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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right?  cassiejay Joined: 12/30/2006 Msg: 257 (view)   Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right? Posted: 3/5/2007 3:55:34 PM it isn't soooo hard..I have found 3! Still looking for #4 lol...Nobody is perfect, as the other posters say..just have to "click" and the rest takes care of itself. If you have a list? Rip it up!  cassiejay Joined: 12/30/2006 Msg: 34 (view)   Love is NOT enough - Do you agree? Posted: 1/15/2007 6:16:18 PM I agree..it is not enough..When you try to make it enough you lose all the rest of yourself. I know. Been there. Done it. Really bad....  cassiejay Joined: 12/30/2006 Msg: 42 (view)   ...as you age ...broaden or narrow your preferences?? Posted: 1/15/2007 6:10:18 PM Preferences? Hmmmm..I kind of believe "it" just happens. At least that is how it has always been for me. I don't remember "thinking preferences." We are who we are, so we are drawn to certain personalties by nature, I think. I don't carry a clipboard and a check list. It is not always easy flying solo but I agree with the other posters who say being alone is better than settling for something you really don't feel inside. But I am reaching the conclusion that the longer you are on your own, the more difficult it seems to be to interact with other people in the same way as you once did. Is this just me? Maybe a developing case of hermititis? Anyone else out there feeling the symptons?  cassiejay Joined: 12/30/2006 Msg: 232 (view)   can we change somebody Posted: 1/15/2007 5:53:19 PM I heard Judge Judy tell someone "Trying to make him (her) change is like trying to teach a pig to sing. It will never happen and it annoys the pig.  cassiejay Joined: 12/30/2006 Msg: 41 (view)   soulmates not destine to live together..... Posted: 1/7/2007 7:01:04 PM I absolutely met my soulmate and loved him more than I ever loved any other man. There was a connection between us that words cannot explain. I was told by a spiritual reader that we were both old souls that were destined to keep breaking up and getting back together ( the gist of our relationship) until we got it right. Good theory if ya believe in that stuff. But obviously, we could not live together. We tried every which way for 7 years, including marriage, but obviously, we didn't get it right. So yes. I do believe you can love someone but not be with them. And be at peace about it. It's a funny life.  cassiejay Joined: 12/30/2006 Msg: 360 (view)   Why are older women not into younger guys??? Posted: 1/7/2007 6:33:50 PM Not all older women are not into youger guys...Between marriages I had a really nice thing going with a much younger man. I was 50 when we met..he was 36. He was a really nice man, divorced, and working hard to keep a relationship with his kids and to support them still, in every way. We saw each other off and on for 7 years, and the best part of it all was the sex. It had to end and it did, gracefully. We were on different rungs of the ladder and when he declared he was in love, it had to end. The age difference was really too much. Those 14 years matter a whole lot more as time goes on. I think that was a once in a lifetime thing for me, obviously. I want to meet someone to share the future with and he needs to be just a little closer to my own age, lol...  cassiejay Joined: 12/30/2006 Msg: 13 (view)   Emotional Baggage Posted: 1/7/2007 6:06:31 PM Hi Apollo..I can relate to what you are saying. And I have been split from my x for nearly two years! It was a bad ending. Angry and hurtful. So many things things said and so many things left unsaid. My suitcase is nearly empty now but on those rare days when I start thinking too much, it seems to get heavier. I analized too much..I what iffed myself into total confusion..I couldn't figure out "why" But you know what? It is what it is. Just let go and focus on yourself. Figure out where YOU are and what you want for the rest of your life because we are all moving forward, like it or not. Life doesn't work in reverse. If you are hurting unside, it is your hurt. If you have trust issues, well, when you meet the right person those issues will disappear. Be your own best friend because you are the one who can best help you now. If your lucky, it won't take 2 years, lol...  cassiejay Joined: 12/30/2006 Msg: 10 (view)   How do you know if the person you wish to date seriously is OVER thier EX Posted: 1/5/2007 4:17:04 PM I think it helps if they never, ever mention them???? Good things, bad things...better no things!   Show ALL Forums