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deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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Guys: Tgirls hot or not?? Posted: 11/22/2009 4:40:04 PM
There's been many horror stories and articles in the news where transsexuals were beaten or killed horror stories ?? ... I have no problem with transsexuals or any other lifestyle ...but if I was so deceived...as to find out she was a he by putting my hand in his pants .. I would be pissed ... now I dont feel that I am prone to kill anyone ..but a good beating would make him think about pulling such deception again ...and at this point the only thing that would stop me from hitting this impostor .... would if he was much bigger than I and even that wouldnt stop me from getting the first...hit ...i almost said the first lick ...but in this case no one would be licking anything.... go ahead call me homophobic ... Im in no way prejudice against these people ... but I want no sexual contact with any of them ... in any form

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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DNA Based Dating Posted: 11/21/2009 11:54:20 AM
is the guy running this dating service by any chance named Adolph Hitler or something like that ... maybe looking to develop a super race or something ... there is a reason that most people are attracted to traits different from their own ... the same reason for sexual reproduction .... we got to keep that gene pool muddied up ...or we loose the war against parasites ,disease and genetic mutation ...there is a reason muddy water does not stagnate

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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Staying married for the Tax benefits, or for the mortgage. Posted: 11/21/2009 11:30:47 AM
My attorney told me it's very common for a divorce to be finalized the first week of Jan so that they can file return for previous year as a joint return and get the better tax advantage. a divorce being filed does not preclude ..two people from filing a joint tax return ...actually you dont have to have ever been married being divorced does not preclude a couple from having and maintaining a joint mortgage either ...i know several divorces where the mortgage is maintained by both ..she lives there till the kids are 18 and then he gets the house when filing taxes the IRS does not check to see if you are married or divorced ...they take your word for it ..same with a bank...you could hook up with a stranger for tax purposes ...it would open you up for legal action from the pretend spouse .. but IRS couldnt care less ..they only time IRS gets miffed is when both people devide the kids and file head of household when there is only one household ....this too happens all the time ..but IRS takes a disliking to this if they find out

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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Realizing ALOT! Posted: 11/21/2009 11:21:57 AM
and OH.. dont let a man try to "Qualify" you with sex. I so never want to hear the line "We are both Adults.. why would we wait" crap. This is an old..old...old card...and IT STILL WORKS!!! I cannot believe it. My wisdom? There are many "cards" that men play to manipulate you to what they want. Stick to your guns with that affirmation. this is an old line ...but not every man who uses it is using it as a line ..not every man who wants in your pants is using you ...we were made to want in your pants ...you were made to want in ours ...there is nothing wrong with grown men and women wanting/having sex the little boys that just want to use/play have perverted sexuality ..if you both are truly adults the reason for waiting becomes moot what you women need to learn is how to distinguish the little boys from grown men ...emotionally grown men ...they are not the ones which are smooth and hot ...they are not the bad boys who treat you like a sex object ... they are the true gentlemen ...they are the ones who say I want you ..but I want you to be ready to want me the most effective line a guy can use to seal the deal ... is Are you sure this is what you want ??...but only when he is prepared to accept the true answer ...it wont work as a line ...unless he is with a little girl emotionally speaking

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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Internet daters: are we damaging our social skills? Posted: 11/21/2009 9:08:12 AM
You don't "date" on the internet, you use the internet to cast a net to find somebody that may be dating material. Important distinction. yea I wonder what it is people dont get about this My only problem with online dating is that there is no way to know if the chemistry really exists till you meet the person. So this person who you had amazing emails suddenly becomes three dimensional, and maybe you don't like the three dimensional version...extricating yourself becomes the issue...it's a mine field at times (at least for me). yea and when you are in a bar ...or even at church ..or whatever ...do you know before you say HI if you will be compatible ?? well NO the internet dating site is just another forum for meeting ...with the twist ..you eliminate the ones who are not interested in meeting someone ......you still have to find out the who's how's and why's its nothing more ...nothing less ...its like a big dance ... not everyone there wants to dance ...not everyone there can dance and not everyone there wants to dance with you ...but chances are someone will the only thing I dont understand ..is people expect every first contact to be witty...charming..or profound ...kinda setting ones self up for a player ...with a pocket full of lines ...me thinks ...my father was a man of few words ( something I didnt inherit ) but never has there been a more compassionate ,faithful and caring man ...whats wrong with just saying HI ...your profile/forum post caught my attention..those looking for instant relationship wont find it ...and it is they who are damaging their social skills ..if they ever had any

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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WTH was he thinking? Posted: 11/21/2009 8:02:43 AM
I will never understand the times..... In my 53 years I have never asked for or suggested sex .... I have never asked to be invited back to a woman's house ..... I have however been invited and yes accepted invitations ...to sleep over ...and for sex ... more than my share of times ...some even on a first date ...It appears that today's idea of seduction is asking ...Wanta fvck ... I never set out to have sex with a woman ...I have however set out to make a woman want to have sex with me ... and have been somewhat successful at it.... what I wonder is what in this guys life has led him to think this tactic would work ... and for this tactic to be so popular ..it must be working ... it is my contention that even if this tactic worked ..the quality of the woman who would fall for it would be compromised...as well as the excitement of the seduction ... I must be wrong but it is my thoughts that the only woman who would fall for this tactic ...one would find on a street corner and would require cash ...where has the art of seduction went ...where has the pleasure of seduction went ??? were has the desire to let sex happen on its own terms went ??...I never dated because I wanted sex .. I dated because I wanted her to want to have sex with me ...because I want to be somebody worth her giving herself to ... Never cause I asked for it

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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Realizing ALOT! Posted: 11/21/2009 7:23:22 AM
I find that many women ..rely on the fast forward button too much ...maybe this is what you are calling taking it and running with it ....I noticed you are looking for friends ..on our profile ...this is a good frame of mind ... I almost would not date a woman who list long term as her choice ... why?/ its a frame of mind ... I want life to come in steps ... I want to find friends ..then chose from those friends someone I want to develop a relationship with... not look for the relationship ...When I was dating Im sure I was labeled a player many times ...but I dont see it that way ... I met women dated a few times ...became interested .... we became intimate ...and suddenly they started looking at wedding dresses so to speak ..and I felt that they were not interested in me ...I felt they were just interested in having a relationship ...with anybody ....it became predictable ... something as important as a relationship is worth taking it slower ...give us time to decide this is what we want .... let us make the promises... by us sleeping with you we are not saying we are ready to move in with you ... sex is just one step to a relationship not the only step to that relationship .... if you are different after we sleep together ... maybe you are no longer the woman I wanted to have a relationship with >>. i have and never will look for a long term relationship ... many times have I found myself in one

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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Women who don't shave Posted: 11/21/2009 6:23:57 AM
If the only way you can tell a woman is not a little girl is by counting the hairs on her Pvssy ... you have more problems than I care to discuss ... I have always liked a bare Pvssy but until a few years ago was like many men ... nope not cutting my pubes ... then for some reason ...possibly lust intoxication I allowed my woman to trim all my hair .... what did I find when we bumped bare bits ...Dayum this feels great .. havent had a hair down there since ...not only does it feel better when shagging ..it feels better when working and working out and well frankly all the time ... but we dont shave ..the little mustache trimmers are just the ticket .. they dont chafe ,they dont burn and they will trim close without stubble ..plus to get a really good trim you need help ...be you male or female ... so we routinely trim each other ... and you can bet if by the time she gets my bits trimmed she is not dripping with desire ...she will be by the time I trim her with the little buzzing trimmer ... The statement ..." I need a trim " is equal to her saying I need Fvcked ...that will even get me to turn off monday night football and on the trimmer

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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Kissing....... Posted: 11/21/2009 6:01:06 AM
I too miss making out ... some of my hottest memories were from the time in my life when Love meant just kissing and making out

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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rape/molestation victims and dating..... Posted: 11/21/2009 5:54:07 AM
I think that guys who abuse women do an equal injustice to every man in her future ... I have spent a lifetime with a woman who was abused as a child ...and its always there ... we have had a pretty ok life ..but what could it have been if that **stard had kept his nasty hands off her as a child ... he was a thief that stole not only her future trust but my future joys of being with an uninhibited woman who I love .... Yes she trust me and we have worked through it to have a satisfactory sex life ...BUT ITS ALWAYS THERE.... The abuser is dead and gone ..but the memories of his acts will live as long as she and I do >>> I want the memories of me to be the good I have done ...how can any man let a few minutes of sick lust ...overshadow every other memory he has every created ...How ???

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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horror movies = red flag? Posted: 11/15/2009 1:16:10 PM
Actually, dude, a large number of NASCAR fans ARE also kiddie porn, beastiality, etc, fans. ^^^^^ ????... i hate nascar its just another example of a sport turning ultra drama ... it reminds me of wrestling..insults intelligence As long as he's a Star Trek fan....I don't care what else he watches!!! LOL! now a woman after my own heart ...I love star trek ..as well as most sci-fi

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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bad first date Posted: 11/15/2009 1:08:17 PM
Don't worry man, that's not a bad rejection. just wait till a woman who you have been living with for six months ..leaves and wont say why

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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Would you have sex with a machine? Posted: 11/15/2009 12:47:15 PM
Ms Micki.. this is not an issue to me it is a forum topic ..like i said it came up in jest ..I dont want a fleshlight ..or a doll or anything ...My wife does have sexual issues ..she has made strides in recovering from her childhood trauma ...but she is still bonded by it in many ways .she is in no way as liberal sexually as I am ..but I love her any way . I'm sure she knows I masturbate but I don't do in in font of her... I have never witnessed her masturbating unless we were involved in sex ... maybe she does maybe she dont ..it would be an unnecessary intrusion for me to ask .... but we do the mutual manual stimulation thing as well as other standard things as well as many that would be considered kinky ....I have no doubt that if I really wanted a male sex toy I would be given her blessing to get one ... it was her initial reaction that triggered my curiosity and my informal .. survey .. maybe the other women would also get use to the idea if their guys wanted one .. but double standards are not always vehement... some are easy compromised...I was not put off by her reaction to my suggestion ... I was just intrigued by why she would even initially see it different for me to have a mechanical device ...when it is normal for her to enjoy them ....again I am not complaining ..about this anyway I stick with flesh on flesh sex.Once you get into 'Pass out Sex with a machine'... Is there any going back? once you extend any sexual horizon...is there any going back???

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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horror movies = red flag? Posted: 11/15/2009 11:46:38 AM
well I hate horror movies ..but I know why ... I have seen all the blood and gore in real life that I want to see ... I can and have dealt with it ...from my days as a police officer ... but It never fails to take me back to when I saw something similar in real life ... if only for a moment .. I don't like war movies horror films or even police drama ...My life has sentenced me to a life of watching chick flicks ...I really don't think that entertainment that presents death ... in such a casual light are healthy ... I have seen death violent death up close ...I have held a person as their life leaked out of them ...with no way to stop it ... I have seen a persons brains splattered on the wall by a bullet ...I cannot see these things as entertainment even if I know they are not real sorry for the graphic details ..I just felt it needed to be said

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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In case your a serial killer in a profile Posted: 11/15/2009 11:26:02 AM
Oh I forgot. Some of us aren't allowed to roll our eyes at certain things. I forgot, if it doesn't bother certain people (YOU) then it shouldn't bother anyone. no ... by all means ...roll them eyes .. I'm just saying ..not everyone is a English major ... some words give some of us a problem ... that does not make us dumb or make our opinion not valid ... however I contend that posting a comment just criticizing someones grammar mistake is by definition... off topic just as my rant about people doing it is off topic ...so we are even except that I'm not dizzy ...and I have not risk hurting the feelings of someone who may cannot help it

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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Liking someone for who they are rather than what they offer Posted: 11/15/2009 11:16:40 AM
your background or your bank account is not your problem .... I found women when I was broke poor white trash ...I like to think I have moved up in this world

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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In case your a serial killer in a profile Posted: 11/15/2009 11:11:19 AM
I would laugh. Seems like a joke. And the incorrect use of 'your' would make me roll my eyes. we are getting as picky as my sixth grade spelling teacher .... I can understand commenting when a post is not readable ...but the misuse of two words that are pronounced the same ...that's just picky ... I have those words that I have trouble with ...heck I have a lot of them ..Its been thirty five years since I have been in school ..so I have a great spell checker ... problem I have is that a spell checker does not tell me when the word I have misspelled is a word also ..and I have never found a grammar checker don't sweat the small things ....if you roll your eyes at all the mistakes on here you are going to get dizzy ...JMO

deerdog1

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Prove Me Wrong, PLEASE Posted: 11/15/2009 10:46:40 AM
loveis the house ...sex is the nails that holds the house together ... if i dont get to nail her every so often the house will fall apart ...unless there is a medical reason for her not having sex then the glue of compassion and loyalty will suffice for the nails

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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Guilty until proven innocent Posted: 11/15/2009 10:32:10 AM
It has to do with maturity ... one does not prove the other ..however when one is immature and has security issues they may well have both issues ...if someone lacks confidence believes that they are not good enough to keep a lover from cheating ...then they may well seek self assurance from both accusations and sleeping around ..in a futile attempt to boost their own self worth and this lack of confidence can come from just lack of maturity ...low self esteem..or having been cheated on /betrayed in the past....still there are many people that have been cheated on and still choose to trust again ...so it comes back to maturity as well as loving ones self enough to believe they deserve someone else's loyalty..... still not trusting someone will not keep them faithful ...if cheating is in their heart they will cheat ....however I do firmly believe that even a non cheater if accused falsely enough can be swayed into cheating what I don't get is these people that don't trust yet ..go on and get more involved with the one they cant or wont trust ..i damn well would not marry someone i didn't trust

deerdog1

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In case your a serial killer in a profile Posted: 11/15/2009 9:00:52 AM
now we have to have diversity ... you say serial killer like it was always a bad thing .... serial killers are people too...problem asking this is most serial killers are in the closet ... they dont see themselves as serial killers ..so how can they answer

deerdog1

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What words would you LEAST like to hear after sex? Posted: 11/15/2009 8:53:23 AM
What words would you LEAST like to hear after sex? Oh my God ...my husband just got home

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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Kissing cheating? Posted: 11/15/2009 8:50:56 AM
did people not read the OP Is kissing cheating... My girl friend who recent took me back confessed to me she kissed another guy and gave her a couple hickies. However no sex happened I now see why she said that she thinks shes no good for me. I dunno if she can be loyal to me if she can do that. What should I do? if she kissed or even shagged the other guy while they were broke up she was NOT CHEATING BROKE UP = has every right to get shagged if one wants to ...as a matter of fact it is therapeutic sence The OP did not see the hickies and had to be told that she kissed the other guy ...I would think she did this while they were broke up ... probably because he broke up with her because he thinks she is cheating all the time if I was broke up with because of being falsely accused of cheating ..I damn well would do every thing in my power to get laid while i was free

deerdog1

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Would you have sex with a machine? Posted: 11/15/2009 8:23:46 AM
well I started to start a new thread ... maybe someone here has the courage ...almost everry time i have started one ..it has not turned out good ...either it has been deleted or just died ...dont know some people have got it some dont ... any way my thoughts are somewhat on topic for this one ... what do people think abut sex toys for guys .. they have some now ...maybe more than I know ..the one that comes to mind is the fleshlight.... but here goes ..My wife has several sex toys for women and I have no problem with them ..as a matter of fact i enjoy them as much as she does ..i think any way .. I enjoy helping and using them on her ...we really enjoy playing with her toys on her ...there is nothing that could be done to me with them that would appeal to me though ..... we were watching a movie the other night and the fleshlight was mentioned in the movie .. now we have seen one while shopping in an adult store for more toys for her so we know the concept ... so while we were watching the movie I jokingly said .."I have got to get one of those " and then went on to say or maybe a blow up doll or some other toys targeted for guys ... well the reaction I got was surprising ...she said I am all you need , you are not getting any toys to do my job ...almost jealousy .... strange?? am I not all she needs ?? is there a double standard here ???why is she threatened by a toy but it is accepted and talked about among all her friends that they all have toys to supplement/enhance their sex lives with their men ... I work in a place where there are many women and I have a relationship with all them where we can discuss such issues ...so the next day I decided to test my observation ...so I asked them if a male targeted sex toy would be allowed in their relationship ... it was unanimous that they all have girl toys ..and also unanimous that their guys would not be allowed ...only after I pointed out the double standard did just one very young woman say she would allow it if her guy wanted one ..but I have my doubt if she was serious ..me thinks she was just trying to sound hip actually I dont want a male targeted toy ...but if i did ....why cant I have one ???

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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Doesn't EVERYONE like oral sex? Posted: 11/15/2009 6:58:16 AM
to me oral sex is foreplay or a part of sexual intercourse ...I do like getting a woman off with my mouth ..but I just plain dont care for cumming during oral sex ..I dont want to cum in your mouth ..on your face ,tits or any other part of your body ... I will do these things if you wish ..but for me I had much rather cum deep in you while locked in a passionate embrace ... even when a condom is involved for whatever reason there might be for not wanting to share sexual fluids ... thats another thing I dont understand a woman who will swallow your cum but wont have vaginal sex without a condom ...well unless there is a fear of pregnancy ... condoms would never be my long term choice for contraception

deerdog1

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Kissing during sex; cuddling after sex. Posted: 11/15/2009 6:44:48 AM
I think this has something to do with the Pretty Woman thingy ...you know the movie ...in an age where everyone admits they like and have sex ..and men and women alike admit using someone just for sex ..its like ...I shagged him but I wasnt really into him emotionally I didnt kiss him ... I just think it is a disconnect to think a kiss is intimate but sex is not ..and even more scary the even younger generation ..some of them place even less intimacy on oral sex .. its talked about like shaking hands ... like a thing done when just hanging around with guys ...I have actually heard a young girl say they are just my friends I have only gave them blow jobs .you can bet if we have never kissed ...we wont be having sex and dont think you will be blowing me unless we are close enough to kiss never has a woman touched my penis before our lips have touched ...well by a few seconds ...I will admit that one time a woman grabbed my package seconds after out lips locked ...that was hot and intimate in every way again without kissing whats the point ... i have even kissed my hand while masturbating ..im just a hopeless romantic ..lol

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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Possible for a man to love two women at once? Posted: 11/15/2009 5:28:50 AM
Possible for a man to love two women at once? well yes !!! its just not likely that a guy can get away with it in today's society .... I know of one guy who has lived with two women for years ..they are open about their poly relationship and everyone is happy ... there is no doubt that they all three are in love.. but any guy who is professing love to another woman behind your back ..dont love or respect you

deerdog1

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time to delete your POF account Posted: 11/15/2009 5:09:26 AM
Really??? ROFL Yea....tell that to people who have been on here 2-3 years or guys who complain they never get replies from emails. some people cant shoot fish in a barrel... you are right though many guys will never get replies to their emails ...most guys dont have a clue how to write an email ...the only reason they have ever got lucky is in bars chicks are drunk ..not many chicks are drunk and horny when reading their POF email in the time I was dating ...I dated several women from POF .. the one thing in common all had was that they all made first contact ... I promise that if you learn to write a provocative profile ..a profile that will make women say wow ...learn to write from your heart .present yourself as someone they want to get to know ..and the first contact emails will come rolling in ..instantly ...and you will never have to worry about women replying to your written pick up lines POF is the best dating site ..hands down .... IF I was not attached I would bet you my this weeks pay check that by next weekend I could have a date from POF and not send the first ...first contact email I learned this after I first joined POF .... I like you had no clue how to get dates ..but I decided with this many women in one place all professing to be looking for a man ..if I could not get a date ..it must be something I was doing wrong... so I set out to find out what I was doing wrong ... and came to the conclusion that my profile was the answer as women are on the defensive when a guy sends them the first email because of all the jerks sending 100s of emails ..so I spent about a week ( not ten minutes ) writing a profile ...i read forums and looked for what women wanted to hear ..and I applied it to who I am I dug through the pickup line bull shit mentality and wrote from my soul ... not some panzy bs that guys think women want to hear ..just my true feelings ...and instantly the emails rolled in some wanting to meet and some just to say WOW but there was an unintended result ..I learned what my ex had been wanting to hear from me .. and I learned that I had rather use my new found sensitivity on her than on new women from POF ...so now Im back with her and here just for the forums

deerdog1

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cheated Posted: 11/15/2009 4:37:43 AM
maybe she didnt have sex with anyone after all ...maybe she has just got so damn tired of you asking that she decided to just tell you what you want to hear ..so you will shut up or leave or at least quit asking things that are none of your damn business ...grow the frack up I have seen this many times .. a woman gets tired of being asked juvenile questions ..and just tells the brat what he wants to hear .. so he will either accept it and leave her alone or leave

deerdog1

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after you cum.. (mainly for guys) Posted: 11/15/2009 4:10:48 AM
there was a seventies song ...After the lovin I"m still in love with you.... which referred to this ... it has to do with lust being mistaken for love ...till after the sex .... but Maturity seems to take care of this ...for guys that mature ... it appears that many guys never mature

deerdog1

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Would you have sex with a machine? Posted: 11/14/2009 11:22:00 PM
Also, just an FYI, while I have never actually seen/experienced/witnessed a "sybian"; there are MANY different designs, with the common thread being, as I understand the term, some sort of mechanically oscillating "penile" attachment; whether she sit on it, kneels in front of it, lays with it between her legs, or stands over it. While I've never seen one, and they sound boring to me, I don't have a vagina, so I can't say. However, for those somen who are used to sex last 4 minutes or less, I can see where this would be an extremely attractive option. yea and the really good ones come with a seat belt and crash helmet

deerdog1

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Kissing during sex; cuddling after sex. Posted: 11/14/2009 11:00:27 PM
I was just curious of what the consensus is on kissing during sex and cuddling after sex. As far as kissing goes, would you kiss just anyone during sex? I never said that the people I kissed (and felt like I was going through the motions with) I had sex with. excuse me .... I did think this was what you said ...imagine that .... still I would not be kissing /going through the motions ...what evr the motions are ..unless there was some feeling/chemistry

deerdog1

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time to delete your POF account Posted: 11/14/2009 10:54:25 PM
why should any of these people not be on POF ... everyone has needs ... if these people are on here lying and cheating ...shame on them ...but it is they who should wory about someone seeing them on here ...not you ..if they are single or married and just like the forums then why not be on POF ..this is the best dating site ..the forums are awesome and it is free why not be here???

deerdog1

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Would you have sex with a machine? Posted: 11/14/2009 10:38:04 PM
a sybian is a mechanical device that consist of a saddle with a hole in which has a penis like appendage protruding through it which is attached to a fly wheel powered by an electric motor which causes it to reciprocate up and down at varying speeds which is controlled by a remote control ... the woman sits on the saddle and inserts the appendage then the motor is turned on and she or someone else controls the speed ...until the desired effect is reached ...most have attachments consisting of appendages of different sizes and with different geographic features ..a robo dildo ...on steroids ...nuff said ???

deerdog1

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Kissing during sex; cuddling after sex. Posted: 11/14/2009 10:23:51 PM
Some people I felt like I was just going through the motions and I didn't feel like there was passion there well if you were having sex with someone and there was no passion there then you were cheating and cheapening yourself .... Im a guy and I cant imagine having sex if I didnt care anything ...or much for the person I was with ... why were you having sex if you dont care ???? If you cant bring /dont want to kiss him why are you joining bodies with him ??? im not condemning this ...I really dont understand this attitude .....I prefer masturbation ...at least that is sex with someone I love... sex just for sex is just glorified masturbation except you risk hurting someone else ..or catching a disease..... I can understand sex for love ...sex for warmth ...sex for companionship ...and all of these things have to do with caring ...I would kiss for the same reasons ... but not sex just to get my rocks off ....that would be just cold like kissing someone I didnt like ...nope Ill take masturbation any day for that ...at least I can imagine Im with someone that I want to be with.... Its like being with a prostitute ...why whats the point ??? I dont know I just cant separate sex from feeling ... and cant imagine why I would want to ....I have had many women in my long life ...and all I can say is every one of them was special at the time .... I felt that with everyone of them we touched something besides our genitalia...maybe they didnt feel that about me ...but that was them ...im not wired that way Sorry, but I am not interested if you're over 30, aren't physically fit/in shape, are currently married/seeing someone else, or are looking for a hookup/one night stand. It might seem like a lot of criteria to meet, but I know what I want and I'm not willing to settle for less! :) this is from your profile ...this is why I dont believe in having sex with someone I wouldnt kiss ...Im not willing to settle for less ...I never had sex with someone I didnt want to kiss ...and i never had sex with someone that didnt act like they wanted to kiss me ...I never had sex and got up and left ... and Ive never been left after sex ...without cuddling after sex, sex would not be complete

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

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Religion Posted: 11/14/2009 9:42:04 PM
I'm just wondering why so many men in the "bible belt" are listing themselves as being non-religious. Are there really so many men who do not believe in GOD or do they not want to admit to having religious beliefs? I put non religious on mine ... for the reason that I am here for friends and the forums ..and in that context religion does not matter ...I can be a friend with an atheist or a religious person .. as long as they dont push their opinion on me or condemn mine... in the aspects I discuss here religion does not apply .... If I was dating I probably would want someone with similar views as me .. but that would be evident when we met ...if I were dating I would never set out looking for a long term relationship ... I prefer to look for friends ..and choose my relationship from my friends .. and this brings me back to my opening statement ..a persons religious beliefs does not preclude them from being my friend I believe that society and people in general would be better advised to do the same ...look for friends and let love find you ...and be willing to accept anyone as friends ..regardless of ..religion ...race ..popularity.. social status or any other superficial criteria is this not what the prophet Jesus Christ taught ... no mater what you believe of him... these are the teachings attributed to him actually I am non religious ..I subscribe to no organized religion ....I am however very spiritual ... I have many beliefs ..but not a religion ... to me religion is a title we give to ourselves ..in order to judge other people ... something else Jesus Christ taught against

deerdog1

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Msg: 133 (view)

Doesn't EVERYONE like oral sex? Posted: 11/14/2009 9:16:20 PM
oral sex with some people can be really good ... but ... for me its not all that its cracked up to be ..its just one part of sex ...when it feels right its great ... but I am disturbed at all the hoop la that oral sex as well as any of the other mechanical aspects of love making gets

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

Msg: 15 (view)

cell phones and cheating Posted: 11/14/2009 8:58:39 PM
there are several things that I just wouldnt do .... even if i was untrusting ...I would never go in my woman's purse ( even if asked to)... I would never look in her cell phone ...I would never read her mail ..or email ...unless she asked me to ...in the 30 years my wife and I have been together I have never looked in her purse ...when she tells me to get something out of it ..i take it to her and tell her to get it out ...there are things in there that men just dont need to see LOL jealousy and suspicion's are just insecurity ... me thinks if my woman was cheating ...I would know without snooping

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

Msg: 24 (view)

Would you have sex with a machine? Posted: 11/14/2009 8:48:08 PM
Wow! Do they have a turbo engine the one I saw had twin Evenrudes on it .... four speed with overdrive

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

Msg: 25 (view)

Female Tool of the Trade Posted: 11/14/2009 8:41:34 PM
I was just wondering with stores like Adam and Eve is it possible for a woman to derive complete sexual satisfaction from various gadgets and inanimate objects that she'll lose all sexual desire for men? well its a good thing that women are not like some guys ...if sex was all they wanted / thought about ...then they would have no use for men ...with all the sex aids available.... but most women hold out that they will find a guy that can show emotion ..not just lust ...im beginning to think that some of them are right .... a guy that feels with his heart not his hard on is as rare as a unicorn

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

Msg: 22 (view)

Would you have sex with a machine? Posted: 11/14/2009 8:34:37 PM
have any of the people answering ever ridden a sybian..... well I have not either ...being a guy ...but I have witnessed several women on one ...some who were on it for the first time .... some even passed out from pleasure ...none of the women who tried it did not like the experience ...just saying

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

Msg: 6 (view)

Kissing during sex; cuddling after sex. Posted: 11/14/2009 8:21:24 PM
They say kissing is a pretty deep form of intimacy (most of the time, anyways) and having sex is not a pretty deep form of intimacy ???? God i dont understand people ...I have had what I consider casual sex ..in other words with someone I knew would not be a lasting part of my life ... but there was always intimacy ...in short if I wont kiss you I damn well wont be shagging you

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

Msg: 18 (view)

Having multiple partners just because one is bisexual... Kind of weird but.. Posted: 11/14/2009 3:27:50 AM
Go ahead guys and deny it..I will say..liar!!!! HAHA...sorry laughing again. you can say whatever you want ... I have no desire to have two women at all ...and I have had several threesomes of that nature ...in my younger days I am pleased to make you laugh

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

Msg: 178 (view)

I don't think anyone has enjoyed the 69 position since 1969. Posted: 11/13/2009 8:01:45 PM
whats not to like ????????????

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

Msg: 54 (view)

I don't care that he did, but WHY DID HE HAVE TO LIE? Posted: 11/13/2009 6:56:48 PM
old fat chicks... rock ...and I have enjoyed buying many of them a meal ..and I am the richer for it ... anorexic conceded drama queen chicks..who like to play games and complain that everyone is playing them ..suck and not in a good way ..and I avoid them at all cost ...and your friend should also

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

Msg: 23 (view)

are women ok with a man who does not orgasm, yet still enjoys every moment? Posted: 11/12/2009 8:34:54 PM
as I said in a earlier post ...I have never had any erection problems ... when I was a much younger man ..I learned the art of mentally turning the orgasm off..in order to wait on the woman ... this capability served me very well ..in a world of women who complained about men who ejaculated prematurely... I gained the reputation as a very good lover ...I could turn it off till she was exhausted then turn it back on at just the right time and have the final orgasm of the night at the same time she had hers .. This still works much of the time ...but on occasion after delaying orgasm and focusing on her the switch just dont turn back on as well as it once did ...yes I could stop let the erection go down ..start again and have the big O easily ...and have done this before ...or I could let her think I had cum and revel in the accomplishment of giving her complete satisfaction ....or I could draw attention to the fact that I hadnt cum and she would feel she let me down ...which is not true ... and then ultimately she would blame me for the act not being complete ... when in reality for me it was complete ...this also served me well a few years ago when for some reason ..physically or psychologically there was a period of a few months when I could not get there ...though I was stressed about it .. my relationship and she were never stressed or the wiser ... and my issue went away ...just as it arrived ...dishonest ???? maybe ......but not for malicious reasons

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

Msg: 4 (view)

are women ok with a man who does not orgasm, yet still enjoys every moment? Posted: 11/12/2009 3:44:28 AM
, but have never heard a man express it. because society has dictated that men will orgasm every time ......most men will at least atone time in their life go through a time when orgasm is hard to obtain ...the smart ones fake it ...because women are terrible at accepting when it just dont happen for the guy ... and no it has nothing to do with ED...I have never had any problem obtaining or maintaining an erection ...but I have had several times of varying length ..the longest lasting about 3 months when orgasm /ejaculation was not possible ... I faked it ...and she was none the wiser ... most women think they would know if a guy faked ...not if he was good at it

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

Msg: 14 (view)

Man-shy Posted: 11/11/2009 8:31:31 PM
shyness can be one of the worse curses a person can have ... But it can be broken ..I know I use to be very shy .... a very cruel woman whom I had a crush on ... did me a great favor and publicly humiliated me to the point I got really pissed ...mad enough that I no longer cared about making a fool of myself ..so mad that I no longer worried about what I thought people thought about what I wanted to say ... so mad that I became out spoken ...and when that happened I became popular ...Go figure ... Im still by nature shy but have learned to ignore my nature ...and you can too

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

Msg: 20 (view)

Do Men Like Hearing There Name Said In Bed Posted: 11/11/2009 8:13:27 PM
Thats the whole reason i am on here.My ex called out her ex`s name during sex 4 weeks ago and that was the last straw for me.waste of a year and a half I think that is a bit immature ... remnants from our past are scattered throughout our subconsciousness.. and surface at times like during sex ...trauma and sleep ... calling the wrong name during sex ,sleep or any time ..can be just that ...remnants of the past ...they can mean nothing .... I not long ago called my wife my ex wifes name by mistake ... I have not seen my ex in many years and havent consciously thought of her ... but my wife being mature and trusting me ... pretended to be mad for a few minutes just for laughs ...my thoughts are if you are that immature and insecure ...she is probably better off without you... it is probably her who wasted the last year and half ..on you

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

feeling slutty, good? Posted: 11/8/2009 3:31:15 AM
^^^ you mean lady in the streets , freak in the sheets? no I dont think this is what the op is talking about....and she was not talking about being promiscuous ...she was talking about making a public statement about your sexuality going out dressed in a way that says ..I am a sexual being ...lust if you want ...im going to flaunt my sexuality openly ...I may take it home and bestow it on just my man ...but I am going to show that I love my sexual side ..im going to flirt and tease because it makes me feel my worth as a sexual being ...If men flirt back and notice me lust after me ..then that just and only confirms my worth as a sex object ... it is a public role play just for the purpose of making people realize that I can be a complete person ..that I can rebel from social stigma ...that I believe that sex is good and I control my sexual side ...not others yes it is a rebellion statement ..that says ...I am complete person dont tell me how and when to show my sexual side

deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006

Msg: 5 (view)

How to do safe cunnilingus?? Posted: 11/7/2009 8:16:17 PM
oral sex is not a very effective way of spreading STDs ..even if you are with an infected person ...if we only had to worry about the infections spread by oral contact ...STDs would be much less a problem herpes is probably the easiest to transmit orally..and even that is rare some of the more common less fatal bacterial STDs probably are more easy to catch orally ..but they are 100% curable...viral STDs just dont fare well in the digestive fluids in the mouth best way to avoid a STD is be selective who you shag ...and dont eat anyone you wont shag

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