Yeah. and they better act like they enjoy it too...

From hospital studies its also clear that the highest frequency of healthy children come from women in their mid to late twenties with male partners about ten years older.
Of course not every man wants a kid nad some may have some already - perfect partenrs for the woman who is in the same boat - but of course I bet they arent interested..............in most cases....

Overweight does not define unattractive in males. Given the opportunity to select a body type women, on average pick about 15-20% overweight. Myself, I'm tecnically overweight at about 185. Women find me most attractive at about 200. We were talking about being attractive and your stats don't really speak to that at all.

shyblonde ... why are you here on this site ... other then to mix things up! Your picture is not posted, you say u are envolved. Could it be you are bored and just want to send in some "Anne Landers" wisdom into the equation? If men are insecure simply because they lie about their age what does it make women? Secure? There was a time when to ask a person age was very inappropiate .. right up there with "How much money do you make?" I think in most cases people are not comfortable with revealing their age ... age is not issue with me .... if I have a picture to view ..... which is fairly recent ...... well from that I can gauge as to whether that person is of interest to me! When you say "huge red flag" ...... I think of a huge bull looking for a fight ....... ummmmmm could that be you?

ust know that most men who seek out older women do it for one thing, and that's sex. I don't have one friend, including myself, who's been with an older woman and considered anything becoming of it more than just rolling between the sheets and having a good time. It's just not what we're after. I know there are exceptions to this, but it's obvious in society this isn't the norm. The norm is younger women with older men.

Also, that "young stud" who you fell in love with for his performance and sexual appetite might not be ready to be pulled out of the pasture just yet and retired.

kay, I'm not going to waste an overly huge amount of time convincing you of my own personality - because god knows no 18 year old can ever know enough about herself to be right about anything in the whole universe - but here's what I have to say.
Yes, I'm 18. I've lived on my own for two years, while attending school full time. I can safely say that yes, I am more mature than most people my age, and if you don't think so, then fine... that's really not my concern. I know that I can and did have an honest, open, adult relationship with men older than myself, and it was largely because we were at the same stages in life. There was NOTHING interesting to me about the latest high school drama my friends were going through, or oh-my-god-my-parents-made-me-buy-my-own-clothes whining. I am more compatible with older people, always have been, because the stage I'm at in my life was usually ahead of my peers.
And how exactly is a sexual relationship with an older man too much for me to handle? Going for men my age has always resulted in less than nothing. Older men are politer, better in bed, and can come to a movie with me without having to tell their parents. Oh, and glamor? Please. That's just plain pathetic.
I am far more worried about adults who make assumptions about the maturity of people they don't know than I am about girls who make personal decisions about what they do with their own body, thanks.

SassySky, if the thrill is in the forbidden fruit, then why not take away the "Forbidden" label?

Seems like a lot of people are saying, "I just don't think an adult should have sex with a minor because it's WRONG... And because it disgusts me."

Hey, same reasoning why people think homosexuality is wrong, right?

Honestly, what other reasoning is there? Adults are merely taking advantage of the younger ones? I'm sorry, but last time I checked, many 13-year-boys are taking advantage of girls the same age all of the time as well. If it's a matter of emotional protection, it's not someone's age that's going to make them hurt another.

If they can bleed, they can breed. If there's grass on the feild, play ball.

People close their minds when it comes to this whole "Age of Consent" thing. I don't see a problem with it if the younger party wants it.

why do men lie about their age"

Because they want you to think they are the age they put on their profile... seems a bit obvious.

How much do you weigh?

Actually, think about the internet and how searches are done, then, think about a man who would still like the opportunity to fall in love AND possibly have a child. If a 45 year old man is only found by 40+ year old women, most of these women are not looking to have children so, a man may have to list his age as 38, for example, at least to be found in a "search" by women in their 30's, prime child bearing years. Pretty easy to understand and even better if said man had exceptional genes, cute and in shape! And since we're being HONEST here, c'mon, women are NOTORIOUS for lying about age, boobs, lips and everything else!

Do women really look at it like it is less attractive?

Absolutely, 100% prefer a circumcised man, without question, nor hesitation.


So really, growing up in America, is being un-cut abnormal?

I would say that "cut" is the norm from my experience.

Great Kahuna: "Mutilating poor defenceless boys".....please - don't you think that's a bit overdramatic. Let's face facts shall we - multiple studies over mulitple years have shown that getting cut prevents HIV infection, which is one of the fastest spreading STD in the world. So getting cut has a lot going for it vs getting not cut which has zero advantages.