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 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Waiting over a week to contact you?
Posted: 12/29/2012 5:55:54 AM

favorites?? they should simply call it "bookmark".... for a later view and further inspection when you are on the run!

Exactly. That's the way I use "favorites" ...as there is no 'bookmark' function on POF.
Don't get hung-up on the literal definition of the word "favorites"
 niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Courting?? does it exist??
Posted: 11/17/2012 5:28:48 AM
Novemberheart:


.....it gave a couple time to make a foundation of friendship and the love followed. thats not to say there was nothing of a sexual desire but it was held in check......


The difference between "courting" and "dating" was explained to me , long ago , in exactly that way , by someone who would be 140 years old now if he were still living.
 niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Why is the DMV so difficult?
Posted: 9/6/2012 9:51:57 AM
Over the course of 40 years or so .... I've taken a DMV test in maybe 9 different states.
( and another non-english speaking country)

The 2006 California version was most difficult I've encountered.

I passed .... but I'd just thought to add to the thread.
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 245 (view)
 
THINGS ALL MEN SHOULD KNOW HOW TO DO WELL
Posted: 8/11/2012 4:54:25 AM
Wonder5750 wrote:

Would it be fair to devided it up to city Californians, and country Californians.... that seems to me to be the big difference. Not everyone in this state lives the city life.. most do obviously, but people are so different depending on their environment.


Yes ! Exactly.
I'm in the (very) rural "California"

It seems that SF & LA are in some other universe , let alone the same state.
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 9 (view)
 
penalties for DUI vs. hit and run
Posted: 8/6/2012 3:31:29 AM


You assume she was drunk. Why?
Stick to the facts, and be happy your injuries are minor.
Let the police and the DMV handle the details.


All the "facts" are unknown.
Speculation is allowed
Formulating various scenarios and determining if the facts fit them is one method of solving problems.
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 42 (view)
 
How late is too late to call?
Posted: 7/24/2012 2:10:59 AM
I work "graveyard" shift , so anyone calling me in the middle of day is going to wake me up.
Should I get upset ?
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 344 (view)
 
Statements in profiles that make you say NEXT!
Posted: 7/9/2012 4:02:12 AM

rizzo1313 I dont care how hot she is or how compatible all her other interests are with mine. Nothin screams born again, delusional weirdo, like a Jesus freak!


"The heathen rage" LOL LOL

Haters going hate, I suppose.
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Am I being too picky?
Posted: 5/20/2012 4:46:35 AM

I know I am limiting myself, but am I being too picky to want to date someone in my own zip code?


My first thought here was " ah , the luxury ( ? ! ) of living in a metropolitan area , where one can indulge in this type of thinking."
Some of us are rural. :-)
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Male and Female Disconnect
Posted: 5/20/2012 4:12:08 AM

I am wondering what is the disconnect between the fabulous people on this sight


I believe it's one of aspects- attributes of the medium itself -- the internet.

It's very easy to be summarily dismissive here , in a way that wouldn't happen in real life.

For example , being one year over your arbitrarily set age parameters results in a non-response .... or "disconnect"'.

That most likely wouldn't happen in the walking-around world. A connection might occur there despite of
any preconceived notions of compatibility.
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Make me one of your Favorites but never send me an email.
Posted: 3/21/2012 3:58:31 AM



5. Finding out how long it's been since someone's been active online - no point in messaging someone who hasn't logged on in a year, as messages only last 20 days now.



Exactly

This function is very useful.
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Images will not upload?
Posted: 12/27/2011 4:33:17 AM
I am also not able to upload an image .

Never ever had this difficulty previously .

And ...I tried firefox & chrome.

Seems to be a POF problem ?
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Girls go first?
Posted: 12/5/2011 4:12:01 AM
Yes , you are.

Someone who you would perhaps like may be simply unaware of your profile.
The "virtual" world [ internet ] is different from the "real" world .....
so the established real-world "rules" & customs don't necessarily apply.
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 17 (view)
 
wondering why women don't answer
Posted: 11/2/2011 3:22:39 AM
(Halcyon_Skies) "....I would also not want to date a man in his fifties who has kids under 18......"


I'd be interested in some elaboration about this point. For educational purposes only :-)
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Religon in matches
Posted: 10/30/2011 6:23:59 AM
-----I thought that Catholics were a minority of Christians-------

In the USA in general , that would be true ...........but the New York/New Jersey
area where you live is atypical of the nation at large.
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Northern Cali vs Southern Cali....
Posted: 10/24/2011 2:51:46 AM
Yes....
It's funny what Bay area folks consider to be "Northern"
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Recovering Profiles
Posted: 9/17/2011 7:13:14 AM
It had a web link back to a thread in THIS very forum.Here at POF.

I've seen other profiles with similar links ....which is why I assumed
it was OK. Why are some links left ...and others wiped away ?
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 131 (view)
 
What's up with this?
Posted: 9/17/2011 4:42:02 AM

Sweetlady95 wrote:
"...I have said over and over and over again.. that I DON'T DATE DIVORCED MEN BECAUSE GOD SAYS IT'S A SIN FOR ME TO MARRY ONE. MEANING--- I AND I STRESS I I I I WOULD BE COMMITTING A SIN BECAUSE GOD STIL CONSIDERS THAT MAN TO BE MARRIED. I AND AGAIN I STRESS I I I I would NOT be COMMITTING A SIN by marrying a man that has had PRE MARITAL SEX....."
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Niteseer wrote:
I'd like to note those conditions put a lot weight into the concept of "the legal definition of Marriage"

So my question is : Where does the Bible [ & God ] condone the current definition of CIVIL marriage ?


I'll note this question has been avoided.

Why are you letting the state determine what the definition of marriage is ?

What is the biblical justification for doing so ?
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Recovering Profiles
Posted: 9/17/2011 12:58:44 AM
It just was pointed out to me that was no text in the "about me" section
of my profile !!!!
I was unaware of that. I did not do that.
POF "ate" it , apparently.
Is there any way to recover what I wrote. ?
I really don't want to start all over again.
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 46 (view)
 
exclusivity and commitment
Posted: 9/15/2011 12:43:56 PM
A "commitment" = contract

sometimes agreed to as a hedge against the diminution of Love.
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 106 (view)
 
What's up with this?
Posted: 9/15/2011 12:33:08 PM
Sweetlady95 wrote:
"...I have said over and over and over again.. that I DON'T DATE DIVORCED MEN BECAUSE GOD SAYS IT'S A SIN FOR ME TO MARRY ONE. MEANING--- I AND I STRESS I I I I WOULD BE COMMITTING A SIN BECAUSE GOD STIL CONSIDERS THAT MAN TO BE MARRIED. I AND AGAIN I STRESS I I I I would NOT be COMMITTING A SIN by marrying a man that has had PRE MARITAL SEX....."
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I'd like to note those conditions put a lot weight into the concept of "the legal definition of Marriage"

So my question is : Where does the Bible [ & God ] condone the current definition of CIVIL marriage ?
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 26 (view)
 
exclusivity and commitment
Posted: 9/13/2011 3:51:32 AM
Because he wants you as a "possession" ....

to squirrel away for safe keeping ....

as some collect private paintings but don't exhibit publicly
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Can't Post in Forums using Firefox~ Chrome works however
Posted: 9/6/2011 6:50:53 PM
I'll give it shot :-)
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Can't Post in Forums using Firefox~ Chrome works however
Posted: 9/6/2011 3:59:09 AM
Can't Post in Forums using Firefox~ Chrome works however.

Is this a universal problem ...or only just me?

I can't find another thread about this .....

nor is there anything in FAQS about it.

I rarely use Chrome ( which I'm using now ,obviously :-) )

so it would be nice ti be able to use my normal firefox.
 Niteseer
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 42 (view)
 
50+ Guys With Motorcycles?? What do women do?
Posted: 9/6/2011 3:50:47 AM

The question, since I feel I should actually get to it, is this - If men buy big, honkin, motorcycles, what do women buy?

(It just seems that there must be an equivalent, but I can't come up with it!)


Horses

There's a horse pic in every 3rd profile LOL

 
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