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 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 136 (view)
 
She needs financial help?
Posted: 1/29/2009 9:19:24 PM
NO! Absolutely not. It may be that you only want to help her out through this trying time and that is very sweet of you, however; do you want her to begin to depend on you? You don't want to be a wallet.

Also, being that you said "loan" do you really think she will pay you back?

Money is the root of so many problems in relationships, don't do it!
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Why women always want to know?
Posted: 10/6/2007 6:06:40 PM
First of all, NOT every woman wants to hear about it; because I am one that doesn't! I hate to talk to someone and the topic they always seem to get on for the entire length of the conversation is the ex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is a great big red flag that they are not over the ex and anything him and I might have would only be a rebound on his behalf.

Now OP; right back at you! Why do guys wanna know? Why do guys ask these same questions?
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
NEED ADVICE :women...dating..f*ck friends
Posted: 10/6/2007 4:19:47 PM
Apparently she must not be all that into you; if you had made plans and she chose to get laid by someone else....well, it's pretty clear where you stand with her. I would cut ties. There is someone better out there! Seems like she is full of Sh*! anyways; being that she said, how she couldn't wait to meet you etc. etc. but then she decided to give some A*! to the other guy. Safe yourself any more drama...keep fishing!
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 84 (view)
 
Single Dads with kids! Why are women scared?
Posted: 9/29/2007 8:41:03 AM
Sweetie,
I think it just seems like that. I have received e-mails from guys and then as soon as I talk about my kids; no response. No more, EVER! So, trust me it is not easier for women.

I am sorry that you have had this problem. Maybe you should start looking for single mothers. If you have and continued to have this problem...well, I don't know what to say other than I am sorry and it is their loss and your gain. Because if they aren't happy to hear about you being a single father...you wouldn't want them to pretend they were okay with it just to find out later that it was a problem for her...

Good luck! Best wishes!
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 281 (view)
 
Sex or the Superbowl?
Posted: 9/21/2007 5:28:39 PM
Girl, that's what half-time is for! Even I wouldn't want to miss the game for some D**k! Come on now! THere are just some boundaries you don't cross and one of them is asking/expecting your man to miss the biggest game of the year for some ass he can have as soon as the game is over! Girl, you must be crazy!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 96 (view)
 
Smothering, personal time, and am I being unreasonable?
Posted: 9/14/2007 5:24:20 PM
I don't think you are being unreasonable at all.
People need alone time for different reasons and being that the two of you don't live together I don't think you should have to go into detail with her as to exactly what your reasoning is. If she cares about you and respects your wishes she will allow you to have your alone time.
Just my opinion; but she sounds way to needy/clingy for someone like yourself...you might consider trying to find someone else if she continues acting the way she has been or if it gets worse.

Best of luck!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 196 (view)
 
Best break-up lines
Posted: 9/14/2007 1:15:28 PM
I have to move in with my mom cause she needs me.

I know I cheated and got her pregnant; but I still love you.

I don't want to be in a relationship with you, but I do want to continue having sex with you.

Oral sex is not cheating...........if that's the way you feel then you can just leave!
Fuc*ing hiliarious!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Is this behavior strange for a six year old boy?
Posted: 9/10/2007 3:25:37 PM
I just want to say thank you to all of the posters with some advice and nice words.
I just wanted to answer some questions also that people seem to have. He does go to a babysitter when I am at work and School (yes full-time, single moms can do it!) it's his grand-ma. There is much more I could say about my situation, but I don't want to give all the closed-minded, rude, heartless, cold posters any more amunition to make me feel worse as a parent as I much of the time do as is....if you've never raised a child with adhd or been around one; you can not even begin to comprehend the depth and magnitude of my problem.....
Again thank you to all of you kind posters!

Bless you all, take care!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 311 (view)
 
People that don't have~nor EVER want kids..what do you think?
Posted: 9/8/2007 6:38:00 PM
LMFAO!!!
Just a piece of knowledge....you can't learn how to be a parent from a book.
Life comes with it's own lessons and you figure them out as you go!
There is no such thing as a parenting manual.
All the knowledge one needs to be a parent comes day by day.
My children and I learn these life lessons together and I wouldn't
trade it for anything. My children are the best thing that has ever
happened to me. But I would never talk down to, ridicule, or be spiteful
toward a person who may choose not to have children. It's one's own choice!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Who is to blame if a woman accidentally gets pregnamt?
Posted: 9/8/2007 2:41:22 PM
No one "accidentally" gets pregnant. Are you serious? With all the forms of birth control that's out there?
If any blame is to be put on anyone I'd say both....It's not immaculate conception!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 84 (view)
 
the first date and he wont respect your pet
Posted: 9/8/2007 2:39:21 PM
??? Guess it all depends on how much you love your pets.
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Older Man
Posted: 9/8/2007 2:37:36 PM
That is kinda tough. Be as nice as you can. Tell him just what you just told us; you like him as a friend and nothing more. If he doesn't catch on; then don't go around him anymore. Sooner or later he'll have to figure out that you meant what you said. It's tough because it's your moms good friend also, so you have to be a little more understanding.
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Ex-wife who doesn't want to see her daughter
Posted: 9/8/2007 2:33:58 PM
I feel so sad for you and your daughter. I can't imagine a mother who would act this way. Let them work it out but; don't force your baby girl to do anything. She may and probably does have hostility toward her mother.
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 827 (view)
 
Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 9/8/2007 2:29:20 PM
I would say NO, only because then there is a lack of trust.
My belief is that trust is the foundation of any relationship; and if that trust is broken the foundation of the relationship would then crumble.
Then comes the suspicion. When he leaves you'll be wondering where he is REALLY going, when he gets phone calls you'll try to listen just a little bit to see what the conversation is all about. You'll become a detective looking through his things, wallet, clothing. YOu will in time drive yourself crazy looking for evidence that he has cheated Once again. It's not worth it.

It's easier just to let him go. If he'll do it once he'll do it again!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Is this behavior strange for a six year old boy?
Posted: 9/7/2007 7:38:04 PM
My last post was for MARM by the way! And I have taken him to the doctor. He sees a counselor once a week and a psychiatrist once every 2 months!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Is this behavior strange for a six year old boy?
Posted: 9/7/2007 7:36:58 PM
WOW! That helped ALOT!

Do, you honestly believe I haven't already done that? ARE YOU SERIOUS? YOUR A JOKE RIGHT?

IN case you are unaware; children that have been abused will not talk about it! They are afraid that they will get in trouble, the abuser makes him/her believe that it was their fault, the abuser makes them believe that they will hurt his/her family if they tell...He has been seeing a doctor for a year! AND he WON"T TALK! Thanks!

You came at me like I am some sort of moron...didn't even ask nor think if any other avenues have been explored... I am 28 I am not a little girl. Are you single mother trying to raise a boy to be a man? I have looked into everything!

HENCE ME ASKING THE QUESTION HERE....SEE YOUR RESPONSE WAS THE REASON I HESITATED IN THE FIRST PLACE... HOW FOOLISH OF ME TO THINK I COULD GET A LOGICAL RESPONSE FROM SOMEONE WITH SOME ****ING SENSE!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Is this behavior strange for a six year old boy?
Posted: 9/7/2007 7:13:22 PM
Please help me on this...
I am a single mother and my oldest son is six years old. He is severe ADHD combined type and he is taking medication but I recently heard some very disturbing shit to say the least.
He has been asking my friends daughters who are a year older than him and two months older than him to touch his privates and allow him to touch theirs. Also, he will take something of theirs and say "you can have it back if you do you know what with me" meaning kissisng, touching, getting naked...etc. WHAT THE F**K he is six!
Let me say, I do not watch porn enough for him to catch me and me not realize...he is always asleep, he has never seen me having sex or giving oral. In fact he hasn't seen me kiss anyone other than family.
My question is this; is this normal for little guys ( i don't think it is, to me it is way the hell out there)? And how in the hell do I stop it? Spanking doesn't work. Yelling doesn't work, taking his playstation doesn't work and there is no father in the pic. to help me!

ANY ADVICE IS GREATLY APPRECIATED!! THANK YOU!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 37 (view)
 
A little advice please people.........
Posted: 9/7/2007 6:06:16 PM
OP: girl, this all sounds like way too much drama.
Even if all he says is true...do you want to have to deal with this "young female" in your life for the length of time the two of you might be together? I can say honestly there is no way in hell I would tolerate it!

Is there a way to get trust back? I've never been able to. Just had to call it quits.

Good luck!
PS .....Listen to your head not your heart...I wish I would have and mine wouldn't have been broken!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 38 (view)
 
this one is for the guys...
Posted: 9/7/2007 5:52:46 PM
OP; he comes to you in the morning you give him one...okay
He comes to you at night...girl; girl listen. YOU are in control you have his D***K in your hand/mouth, when you start only have a sexy nighty on or a tank top; no panties...and when you think he's good and ready (hard enough) don't say anything...just jump on him (backwards as this is the best) and ride the hell out of him....then your both equally satisfied!

Good Luck!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 62 (view)
 
The female riding the guy?
Posted: 9/7/2007 5:15:33 PM
This is too cute...rocking back and forth isn't gonna cut it hun. U have to swivel your hips..move all the way up till it's almost out then slowly back down..then faster...then slow your pace a little bit. Then go back and forth just a little while though to catch your breath if necessary...as when you are on top...if your not sweating and out of breath your not doing something right! Also, do it backwards!!! I can't climax any other way! I have to be on top and backwards...If you can and are flexible enough, lick his balls while your riding him....that turned my ex out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PS...PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT!

good luck!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Sticking it to me.... and not how I like it!
Posted: 9/7/2007 5:03:44 PM
Oh, sweetie...How hard it is. I know, because I have been there...right there where you are.

I was with someone for four years who lied, cheated and deceived. He led two separate lives. He walked out on me when I was four weeks pregnant with his son!

Here is the kicker....I missed him. I looked at my son and wished he was there. I dreamed that he would come back so we could be a family. I would hear through mutual friends what he is doing as far as other relationships go and I would get so jealous I would become enraged...all of this not healthy for more than one reason! Not too mention the fact that while we were together he got another woman pregnant...so why in the hell did I feel the way I felt...ie..still wanting him! Feeling like I needed him...missing him...I still can't answer that question. I blame it on the hormones, but I know that isn't the case.
The best advice I can give is; don't try to rush into anything that your heart truly isn't into..it's not fair to you or the other person.
Don't feel like "oh what is wrong with me, he is such an a**hole, I should be over him by now"! We as human beings can't control our emotions so easily...I don't think anyway...and there is no specific time table one must and should follow. Give yourself time!
It is always hard when kids are involved. My ex's kids still come over even though he is never around.
Give yourself time sweetie; you will have the ability and the strength to move on when you are ready.

Good luck!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 104 (view)
 
If you saw your partner at someone eles house, would you knock?
Posted: 8/27/2007 2:28:46 PM
I wouldn't even take it there. I would go home...to hell with a locksmith. I would change the locks..pack his shit put it on the curb.....and dare him to try to come in what would then be considered my house. Like someone else said a cheater isn't worth fighting for. not too mention how foolish would I look going to some ****es house like ummm...excuse me...hi...but uh...yeah my boyfriend is in your house could you maybe have him come outside for a min. If he is so grimy to cheat...u know his ass aint coming outside! LOL!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 107 (view)
 
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/16/2007 2:58:24 PM
Say my name say my name LOL! But come on now ladies: non-verbal can be just as good. If your doing everything right and his toes are curling, eyes rolling, he's pullin your hair, biting his lip or pillow, scratching your back etc. etc.
To me, that is just as good if not better than screaming or moaning or whatever!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 98 (view)
 
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/15/2007 3:50:37 PM
CAUGHTUPEEKIN:

I LOVE THAT POST! HOW TRUE! RIGHT THERE WITH YA TOO! I don't have to tell anyone to holla for me! As it is uncontrollable when it's good!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 113 (view)
 
Can a baby solve relationship problems or just make them worse?
Posted: 8/15/2007 3:44:15 PM
Sorry; didn't read all the posts before I posted Mine!

GOOD FOR YOU GIRL!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 112 (view)
 
Can a baby solve relationship problems or just make them worse?
Posted: 8/15/2007 3:42:43 PM
Girl two words: BIRTH CONTROL!!!!!!!!!!
Having a baby will only add more strain. What you've been hearing is Jail talk sweetie. A man will say just about anything while they are locked up! Don't buy into it! And your only 21! What can you do to help him; well like you said, not have a baby. And just be there for him; for mental and emotional support. Be his lover, his friend and confidant.! Not his "baby momma"!

Good luck!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 116 (view)
 
Will men go down while u r menstruating, will u let him?
Posted: 8/13/2007 2:50:25 PM
Seriously, this is some really sick shit. I would've wrapped my thighs around his neck and told him he wouldn't be released until he understood that I don't like that.

Whatever, my clit doesn't bleed! Still...EWWWW! You guys who have are some brave souls...but honestly you might wanna keep that to yourselves. Because if I met a man that said he did it before and would do it again; I would not be able to date him anymore! EWW
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 279 (view)
 
Should I let my girlfriend bang my friend?
Posted: 8/8/2007 1:06:37 PM
OP: If you are questioning it they way you are, and are as insecure about the situation as you have already stated; then why risk getting hurt? If she needs more than what you can give her at times; tell her to get toys!
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 37 (view)
 
big feet women
Posted: 7/10/2007 1:50:33 PM
Hey sweetie; tell your friend she is not alone!

I am five eight and a half weigh 149 lbs. and wear a size 9 and a half, sometimes a 10 depending on brand of shoe; nike , Jordan, New Balance, etc.
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Help-I need closure
Posted: 7/10/2007 1:33:20 PM
Oh, girl; Leave the man alone!

What more could you want that you are still calling driving him crazy?

His actions should be enough for you to see that he doesn't want to be bothered with you anymore! Does he need to spell it out veeerrryyy ssslllooowwwlllyyy?
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 38 (view)
 
BUSTED
Posted: 7/10/2007 12:58:38 PM
Last post was to Lelanca? (spelling might be off)
anyway the girl the OP is trying to play for a fool.
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 37 (view)
 
BUSTED
Posted: 7/10/2007 12:56:58 PM
Oh, girl;

Unhide your profile...do your own thing.

You should look elsewhere i think.
Doesn't seem like he wants the same thing you do.
Get out now, before it gets deeper.

Thank you for enlightening everyone!

Good luck to you
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
BUSTED
Posted: 7/10/2007 12:54:00 PM
I agree with everyone else; maybe you should hide your profile or change your status to not single/not looking.

That might put her at ease. If it doesn't and you really do care for her; stay off POF for awhile.
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
I need some advice
Posted: 7/10/2007 12:49:36 PM
They are bestfriends???

That is so wrong on so many levels. You should let them both go for now before you destroy their friendship...and not to mention how upset with you your friend is.

This is some talk show shit.

Let both of them go..if they are best friends...which ever one you hurt will certainly bad mouth you to the other one and she will wind up leaving you alone anyways...

Remove yourself from what could turn into a very nasty situation

Good Luck with that
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Older Man
Posted: 7/10/2007 12:43:04 PM
Age doesn't matter, not in this day.
Sounds like you might be right OP. Good luck to you both of you.

Keep us posted! cheers!
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
ok girl thinks we are dating
Posted: 7/10/2007 12:39:49 PM
OP: She is a 16 year old girl: there is not going to be an easy way of telling her how it Really is without hurting her. Regardless of all that, BE HONEST! Tell her how you really feel. But let her know you are still her FRIEND, and will be there if she needs anyone to talk to.

Be gentle OP. At 16 girls are very sensitive.
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Help with my Same Sex Relationship..straight people can help too.
Posted: 7/10/2007 12:32:42 PM
No I have never been in this type of situation, with the same sex that is.

But just from what you wrote I drew my own conclusion. It seems to me Matt that he is using you for the time being. You are just something to do for right now until he meets the woman he wants to marry and can settle down with her; with no regard for your feelings.

Since I am not gay, I don't understand the confusion or pressure that one might feel when wanting to be with someone of the same sex and be comfortable with it and themselves. So Kudos to you!

But sweetie, this is obviously something he is not prepared nor willing to do for you, or for anyone else.

Give your love, time, and affection to someone who will give it back to you 100% without holding back! You deserve better than what he is willing to give you at this point.

Best of luck to you; keep me posted!

cheers
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 77 (view)
 
He Offered me $50,000!!!!!
Posted: 7/9/2007 5:36:57 PM
This sounds like classic BS to me....R U even serious right now?

He just wanted you to take his money? Girl, please I would've taken it and hopped a plane to the Islands and he never would've seen me again!

U have got to be kidding!

LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 81 (view)
 
I'm gonna start hanging out at Lowe's and Home Depot
Posted: 7/9/2007 5:27:31 PM
blue sunshine:
Girl...what part of the South? I sooooooo need to move there!
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 416 (view)
 
I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 7/9/2007 4:57:16 PM
EWWWWWWWWWW....why would you just lay in bed and yank the condom off? If she is just a "booty call" you should've taken yourself to the bathroom, flushed it, washed up and left!

You need to take "booty calls" rules 101!

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 161 (view)
 
When dating a man who has a child, will I EVER come first?
Posted: 7/9/2007 4:11:14 PM
It is soooooooooo obvious that you don't have kids. Once you do you will understand that for no reason what-so-ever should you ever put anyone before your kids! As a mother, I put my children before myself, so why would I put anyone else before them?

Now, being that you were married; I don't understand the sleeping on the couch thing...but whatever. As his father I'm sure he had his reasons for doing this.

You will be better off in future relationships if you put yourself after your partners children/child. Asking your partner to put you first is very selfish and they will look at you like you have very serious issues. Not too mention the resentment that you will feel from the child. Kids are smart and they would know/think that their daddy loves you more, daddy spends more time with you, daddy doesn't play with him/her when your there....suddenly it's a you or his kids altimatum...and that is not fair!

There are far too many men in the world today that don't have anything to do with their kids. You should respect the man that you are with for being there for his child and wanting to be a part of his child's life.

Ask yourself this question........if you had a child/children would you want them to take the backseat to whatever chic their father might be with this week or next? I mean c'mon....look at from a different perspective....
think outside your box!
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 143 (view)
 
Sexless marriages/relationships.....go figure?
Posted: 7/9/2007 3:54:15 PM
I would try to talk things out; if that didn't work after attempts at getting the sex back on my part; yes I would leave. Because what that basically says to me is : 1- I don't turn him on anymore, 2- he is more than likely getting it elsewhere 3- I will eventually want to get it elsewhere. And with no sex/intamacy neither partner would be happy; so why stay?

What that man doesn't appreciate another man will. LOL!
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 145 (view)
 
since when does no reply equal racist?
Posted: 7/5/2007 11:42:40 AM
Loved that one K-lo!

 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 167 (view)
 
Is oral sex on the first date a killer?
Posted: 6/13/2007 2:37:23 PM
First, I have to say, you have admitted to yourself and everyone else that this has happened many times before! What????? I have to interject my opinion: Take it for what it's worth.

I would think that having sex with him would have been better; you could have made him wear a condom! I highly doubt that he would have slipped a condom on for you to put it in your mouth! You do understand that you can catch an std through oral sex? You can catch HIV through oral sex because he is not protected!

He was not protected, first date and you had oral sex and have no clue how many women he has been with?

Girlfriend, how old are you? I have always thought with age comes wisdom......mistakes can only be looked at as such if you learn from them and don't continue to repeat them time and time again as you stated in your message "many times before".

I would save something like that for a relationship! It's too good just to give it to any and everybody, same goes for intercourse!

Learn from it this time if you haven't from the others! Like: i dunno how about not going home with him and not letting him come to your home so you won't be "over come with hormones and passion"....that sounds like teenage shit to me!
 Sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Strap-on
Posted: 6/13/2007 1:24:25 PM
WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Unless you are into bi-sexual men; then ummmmmmmm.........and did he tell you he is bi-sexual/gay? Because if not then he's being deceiving is he not? I would not be able to do it; I would slap him with his strap on and leave! What the hell?
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
New Baby
Posted: 6/7/2007 3:23:41 PM
Congratulations to you and your b/f.

And yes, everything you are exeriencing is totally normal. Moodiness, anger, resentment, Devine left you awesome advice OP, use it; more than likely it will help.

Good luck to you and your b/f!
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 587 (view)
 
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 6/7/2007 3:16:45 PM
I would hate to see the type of women you have dated harrabylad if their "precious" stinks and tates disgusting....What kind of females are YOU being intimate with?
EWW, bad choices in females eh?

Just a hint....the nether region does not have a "taste" persae' nor should it stink....if a female you are with has either one...it probably indicates some sort of problem.
In which case you should run and never touch with any part of your body again!

Good luck finding a clean female harrabylad!
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Quick to Dismiss
Posted: 6/7/2007 1:51:52 PM


Mary Rachelle; you are so right! Just a response with a thank you but no thank you will get you into nothing but trouble.......geez fellas, don't take things so hard!
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Abusive relationships...
Posted: 6/5/2007 3:12:49 PM
What?
I mean are you really even serious? This fool cuts on himself, and beats on women? What is "so great" about a man like that? I can't even believe you are confused and going through the on one hand.....but on the other hand....? What?

Yeah, he's got two hands too and will beat your ass with both of them if you stick around! Run far and fast!
 sincere078
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 369 (view)
 
Boys need fathers...Period
Posted: 6/2/2007 8:53:44 AM
My Passion: At what point in my post did I say thank you for giving me a pat on the back? If you read the post in it's entirety, it stated moms meaning more than one, ie; more than just myself!

Who is supposed to be impressed by the research that you did? I made a point; bad people do not come solely from single parent homes! Or more plainly put: raised by single mothers!

How easy it was for you to leave a bunch of reasearched jibberish whilst totally avoiding the question! Or you simply couldn't research that to find an answer to the question right?

Oh, and just so you know, Ted had a man in his life; saw a biography on him on A&E and his "father" was there with him! The interviewer asked his father if he saw any signs of illness, or the likes there of. Also asked his "father" if he felt he were to blame for the way Ted turned out! Do so more reasearch!

Why am I here if I am not looking to put a man in my life that which would include the lives of my children?
Just because I choose to date a man does not by any means signify that I am willing to introduce him to my kids! If I meet a man and have only known him f0r a couple weeks or a couple months that is not enough for me to bring him into my childrens lives! Me dating has nothing what-so ever to do with my kids! When a man is willing to put a ring on my finger; well, then he would meet my children. I would not run the risk of bringing a man into their lives that would be there today, but may not be there tomorrow!

Reasearch: babysitters! See single mothers use babysitters so, we can go on a date so the children don't have to meet the man and vice-versa! You should be able to find some information on that on the website that you listed!
 
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