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 Author Thread: Do you use your partner's name during sex? Does your partner use yours?
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Do you use your partner's name during sex? Does your partner use yours?
Posted: 3/6/2009 12:35:04 AM
Yes, and it's a great way to build passion when you've got that real in love relationship. Everyone likes to hear their name but I'd use versions of it ahead of time as foreplay. Right up close to the ear, whispered softly so that even my voice heats her neck and ear and work my way down in soft, warm kisses.

But people underestimate the power of using someone's name to get themto let them know you think they are special, to notice you, to fantasize about you, to help get that relationship to the next level.
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Do You Use the Update Note on Your Favorites???
Posted: 3/6/2009 12:10:48 AM
In the very beginning I did once or twice thinking it was going to do something or come out somewhere else as a reminder but once I learned it didn't function that way I didn't see the point.

Seems more like something a mod or the owner would have more use of.
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OctoMom question
Posted: 3/5/2009 11:56:47 PM
Donald Trump probably would but only under the condition that each one has TRUMP tattooed across their forehead.

This woman is 3/4ths off her rocker. If women were meant to have more 8 kids they would have been given 8 breasts. So Llitter Lady is an example of technology not used wisely. It's almost like she is addicted to having kids. Sure women love it because it can bring them a lot of attention during but afterwards a lot of them get serious post partum depression and hers might be the worst.

I don't think she was thinking.

No, the father shouldn't be liable for all of them. I'd say an average number like 2 is reasonable. But this woman has chosen to ruin lives of people around her. It sounds like her mom takes more care of the kids than she does and she has gone bankrupt, from the earlier ones it sounds like. Honestly it's hard to listen closely to stories this whacked out. When I heard on the news the woman was shunning the media attention that was like a huge red flag for me.... something is seriously wrong here or with her and time showed that to be the case.

It's so convoluted I too have trouble wrapping my head around what you're trying to ask, sorry. This is just technology gone woman wild.
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Incredibly tender shrimp!
Posted: 3/5/2009 11:04:18 PM
I suspect the PH chart is right on because BS is often used to neutralize battery acid. So BS must be slightly alkaline.

I've tried BS in with beans... it was supposed to reduce the gaseous nature but it never worked and just gave them an unusual taste. Cumin works well, though.

OP, have you tried this with other seafood? I have a frozen bag of assorted seafood, like small squid and octopus, scallops, etc... in my freezer and been unsure what to do with it. Especially considering that a lot of those things can get tough very quickly. This would be a good technique to try on those.
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Too much tuna?
Posted: 3/5/2009 10:41:53 PM

Protein shake is the last thing you want to take before bed, since liquid calories digest very fast. When you go to bed you want to have something in your system that digests slowly, that way your body is going to have constent protein fix for the night.


plants, animals, and people all do their growing and repairing at night.

We just had a big debate about this in another thread talking about growth hormone peaks and guess what? No matter how much you work out or what you take your growth hormones are naturally3 times higher at night. All the links are in that thread.

Besides the protein isn't liquid. It is a finely ground solid suspended in water, it is just mixed with water because it's easier that way. You could do the same with beef jerky for all you want. In fact historically there was a spin on that as a survival food called pemican.

But it's funny how you will say one is bad but will not suggest anything better. Afraid you can't back up your facts? Not to mention my goals may be different than yours.

If I were going to eat that much tuna it'd be cheap insurance to do a heavy metal toxicity test for mercury. You can even get them at naturopathic places in kit form and avoid seeing a dr altogether. Test is done via mail. google it
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The New Season Of LOST
Posted: 3/5/2009 10:00:02 PM
I hate to say it but when that scene started I saw something odd coming... you know why? Here's John Locke, man of mystery and numerous skills and being resourceful but he resorts to a simple granny knot? NO F---ing way!

He'd know dozens of knots and even if he didn't know the noose knot he'd know the standard rescue knot and loop that through itself. No way he'd trust it to a simple granny knot.

So that lack of realism got to me but otherwise I liked it a lot better than some of the other ones from last season. Seeing Juliette and Sawyer together was cool and at least Jack was sober. Couldn't stand seeing him pissing his life away on the drugs and booze.

The good news is that over the weekend I installed one of those island moving controls in my basement. I need to be lost, too.
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HDTV TiVo or equivalent
Posted: 3/5/2009 9:48:10 PM
If I used one of those ports to stream it to the extender would it bypass my lowly 64MB graphics capability allowing the High Def to work then?

Installed NBCs new HD P2P program downloading program for their HDTV output. Works but still jittery -- and that's only 720. BTW it's slowing my computer down quite a bit so I reset the upload speed to minimum setting. It's in the beta version.


There is no hack. Your BIOS should support it - it just may not be obvious. I've read that other motherboards with integrated video chipsets allow you to specify 'Use onboard graphics' or 'Auto' or something similar. 'Auto' is the one you want. If it detects a dedicated video card, it will use it automatically, otherwise, it will use the onboard graphics.


I found it! Nowhere near the BIOS but if I went into cp>display>settings>advanced>adaptor>properties>general then there is a way to disable the current video.

It also said DAC Type Internal. Also there is a slider in there allowing for adjusting the hardware acceleration... where should that be set for maximum benefit to my system?

So this is my HDTV fix if I buy & install that video card you mentioned above that will fit in my case? That's all that matters.

Should I consider doing two or is that just overkill on my system? Is that the major bottleneck if I wanted to add more tuners? What would be the second HDTV tuner you'd recommend?
It also said it was running in PCI bus 0, device 3, function 0.

I just reread that link you posted about the low profile card and it looks like its so wide it takes up two slots:

Pros: Nice, decent card for the pci interface. Quick, easy install. Huge upgrade over onboard gfx and my old and busted raedeon 9250. Bought me an extra year before a complete Mobo and CPU rebuild. Runs Vista pretty good.
Cons: Takes up two PCI slots. (Heastsink is huge)

Runs hot. Recommend adding a fan.

As stated a million times before, driver cd is best used as a coaster. Get drivers from Nvidia.com
Other Thoughts: Overall not a bad card if you're stuck with pci and need to update that old pc for just a lil' while longer. Be clear it does not work miracles though.


$85 there, found for $65 at a local place.
http://www.bestbuybusiness.com/bbfb/en/US/adirect/bestbuy?cmd=catProductDetail&showAddButton=true&productID=BB10932236
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Assigning Hotkeys on a keyboard to
Posted: 3/5/2009 8:25:59 PM
If you do enough debating and quoting over time it will save lots of time and even some trouble as the rules here don't permit responding to other people but the content of their messages.

But the main reason I picked the new keyboard out was for the + and - volume controls. And they don't work here for some reason. When you're watching a DVD from a couch and you have to get a mouse and mouse pad and make several clicks as opposed to just a tap up or down on the volume that is a pretty big waste of time.

I just figure it's time I know how to customize my computer a little more and actually own the damn thing instead of seeming like I just rent it.

Thank You
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Resigning to Meds
Posted: 3/4/2009 11:56:53 PM
You might want to check into the Atkins diet, too. He started it for heart patients and it worked so well now a lot of the public is doing the exact same thing -- roughly mimicking a high protein diet. But they are doing it not for heart health but because so many of his patients lost a good deal of weight and stayed relatively healthy on the diet.

Fiber is the key to getting cholesterol out. That;s why cheerios advertises it but when you look at the common foods they are all whole grains with high fiber..... oats, popcorn.... and I suspect in years to come we'll see similar reports on barley and lentil and such. The cholesterol needs to bind to something fiberous to get carried out of the body.

My dad had a heart attack at 50 and his father before him. Knowing that I'm trying to be proactive at my age so hopefully I won't end up in their shoes. Keep the red meat portions small, no desserts or junkfood, and plenty of cardio. Cardio is the best natural thing any body can do for itself. Helps everything function better and fights off illness of all kind.

My dad followed the dr advice to a T and lived another 26 years! Back in his father's day they didn't have such advanced medicine so he died at 50.
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Too much tuna?
Posted: 3/4/2009 11:40:18 PM
Frankly I think you're going overboard. So be aware of that ammonia smell from your sweat which will let you know for sure you have gone overboard with ketoacidosis. If that happens stop immediately before you injure your internal organs.

But to answer your question we had a ex football player around here some time ago who swore by using eggbeaters. Read the labels. I think he opted for the ones without the cholesterol -- no yolks. He swore by just drinking 2-3 of those pints a day in addition to meals and throwing in a little broccoli. When you eat a high protein diet constipation can quickly become a factor. I recommend almonds. High in fiber, vit E, and lots of minerals. Eat 4 walnuts a day, too, for the chromium needed for weightlifters. He also swore by running a little testerone and some other illegal stuff but his pics proved he had the results.

With the egg whites you get all the protein with no chance of heavy metal toxicity.

Instead of focusing too much on one thing you might want to consider looking at one of your weakness, as in nonphysical, and strengthening that to be a more well-rounded individual. I'm not saying this to put you down but if your goal was to get more protein, through eating tuna, you could have done a couple of searches for "more protein" or "high protein diets" and run across this info yourself. You still might want to -- most of what he said is probably still on here just back a year or two.

Another great site to read and search is nih.gov.National Institute of Health. More technical but all very proven hardcore science. It will have everything that is 110 percent proven.

My favorite protein powder I just drank a shake of is dream powder available at doctorsfornutrition.org or was it com? Anyway its the best product I personally have found. I haven't tried the egg white only thing but I do make these giant 18 egg bakes with a crescent roll bottom, some pepperoni for flavor, and topped with cheese. I like it so well I'll make one and just eat a slice every morning throughout the week until its gone. Goes down a lot easier than all that other greasy breakfast food like bacon and hash browns and sausage. Almost no fat except the cheese which at least has calcium and other nutrtional benefits.
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Incredibly tender shrimp!
Posted: 3/4/2009 11:02:21 PM
I'd be really surprised if anything can improve it beyond a coating of corn starch but I will definitely try it some day.

I think the marinating and corn starch are the two most underated techniques americans thumb their noses at and I've adapted them to using them on even sunday pot roasts. They give great flavor and like searing meat seal in all the juices very well so the outside can be crunchy and the inside melt in your mouth.

I love rubbing down roasts in oyster sauce and then a bit of cornstarch. It's a very subtle change. Most guests won't even know anything asian influenced has been done to it. Served with roasted carrots and potatoes and gravy. It's just an improvement on a classic american meal.

edit: Have you tried it with baby squid and other seafood? I have a bag of mixed seafood in my freezer that I forgot what I was gonna make with it and this sounds like a good excuse to defrost it if I hadn't made a huge cheese n olive stuffed meatloaf tonight.
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Movies Worth Seeing - New Pics
Posted: 3/4/2009 10:38:44 PM
Watched Flash of Genius last night and it was the perfect movie to lull me to sleep. Maybe only more enjoyed by the more technically minded out there but it's a superb story, well told and very well acted by Greg Kinear and Lauren Graham -- wondering what she's been doing since Gilmore Girls. She's a hottie.

Yeah, I don't like Sean Penn. He dated Madonna, need I say more? I'm sure it helped his career but she comes across about as deep as Lindsay Lohan.

A little older, but even for non sports fan We Are Marshall was a really good film :up: with a lot of uplifting moments. It surprised me by liking it much more than I expected plus I got a lot of chuckles out of the 70s polyester clothing and hairdo's...
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HDTV TiVo or equivalent
Posted: 3/4/2009 10:20:38 PM

One license per computer. You have to register and activate it just like any other MS software.


So how much are extra licenses?

I'm unfamilar with how all that works because I bought this preloaded and premade. Due to severe carpal tunnel syndrome I gave up computers for a decade and a lot has happened during that time.

But if I do build another system I would like to link them. Would the VAIO link sw be good for this and since I already own one legal system an extra license shouldn't be too inexpensive... I don;t have to buy the whole sw again. I'd like to set it up for the neighbor below me.

I downloaded and used the WATCH HDTV freeware and got some of it going but there were a lot of size issues. Only one channel came out full size. I spent about 4 hours with it. Will spend more later and try to fine tune things when I have more tinkering time. CPU was maxed out to 100 percent. But maybe I could record them one day and watch another and it'd be easier on the cpu. Should I try overclocking it a bit?It is near a central air vent and I was thinking of adding in a output vent right where the computer because in summer, especially with the computer and big screen projector running this room gets hotter than the rest in the unit. Could blowing that cold of air on it intermittently hurt it? Or else just find a way to tune it down from 1080 to 720...hoping it'd be easier on the CPU and work.

Then it closed down several times. But it was encouraging to see it working somewhat. Think there is any way to dial back the HD and just see if it will work as a PVR?


Get like 4 terabyte drives, flash them for Tivo and bam you will never run out of entertainment ever... i do beleive an emulator is required. (their free google em). shoot tivo's are really simple, you could build your own for like 1/4th the price. get win 7 , 8 gigs of ram and a 4 terabyte system, and hook up soundsystem through the house, get a tv tuner (100$) and have your whole house decked out with multimedia capabilities remote. any room in your house will have access to your music/videos/net. simple networking really :p


You'd be surprised. Without using computers I wired my woodworking basement shop with full audio. The best part is with IR to RF converters I can sit in my shop and use my same remote to change CDs, DVDs, and the radio of the my stereo running two floors above it. So I have no problem doing the extended networking wiring. You know a lot but you weren't listening real well. I did google what you said but everything I saw was normal, not HIGH DEFINITION which is what this thread is supposed to be about.

There is even a see in the dark capable CCTV watching it all as a theft preventative.

My front side bus is 533 Mhz. There is 1394 Firewire and USB 2.0 and the family ethernet10/100 connection which got me wondering... is there any way to use any those to hook up a higher quality video card? I noticed a lot of the tv tuners use just the USB, which is pretty lowly data rates for input. I'm looking to do the reverse.

Maybe I will try googling for that or maybe alsolook for a hack to shut off the video card in this onboard motherboard since you seem sure once I get the right videocard on it will work.. Is that unheard of?
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Hell in a handbasket
Posted: 3/3/2009 6:53:08 AM

I dunno the more i look about these days the more it seems the sky is falling.


It only seems that way because yourhead is in the clouds.

No, it is going to get worse before it gets better.

What really has to come to a state of financial equilibrium is how this global economy is going to work for all countries. Most importantly what is our country's role in it?

Now that we, I mean Americans as a group, are 66% obese, similarly indebt, and causing huge health care crisises because most refuse to put real food into their bodies instead of preservative laden crap marketed to you like the greatest wet dream of all time.... well, America needs remedial lessons in common sense.

We need the grandmas and grandpas who went through the depressions to pop out of their graves and give us speeches about roughage and how they had to walkthrough snowstorms uphills both ways in order to get to the one room schoolhouse heating by burning cowpies.
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5 Things Women Will Never Understand
Posted: 3/3/2009 6:41:06 AM

Supermarkets are like giant booby traps for males -- which is why if you send a man out to get eggs, sugar & bread, you should not be surprised if he returns home with a case of beer, a pair of jeans & a tree.


Hey now! I like that tree!


I am embarrassed to admit that I can't even get a button on right--it falls off after I've tried to sew the dangblasted thing on. I've given up and relegated the job to my friend's mom who knows how to sew.


Boy Scouts had merit badges for next to everything. I know how to attach the special button foot to the Singer sewing machine, manually adjust the width of the stitches so it goes in the holes without scratching or hitting the button, then letting the machine rip! I've fastened them so well with so much thread there was barely enough play to get the buttonholed material around it! More power. Grunt.
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The most imprisoned nation on earth
Posted: 3/3/2009 6:29:36 AM

Some super-patriot please explain to me how you can reconcile this with the ridiculous claim that this is the "freest country in the world," especially given the fact that 70% of all prison inmates are incarcerated for victimless "crimes" (i.e. nonviolent drug "offenses.")


The more freedom the more tempting crime is. But we clearly do it because it makes money for society, that's why the "victimless" crimes make sense because they make jobs and $$$ for more bloated government. It costs more to keep a man in prison than it does to send him to an ivy league college last I heard. So why not?

Really we're an ultra military country and people don't see that their ipods, their cellphones, their video devices were all shootoffs of military technology. It started their and we get the consumer spinoffs. GPS's for fishing. I will bet this does not even beginn to dawn on most young people where and why these devices started originally and what the need for them was. People laugh at even night goggles these days!

We are such a militarily superior country that when we have parades we are one of few countries that do not show off our latest high tech fighting machines repeatedly like Russia, Korea, China, and a lot of other countries do. Because it's important for us not to look like that even while we're doing extraordinary rendition. We're ashamed. Or at least we don't want to appear as miltaristic as we are. Did you know we have almost 70 different law enforcement agencies?

I wonder how that compares to other countries? When is enough enough?

We are very much a dog eat dog society. Empathy is not encouraged. We think in militaristic terms -- me or you, us or them. In the end its only round n round. A power game. It matters who can be in power to make the others subserviant.
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Assigning Hotkeys on a keyboard to
Posted: 3/3/2009 4:51:23 AM
Obviously I had to spell it wrong or it'd never show.

All I want to do is not have to type or copy and paste these " [qoute] [/qoute] " all the time.I know I can use the mouse but I'm not so much of a mouse person, I'm a faster typer than going back and forth from the keyboard to the mouse to click and paste. So I tried three things so far:

1) typing that in to the hot key #1 assignment but it appears it will only let me do file names and such

2) so I went into notepad, made a file and typed those in, saved it as hot key #1 but instead of printing it in the forum box it reopened the file in notepad again.

3) searching the MS website and searches in general.

Why does this seem so easy in theory yet so hard to accomplish in real life?

Can anyone tell me how to get this keyboard to do this? I have no problem getting into the keyboard controls and the reassigning part. And I never think to do this kind of stuff while its under the 90 day warranty, of course.

I did update it. Tried resetting back to regular settings. Also the mute works but not the volume up and down. Two other options I really miss from my wired keyboard. Thank you.
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Streetlights - Neighborhood Security -- Taxes ??
Posted: 3/3/2009 3:49:57 AM

Nine LED streetlights to undergo year-long test in US suburb
16 Sep 2008
Xcel Energy has installed prototype LED streetlights in a neighborhood in Brooklyn Park, MN, to test their ability to survive harsh weather, provide adequate light, and please the residents.

LED streetlight installation
Nine LED streetlights have been erected as prototypes in Brooklyn Park, Minnesota, near Minneapolis, by Xcel Energy, a Midwest energy supplier. This is the company’s first test of LED streetlights in a residential area.
The 26-foot-high streetlights were manufactured by Relume Technologies and distributed by Mountain State Lighting.

“As part of a pilot project, we’re testing them for a year to see how they perform in all weather conditions. And around here, they’ll face some pretty difficult weather conditions,” said Patty Nystuen, spokesperson at Xcel Energy.

In addition, the LED streetlights will be tested for light output and clarity. Xcel Energy also plans to gather public comment about the new lights.

“[LED] is the way of the future. It’s the new technology that’s coming along. There are a lot of advantages, including energy savings. Also, not as much light pollution seems to be a big advantage,” Nystuen said. “One of the big elements of the test will be to see how people like them. It doesn’t come in your bedroom window quite the same way.”

With operations in 8 Western and Midwestern states, Xcel Energy provides services to 3.2 million electricity customers.



http://www.ledsmagazine.com/news/5/9/20

6 months ago, just like I said.


We have good, upscale communities, fairly new housing developments, in Michigan ,
with High Taxes that just don't have streetlights and the homeowners won't pay for them.


I still don't get that. Around here they would tack it on like sewer. Even the sewer bill includes a fee for curbside recycling -- NON OPTIONAL. How dumb is that? So often now less people recycle and bring their cans in themselves just to help pay for that extra couple dollar hit every month. Gov in action.
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Psychopath encourages online suicide
Posted: 3/3/2009 3:34:14 AM
Oh, we get them on here. It's deplorable to see some one bullied when they are at their all time lowest or even judged then. We don't know what that person is usually like. Circumstances and lack of knowing certain good coping mechanisms can mean the difference between light and dark in their individual world.

On the flipside there are a lot of people out there who just want to excercise power just for the rush it gives them so they twist these already pretzeled people beyond their breaking point. They're crying out for help, too, albeit in a totally different ultra aggressive fashion.
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Roger Daltrey
Posted: 3/3/2009 3:24:55 AM
I've got their "At Kilburn 1977" DVD playing right now in the background.

Even though entwistle died they're music will last forever in my heart. I saw Roger Daltrey with a symphony back at our MN State Fair some years ago and it was a magical moment because I had good close, up front center seats and just as he was leaning his head back howling out that last note the first firework seemed to shoot forth from the top of his head!

The alignment was that perfect. And it was so unexpected it made the rush even better!
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Movies Worth Seeing - New Pics
Posted: 3/3/2009 3:20:04 AM
"U Turn" left me with a similar impression. As an actor I never liked Sean Penn for some reason I could never put my finger on but he did great in this one. He does play the perfect weasel screwball greasy haired punk.

Got "We are Marshall" coming next, looking forward to that one.
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Artificial Activities
Posted: 3/3/2009 3:08:32 AM

This is not an adequate reason to watch television.


Do I have to spell it out for you? Sure it is, IF YOU ARE EDUCATING yourself. Besides unlike newspapers and magazines TV content is free. It also does a much better job at getting into places I could not. Even if I travel to washington DC I won't be able to get inall those rooms the specials photograph so well in such crisp detail.

Ditto with air force one.
Ditto with the bottom of the sea.
Ditto with from outter space.
Ditto with being at the heart of an atom smasher.
Or the biosphere. Or any number of great scientific achievements covered so well.

In many cases you just could not go there. So if one has an interest in the topic they it is plenty adequate to watch TV.


You can't MAKE college out to be anything than what it is: "artificial". Didn't you learn anything from my essay? That is WHY some students become depressed and unfulfilled because they have to simply PICK their paths in life instead of creating them, that is, in fact, quite depressing and tragic. And no thanks, i'll pass on that recommended piece.


Congratulations on being a Nihilist. You have found the secret prize but what has it won you? A useless philosophy, and you're far fromt the first one to argue it.


So in conclusion our individual liberty is null and void due to these activities laid out for us and our creativity cannot be fulfilled, only used for production. Further pursuit of such activities will most certainly render us more mechanic and deepen the void inside of us, propelling us to compensate for it by finding more artificial activities to engross ourselves into.


Right now this Billy Joel song is coming to mind. Ever hear "Captain Jack"? It really resonates with the tone of your posts in this thread.

Full song lyrics here:
http://www.metrolyrics.com/captain-jack-lyrics-billy-joel.html

"And if you can't understand why your world is so dead,
why you've got to keep in style and feed your head
Well you're 21 and still your mother makes your bed,
And that's too long "

I dunno, it just resonated with a lot of what you are saying. The world and your experiences in it is what you make it, not some essay. Like I said in another thread not so long ago "Argue for your limitations and they are yours. " Richard Bach

You've got freewill, why argue to us that you're not using it?
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Foreclosures/evictions
Posted: 3/1/2009 6:36:43 PM

Sub-prime mortgages are actually illegal in Canada and we have also tightened the guidelines that regulate home buying/selling, mortgages and a limit to the interest rate any finanical institution charges for whatever they are selling.


They were not legal here before Clinton's administration.

And now we are so surprised both the housing and banking industries are claiming such big losses.

Never heard of that 5 day thing in THIS state. Worst thing happening is people breaking into shut down homes and having fires. City can't keep up with reboarding them up. Some asphixiations from heaters. In this state renters can pay directly to the mortage or even gas/electrical companies and keep their services working. They can negotiate deals without the property owner.

We had a family of 5 die due to jimmyrigging heating almost as soon as winter began...like 6 months ago. Sad. Sounded like a good single parent dad and four kids. Another mom accidentally killed her kids leaving them in the SUV running in the garage, door down. She was foreign and apparently had never heard of carbon monoxide poisoning deaths.

Just yesterday I was walking between bus stops and on a house with a real estate sign I saw a huge 8 foot long ice puddle forming at the side of the house. I didn't know who to call but I could still hear it hissing and leaking away. After looking a few more seconds I could see a faint stream of water spraying out. That is one of the biggest problems in this state and now they require shutting the water off at the curb, which is long and involved and more costly, because banks don't even want to pay heat on the empty houses during the winter. I'm surprised the neighbors living right next door hasn't noticed and called... the ice puddle was almost reaching their house.
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Psychopath encourages online suicide
Posted: 3/1/2009 6:05:23 PM

Just because the "mainstream" news is saying it, doesn't make it true.


http://www.news.com.au/story/0,27574,25006101-401,00.html


A WOMAN suspected of recruiting more than 80 female suicide bombers has confessed to organising their rapes so she could later convince them that martyrdom was the only way to escape the shame.

Samira Jassam, 51, was arrested by Iraqi police and confessed to recruiting the women and orchestrating dozens of attacks.

In a video confession, she explained how she had mentally prepared the women for martyrdom operations, passed them on to terrorists who provided explosives, and then took the bombers to their targets.



http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/7869570.stm

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/02/03/iraq-arrests-female-suici_n_163505.html

http://www.longwarjournal.org/archives/2009/02/female_suicide_bombe_1.php

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/iraq/article4426139.ece


Love, blackmail and rape – how al-Qaeda grooms women as ‘perfect weapons’Deborah Haynes in Baladruz, Diyala
Read Deborah Haynes's blog: Inside Iraq

A woman pretending to be pregnant walks up to a hospital in one of Iraq’s most dangerous regions and blows herself up.

Minutes later a man, also laden with explosives, attacks the rescue workers who rushed to the scene in Diyala province, north of Baghdad. Thirty-two people are killed and 52 wounded.

The co-ordinated bombings that ripped through the town of Baladruz in May are one of twelve attacks involving thirteen women suicide bombers to strike Diyala so far this year – a huge jump, signalling a new tactic by insurgents. US officials suspect that al-Qaeda has built a network of cells that recruit women and turn them into killers.

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Women are the perfect weapon in a country where it is frowned upon culturally for a man even to approach a woman without her husband or father in tow, let alone frisk her for weapons at one of the many checkpoints that are the bombers’ favourite targets. In addition, it is easy to hide a vest packed with explosives under the traditional Islamic robes worn by women in Iraq without drawing suspicion.

In total, there have been 24 attacks involving women suicide bombers since January, including four on Monday in Baghdad and the northern city of Kirkuk that left scores dead. Al-Qaeda is “a very adaptive enemy”, a US Special Forces captain based in Diyala said. “They will try to use whatever works best for them to attempt to exploit whatever political or cultural restrictions we have.”



http://www.brisbanetimes.com.au/articles/2009/02/04/1233423264406.html

http://atheistnews.blogs.fi/2009/02/05/iraq-s-female-bomber-recruiter-may-have-used-rape-as-recruiting-tool-5516077/

Yeah, I guess none of those reporters know the difference between their anus and a hole in the ground.
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Artificial Activities
Posted: 3/1/2009 5:03:13 PM

Other forms of artificial activities i omit from my life such as "television, radio and video games" as these are the most senseless.


Since people have to make a living, get to and from work, these may not be artificial activities. If you're in a car there is not a whole lot you can legally do these days beyond listen to a mp3/CD or radio. Most people spend at least an hour of their day doing this, some 3-4 times that.

TV is all dependent on your taste. You can educate yourself pretty well through good TV programming these days. You can certainly keep up on current events.

And yeah, even forums may be somewhat artificial but can you imagine the airline bill for us all to get together in one place at the same time?

Even high paid specialty surgeons have been known to have radios and even TVs going during the ER. Hopefully it is just prior to the patient getting in and going under, but they are doing it.

There are a lot of people who avoid that third from your last paragraph completely and go no where, too. They find other people fascinating and are forever hanging out all their lives and never make much of themselves.

Conversely college is not what people make it out to be. Some of the most hugely depressed people are college grads who gave loads of money to ensure their future success and end up working jobs that pay twice minimum wage with a boatload of debt on their back. Society has taught them they will "make it" and they feel like huge failures. Cehck out John Stossel's "Is college really worth it?:

http://video.google.com/videosearch?q=John+Stossel&emb=0&aq=f#q=John+Stossel+college&emb=0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nl_24uSPedM

So if you take that trivial activity, like watching TV a couple of steps forward to an electrical installer you can end up being paid more than the national average. So then how much of an artificial activity is it since it's paying your bills, transportation, heat, food, etc...etc
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Things happen for a reason...
Posted: 3/1/2009 4:01:21 PM
Happy Birthday! What a special place you've created here, Marcus. Kudos to the mods for keeping the place up as well as they do, too. They have a lot of patience.
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Value System?
Posted: 3/1/2009 3:48:15 PM

So all the rituals are thoughtless ??---someone coerced all the other to join in the rituals for fear of being left out.
Religion is all about belonging to group without having to think,
--letting others think for you, like sheep.



Not at all, it's not about not thinking. It is about what this thread is talking about. Like generally when I meet another lutheran who was raised lutheran I know they aspire to similar values. It's the familarity, which is to some degree comfortable. It was comfortable this winter to go into a church I had never been inside before, participate in Holy Communion, and hear a sermon that was so much like my childhood that I could in my own mind's eye/imagination see & hear my grandpa reading the same scriptures. The pastor describing details down to even the same SMELLS!

There is a sense of security, of warmth, of familairity within that. And I have felt that all across the country, in various churches. It does not detract from my ability to think on my own. It adds to my personal strength, not detract from it.

Nor does it mean ALL lutherans will be that way. As I went on a group hike in the mountains with lutherans I did not know and when I got hot and took off my shirt this pastor quickly whipped out his camera and started taking pictures of me. His own wife tried to encourage me to go skinny dipping!

This doesn't mean I am so brainwashed I don't avoid the fruits in the group. I can still think on my feet. I kept away from him thereafter, I split from the group and hiked back down the mountain alone. Nor did I let it rattle me. I took time later to care for myself by taking off my boots and cool my near blistering feet in the very cold glacial stream coming down from the Cascade Mountains.

That evening's sermon he gave a speech based on a few things I have told him about tree identification. I found that more than a little creepy that he chose, of all tree ID examples I spoke with him about, the one leaf that resembles a heart. Know which one that is? Obviously it had extremely different meaning to him and me. Me -- I'm a woodworker. I like to know how to identify certain trees by leaf pattern...etc, for that. A good woodworker knows knowing the species will help the techniques in what project you are working on.

Another night I came back from a late night sauna and on the porch through the windows to the common area I could see him on his laptop looking at pictures of topless guys. When I walked in he shut the screen down so quick and was as rattled as if he had been looking at porn. I said nothing and went to my own room.

Moral of the two stories: There is good and bad in everything. Even if you belong to a religious group. Or like me, occasionally just associating with one, you still have to think on your feet. You still have to be prepared. Religion does not make you a sheep. It's ashame you can't see the potential strength in that. Really how is this any different from your word you might have given a survival buddy on one of your extreme outdoor adventures? Some go by their word, some don't. Those who don't you cut off.
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Psychopath encourages online suicide
Posted: 3/1/2009 3:13:15 PM
It's not just here. Lately there have been more details into the suicide bombings happening in the middle east and here's what they will do:

Arrange a gang rape of a woman. BTW, the leader was a woman, then she'd pretend to here of the gang rape and convince the raped woman she is worth nothing -- unable to get a husband for lack of virginity...etc...etc... prey on her low self esteem. Then convince her the solution to this is to strap on a suicide bomber's vest and go do the deed.

I can only begin to imagine at the intelligence it took to find this out but it's been on mainstream news. You'll probably hear more of it in the coming year.
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StreetLights - Neighborhood Security -- Taxes ??
Posted: 3/1/2009 3:06:21 PM
Are those the kind of ones built by developers where every house looks exactly alike and the whole area is the same? Some of those might be able to get out of code with a loophole, or maybe even a gated community with their own security services. But otherwise I would think that would be against current housing codes.

Even the streetlights in the country I was talking about came in maybe late 80s, early 90s.
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If you meet Buddha on the road kill him?
Posted: 3/1/2009 2:52:46 PM
Loosely speaking I would say it's gaining and/or recognizing a skill.

Buddhism translates poorly.

The buddha is a part of yourself and by "killing" him you are making the effort needed to integrate that which he represents into yourself, thus gaining a skill or knowledge or wisdom or whatever it choses to represent.
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What is OLD?
Posted: 3/1/2009 2:39:58 PM
OP, talk about the wall of text

I think you answered your own question somewhere in there. Attitude, it's all in the mind's outlook.

The famous talk show host Jack Paar was on several specials lately and interviews to do with a new movie and he says he still feels like a 21 year old in an aging body. I could instantly relate to that.
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Value System?
Posted: 3/1/2009 2:30:51 PM

Values can be changed easily if you are conscious of them and wish to create different results in your life.


But then how long must one hold a belief for it to be called a value?

Or is there no value beyond perception of what is good for that individual at the moment?


Religion is nothing more than a way of thinking.
It is used to manipulate, control, and define illicit acts among a group of people.


It's a lot more than that. It's a subculture of a populace complete with rituals. Interesting you add "definite illicit acts among a group of people", I've never heard that one before. Is that what concerns you so much about being perceived as being connected to a religion? Even atheism these days is considered a religion, it has simply expanded the definition of religion to include a subset of beliefs that may include one god, many, or even none.
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StreetLights - Neighborhood Security -- Taxes ??
Posted: 3/1/2009 2:03:16 PM
So what is the question with Taxes?

Orange lights you don't like are called HPS. High Pressure Sodium and good ones are even more efficient than some of the lower end white LEDs. Plus they are designed to burn over 100 times longer than an average bulb. You know how often light crews would be changing lights otherwise? Try nightly.

FWIW my city has just started adding LED streetlights. About 6 months ago it made the TV news when they added the first one. While they're good colors are still not what you're used to with average lighting. And even the white LED lights vary from warm to cold.

They also have a tendency to vary just directly under them with very little dispersion to yards and bushes where a burglar might hide.

Never heard of a neighborhood without streetlights -- where is that ?

When I was a kid we had both. In the city, lights. Out in the country no lights no pavement roads. The milky way galaxy was a site to see! And I used to lay on the dock and watch for shooting stars. There are many more than you think, even nightly. Dad also taught me to recognize our satellites in space because they will reflect all our earth's light pollution and they move in opposite or opposing directions as the rest of the stars so with some patient and mental skymapping they are not that hard to find.

BTW, if you watch shows like this old house the gas lights are coming back. Now they're autolighting and with light sensors. More of the old becoming new and trendy again. You will see them on million dollar plus homes. In this age of brownouts and rolling power shortages it's even made me consider putting in one inside my place just for an emergency backup. But I got a manual powered one instead.

Legally I wonder how these areas would get away with no streetlights. Sounds to me like it would be against code. Around here there are 6-7 streetlights on every block. 4 in front, 2 or 3 more in the alleys.

And from reading the crime reports the crime happens on the most well lit streets but I think that is a false correlary -- they are also the most busy so for thieves they have the highest concentrations of potential victims. Many of them happen just a block or two from the local police station -- How's that for irony?
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Aquarium blames flooding on curious octopus
Posted: 2/28/2009 10:39:07 PM
Octopus are hunters and incredible ones at that. Watch the video "Colorful Cephalopods" and you'll see some amazing hunting, including an octopus climbing out of its tank and going across the lab to another tank to eat the fish, then back to its tank.

Scientists never believed it until they video taped it after hours.

Maybe the octopus did get something extra to eat out of the flooding. I'd wonder if every last creature is accounted for.

Definitely check this one out:
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-7004909622962894202&hl=en


This one is kind of cool, too:
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=4007016107763801953&hl=en
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Anyone here like to talk about films?!
Posted: 2/28/2009 10:33:50 PM

I know this is digging from the grave, but I am a movie buff too. Not so much mainstream movies though.


Nothing wrong with digging up old threads providing you have something to add. I am always looking for less hollywood movies to rent so I rent a lot of the sundance winners or nominated. Share some of your hopefully unheard of favs!

Eagle Eye was probably the best action movie I rented recently.

Slumdog millionaire didn't impress me as much as all the noise about this flick. I mean it was good and shocking but still very normal hollywoodish predictability for the most part.

Europa Europa was a very unique film. Set in WWII

Heist was also an unexpected pleasure. Simple and Gene Hackman always delivers a good performance. This could have been a B&W movie, almost.

In general there is a new market which is often more fulfilling than the mainstream. Movies that go straight to DVD or made for DVD. They don't spend/waste the money on advertising so they cost less to make overall. They know these films are not usually mainstream but often plenty of people like them so they make a bigger profit margin, dollar for dollar, than the big box office hits. Harvey Weinstein and Miramax seem to be leading this small scale revolution. I find a lot of the most satisfying movies in this catagory.
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Windows 7 Set to Ship in Late September – Early October
Posted: 2/28/2009 10:12:21 PM
Will they have a MCE version that will support HDTV content?

I think you're right about timing. Lot of people beefing about vista and yet their website still says its "ideal for laptops".... yeah, right if you want to run 5 gallons of water through a straw.

Which is always why the 6800 and 68000 CPU architecture was and is superior. No shared bus/memory and Address Latch Enable pulse switching them.
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Question from the NON Techie
Posted: 2/28/2009 10:05:01 PM
I'm with everyone else so far -- its not the SP 3. I just downloaded it, too, and no problems here. No video issues or monitor troubles.

Moving a computer is more likely to cause problems, this was especially true before HD's would auto park the heads.

Do a roll back when you get it going.

You should be able to power up and hit F2 or whatever and get it to roll back to an earlier restore point. If you can't it definitely isn't SP 3.
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Freewill and an omniscient being, a contradiction.
Posted: 2/28/2009 9:49:52 PM
We covered it here:

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts11738972.aspx
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Paul Harvey R.I.P.
Posted: 2/28/2009 9:40:21 PM
God, yes, and I have been wondering why he has had his son and so many other fill ins. I knew he had been doing the show from his house for years due to health reasons but never knew he was so close to death. His last few ones I heard he still sounded chipper.

Anyone who can educate and entertain at the same time is gold. I'd often tune in just for him and shut it off right after.

Did it say what he died of?

I was surprised how much his son does sound like him.
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Does taking a lot of cold medication lower your immune system?
Posted: 2/28/2009 9:06:55 PM
But if you say you're sick that is not enough. Start a daily journal of your symptoms, schedule a dr appt for a month or so out and bring in the written journal.

If he can't find anything chances are its dietary, but still a lot of minor infections are missed. You could start on a multivitamin and see if that helps. I'm still a big believer in TANG ... lot of good vitamins and minerals, water soluble, best for bioavailability

Don't go overboard. Just one halfway decent multivitamin.

Seeing you're a 30 year old woman first thing to check is iron, Vit D since you're in the northern climate. Statistics are big on those two being low for some one in your age range and sex.
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Freewill and an omniscient being, a contradiction.
Posted: 2/28/2009 8:57:19 PM
I am pretty sure we went through a thread like this within the last month here. There is no contradiction -- an omnicient being can know EVERY possible future we could, can, or will have. Which means we still have freewill.

If we didn't have this faith would not exist. Since faith is still a choice to believe in something not proveable. Clever that this omnicient being gave himself and ultimately yourself, an "out" so to speak, hunh? Maybe s/he/it isn't so dumb after all?

Now if I could just say Human the way Quark did from ST: deep space nine the message would be complete.
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Is it still good?
Posted: 2/27/2009 11:51:31 PM

What they found from the study is 90% of more than 100 drugs, both prescription and over-the-counter, were perfectly good to use even 15 years after the expiration date.


I've used meds from World War II when I was a teenager. They still worked.

But they were packed in brown glass bottles. Best way to store most things, UV breaks down plastic over time.
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Msg: 154 (view)
 
gardening
Posted: 2/27/2009 11:03:51 PM
Two feet of snow on the ground here but I still have a few basil plants alive to snip onto various dishes just to freshen them up. I think I am addicted to fresh basil. LOVE IT.

Smells so fresh in the place, too.

And since I have the most scientific method of when to harvest it I have been trying it on all sorts of things... whatever I happen tobe eating the night the leaves touch the lightbulb above THAT is what gets the basil.
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Space
Posted: 2/27/2009 10:33:43 PM
I think as best as we currently know space is the dark matter and dark energy that holds the particles that we do know about apart.

Does space have an end? Well, Columbus, you'll know when you sail off the edge of the galaxy. But you'll be greeted by lovely mermaids so it all equals out in the end.
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Artificial Activities
Posted: 2/27/2009 10:27:31 PM
If shakespeare were alive today he might speak of killing all the video gamers and the people who go to gym out of the sake of vanity rather than do some real work somewhere that might help out their property or some one elses. Probably want fashion writers and reporters dead, too.
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Whats YOUR home made shake like?
Posted: 2/27/2009 10:18:14 PM
1.5 scoops of dream protein in water. Superb stuff. Natural vanilla flavor, stevia sweetened, no sugar. That's it -- it's too good to mix with anything else.

1/2 c almonds sometime during the day. high in vit e and all sorts of minerals most americans end up defficient in sometime during their life. 80% will be short on magnesium sometime during their life. almonds are a superb source.

Check it out on doctorsfornutrition.org ... I think that's their site. Best protein powder I've found. Low temp processed, no hormones or all kinds of additives. They have other products for those who hate eating veggies. Which ain't me.
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Does taking a lot of cold medication lower your immune system?
Posted: 2/27/2009 10:11:45 PM

But I still don't get it, why am I sick all the time? I am getting so tired of being sick :(


You should get a full workup by a doctor. There are things like histoplasmosis commonly available in all soil, that can mimic a cold and keep you sick for a long long time. Much less any allergy.
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Fasting Article....but it doesnt make sense to me....
Posted: 2/27/2009 10:07:43 PM
I've never felt at my best "grazing" -- I'm not cattle.

But from observation I agree with this in those links:


Either way, the GH increase is very brief. It's at its peak immediately after exercise, is double about 15 minutes after exercise, and is back down to baseline at 30-60 minutes after exercise (2,3).
The GH release you get during the first few hours of sleep time is about a 20-fold increase in GH, while the normal GH pulses that occur during the day are between 10 and 15 fold (5). Not only are these pulses larger than the post-exercise pulse, but they last longer, too (1-3 hours).


I've noted the most benefit from drinking a protein shake right before bedtime. This is when we rebuild and kids grow. Plants grow, too.

But my two cents includes that I don't think we understanding fasting very well at all. The human has evolved over thousands of years and biosciences only seriously over the last hundred. They have just touched the surface and still don't know why we need wisdom teeth or appendix or other seemingly unneeded parts. Or why most people do fine without their gullbladder. I think there is still a lot more to be discovered with fasting.

Listen people used to go without serious meals often throughout history without serious suffering. But when they ate they ate more nutritious food than the common fare out there in most americans' diets, too. But they'd go for periods of time without meat and certain vitamins. Maybe this is why some of them became fat soluble so that we DO have the capability to store them and protect ourselves when times are low. I don't know for sure why, it's just my hunch this story of fasting is not fully complete.
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The physics of color
Posted: 2/27/2009 9:49:08 PM
It'll get none if it runs on reefer.

But the antifreeze will smell like bongwater and must be handled like a toxic substance.
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Value System?
Posted: 2/27/2009 9:40:08 PM
I've known plenty, including myself at one point in time. What's your point, my unfamilarity to atheism?

When I was having so many doubts and disbelief that on my confirmation day I announced to my pastor cleary and directly to his face that "I don't believe in God" and because I had attended all the classes and done the mandatory community service hours babysitting kids in the church nursey I was confimed despite my beliefs. So how much does all that religion reallymean?

So I was an atheist for years. But I've come back aground now. I see the bible as a great book of wisdom but I don't take it too literally, either. And for anyone who uses it to condemn another they are wrong for it clearly says we are all sinners and that is why we will leave earth. No one escapes judgement and death.

But that doesn't mean I see it as the only truth. Just as one possible route to being more enlightened. I see Buddhism the same way. Back to the classic western religions -- I just don't understand the cultural contradictions. Often, even, when the info is supposed to come from the same "bible" as lutherans and catholics and issues like birth control and abortion. Even people with the same religions can have very different value systems. A great enigma.

At some level I think it must just come right down to what we feel in our core. Each. Individually.
 
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