression/Ambien for tonight to sleep
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5/1/2007 4:23:36 PM
I started taking 40mg of Celexa today which I took about 3 years ago and I tell ya it makes you feel so weird for the first 2 weeks or less. I just feel so drugged right now at work. I have been going through a huge amount of stress lately and I hope this takes the edge off.
What are some of your experiences with Celexa or any other drug like this? When I used to take it reguarly the symptoms except for mild weight loss went away after about 3 weeks and I felt better.
truckman123
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Is a man ever worth heartache?
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5/1/2007 9:43:29 AM
All this within a year? I say move on. You are really beautiful at your age and you wont have any problems finding another decent guy.
truckman123
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GF issues, she is scared, I am scared and dont know what to do
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4/30/2007 5:59:50 PM
I know I sound like I may be whining and overreacting here but have you ever in your life loved someone so much and you cared for them just that much but you are so afraid of the unknown. I know it may be easy to tell me to get a grip and that I am acting irrational myself. I never imagined that at 24 I may become a single dad. A lot of guys out there would be running right now, encouraging abortion, adoption but that isnt me! I know my life will change and I will have a lot more responsibility but when life events happen like a baby you can either look at it as the end of your life or you can look at it as something positive. I am looking at it as something positive. I can take her out to the partk nearby, stroll through the neighborhood, the mall, birthdays, first day of school and just growing up. Sure it may be hard and I will be broke as hell at times but I look forward to another human puking and shitting on me lol but also laughing and smiling at me and playing when I get home.
Right now I am just venting, most guys dont vent like this because they dont want to look weak but I dont care. I know I am not perfect and not everyday with her has been the best but I am still here. I pray hard every night that things will be ok. I am so damn depressed right now worrying what will happen. I cant eat, sleep, think straight, I am irritable at work and I am going to the doc tomorrow because I used to take an antidepressent about 3 years ago and I know it wont solve my problems but I havent eaten in 3 days and have lost 17lbs and am getting afraid for myself I bought some saltine crackers tonight and couldnt even eat two and the bottle of water I drank about 3 sips in an hour and it is now hot.
Life can be such a B*tch at times. Sure it wasnt planned and I was worried until I saw that ultrasound that I look at everyday at work on my wall. So damn many guys would be running right now but I am sick with worry. I will never fully understand what a woman goes through with pregnancy but I have a new respect for them and what they go through and if I ever know another person as a friend or whatever who is pregnant and she is really emotional or other guys complaining I will understand that pain.
I have really only one good female friend to talk to but I realize she has her own life and I have known her for about 6 years and I dont want to become a nusience to her. I come here but it doesnt seem like to many are interested. But yea I have logged into her email a couple of times not to snoop but just to see if I have been blocked or if she has deleted all of my stuff and I take it as a good sign but she reads my occasional email, has not blocked me, and saves my emails.
I dont know how things will turn out. Things seemed ok before she got pregnant and she broke up with me a couple of times and then got back and she seemed loving and caring and asked me when we would get married last week and I stupidly and selfishly said lets wait till after the birth.
truckman123
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GF issues, she is scared, I am scared and dont know what to do
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4/30/2007 4:47:42 PM
I today went after work and wrote her a nice note saying I will be there for her and no matter what she or her mom thinks I will be there for her and that I love her and want to be a family and she can call me anytime she needs and I will be there anytime she needs me. I also included a single stem rose and left this on the windshield of her car for when she got off of work.
I dont know if this will do any good or not but I at least want her to know I am there for her.
truckman123
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Why should a guy get married? Seriously
Posted:
4/30/2007 10:24:32 AM
People get married to have some sort of stability in there lives. Marriage I imagine can be tough like a bf/gf relationship. But marriage signals you are committed to that one person and it is the ultimate sign of love and commitment to that person. I myself want to be married. I want to be able to come home to my wife and make her feel good as she would make me feel good and I dont necessarily mean in a sexual way. It makes me feel good to be able to do something for her that pleases her and makes her feel loved and needed.
truckman123
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GF issues, she is scared, I am scared and dont know what to do
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4/30/2007 6:55:53 AM
This is the hardest storm I have ever gone through in my life. Honestly, after going through this I will be hesitant to ever have another kid again. This is painfull as all hell. I cant eat without getting sick, cant sleep, cant quit worrying, I shake, cry, and at times something just overwhelms me to the point I just get on the road just driving around and cant shake the feeling and I just get light headed. I weighed 232 lbs on Thrusday and weighed myself this morning and am down to 216.
It sounds silly to some but I wouldnt wish a situation like this on my worst enemy. I am thinking about going to the doc to get something to just calm me down. I know the medicine wouldnt solve the issue but maybe stop the symptoms.
I am not calling her but I plan to maybe email her once every morning just to say good morning, I love you and I am thinking about you and I am here if you need a shoulder to cry on or just someone to vent to or to talk to whether it is a two sided conversation or one sided. Like I said before I logged into her email account not to snoop but just to see if she read my email or deleted it without reading it and blocked me but she read it, did not delete it nor did she delete the email and I am still on her IM list. That tells me that maybe she is saying all of this but has doubts about what she said. I have heard from people that the 5th month is the worst of all and that no guy will understand.
To be honest as a male I feel weak on the inside to express myself like this but on the other hand I dont care because I just want everything to turn out well. I was told by someone that I am getting stupid hoping things will work out and she is just being irrational and absent minded right now and I should just leave but I can understand why someone would say that. But when you have known and fallen in love with a person over 2.5 years and they are the mother of your child that just changes things so much as to how you feel about that person.
truckman123
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GF issues, she is scared, I am scared and dont know what to do
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4/29/2007 8:37:40 PM
She called me today to tell me that she no longer feels the same about us and she wants out. I was calm and cool about the situation and asked for an explanation and she wouldnt give me one and we talked only for about 5 minutes and she wanted to get off the phone. I could hear the anger in her voice and while it is very scary to hear all of this I wonder if it is just hormones.
I sent her an email basically saying I dont know if what you said today was true or not but I am not mad at you at all and I am still here for you. Now I only did this one time to see if she had blocked me or not and not to snoop at all but I logged into her yahoo IM and my name was still there late tonight and I logged into her email account only to see if she read my email I sent her and she read it but did not delete it and she did not block my address so I am guessing she may not of meant what she said tonight and this is just hormones.
My heart goes out to all guys out there who have to deal with a really emotional pregnant woman and my heart goes out more to the pregnant women who have to go through this. On a joking note I swear I dont know if I want a second child seeing what I am going through now. A vasectomy is looking so sweet right now.
truckman123
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Call this Venting, I really don't need any responces
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4/29/2007 7:59:14 AM
It sounds like you really tried to be there for this woman and she flat out let you down. I am glad you got full custody of the boy. A lot of guys would of just ran and never looked back. It sounds like you and your family are very supportive.
Stay away from this woman at all costs. I am guarantee from her history she will try to come back and try to see if she can work things out with you and if you let her back into your life she will let you down again.
truckman123
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GF issues, she is scared, I am scared and dont know what to do
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4/29/2007 7:16:41 AM
I talked to her last night again and found out she is unsure of us. She has a lot on her mind and basically she is conflicted. After she got pregnant in January is when all of these conflicting emotions began to appear. Before then things seemed ok and she was asking for a baby and becomming restless in waiting for marriage.
I assured her last night that if she begins talking again we would get married before the delivery. I told her I realize how much this means to her and that I was sorry for putting the extra hurt on her. She said she is still not ready to talk but would keep what I said in her mind and she would call me when she was ready in a couple of days to talk.
I have no choice but I hate silence. I almost feel like my potential family is on the line here and this is not how I wanted things.
truckman123
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New Feature for Women.
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4/28/2007 5:06:29 PM
I think the only reason this site survives is because it is free. This place would drop off the web if they ever started charging for memberships. Most people are not interested in meeting and with all the silly rules who would want to pay???
truckman123
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GF issues, she is scared, I am scared and dont know what to do
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4/28/2007 3:30:24 PM
People on this site for the most part seem to be pretty good at giving advice so what the heck lol. My gf is about 5 months pregnant. She is going through a tough time right now. She is 24 and lives at home, I have no doubt her mom may be telling her some things that are not true and at first her mom was not supportive at all but seems to be changing some now. She is 24 though and she has placenta Previa which means the placenta is in the way and the baby is to low. She is looking at possibly having a full hystorectomy to. I have been doing my best to comfort her but I am just as confused as she is. She seems so moody and all of the sudden she wont talk to me now. She says she needs time to think about everything and I told her that would be ok. But with my first child coming and we both living at home I want to be able to move out together and plan for the future. I love her and want to marry her and I have a ring to propose to her and she just talked last week about marriage and I was telling her lets wait till after the baby because we have so much going on and she said she wants marriage before the baby and I will admit and it was not on purpose but I said no lets wait. Well now I wouldnt have a problem with engagement and I should of said that last week.
She is really stressing and feels bad and I can imagine a lot is going on with her. I want to be there as much as possible but I must admit that all the moodiness and the wanting time to herself takes its toll on me. I have a hard time sleeping at night, cant eat, and I cant shake this feeling with wondering if she is ok. It hurts like hell to not be able to hold and comfort her.
Can any of the ladies out there give me some advice as to what I can do. I do love her and care about her and I realize she has her worries and concerns and now I am plagued with them to.
truckman123
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New Feature for Women.
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4/28/2007 11:14:15 AM
This website is getting dumb in the features they want to add for dating. I mean it is nice to want to try and imporve a site but you can go to far.
truckman123
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serious question need advice asap...why is he????
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4/27/2007 12:24:07 PM
^^^ I had the same suspicion and dont believe he sent the message. I dont believe he has paid for his ex to come back. You need to hear this from him himself before breaking it off.
truckman123
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When is it time to call it quits?
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4/27/2007 7:59:54 AM
I love her very much as a person and I care and want to be with her. Even though she says she needs time I am going to see if she will go to dinner tonight with me. I will talk and see how she feels. I will propose to her if things see ok. I am just wondering if she is feeling so down because she thinks we are not going to get married anytime soon or has doubts about my commitment.
Silence and time away just hurts. Some of you guys and gals have gone through this and know what I mean. It is the thought that you love a person and you dont know what they are feeling on the inside or why they need time to themselves.
truckman123
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When is it time to call it quits?
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4/27/2007 6:12:54 AM
I have a ring and if she will talk to me today I will propose tonight and hope that will make her a little more happy. I love her very much and want to be together.
Did she ask me to give her time? Yes
Am I screwing up by trying to call her last night and this morning? Yes
Do I love her and want marriage and a family? YES!!
truckman123
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love and weight gain
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4/26/2007 9:15:11 PM
I would want to find out why she gained so much weight and I would be concerned but I would not leave her for gaining weight.
truckman123
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When is it time to call it quits?
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4/26/2007 9:13:53 PM
^^^ Us guys just dont fully understand a woman and there emotions. I try to be there as much as possible for her. She has been pressing for marriage saying it has been almost 2 and a half years and she would like marriage before this child is born. I am just wondering if a proposal and a ring on her finger will make things any easier or better and maybe give her a sense of security.
I am fully admitting that I do not understand how a womans mind works much less a woman who is pregnant. A guy joked with me today at work and said that a pregnant woman with hormones is as close as you can get to a crazy person without them actually being crazy and he would of rather kept his d*ck in his pants if he would of known it would of been like that. He suggested to work long hours at work and minimize time with her unless she asks for me to be there. This came from a guy who has been married about 27 years and has had 4 children.
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When is it time to call it quits?
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4/26/2007 8:39:44 PM
I sometimes wonder if I am just to optimistic and hope for things to get better or if I am just becoming a plain fu*king idiot. You can admit that when you love someone so much you will do things that to others seems stupid or just illogical.
I have been through a lot this year my dad had a heart attack and quadruple bypass surgery, gf found out she was pregnant and got scared and broke up, we got back together and we split again and I dont know if it was hormones or what because a few days later after the second breakup she found that she originally had twins and only miscarried one and the other survived which hurt in itself, and she is about 5 months along now. We are talking and and everything seemed great and since finding out she is pregnant she has been very hormonal. Her family I have no doubt is telling her all sorts of things that I am not going to be there, etc. But the absolute opposite is true. But today I asked her about us planning on moving out and etc and havent really been getting much. She has things on her mind also. She has a high risk pregnancy and what is called Placenta Prevara which means her baby is to low and as of now natural child birth is not possible and she would need a c-section and a possible historectomy. I can understand her frustration and what she is going through but I am frustrated and have a lot I am going through. This year has just been a challenge for me and has hurt me a lot. She has asked about marriage but with us not being married she easily qualified for Medicaid which will pay for everything. I am scared that if we get married my added income will void her medicaid and her insurance is a limited 10,000 a year coverage and mine is great but it is not open enrollment and I couldnt add her. She doesnt seem to care about that though. She also told me today that she needs time alone to think and to be honest I dont know if it is about me or something else.
Now I sit here typing on this keyboard with an engagement ring staring at me and wondering if this is just what she wants to make things better. I deeply love her and I want things to be right. I dont want two single parents raising this kid. It is just not how I want it. I want married parents raising the child so she can be in a good environment. I want to do what it takes to make things right but sometimes I find myself wondering if I am just being stupid or if this is just how much I love and care for her and just want things to work. We have been together for almost two and a half years. I dont want to be with any other woman. I bend over backwards to do everything I can to keep her happy.
A good female friend of mine told me she is just immature and cant break away from mom. I just feel that if she has asked about marriage from me that we should be able to freely and openly talk about anything and everything. I can understand a woman needs time alone but that doesnt mean the male will not worry. Silence hurts in itself. I want to propose to her tomorrow night if she will contact me in any way or agrees to see me. I am thinking this may make things a bit better and maybe give her that extra sense of security that I am planning to stick around.
But I just dont know if I just being stupid with trying so hard or what. I love my unborn child and I just want her to be able to have a family that loves each other and will be together. I appreciate any input from anyone and hope that I dont get a bunch of smartazz remarks.
truckman123
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Are there any men that go to church anymore?
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4/24/2007 9:08:46 PM
Where are all the men that have a Religious side to them, Arent there any men on here that go to church anymore, that have morals and vaules? The only ones I see on here are none religious.... I am just wondering is there any one that goes to church any more?
People like you are the exact reason I do not go to church. You judge people who do not go thinking they have no morals and values.
I have gone to church a few times myself and found half the people there are more corrupt and unmoral then I thought I was.
truckman123
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WHat to do in a sex less mariage
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4/24/2007 9:01:27 PM
Damn, people in this forum want you to give up quick on your marriage. So wonder divorce rates are so high.
Why not try to talk to him. It sounds like he may just be in such a comfort zone and he doesnt realize something is wrong. I am willing to bet you havent said anything to him but instead will come on a dating site whining about it to strangers on the web who obviously dont give a damn about you and your marriage.
truckman123
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Would you by and ex girlfriend porn?
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4/24/2007 7:24:11 PM
He just wants sex from you. He knows in his mind that porn probably got you fired up and he is hoping you will watch it with him so he can get some from you.
This is a no brainer.
My gf gets fired up when she watches porn so I took her to the porn store and let her pick out 5 dvd's of her choice and damn that was a great investment!
truckman123
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breast reduction....
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4/24/2007 7:19:40 PM
It wouldnt bother me at all. I actually would rather see a couple of small scars then hear and see her in pain from large breasts.
But you can post some pics of them if you have the surgery and I will inspect them for ya! lol
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So, guys, would you be a single woman's toy?
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4/24/2007 7:17:10 PM
I know exactly what the op is talking about. I am sure she would have absolutley no problems with getting a boy toy. If I were single I would have no problems with making a friend with an older woman and having fun in the bed room. Older women know how to please a guy and they are usually great to talk to. There are women at my job who I just talk to all the time and there is no comparison from women my age to women who are almost twice my age. They are mature and most can give no bs advice.
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oral sex
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4/24/2007 4:28:46 PM
^^^ That is because any serious real life issues on this site are deleted by other users. People would rather post to oral sex posts, and why did he or she cheat on me then real life problems.
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GF pregnant and hormonal!
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4/24/2007 11:16:48 AM
My gf is about 5 months pregnant. I am guessing her hormones are out of whack, etc. But it seems like she wants to argue with me over anything and at times it will get to me and I briefly try to argue back but then realize it will get nowhere. I try to be there by talking to her, listening to her, going to doctors visits, doing activities together she enjoys and ask her all the time what can I do to make you happy. I just ask that she does not try to throw hints towards my way as I will not pick up on them.
This is her first pregnany and I am happy about it as well as her. But it kind of hurts when you smiling, happy, and just in a good mood and I get on the phone with her and she talks to me like she cant stand me. Other guys just tell me there is nothing you can do and women are just flat azz crazy and have lost there mind when they are pregnant and I should just ignore her and when she starts her attitude with me on the phone I should just say I can see your in a bad mood and I am going to get off the phone now and you can call me when you feel better. I really dont want to do that though.
To the women out there, what can I do to make her feel better and to just ease her mind.
truckman123
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oral sex
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4/23/2007 7:13:33 PM
I love giving oral and I would be pissed if my woman wouldnt let me go down on her, but trust me she lets me give her oral till she cant take it anymore lol. I am so lucky because she is so naturally clean!!! After being out all day she gets a little insecure saying I may not smell to good but out of having sex with her about about 2 years there may be 2 times when she was dirty down there and I couldnt give oral. But a shower took care of that
She doesnt give as much oral as she receives but damn I love giving it!!! Half the fun to me is oral lol.
truckman123
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Winks are now live and running.
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4/23/2007 8:12:28 AM
This site is getting stupid with all the little rules and stupid features being added. You can only add so many features and rules to a site before people dont want to bother with it anymore.
truckman123
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Shootings at Virginia Tech
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4/20/2007 3:11:15 PM
I just read on the news that the gunmans family aplogized to everyone for what happened. I feel bad for his family. This is not the fault of the family. I have a feeling there will be a lot of ignorant people out there who will terrorize the family. I actually consider the family of the shooter as victims also.
I feel for the family and the pain they are going through. I hope they find some peace in all of this and I think it was a good thing for them to come out and apologize like they did.
truckman123
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Why is it so hard to get men to talk about their work?
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4/20/2007 2:38:27 PM
I will tell you about my work. I deal with dumbass people who cant turn on a computer without calling for help or install a printer if it meant there life. They couldnt tell me the difference between a mouse and a keyboard.
truckman123
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Wally-Mart SUX Yeah and Target is French owned
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4/18/2007 8:15:13 PM
Walmart does have some shady ways of doing business and they treat there employees pretty badly. Ever notice when you go into a Walmart you never see the people smiling like they do on tv? That is because the pay is low, benefits are aweful, health care is a joke and managment treats you like nothing more than another object in the payroll system.
Also the crowds are aweful. I will go to another store and pay and extra 3.00 and avoid the crowds and save a lot of time and see a smiling face or two.
truckman123
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Why do girls really care about this?
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4/18/2007 6:23:52 PM
My gf has more porn than me!!! lol She puts in porn and that gets her all excited. I love it. But when we both get into it after watching the porn I am focused on her.
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