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vitiate

Joined: 1/1/2007

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A little confused about re: 'let's meet' - then nothing... Posted: 4/4/2008 8:51:48 AM
This is a dating website with thousands of people on it, perhaps a few hundred or more in your own area... ...what makes you think you were anything more than an option?

vitiate

Joined: 1/1/2007

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Do I tell him I know and it is fine or keep my mouth shut and wait Posted: 4/4/2008 8:50:10 AM
Keep your own options open then... Date other people too. If you're fine with him doing it, then you should have no reservations about doing the same yourself. If you just lack the self-respect to tell him to go to hell...then, really, that's your own problem.

vitiate

Joined: 1/1/2007

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love is/not Posted: 4/3/2008 12:37:35 PM
Love is not a choice... Love is farting in bed beside your partner and dutch ovening the blankets and when they finish fighting for fresh air, they stay in bed with you...

vitiate

Joined: 1/1/2007

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how can you tell he means it Posted: 4/3/2008 12:32:18 PM
You're being f*cked with. It's probably some 15 year old kid that having a ball with it... ...or some psycho.

vitiate

Joined: 1/1/2007

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Do men have double standards? Posted: 4/3/2008 12:30:25 PM
Whoopadee DOO.... Welcome to the real world. Of COURSE there are double standards...we're looking for DIFFERENT things... 1. A man is considered the provider, the protector, the aggressor. That's our role...been our role for countless generations. We strive for personal success so we can land the hotter, better girl...So yes, looks are EXTREMELY important to us. Some of us will make certain concessions person to person depending on the quality of life we'd like. eg. Girl B isn't as hot as Girl A but she likes to cook and keeps her place clean. Girl A is smokin' but doesn't do SH!T. For some Girl A is STILL the better pick...it all depends. 2. For a girl, you're looking for security, protection from the hostile world...someone that makes you feel safe and taken care of. Yeah, looks come into play but since we men are the aggressor you really have to ask yourself a few questions... a) Is his M.O. to trade his girlfriends in for a younger, hotter model as he achieves greater success? b) Does he have the looks to pull that off? c) Is it HIM treating me this good, or his MONEY treating me this good? A girl has to ask herself these questions because the better looking the guy is, the LESS likely that you're gonna be secure in your relationship. PERIOD. If you're looking at men and placing looks first, then you HAVE to have the same mentality as men. Don't whine when he takes off, don't complain when he cheats...be happy for the fu(ks you had and move on to the next one. When you whine about it, we assume that you put looks first and didn't realize that equality of the sexes is the greatest MYTH of the 20th century. Equality can exist ONLY when they are inherently the same... Equality for all races...I completely agree we all should have the SAME human rights. But men and women are as different as predator and prey.

vitiate

Joined: 1/1/2007

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If you had to choose-marriage or non committed. Posted: 3/19/2008 1:17:30 PM
Depends on the stage of my life... There have been the times when I was a complete man-whore. And thankfully so. And then there's the times when I really like being with somebody...not just anybody...but with a person that really gets me. And the thing is, if it doesn't work out...divorce is just paperwork.

vitiate

Joined: 1/1/2007

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can any guys shed some light on this one? Posted: 12/17/2007 8:40:09 AM
Easy.... You want your sh!t back? Then don't be lazy...come and pick up your sh!t. DEAL with the confrontation that you're gonna have to deal with and should have in the first place and be prepared to have him make you cry. That's the worst case scenario. If I break up with someone, why would I care if they get their sh!t back or not? I can just as easily throw it all out. If you care about your things, then come and get them...and it had better be convenient for me...b/c if I had broken up with the girl, I'm not gonna be going out of my way so she can pick up her sh!t that I don't care about. Get it?

vitiate

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Does he really want to be friends? Posted: 12/17/2007 8:36:35 AM
He slowly and methodically placing you in the friends w/ benefits zone. And apparently, it's working perfectly.

vitiate

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Just curious what a man thinks... Posted: 12/17/2007 8:34:22 AM
I might get crucified for letting the cat outta the bag here... The biggest misconception women have about men is that we don't have you figured out. We have you girls PEGGED. We get you, we know what makes you tick and what motivates you. It's very easy for us linear thinking men to think abstract like you women...we just think of the most irrational answer and we have your thought process. It's much harder for an abstract thinker to use common sense and think linearly. That's why there are so many posts in the "Ask a Guy" area that are asking how we think about this or that...you can't do it yourself. That's also why there are so many posts in the "Ask a Girl" area that are thinly veiled perv blogs. B/c we really don't have to ask you about anything...we just want to get you girls talking about dirty stuff.

vitiate

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Is there a non-sexual area of a woman than men like? Posted: 12/17/2007 8:29:01 AM
I thought all areas of a woman were sexual? Aren't they the moment is begins affecting you in a sexual context? The "do you like to watch her hands and imagine them touching you?" part is a very woman way of thinking. I don't think most men go through this thought process. It's more like, what can I get naked and what can I do horrible things to...

vitiate

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So how do I get a man to commit? Posted: 12/14/2007 3:44:56 PM
How do you make a man commit?... You can't. He either will or he won't. It's not up to you.

vitiate

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If you truly loved your g/f would you dump her for not putting out? Posted: 12/14/2007 3:43:02 PM
How old are these people? Their age would illicit a different response from me... If under 21: She really might not be ready yet...she could still be a virgin. His actions (if she is a virgin or barely not one) are making her distant and ruining the chances he'll ever see sex. He's not being very understanding to her emotional needs...he's more worried about his. He probably will dump her and she'll most likely be better off. If she's older and has experience: Men and women see intimacy differently. Women see it as bonding through talking, confiding in each other and feelings of security. For men, it's sex or physical contact. He's not lying. He said he'd be patient and he has been. 4 months is a long time if you see each other often. There's only so much a guy's gonna take of that. After 4 months a girl with any sort of experience should know whether or not she's gonna f*ck. It's that simple. I'd feel disconnected too. And teased, and p!ssed off, and I'd also feel like looking elsewhere. Even if she puts out soon...he'll probably (and should) dump this girl. If he has to wait that friggin' long and work THAT hard for a little sex, how hard is he gonna have to work for anything else he wants?

vitiate

Joined: 1/1/2007

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do you honestly respect a girl's intellect? Posted: 12/14/2007 3:32:28 PM
That post just insulted every man's intelligence, I think. You wrote it, yet you didn't seem to grasp that it was YOU that was in the wrong in those social settings of which you speak. Correcting a little tidbit (especially if unimportant to the story) is a faux pas. It's like having your grammar corrected when in the throws of a heated debate. You're not asserting your intelligence, you're asserting your NEED to be in the right. Which probably gives you a feeling of intelligence ("See? I'm right, you're wrong. I'm smarter. Ha ha.") But ultimately what you're asking as it applies to yourself has NOTHING to do with intelligence as it does social grace. Men aren't concerned with intelligence if they have, say, a trophy wife. However, if a man is in a relationship based on equality then the ability to converse about a variety of topics is necessary. I'd hope that on many subjects one or the other would be more knowledgeable and the other would be engaging and/or interested. And that has little to do with intelligence as even the smartest person can learn from anyone.

vitiate

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Am I leading him on? Posted: 12/14/2007 3:21:51 PM
You're not serious are you? You can't be... it's a joke, right? You're asking if you should be attracted to a SugarDaddy? If you should feel a spark? Well, you should...with his MONEY. Otherwise why are you asking this ridiculous question? If you're looking for a relationship, yeah, you need to be attracted and to want the person you're with. The feelings will change in time and you'll have to evolve with it and keep things interesting...but that's not what you're asking... ...Yeah, you'd be leading him on...unless you put out...then he's a SugarDaddy.

vitiate

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Is it best to turn down the date? Posted: 12/14/2007 3:18:21 PM
Holy sh!t. If a guy asks you out for dinner, and you feel like going...fcking say "YES". If a guy asks you out for dinner, and you DON'T feel like going...fcking say "NO". How the F*CK is that difficult? Worry about the other sh!t during the meal.

vitiate

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Sex after so long a time Posted: 12/14/2007 3:02:32 PM
Honesty is the best policy in a RELATIONSHIP. It's so far from the truth in the dating world though... Let's say it's been YEARS since the pipes were cleaned. Do they REALLY need to know that? I mean, what's the cause and effect here? You tell the on the 3rd or 4th date (as would be in normal conversation if you to mention that you had been single and NOT dating for a loooong time...which would be your mistake to take the convo in that direction anyways) and they assume that you're either religious or a prude or both. That will make them stop making the effort. It doesn't matter if they're into you or not...a bunch of dates + no sex = bye bye. Worse than that, you could get it for the first time in forever and become a clingy psycho chick that never leaves them alone...which btw also = bye bye. Why not just say when asked..."ugh...long enough it's on my mind..." Great answer, plus it validates why they're asking in the first place...they're checking to see if you're finding them desirable. So, in summary...either don't put yourself in a position to be asked...or go with the deception via lack of information route.

vitiate

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profile opinion Posted: 12/12/2007 7:23:36 AM
I feel I have to say this b/c we're men, and you're not. No body pic? You want a guy to like you for you? HAHAHAHAHA that does happen, true... But it's like this. Men are much more shallow than women when it comes to the people they date. And YES they want to see what you look like completely. Men do the appraoching, remember? When we're in the real world we can see what you look like... And in this virtual world we want to as well...otherwise it;s false advertising if we meet and you look different. There.

vitiate

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profile opinion Posted: 12/11/2007 12:32:19 PM
Allow me to be honest here... You have some nice pics on your profile...and some horrible ones. Change your pix for others that show you in more poses than just the face shot. Look like you go places and have fun. Change your main pic to something more teasing. Then you'll get a bunch more mail. Might not be the kind you like...but meh...

vitiate

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when the guy's birthday is early in the relationship Posted: 12/11/2007 12:29:22 PM
A card is just fine. As long as you personally deliver it with a sexy outfit on under your clothes...if you're there yet in your "relationship".

vitiate

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I need to know... Posted: 12/11/2007 12:27:54 PM
Have sex with one of his friends. That'll shut him up.

vitiate

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whats up with him? Posted: 12/11/2007 12:27:07 PM
He (or she) is under 20 years old... No offense, but what 50+ year old man has sex on the brain all the time... Let me rephrase that...what 50+ year old man has sex with someone his own age or older on the brain all the time? Makes more sense that it's a fake profile.

vitiate

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How long does it take for a guy to get over cheating? Posted: 12/11/2007 12:24:43 PM
Let me get this straight... She thinks that he should acknowledge her contact attempts after they broke up... Why? Is it necessary? For her or for him? They were together, now they're not. They have no children I'm assuming...so why is there any need for him to speak to her if he doesn't want to? Clearly, he couldn't have been THAT controlling if she wants to be back with him...otherwise she'd be happy to be out of it. Your post makes no sense. He didn't flip-flop. He wants NOTHING to do with her. If things were bad and he was able to make it through the relationship without cheating, then it's safe to assume that he expected the same out of her. His opinion of her is different now. He made the right choice. Women and men that take back partners that cheat are MORONS. He made the smartest decision he could have made.

vitiate

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Is it down to the man if the woman doesnt orgasm??? Posted: 11/28/2007 1:33:30 PM
I think the better question is... Did the man care whether or not the chick orgasmed. Because if he didn't, then who gives a sh!t?

vitiate

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Can a Guy be just friends?? Posted: 11/28/2007 1:32:01 PM
I can be friends with girls that I would never have sex with. I am friends with girls that I would never have sex with. Some are just regulated to the "like a sister" category. Some are just funny but freakin' ugly. Some you would never want sex from, but it doesn't keep you from thinking about it. It's in our sexual nature to fantasize. Acting on it is different. When you find that person that keeps you taken care of...that's pretty much all you need.

vitiate

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not cumming during BJ? Posted: 11/28/2007 1:26:56 PM
Alright. Time for being real. No more shameless self-promotions and sh!t. 1. Sometimes past experiences left the dude scared of getting a bj from someone new. IE. Some retard used their teeth in an awful way and scarred to poor dude for life. 2. Most girls just suck at sucking. Period. You get too offended if someone tells you what to do. "Well my last bf got off from what I'm doing." Good for you...so go suck HIS d!ck and make at least one guy happy. Otherwise, shut up and listen to what I say. 3. Know that everyone is different. Guys have to experiment (or be told) what you like when they're eating your pu$$y...so if the guy isn't saying anything but he's also not getting off, change you technique, fool. He's just thinks if he tells you what to do, you be the typical girl and blame US for you giving bad head. The more different things you try, to more likely you'll hit the jackpot. 4. Stop making such a BIG DEAL about cum. Our goal when going down is to get you to cum. When we do, do you hear us get all whiny and complain about the taste? WTF you expect it to taste like, f*ckin' GATORADE? If we get the idea that you DON'T want us to cum, then we'll be trying hard to keep it from happening, b/c we'd rather you get pleasure from the experience too. 5. AND MOST IMPORTANT...if you can't get him to cum from a bj...then be willing to make sacrifices elsewhere...and take it in the a$s.

vitiate

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Underwear changes after time... Posted: 10/25/2007 8:40:20 AM
Thanks to all the posters for talking about their personal hygiene to such an extent. You have made me very thankful for the habit of the woman I'm with.... Most of the poster's comments made me sick. The big girl that never wears panties?....wtf? That's disgusting. Either you spend your day keeping your crotch sparkling clean, or you have a small animals following you around. The girls that ONLY wear grannies...how do those cherokee hair tampons work, btw? To the girls that worry about panty lines, there are line free panties that you can but at LaSenza that are not only hot, but are boy shorts that you cannot see thru pants. Panties aren't just about accessability...they're a barometer for how your gf is feeling about herself (sexy, cuddly, not in the mood). I appreciate her for the way she makes the effort and it's rewarded with me not being able to keep my hands off her. To the ladies that don't put forth any effort, you're getting exactly what you're giving.

vitiate

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Underwear changes after time... Posted: 10/21/2007 3:55:19 PM
Does anyone else notice the DIRECT relation to sex and the underwear your girl wears? Granny panties means, sorry dude, you're just not getting any. Anything else that is quite nice and might not be an invitation but at least they appear open to it. Relationships are great with the right people, but does anyone miss that time where the panties said "come get me"?

vitiate

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Why is there NO intimacy after 3 years? Posted: 10/21/2007 3:48:41 PM
That's fuct. Move on. There HAS to be intimacy otherwise there is NO relationship. You can't help but grow apart. Women need openness and communication...Men need physical contact and sex. To not have ANY intimacy in 3 years means you have neither. Move on already.

vitiate

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After the deed Posted: 10/21/2007 3:41:24 PM
I guess it all depends...if some chick I barely know was trying desperately to look into my eyes after I've fcked her. I can see it as a bad sign if the guy was putting on his clothes and making a b-line to the door and trying not to talk to look at you...Yeah...big sign. But c'mon, not looking you directly in the eyes?...Was he before the deed? Were you terrible? Bossy? Just not all that good under those clothes? Or did you think that by fcking him he'd like you more?

vitiate

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why do people assume Im married Posted: 10/8/2007 11:55:14 PM
It's because you look like a librarian... In your pic you seem to not wear any makeup...it's obvious that you have long hair but if you always wear it up (in, I dunno...a bun?) so it doesn't appear that you're trying very hard. Women that don't try very hard about their appearance = taken and committed. If you want people to notice you, do things to be noticed. Get a haircut if you don't like to take the time to style your long hair. Put on some make-up. Put pix on your profile that make you long exciting or that you have a good time at least once in a while... Know what I'm saying?

vitiate

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Girl @ work... Posted: 10/8/2007 6:54:21 PM
Yeah, she's flirting... But take your time with it. You blow it if you're over-eager... Poke her back, or make fun of her for something she does or looks like or wears... You can't just be like, poke poke, hey baby come a little closer... So, keep it together and you'll soon be going out for a little chinese.

vitiate

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Help me! Posted: 10/3/2007 11:33:23 PM
BAD FORM!!! You cannot take your new guy to the same party that someone that you were recently with is gonna be there too...AWKWARD.

vitiate

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Would you sleep with him? Posted: 10/3/2007 10:11:48 AM
Stop listening to the women in this forum...especially Capacio. There is NO way that they could POSSIBLY understand the mind of a guy...why?...BECAUSE THEY'RE NOT MEN!!! Listen, you already said in your initial post that you already do everything together the way a couple does. He is confused because you were such good friends before. Men are not comfortable labeling things. WE live in the moment, for the moment. Why label something and change what ALREADY is a good thing? There is NOTHING wrong with your situation. You don't need a label to be able to trust someone...because that label is nothing more than just that...a LABEL. He obviously cares about you, and you him. You're transitioning between strict friendship and something more. Don't make that journey unfun. This should be an exciting and alluring time of your life...JUST ENJOY IT ALREADY!!! Stop worrying about the what if's and just be in the HERE and NOW. The girlfriend stuff will come in time, and the fact that he doesn't want this thing you guys have to be labeled says MORE for his character than anything. Like the previous post said, he KNOWS you're inexperienced and likely to get taken advantage of by the WRONG guy...so he is gonna let fate play it's course and see what the future holds RATHER than labeling something and having it all become an obligatory thing. He cares about you more than you think. Men are much wiser than we're given credit for because we're RATIONAL rather than EMOTIONAL.

vitiate

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Would you sleep with him? Posted: 10/2/2007 10:54:56 AM
People f*ck. That's what we do. People have sex with people that they don't even know for god sakes. What is you inhibition with this guy. Just get it out of the way already. From the sounds of it, you probably already have by the time you read this and just needed to read one or two posts from people telling you to do it to get your courage up. By now, there's probably some ATM going on, hell you may have already been introduced to DP (him and an inanimate object...like a waffle iron ro something) You're gonna be freaks, you're gonna miss a lot of school and you're gonna probably know what it feels like to be blind (if you haven't already) I hear visene doesn't do ANYTHING for that...you'll have to buy a portable eye-wash bottle.

vitiate

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She wants to stay at my place for a few hours while I'm gone to hockey Posted: 9/27/2007 2:04:54 PM
You're not being unreasonable at all. If she wasn't with you she'd have had to find other arrangements about the computer. You gave her the heads up. This sounds like a girl either 1. Trying REALLY hard to try to get closer to you (albeit a bad battle to choose) or 2. A insecure or jealous girl that wants to snoop thru your stuff. If the shoe was on the other foot, I'm willing to bet that you would respect her wishes and her comfort level. You should expect NO LESS from her.

vitiate

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oops...pregnant!! And only 1 month into dating... Posted: 9/27/2007 1:46:35 PM
Excuse me? Did you read the thread or only the title? Umm. I'm just gonna kill this thread as it seems the one thing most POF forumers have in common is their collective LACK of a careless sex life. I had just seen Knocked Up and got to wondering...

vitiate

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am I being paranoid? Posted: 9/26/2007 9:02:46 AM
If that other site was LavaLife, it's more likely that he's just too friggin cheap to IM with you. If he refuses to let you call his house, then he's hiding something.

vitiate

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I need a guy's opinion Posted: 9/26/2007 9:01:12 AM
Uhhh...you do understand that he wanted a FLING right?...I mean, you said it then you went on like you were dating the guy..."a commitment-phobe". Lady, there's no commitment in a fling. IT'S A FLING!! He called you b/c he's gonna be in town and he wants some a$s. If you want your pipes cleaned, call him back. If not, don't worry about it.

vitiate

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oops...pregnant!! And only 1 month into dating... Posted: 9/26/2007 8:57:33 AM
The title is just fiction. But the question I have isn't. Has anyone been on the giving or receiving end of this situation? What did you do? Did you tell them?...Did you continue to date?...Did you go to a clinic and never say a word? Has anyone broken up with you in a heartbeat when things seemed to be going so well? Could this situation have been the case? Or really any other remarks you may have about the scenario. Dish.

vitiate

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One True Love Posted: 9/26/2007 8:50:06 AM
I agree with the OP. The notion of "The One" is retarded. I have been in many relationships, many of which I've told the person I love them. Because I felt I did at the time. Relationships fizzle here and there and the love fades. Communication, respect for each other, attraction, intimacy, fun, friendship...these are all key players in how well 2 people get along in a relationship. If you find someone that compliments you in all categories, then you have one helluva great relationship. Rare to find, but not so rare that there is only ONE person out there like that. That's just ridiculous.

vitiate

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He's Fan-freaking tastic! Why can't i get over that he's a Charmer? Posted: 9/26/2007 8:36:55 AM
I think your last line says it all... You're only seeing what you want to see...the same as you only want to read what you want to hear. Deep down you KNOW he only wants in your pants...thats why your gut is telling you otherwise. But for all means, play it out...see where it takes you. There's nothing wrong with being in the moment. A lot of great relationships begin casually. What's the worst that could happen?

vitiate

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Kissing Faux Pauxs Posted: 9/26/2007 8:32:06 AM
Closed mouth kissing...seriously. If I'm willing to give you a kiss, then it means that I'm wanting a little intimacy at that moment. You kiss me with a closed mouth then you might as well be shooting me down. It's crap.

vitiate

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Have you learned anything from watching porn? Posted: 9/24/2007 4:29:23 PM
what I have learned from porn... The cable guy has the best job in the world. Same with the mail-man, santa, the pizza boy, and your doctor... That no matter where you happen to be having sex, there will always be some stranger in the corner of the room masturbating. There are multiple different types of surgery that boobs can receive. At pool parties, the clothing is optional. Every mansion in the US has absolutely nothing on their walls. Only people with comb-overs have wives that cheat on them. Blond women with giant boobs make REALLY poor doctors.

vitiate

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Is Having Sex ever Painful for a Man??? Posted: 9/24/2007 4:20:28 PM
Depends on what she looks like. And if anyone sees you do it.

vitiate

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Dating a guy who is going through a hard time. Posted: 9/24/2007 9:02:52 AM
The son thing...that couldn't be helped. The apartment fire...sh!tty. The ex sleeping with best friend...partially his fault. Losing his job, partially his fault. Leaving his buddy house...he's not telling you the real story. He IS trying to latch onto you, as I assume he did with his previous wife. That is SUFFOCATING. I assume she probably slept with the best friend as it was most likely the ONLY way to get is life sucking tendrils out of her life. He's a sponge. Have sex with him, then dump him, then have sex with his friends. He'll get the point.

vitiate

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Disability Dating Posted: 9/24/2007 12:43:32 AM
Bring it up as a joke? "So does your pee-pee still work?" If yes, ask him to prove it.

vitiate

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make him chase.... Posted: 9/24/2007 12:41:52 AM
No advice...you're just not thinking. You broke up with your boyfriend for being a player and now you wanna date his FRIEND? Are all English girls like this? Jesus, I read post upon post of English girls and the ridiculous things you do. Do you have any idea how to be SINGLE? People hang out in flocks. Like hangs with like. He was a player, friend is a player. 'Nuff said.

vitiate

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thank you Posted: 9/24/2007 12:37:28 AM
"Excuse me miss...could I please have some sex?" "Of course you may...here you go" ... ... ... ... pfffbbbtt "Thank you for that sex, ma'am." "You're welcome. Come again." See where that could be offensive? Sex is something people are supposed to SHARE.

vitiate

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Msg: 34 (view)

Opinion... Posted: 9/22/2007 11:13:43 AM
Your friend's friend is a complete retard. Seriously retarded. There is NOTHING wrong that allowing the dad to be a parent. If he has the kids 1/3 to 1/2 time, I'm pretty sure he's fully capable to do everything mom does. There is NO need for her to even stay 10-15 minutes away from home. Go on a weekend getaway, do anything. BOTH people are capable otherwise he wouldn't have them that much. If something DOES go wrong, dad can deal. He can let mom know about it and she can make the decision if it important enough to drop everything. Kid fell down and got knocked out...yeah, drop what you're doing and go to your kid. Kid gets the flu and needed to go to the hospital to restore fluid levels...dad can deal with that. No one is in any danger. Parenting is mostly common sense....it's just too bad that sooooo few people have any.

vitiate

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Msg: 9 (view)

Could someone please explain.... Posted: 9/20/2007 9:40:30 PM
You could have just been going at it too hard. If you come down on the shaft too hard in an unexpected way, it can involuntarily cause the penis to soften. Here is why...b/c you were using you hand. WTF. You want him to come. Put the f*cking c0ck in your mouth. Giv'er. Then there will be no mistake...he'll jizz, you'll know it.

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