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 Author Thread: Your Friends Feature.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 252 (view)
 
Your Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/22/2007 4:13:31 PM
I think it's a great option.Like you said people will use it for different reasons.I no I've thought of 1 lol...Anyway more things like adding this option is just 1 more thing that makes this site more interesting, n it's all free to. k bye 4 now
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 135 (view)
 
What are your pet peeves on profiles?
Posted: 2/24/2007 5:25:50 PM
Well! I would have to say a couple here.
When a person u meet or talk to is soooooo different from there profile, it makes u want to ask if it was therte friend that filled it out.
They write about something to do with kids after they speak to u,or big themselves up as if there gods gift to the world.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 31 (view)
 
What do you make of a man who disappears then reappears?
Posted: 2/23/2007 12:47:20 PM
I feel bad saying this but I think u where or whoever was plan b cuz someone else came by that they liked and it didn't work so he came back to u.U here of that all the time on here.I also had this guy who I was going to meet n we where chatting a while n then all of sudden he stopped all contact so i did to.Then a month later almost he start trying to contact me by IM n messages as if he had not stopped talking to me. The way I look at it that if u want to meet someone and see if u like them then u do just that but not 5 different people at the same time and lead people on in case the 1 u picked didn't work.U try with the 1 u like and keep on trying until u know it's not going to work out.If it doen't then your back onto POF no big deal.I'm not into being plan b n if I think that in any way that person would get an earful as then ignored and deleted.If this person was afraid of relationship then he wouldn't have come back n he would have said to u that he was having trouble so u wouldn't have to think this way.In hope that u also forgive him n take things slow.If it was just a booty call then he prob would have called u in a couple of days or it would have been discussed from the begining for that is asked n answered in our profiles so we know who to n not to contact.Well if it's u your talking about just b cautious n straight out ask him do u know what u want?Really investigate if it is someone u r hoping to b with.Follow your gut cuz it's never wrong.Bye 4 now and have a wonderful wkend
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Having your pet as an audience...
Posted: 2/13/2007 12:31:51 PM
LOL...that's soo funny cuz I have a rabbit n he roams the house 24/7 n I never thought of putting him in the cage while having some fun n all of a sudden in the middle of it he jumps up on the bed but ended up on us and wow did he makes us jump lol...it was funny I guess u would have had 2 b there..ciao 4 now and have a great wk.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
What have you learned so far in life?
Posted: 2/11/2007 7:36:38 PM
I have learned that life will never ever be perfect n u will get problems but it's how u deal with them that matters.
U can get pretty well what u want in life u just have to b willing to work very hard for it.
Not all men r the same lol..
how important education is.
How precious life is.
Treat those how u would like to b treated.
Don't ever give to expect.
Well life is now wonderful to me n it is all what u make it.Have a great week n ciao 4 now
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 197 (view)
 
why do some people stay on a dating site when they have met a mate ??
Posted: 2/1/2007 6:58:45 PM
I think that either there relationship isn't stable or they could b addicted to the site as well.I believe that once u find someone there is no need for this site but everyones different right?so who knows why for sure.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 280 (view)
 
~*~SCARBOROUGH’S WEEKLY MEET & GREET~*~
Posted: 1/31/2007 1:10:54 PM
hi yall.I'm sorry but it looks like I might not make it tonight.I'm sorry to whoever was expecting a treat from me tonight cuz I did promise to bring something tonight but if I feel better I will come but as of right now I'm not feeling to good so we'll see.If I don't make it have a wonderful time .Awwww I really wanted some cake but owell another time but happy b-day AE .ciao 4 now and don't forget to have a great time.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 68 (view)
 
*~*~*GAMES NIGHT IN SCARBOROUGH*~*~*
Posted: 1/31/2007 8:54:59 AM
Hi yall!
AE I'm bringing Brownies tonight cuz I want to knowone has to bring anything this is just something I enjoy doing and enjoy watching others enjoy my cooking.Plz anyone don't feel u have to bring anything.I'm not sure if u got the message yesturday about bringing a veggie platter and little sanwhiches for snacking on Friday.If u can AE plz e-mail me when u have the time and let me know the best way to get to your house by bus thx or u could just let me know tonight.Well I'll be there between 8 n 9 so I can stay later or it will cost me n arm n a leg for the sitter.It seems like the party doesn't get started till a bit later n I want to dance tonight.AE I also would like to know if your b-day has passed or is it in Feb I need to know 4 a reason.(It's a secret sorry can't tell ya why lol...)anyway get back when u have the time.Ciao 4 now
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 411 (view)
 
Where did you go to high school?
Posted: 1/30/2007 6:33:10 AM
hey there r 3 people on here that went to Midland CI ! what yr did u go to Midland cuz thats the school I went to in the earl 90's anyway get back to me if u can thx.CIAO 4 now
Chilywilly 21
Freedome
chritters.
if any of u see this plz respond I would love to see if I knew u.I went in the yr 91 to 94 around that time anyway n the other 2 schools I went to was
John Macrea for gr 7 n 8
and Knob Hill from kindergarden to gr 6.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 61 (view)
 
*~*~*GAMES NIGHT IN SCARBOROUGH*~*~*
Posted: 1/30/2007 6:19:56 AM
Hey it's me again lol...this is soooo addictive anyway I noticed u had dominoes on there oh I'm in for dominoes and I just bought some from Chucky cheeses last wkend lol..yes chuckys and there the little ones not regular size but I'll bring them if u want n if anything I'll buy the big ones cuz I prefer the bigger ones cuz there easier to hold on to (no pun attended lol) get your mind out of the gutter lol...oh ya that's me lol...anyway can't wait to see everyone tomorrow ciao 4 now
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 60 (view)
 
*~*~*GAMES NIGHT IN SCARBOROUGH*~*~*
Posted: 1/30/2007 6:11:05 AM
Hey u it's me again.I'm not sure if u have found anyone to organize the snacks but why doesn't each person bring something and post what your bringing so there's no doubles.Even if it's a bag of chips n if u can't that's all right to.I know I can bring a few things like a veggie platter n dip and I'll think of something else like sandwhiches cut in quarters I can do cheese whiz,ham n cheese,bologna,pb an j,tuna,cucumber etc..... n well that sounds good that will b what I can bring k.If u need any help at all just let me know.I don't have any board games sorry I do but there all kids ones.I can't wait it sounds like so much fun.I also wanted to know if u like brownies cuz I'm making some tomorrow.Do u like candles just wondering? anyway get back to me when u can thx.Hope your wk is going ok.CIAO 4 now.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 51 (view)
 
*~*~*GAMES NIGHT IN SCARBOROUGH*~*~*
Posted: 1/29/2007 9:22:05 AM
Oh sounds good to me any wkend is fine for me so I'm in.I'm up for any game as long as it's not head games lol...I have an idea for a game and they r pretty fun cuz I did one when I was around 20 n it's a murder mystery game where everyone gets a part to play and dresses there part.It's really fun so if your interested let me know and I can help u with it.Well thats the only suggestion I have.
oh ya here's another u could always ask that everyone brings something to share to eat even if it's a bag of chips or whatever so it doesn't cost u to much to entertain everyone.If u r interested in this murder game I could always do it another time at my house but we can talk about it anyway.I haven't read all the posts yet but just wondering what card games u r going to b playing cuz I only know a few
euchre
crazy eights (count down)
fish
war a little poker
rummy
21 but I'm up for any board games to ok that's it all out of ideas but I'll edit if I think of anymore.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 242 (view)
 
~*~SCARBOROUGH’S WEEKLY MEET & GREET~*~
Posted: 1/29/2007 8:36:57 AM
Hey AE didn't know it was your b-day soon anyway does anyone know what her fav sweets r cuz I am going to bake something and was thinking brownies some with nuts and some without n I'm hoping she likes it.I will get to meet u this wk n can't wait to meet more people.This time I will stay later n have more fun.hhmmmm it's AE b-day I need to think of something to do for her something special anyone with any ideas let me know.U know she didn't even know my mom n brought her a balloon n a beautiful plant.She is a very sweet ladie and very welcoming.So what type of cake r u bringing? umm my mouth is watering just thinking about it lol...see ya on wed.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 224 (view)
 
~*~SCARBOROUGH’S WEEKLY MEET & GREET~*~
Posted: 1/28/2007 7:38:49 AM
Hey! hope everyone is doing good and having a wonderful wkend.I just wanted everyone from the meet on Wed to know that we had a wonderful time and met some new wonderful n fun people.Sorry we had to leave but as u know I have kids n the sitter had school the next day n could afford to pay more out,but this Wed I'll stay later so I can drink n dance oh ya n can't forget a treat for everyone to munch on.Still haven't decided what to make.If anyone has any suggestions let me know and we'll see cuz it will b a surprise.Everyone there was soooo nice and made us feel so welcome and comfortable so thx to everyone there for being so nice.It's good to know there r still some decent people left in this world.Well I hope to see ya all there again next wk n have a great wkend.CIAO 4 now
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 131 (view)
 
~*~SCARBOROUGH’S WEEKLY MEET & GREET~*~
Posted: 1/20/2007 10:23:18 AM
Hi! lil roxy.Hope your weekend is going good.I was wondering if it would be ok if well actually on Thursday is my mom b-day n she is wanting to come with me to the meet n greet on wed.Now I was planning on taking her out for lunch or dinner the next day but was wondering what u thought of me buying a cake and doind a cake while there on wed and I will treat her to dinner as well.She is taking care of my grandma right now so she won't b online or this site to see what I'm writing.It would be a surprise and I would make sure I got a big cake so we could share with everyone.It wouldn't be a b-day party but the cake and dinner for her.I won't know anyone there so do u think it's ok to do that even though it's pof meet n greet.I know she would never ecpect this.She goes by bold and bubbly on here.She was also happy to find out theres a meeting place in Scarborough.If there is anyone else out there who sees this plz feel free to drop a comment on your feelings on this.This will also b my first time attending.I didn't know who to ask n if i need to call the resturant ahead to ask.I am also willing to supply the plates napkinns etc....Thx to everyone who responded.Have a wonderful weekend.Chow 4 now
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Fairytales??
Posted: 1/18/2007 5:43:16 AM
Wow! what memories that brings back.The very first movie I ever seen at the movies was Snow white and till this day I watch it with my daughter over n over n over lol...she was snow white this yr for halloween to lol...I think Snow white and Cinderella where my favs.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 111 (view)
 
~*~SCARBOROUGH’S WEEKLY MEET & GREET~*~
Posted: 1/17/2007 12:25:17 PM
hi thx to the lady above me sooo much for your help.As u can see I was able to find it thx 2 u.Bye for now and have a great day.I have left a message and hopefully someone will get back to me.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 110 (view)
 
~*~SCARBOROUGH’S WEEKLY MEET & GREET~*~
Posted: 1/17/2007 12:22:26 PM
That sounds awesome.Someone just e-mailed me to let me know about this meet n great.I also live in Scarborough n I'm new to this site as well as dating.I would love to come to the meet n great but I have missed the first 1 cuz I have just found out about it.I was wondering if there was any way u could reply n let me know when n where the next great is for I can't wait to attend.I have a little problem though I am soooooo nervous attending anything like this by myself and was wondering if anyone meets before hand so I would not be coming there on my own.I am not just talking about men but women to.I can't wait to get back out there into the real world again n start meeting some new friends and possibly someone special.I have not met with anyone as of yet from POF but I think a meet n great it a great place to start.If anyone can plz get back to me n let me know (man or women) that would show me the ropes so I wouldn't be sitting by myself or even as nervous, it would make my day.lol... I know I prob sound like a teen but what can I say it's been a while since I have gotten to meet some decent people.Well I hope to hear from someone soon.Oh ya I wasn't meaning it as a date just a new friend to help me out n introduce me to people so I'm not alone.Thx sooooo much to everyone who has already led me to here.Bye 4 now n have a wonderful day.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
New to dating and nervous
Posted: 1/17/2007 9:09:20 AM
Thx 4 your reponse archerredheart.I have been out of the relationship with my ex for 3 yrs now and used all that time to seek help for my children n I n to heal.Now I know I'm ready to get back out there again.I will take your advice and go to some getogethers as well as dating.I think that would be a great place or way to make new friends and possibly find someone to.Again thx and have a wonderful day.Chow
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 280 (view)
 
Plentyoffish Singles cruise February 11-18, 2007
Posted: 1/12/2007 6:38:17 AM
ok there is something I'm not getting hrere.Is it only 590 for 1 person in american money and all inclusive o0r is that just for a room.I thought it was only 590 cuz I thought that was really cheap n then someone asked where u had to board the ship n then I noticed it had another list of prices that said 1375 around there now is that what it costs and do u add another 590 on that for the room cuz I live in Toronto so to get from here to wherever your to board I would like to know the price altogether in American dollars and where I would be going like a plane from Toronto to where n then where do u board.I hope someone can let me know n if someone does thank u in advance.Have a great day n everyone enjoy your trip if I don't go.Chow
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Ladies: never discuss potential interests to us guys
Posted: 1/12/2007 6:15:19 AM
Who knows but maybe she did that to try n make herself look good.Hoping by showing u others r into her would make u either jealous or want her more cuz others do.Honestly though I would have no prob talking about pof but would never sit and check my phone to see who on etc...especially if your on a date or just having a coffee with someone.That was in poor taste .this is pof though so have fun fishing cuz there is plenty more in the sea lol or lake ...depends on where u r.I hope u find what your looking for have a great day n the best new yr.Chow
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 84 (view)
 
first thing you notice about profiles
Posted: 1/12/2007 5:45:11 AM
I look at the age,pic and if they have kids but I usually read the whole thing just so I have something to chat about as well as learning something about the person n see if what they like or interests r interesting to me.I can't stand high n mighty people that think s there better then anyone cuz no one has the right to judge or even think there better then the other.That is a major turn off.Well have a great day and chow 4 now.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
When a new person you meet gets a bit rushed...
Posted: 1/10/2007 6:38:34 PM
Hi!It sounds to me that this guy who acted genuin really wasn't and was after something and didn't get it and was sent home ,that's prob wasn't what he was expecting.Anyway I think it's great that you have the right aditude for this sight, u no about you'll keep fishin,(pretty cool) so I thought I would tell u.Bye and have a great night.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
If today were your last day, what would you do?
Posted: 1/8/2007 8:01:04 AM
It's funny to come across this question cuz my grandma is ill n when it comes to my mom n I we clash sometimes and we would go a couple of months without talking and then it came to me ,what if something happened to her and I wasted what time we had not talking n would never have that chance again well now we just forget what happened with the argument and move on.As far as what I would do is prepare for my children and make sure we did something memorible for them to remember.I would also make sure they r going to be well taken care of .I would also make sure my family wasn't left with any bills.God just the thought on how my kids would be without me scares me.I think we r going to start a scrapbook just in case at least they would have something other then picture to look at and something that they where involved in n that we did together.Bye for now and have a great day.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Advice for dealing with stalkers
Posted: 1/5/2007 12:04:38 PM
Sorry to hear what u have had to go through but what if u changed your pic and didn't use any names he would know.He most likely know the name of your computer or what ever else he need in order to track u without a name or anything.If u can find out how he can track then u can find out ways to stop him.If it means not being with rogers or bell then maybe aol might be better or a smaller company that can't be tracked.I feel bad for u n wish I could help n if there is anything I could do then plz don't hesitate to drop a message anytime.Bye 4 now and hope u have a better new yr.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
New to dating and nervous
Posted: 1/5/2007 11:23:59 AM
Love your pic it's cute.I'm not gay I just give credit when do.Anyway thz sooo much for your message it helped a lot n I will take your advice and get to know people and be friends .I will go to some getogethers and get to know people.If u know of any in the scarborough area or not far from here then plz let me know.Oh ya it has been 3 yrs since being with my childrens father so I have had plenty of time to heal n now I am craving that affection again but it is deffinatly worth doing what u said n take my time and get to know .Thx agaian n again n have a great new yr bye 4 now.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
New to dating and nervous
Posted: 1/5/2007 11:19:44 AM
thx 4 your message n just to let you know it has been 3 yrs since being with there father so I have healed a lot but I'm just scared that I will fall for the same thing cuz people say that once u have been abused that it stays with u n some women actually r attracted to the typ of men that r abusers.U can never tell by looking at someone but well u know I just don't want that again.I think I will deffinetly take your advice and just go to some getogethers and be friends and get to really know people as friends first.Thx again n bye 4 now.
 barbie2222
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
New to dating and nervous
Posted: 1/5/2007 9:15:52 AM
Is anyone out there as nervous as I am getting into the dating sceen again cuz I have 2 kids and have not been on a date in yrs.I'm not sure I even know how to talk to someone about going on a date.I have been in 1 relationship as an adult and that was with my childrens father n it turned out really bad and I'm affraid of the same thing happening .I was told that a relationship is a risk that people take.I need that affection again n need some help on how to evaluate people.I don't want to judge cuz I wouldn't want someone judging me but how do u know who is for u n even after a couple of dates how do u know this person is not a fake just to wheel u in.I don't want to end up with an abuser again n sometimes people don't find out these things until it's to late.Does anyone know what to look for in a man to be aware of n to know that he wouldn't be good for me.Plz don't hesitate to send a message with some advice 4 I think I need it.Thx for your help n chow 4 now.
 
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