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bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 53 (view)

what is love to you ? Posted: 6/18/2009 11:48:35 AM
i thinks theres many kinds of love, like the way we love our partner, our children, our pets, our fravote t.shirt. i beleive "love is a behavour not a emotion!"!

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 3/26/2009 3:17:02 PM
well the answer been staring u rite in the face, STOP PICKING THE WRONG WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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celibacy Posted: 3/26/2009 3:05:56 PM
to many people think sex is the be all and end all, if they dated and spent as much time just getting to know each other then maybe there be more decent ralationships out there, i been selibet for 7 yrs and had sex 3 times in 13yrs its not welrd at all every one to them selfs

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 68 (view)

How do you discipline an abused child? Posted: 3/26/2009 2:59:18 PM
FROM MY OWN EXPERINAE I SAY WITH LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 55 (view)

my boyfriend gives his kids everything they want Posted: 3/26/2009 2:57:25 PM
MY SONS 19YRS OLD AND I GIVE MY BOYS EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING HE WANTS, I WORK ALL THE TIME AND IM AT HIS BACK AND CALL WHEN EVER HE WANTS ME. I WOULD MOVE HEAVON AND EARTH FOR MY BOY AND HE AS EVERYTHING BUT MOST OF ALL HE AS MY UNDIVED ATTENTION AND PURE LOVE AND ALWAYS WILL

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 55 (view)

Why is hard for women to accept men with children? Posted: 3/26/2009 2:52:41 PM
a true woamn should expect ur babys to come first, i dated a man with 5 children and i EXPECTED him to put then first, please dont allow any woman not to want your children to come first, they are your babys your number one and will forever be in your lifexx

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 187 (view)

How do women feel about being involved with single Dads? Posted: 3/26/2009 2:46:32 PM
i would love to date a man with children

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 496 (view)

When dating a man who has a child, will I EVER come first? Posted: 3/26/2009 2:45:09 PM
i did date a man with 5 children and i always expected him to put his children before me, as i always would mine own son

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 67 (view)

Controlling daughters Posted: 3/26/2009 2:41:18 PM
its good to see a dad ACTUALLY put his kids first if only more dads consider his kids feelings before his girl friends then there be more happer kids

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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What have your children taught you about you? Posted: 3/26/2009 2:35:35 PM
i learned that "EARTH ANGELS" do really egist, and whilst in life life i can do anything possible with the love of my boy, also that a child lives within us all even now in adulthood, i loved theres no greater love than that of a mother

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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depression brought on by Christianity? Posted: 9/2/2008 2:16:29 PM
i think what a cruel way to bring a child, the christian are the bigest most hipicrics, they have been murdering for hundreds of years and murdered millions and millions, and to belive you have to eat sleep a load of rubbish that that really belive that hundreds of years ago someone wrote, no sex before marriage only marry one of themselfs, so you belive in adam and eve, well tell me please if adam and eve had 2 children kain and able then as we are meant to have come them them 2 that would mean she also had a daugther and insest was then committed, also what about that miss mandlein woman truth was she was a prostitue to jeuse, also if mary was a virgin and god is all love then why asnt that happened again, you also beive jesue risen from the dead yet christains ive meet dont believe in ghost.

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 38 (view)

Buddhism and Relationships Posted: 9/2/2008 2:05:00 PM
buddhism is not a religion, it never as been , its a way of life

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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I feel Cursed Posted: 9/2/2008 1:59:53 PM
well said thats so true

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 26 (view)

What are your joys of parenting? Posted: 9/2/2008 1:55:52 PM
EVERYTHING i wouldnt change a thing, i lost my mum whom i nursed for months from cancer and my boy show her till she died i couldnt get out of my head the fact when i thought about my grandad whom passed from cancer i rmembered him thin, lifwlwss and in pain same as my mum, my boy choose to se her in the chapel of rest and when he come home he said mum dont think of grandma like she was when she died she looked asleep , my boy as pulled me throught lossing my dad mum and brother also to cancer with 18days apart, he makes me smile and cry worry and not sleep when he out hes my life my joy my everything i wished i been blessed with more children,

bigcutecuddly

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Msg: 44 (view)

12 year old that hates her father Posted: 9/2/2008 1:47:49 PM
this comes from my own experiance as a child same as your daugther my father was the same and when i hit 11 i disliked behond words as i blamed him for leaving me i thouht he didnt love me she probably feels like i did

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 109 (view)

Do ladies mind dating a single dad? Posted: 9/2/2008 1:38:15 PM
all women are differant, i would as i love children and to me a man with children understands more

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 43 (view)

Would Woman Date Someone In A Wheelchair? Posted: 9/2/2008 1:35:11 PM
only shallow minded women would see the wheelchair and not the man sat in it, my brother was in a wheelchair and is was the best kind hearted guy i know he was clever, and very understanding, god bless him

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 65 (view)

Girls, how do I say it with out getting attacked? Posted: 9/2/2008 11:48:57 AM
i'd never feel affended by them words as i am large but ive spent many years on myself learning that i have have very good quauilty and all men have differant taste some like big some like thin some like stickinsects, ive been there done that i was a size 8s i didnt choose to become big as i now understand all the nasty eveil judgement out there is not what makes me, "its other peoples options that make us not love ourselfs", I shut myself away for years because i wanted to be slim again so people wouldnt judge me, but now i see me i see if i choose to fit in be like others expect then my son wouldnt have a mum, i take stroids i dont want to and i could be a size 8 if i didnt but the stariods are what keeps me alive due to a illness i have, big fat thin so what

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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Am I Right or Wrong? Posted: 9/2/2008 11:38:50 AM
all i can say is that your a true gentleman and that she needs work work on her life if she thinks sex is the be all and end all and that how to get a man poor woman

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 104 (view)

Would you date a guy that believed in UFO's Posted: 9/2/2008 11:35:53 AM
no i find it very intresting and tells me that he can belive in other things that may be out there, it dont make me think youd be crazy

bigcutecuddly

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Why All The Questions About Possessions? Posted: 9/2/2008 11:33:44 AM
I AGREE ITS ALL ABOUT WANT WANT WANT

bigcutecuddly

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Msg: 55 (view)

Why all these hot chicky's writing a few extra pounds in profile? Posted: 9/2/2008 11:28:39 AM
if every1 as differant taste then could you be so kind as to tell me what PERFECT really is, as a very wise woman i can say theres no such word as buety is in the eye of the beholder and is only skin deep, too many guys want stick inscets for a partner never mind whats inside, at the end of the day you cant make conversation with a body. PERFECT donest egist

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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Is not having a releationship in the past 3 years a bad thing? Posted: 9/2/2008 11:19:23 AM
what you want comes from within not from another person, being content with yourself and hapy is the first thing and "were in time is now? 3 years ten years its only time, time is a man thing thing it means nothing at all i been single 12years and it seems only yesterday i was with my partner, then i think of things from only 2 or 3 yrs ago and it feels like 20 yrs ago time is nothing!!!!!!!

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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wearing your heart on your sleeve, good or bad? Posted: 9/2/2008 11:14:11 AM
to many peole wine about what they want and not what they have, each woman is differant so do want want want so are just with what they have

bigcutecuddly

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How do you live on your own when you do not like that person? Posted: 9/2/2008 11:10:14 AM
you talk a lot of sense, its a very good thing you have stepped back and realsied what you have been allowing to happen to you, thats a good thing, im telling you one of the greatset acthivments in life is being one, if you can be alone you need noone, you are born alone and die alone, ive been single 12years and from a very long ralationship from a young girl to a young woman i'd forgotten whom i was, what i was about, my likes, dislikes and what I wanted from life. I cant understand whay people think its so bad to be alone, im telling you ive learnt so much about life and ive become very spirtual and been on a spirtual path since i been alone, but are we every truly alone NO!!!!! you will learn so much about your self, peole like me know more about themself because we spend time withus

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 212 (view)

bucks nights and strippers Posted: 9/2/2008 10:56:47 AM
1st i think the word hate is very deep and only a jelouse angry person would use such a word and then i ask why? whay would you be able to judge then strippers, you dont know then, so what they take thier clothes off and get paid , these girls/guys are just as good as every1 else, all i ever hear is women nagging on about there bodys and how they would love to love thier bodys so stripper do just thats, dont we come into this world naked,

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 211 (view)

bucks nights and strippers Posted: 9/2/2008 10:52:54 AM
people have this persection of the word love, if he loves me why would he want to go to a strip club i detect a hint of jelousely there which isnt what a ralationship will survie with, its time to worry when your man wants to watch striper men not girls, its buety there to be admired, isnt it meant a man taakes pleasure in the oppasite sex, come on allow the guys to window shop as long as they dont touch. you seem to forget men are differant from us they do want excitment id allow my man to do what he wants as im not this keeper nor i dont own him same gos for if i wanted to go to a strip mens club if theres trust id allow my man in a room full of naked women no duet

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 220 (view)

Would you open you marriage to save it? Posted: 9/2/2008 10:45:03 AM
i think to many people listen to others, so what do what makes you happy never mind other people options its your life and others shouldnt matter as long as noone is being hurt

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 389 (view)

What did YOU do wrong in your last relationship? Posted: 9/2/2008 10:33:46 AM
its not that i did anything wrong as this is a classroom and we are all her to learn from all the many teachers we meet in our lifes, people come into our lifes for a REASON, SEASON or LIFETIME, the fact that everyone is in control of thier own lives and you CHOOSE to be dealt them cards. so the fact is I never stopped to see what i was CHOOSING to be DEALT and i contiued for many years allowing my sons dad back into my life each time he cheated i allowed to forgive but never forget when I should have choosen to never go back .i cant say I wasted many years as then that would be saying i regreated them years were if i wouldnt have go through that i would be here,i wanted have and i wouldnt be the wiser, stronger more spirtual person i am today so i have his cheating to thank and my not choosing right to thank

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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Is there a ,,right age to become a mother? Posted: 9/2/2008 10:18:44 AM
I don't beleive there is a right age as i know woman in there 30s with children and i wouldnt allow then to sit my dog let alone children then i know girls young mums and sre wounderfull mothers, as for waiting for the right man well i was 14 when i met my first boyfrend and everything was wounderfull we had fun then got jobs then got a house then engaged and we were inseprable, we loved each other and had nice things and quality time together then i feel pregant at the age of 18 i was a full time mother, wife and worked damm hard we both belevied we would be together forever then when i was 28 things changed, we changed, to was in love with him but the grass so he thought was greener on the other side, if you love something set it free, so I did which broke my heart but thats lifes yes i cryed i didnt eat all the uasule stuff of a broken heart, but i had the most presuoise gift my son, hes now nearly 19 and i swore hes my whole life, he as nice things, good hoildays and we are close and i wouldnt change my life for anything, i was and am a very very good mother and i was young i have a sister very very edacated very well off and become a mum at the age of 38 and she as no time for her daugther, she as had a nanntake care of her and asks me how i did it . i do because no matter what age you are if you breath everyday only because your lifes so wounderfull because you have a child

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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what can i do? Posted: 8/29/2008 7:37:00 PM
the no good for you to me i smell a cheat, a ralationship is meant to be both parnters in it, both wanting commitment, everything in lifes a lesson and stand back and analise this situation and what youve got from your marraige its not all bad and your children i feel for you and hope you can solve this, lifes a great lesson and everyone one meet are our teachers!!!!!

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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Jehovah's Witnesses Posted: 8/29/2008 5:53:41 PM
children are the most presouse gift as a parent i would lay my life down for my son and it sadens and makes mehat jw would actully allow there children to die if for what evr reason if they needed a blood transfustion all because someone if rue hundreds of years ago wrote some bullsxit in a book and called it a bible

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 83 (view)

A guy in a old crappy car ? Posted: 8/29/2008 5:45:16 PM
so what you drive a old car, people are to judgementel today a book shouldnt be judgeded by its cover

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 61 (view)

what do you do if your child is getting bullied and the school wont help Posted: 8/17/2008 5:35:09 PM
i know what you mean my son attened a very well respected school, hes always been very clever and at the age of 6yrs he had a reading age of 9, thats the same in all his work, i noticed my confident boy begin to be very withdrawn, nasty and refuse to go to school were he had always loved he even wanted to go at weekend he loved school, it took many tears and much heart ache from both me and my son before he finally spoke to me and told me what was happening, i as you did went to see the head and boy how dear she,,,she made me out to be stupid and insisted that her school had no such thing going on, bulling didnt happen in her school, so i approuched the kids mother and nicly expected what her son was doing well i know then he was geting from her as she well i cant say the words she said on here so what to do next, i to my son to play his game back, and finally after 3month my son gained the strenth to give him back his own medicine, yes two wrongs dont make a rite but in this case it did, that kid never touched my son ever again

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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If kids come first, are you willing to come second? Posted: 8/17/2008 5:23:03 PM
sorry i dont agree i was a total spoilt kid even in my 30s i was my mother baby, now my sons 18yrs old and as always had the best tiys, cloths and scholing and still now as everything, hes had hoildays all over the world had a brand new moped on his 16th had on his 14th birthday his dream trip to new ork were we sayed in the best hotel and in all he had 5grand that birthday his 18 he had the car of his dreams parked out, BUT ive always made sure he knows material things are just there because hes a lucky boy its all the things like RESPECT for others, GOOD manners and treating other the way you expect to be treated your self, ive been a single mum since he was 7yrs old and hes now a very well mannered young man with 10 GCSE and 2 degrees behind him, he repects people and is a popular lad, we are very good friends and still close he confindes in me but still knows his boundries that AM the boss am his mom! to many messed up kids out there today and it all boils down to parents thinking that as soon as a kid can wipe his own butt thats their job done, being able to hug my son and say I LOVE be safe every time he leaves is the most speail thing

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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If kids come first, are you willing to come second? Posted: 8/17/2008 5:10:42 PM
my son as and always will come before anyone man anything my son is my baby always and ralationships come and go but my child is my boy for ever, his needs wants and everything in between some would say them i be single all my life so be it i know whom i truly am and need noone, ive been single since 1997 because I CHOOSE to deadicate my life to my child whats so wrong in that, yes the other person should come second

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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Anyone here wanting schoold to start TOMORROW!!! Posted: 8/17/2008 4:49:24 PM
you will soon change your mind as before you know it they will have thier own lifes and you will become a part time need! trust me my sons 18yrs and all his life ive worked so time together was speail i then said them words and now hes a young man partying, dating and well youve been 18, parenst are back seat drivers and boy if only i could turn the clocks back id give so much to have time a baby and do it all again

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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Only child... guilt? Posted: 8/17/2008 4:43:30 PM
no it dont matter the age gap i have a brother thats 6yrs gap and sister thats a 13yr gap and i dont get on with any of them never did as a child. i have a cousin with a 17yrs old son and she just had a baby who is now 10month and hes adores his baby brother

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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Why do men only get visitation??? Posted: 8/17/2008 4:35:37 PM
i fully agree it took both male and female to make that child so why do most of the time woman get the say ITS WRONG give true dads more say

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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full-time single dads Posted: 8/17/2008 4:29:06 PM
our children are the most important thing in our lifes, i know single mums that wouldnt date single dads but expect them to expect thier child shallow i know, so not all single mums understand, i myself would repest a single dad more, as for men that dont see thier child well that says it all, good luck and well done AS when your work as done and your children grow and lead there own life you can stand tall knowing what a wounderfull job all you guys have done!

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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Paternal Instinct? non custodial dads Posted: 8/17/2008 4:22:30 PM
here here! my son feel 34foot through a glass sky light his father was called by the poilce as my boy was trapped in the building and unconciouse on the ground when the fire man climb the roof to see were he was my x told the police he wasnt in yet it was him that anwered the fone, because his family have money and are well know in the town everyone pursumes he a perfect dad, wrong its been me and me alone thats 25-7 been with my son, its amazing what people think about the rich, i think if they wanted to be there they would!

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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My beef about PART TIME dads who identify as SINGLE dads Posted: 8/17/2008 4:15:30 PM
this subject swings both ways, some dads want to be fathers (any man can father a child but it takes a real man to be a DAD), same with mums. there are many men out there whom have free access but having a life of partying and women come first and with mums i guess, my sons FAHER was given free acess and choose to see my son every blue moon, now my sons 18 and now sees its not me it was his ather that didnt want to see him. at least our childern know who the 1 im there lifes thats a true parent i say good luck to all the single moms and dads

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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Dead beat mothers....yes mothers Posted: 8/17/2008 4:02:18 PM
havin been a kid whom had a dead beat dad and now a mum with a son and a dead beat dad even now at 36 my life time exeriances as much as a waste of space my father was i still wanted him and to know my whole self were am from i needed him now i become a mum myself and yes same as now its my sons turn but the best as my mum did i now do i still allow my son to CHOOSE to see his father , i would have blamed my mum if she denied me of the asss of a father so would my boy now he see through his own eyes and chooses to not see him as hes knows its me thats the one like you mom, dad and everything inbetween, just because we become a mom or dad doesent mean we are ready, you carry on doing your job its so pleaseing to hear a father doesnt walk out good luck and well done

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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Young parent. Good or bad? Posted: 8/17/2008 3:53:28 PM
why is it that most of the people today day have to be in a ralationship? the best thing in life is being alone once you can handle that you can do anything, why is it most of you done feel whole in less with a parnter the most rewarding thing is being one, too many of you theses days are to bothered about what you want in stead of what you have now! people dont know them true slefs because they spend to much time in messed up ralationships! what so wrong about being single spend time a your self work on whom you are and what you truley want and what sxxt you expected to be put througth on your last ralationship, turn bad exeriances into ggo its a classroom and we are learning every day you just have to undersatnd "You Choose what you are delt in life and your in charge of your own destiny"...all good things come to hose whom wait!

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 32 (view)

Why Do Women Say Perfer Not To Say In the Wanting Children Box? Posted: 7/4/2007 2:10:32 PM
well i put perfer not to as as it because i cant have children,,, its said for all reasons

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 171 (view)

What is it with women & animals? Posted: 7/4/2007 2:04:36 PM
please tell me you dont have a ferret,, thats why this world is so dam cruel too many ingnorant peole get aniamls and dont have a clue about them,,,, NO THEY DONT EAT OTHER ANIMALS,

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 170 (view)

What is it with women & animals? Posted: 7/4/2007 2:01:25 PM
you have your show house and i hope your gf as a home

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 71 (view)

i truly think most girls are lesbians Posted: 7/4/2007 1:53:51 PM
men probably do fantasies about what its like with a man,,, men arnt as open as women they have this imgaine,,, they cant show thier femmine side,,, were women can be open,,, and as no not all woman that wnat to try a woman are guy,,, 64% of women are curiouse to try a woman only 16% are bi,,,, a lesbian is a woman with a woman not some that whats to try one for a fantasie.

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

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The girl that has everything, with the guy that has nothing to say. Posted: 7/4/2007 1:44:33 PM
the happest of people are them with less persessions!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006

Msg: 104 (view)

Have u ever had an animal die in your arms?if so how did u feel after xx Posted: 7/4/2007 1:40:28 PM
Ive been rescueing animals for 18yrs, my life is my animals and am very very protective of them, id save an animal beofre i save a human, animals want for nothing, they are inocent and expect me for me and expect nothing ib return they love you unconditionl,,,,,,,,,,,, id perfer to surround my life with animals rather than friends, i know people that have children and i love my pets more than they love thier kids,,,, ive just my my cat she was 22yrs old i had her from 3yrs old recused from a cruel evil person, she died in my arms,,,,, my garden as over 96pets buried in it and i loved every single more,, and they all broke my heart when they passed

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