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Dallior

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Msg: 43 (view)

~Orlando, Florida KatFISHES at 8 TRAX Club, Pleasure Island~Saturday June 21th, 2008~ 9PM-1AM~ Posted: 6/20/2008 7:26:28 PM
I wish these would get posted earlier. I already made plans for this weekend. Can't change them. 70's and 80's huh? I'm more of a 50's and 60's type guy, but 70's will work. Maybe next time

Dallior

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 170 (view)

Are you really what you portray in your profile? Posted: 10/5/2007 11:07:25 PM
I am as I said in the profile and my pictures are up to date, but many are not. I have run into several that look nothing like the picture posted. Why post a picture that doesn't look like who you are? I don't get it. It isn't like they won't find out when you meet. Have met several that say they enjoyed the meeting, but never hear from again. Why can't people just say, "You are not what I am looking for so don't contact me anymore" It would save us all a lot of trouble, I also do not understand the looking FOR part of the profile. Like Long Term for example, How do you look for Long Term? You can't. You can only make friends, date and then look back at some point to see if it has been long term. How about the criteria of "must not be looking for other relationships" Isn't that why we are all on here? I have run into several ladies which appear interesting, but I am not allowed to contact them. I check their requirements and none apply but yet I am not allowed to contact them. That one I do not get at all. Maybe a bug in the system? Don't know, but I am thinking this online dating things is more trouble than trying to meet people any other way.

dallior

Joined: 1/1/2007

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Mexican Fiesta Under the Stars! - Orlando - Saturday, October 6th Posted: 9/26/2007 1:24:02 PM
Can't make this one either. I'll be going to the Festival on the Nile over by Universal Studios that same night.

dallior

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Single Parent Playdate - Roller Skating - Saturday, Sept. 29 from 7-10pm Posted: 9/26/2007 1:20:15 PM
Oh man, I would love to go to this. I used to take the kids there every Saturday morning for years. Problems is the youngest is now 18 and won't go. I don't know any little kids to get me in. Sigh.

dallior

Joined: 1/1/2007

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Orlando Karaoke Night - Coconut Willy's - September 7th Posted: 9/9/2007 7:37:53 AM
I had a nice time. It was fun what some of you really look like. Never did find the kissing booth though.

dallior

Joined: 1/1/2007

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Orlando Karaoke Night - Coconut Willy's - September 7th Posted: 9/6/2007 3:43:52 PM
This place has food, Right, or should we eat before we get there?

dallior

Joined: 1/1/2007

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Orlando Karaoke Night - Coconut Willy's - September 7th Posted: 8/18/2007 7:44:40 PM
Since it's now almost 11pm I guess I missed that one. I never saw it posted anywhere. >>

dallior

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Orlando Karaoke Night - Coconut Willy's - September 7th Posted: 8/18/2007 7:37:47 PM
WOw. One in my back yard. I can't miss this one.

dallior

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OLDIES BIG BAND DANCE!!!! 45 + AGE GROUP!!!!!!! Posted: 6/30/2007 9:57:17 AM
Sounds like fun. I'll have to come try it out. I'm over in Kissimmee but it shouldn't take long to get there. Cec

dallior

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Outdoor Jam Session in Clermont Posted: 6/30/2007 9:33:40 AM
Thanks for posting the address. I went out there last weekend but couldn't find it and got lost somewhere. I tried to write you and ask for an address but it says I'm not allowed to. Anyway thanks for the address. I'll try again and bring a few more with me. Cec

dallior

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Msg: 84 (view)

Sex longer than a minute, does it exist...? Posted: 6/21/2007 6:16:24 AM
Someone please explain to me why men either can't get it up, and keep it up? Or they can't control themselves and loose control in a minute or less? Sounds like you have been dating the wrong men. All night might be a stretch. I would have trouble staying awake. How about all morning instead? Seriously, I don't think there is an easy way to know until you get there. You do realize that men with this problem are a minority? In most cases a lady will get off several times before a man gets off once. At least it seems that way to me.

dallior

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Msg: 33 (view)

Orlando Xtreme Bowling Party - Saturday, July 7th Posted: 6/11/2007 12:33:48 AM
I think it should be La Costa Drive

Dallior

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Plentyoffish Compatibility Test. Posted: 5/4/2007 8:58:19 PM
The results of this test appear to be totally backwards. I'll have to agree with that one. Over half of what it came up with is wrong in my opinion.

Dallior

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 87 (view)

**Orlando Party April 28 at Toucan Willies** Posted: 4/27/2007 7:58:43 PM
quote] After dinner, we will be moving into the bar and lounge area where a live band and dance floor is featured I have a question. If we leave our shy at home and jump in to start coversations with people, are we going to be able to hear anything. I haven't been to a place with a live band whereanyone could carry on a conversation. Any tips?

Dallior

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**Orlando Party April 28 at Toucan Willies** Posted: 4/26/2007 5:35:58 PM
Wonder if I will find anyone to dance with???? Surely you gest?

Dallior

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**Orlando Party April 28 at Toucan Willies** Posted: 4/16/2007 10:18:11 PM
Lots of people signed up. I'm looking forward to making it this time. See you there.

dallior

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Try Your Luck at Love with a Little Help from The Irish! Deland/Daytona March 17th Posted: 3/11/2007 5:48:01 PM
I said I would make the next party but I just found out about this one and I will be out of town that weekend. Bummer. Cec

dallior

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Is oral sex cheating? Posted: 3/11/2007 5:21:34 PM
i cannot believe POF, whose administrators are always so happy to delete threads willy nilly, let this one go... sheesh! Somebody has to complain about it first. So far everyone is enjoying making comments.

dallior

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Msg: 295 (view)

Is oral sex cheating? Posted: 3/11/2007 5:20:17 PM
If someone is in a relationship and the other gets any kinda sex thats cheating. Now that statement doesn't even make sense.

dallior

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Msg: 294 (view)

Is oral sex cheating? Posted: 3/11/2007 5:18:42 PM
I think Bill gets thrown around a lot when it comes to things like this. YES, he did cheat on his wife. Are you sure? How do you know he didn't have permission? He probably wasn't supposed to get caught, but she wasn't upset enough for it to have been a big surprise.

dallior

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Wife Cheated Posted: 3/10/2007 12:56:09 AM
About 6 years ago my wife cheated on me. [/quote I realize this is a year old post but six years? Thsi guy has a serious problem. Even leaving her will not help. He need to seriously think about getting some professional counseling or this obsession with drive him crazy the rest of his life.

dallior

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Males disapproving of women having male friends Posted: 3/3/2007 11:37:01 PM
1: If she only has male friends and no female friends .... move on. 2: If she has no female friends at all... move on. [/quote Don't these two say exactly the same thing? To start off with rules like these show a definate lack of trust from the start. If you ladies run into men with these type rules, it would be a good idea to "move on".

dallior

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Males disapproving of women having male friends Posted: 3/3/2007 11:32:01 PM
I have a hard time understanding how two people used to be a couple, broke up AS A COUPLE...now all of a sudden they are best friends?...so you couldnt get along in a relationship but now you get along as friends?.....so why did you even break up? People break up for many reasons. Mostly because one or the other assumes the relationship places more limits on it than the other. In which case they break up and step back into another set of rules. I think everyone should remain friends if they can. It's more civilized. Why do you have to hate somebody just because the two of you didn't make a good couple? That doesn't mean you cannot be good friends. I'm still friends with everyone I ever dated, including my two ex wives. I do have a little issue with females staying friends with men they have slept with. If that is insecure, well call me insecure then. I'd say that is definitely insecure. What exactly is the problem you have with people being friends? Having sex should not mean you only have two choices to be either lovers or enemies. As I said, I am still friends with every woman I ever had sex with.

dallior

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Msg: 134 (view)

Open realtionships is it just cheating Posted: 3/3/2007 11:09:21 PM
If you are going to indulge in wife swapping, orgies or having affairs, I don't think we can call this a committed relationship. That is definately not true. I know people like this and they are more committed to each other than any of the other people I know. Being committed to a person doesn't mean the people involved cannot live by their own rules.

dallior

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 133 (view)

Open realtionships is it just cheating Posted: 3/3/2007 11:05:13 PM
Is it cheating? Absolutely. When a person makes a commitment to another you have no business playing this way with others. That would depend on what the commitment was. If both agree, then why have a relationship? My first guess would be because that is the type of relationship they choose.

dallior

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Open realtionships is it just cheating Posted: 2/24/2007 8:00:39 AM
> This isn't exactly true. Maybe true from swingers but not for Polyamorists. This life style is about commitment and love. Most are religeous and have a set of moral values, that they stick with, better than I;ve seen any other group do. They keep relationships together longer than most. They may be more committed to their partner than most monogamous people. Polyamorists are definately more concerned and more careful about STD's than any other group or life style I have ever heard about,

dallior

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Open realtionships is it just cheating Posted: 2/23/2007 3:28:34 AM
> Actually I read something on that a while back. I wish I had saved it, but it mentioned polls that are indicating that open marriages and other open relationships including Swing and Polyamory have a much higher rate of longevity than the traditional and strictly monogamous relationships. It also had some stats on the high percentage of supposedly monogamous relationships in which there was cheating going on. That was over half. I don't know what that means but I tend to think that maybe the majority of people are not really monogamy minded but are only trying to live that way due to society pressure.

dallior

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 109 (view)

Open realtionships is it just cheating Posted: 2/23/2007 3:20:08 AM
> Again the definition of cheating is to break what ever rules were previously agreed upon. Any adult couple can decide their own rules. There are no general overall governing rules that apply to everyone. If two people agree to have other partners for sex or anything else, they, by definition, are not cheat each other. I do not understand this predisposition to redefine cheating as having sex with more than one person. That would probably include 3/4 of the dating world.

dallior

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 108 (view)

Open realtionships is it just cheating Posted: 2/23/2007 3:13:04 AM
I hate think of dating as a game. There are no rules. Nothing written or enforceable. There is no governing body. There are just individuals that must decide for themselves how they conduct themselves and how they treat others. We all have our desires and limits on what we want, what we are willing to put up with and what we will not allow. It different for each person, but there are no blanket rules. Living with somebody is definitely not a game.

dallior

Joined: 1/1/2007

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Can you talk sex with out beconsidered dirty or a pervert? Posted: 2/22/2007 1:16:44 AM
> Just because two people have a stimulating conversation teasing each other, does not make them perverted. It seems to be pretty normal on this venue. There are however, some very strange people on here.

dallior

Joined: 1/1/2007

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Can you talk sex with out beconsidered dirty or a pervert? Posted: 2/22/2007 1:12:38 AM
> Now there's a question I've often wondered about.

dallior

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Open realtionships is it just cheating Posted: 2/22/2007 1:04:01 AM
There are many OPEN relationships people practice that are not swingers. Probably the number two most popular right under Swing is Polyamory.

dallior

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Can you talk sex with out beconsidered dirty or a pervert? Posted: 2/19/2007 10:14:20 AM
These days you need to be able to talk about sex openly. At least with anyone that is a consideration. I mean if you can't talk about sex then how will a potential partner know what they are getting into. Nowadays you need to know what kind of sexual past a person has had and what sexual practices and company they have been keeping. If you aren't willing to talk about it then how does somebody know if you are a low risk? If I don't feel comfortable with the risk level then I never consider going there. Sure it all takes time to learn about somebody so don't be in a rush, but if you have any desire of going there you should have long since talked about it.

dallior

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Msg: 340 (view)

How many times a day can you handle havin sex??!!! Posted: 2/19/2007 10:01:09 AM
> Makes me wish I was 30 years younger, but then you wouldn't be born yet. Sigh

dallior

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How many times a day can you handle havin sex??!!! Posted: 2/19/2007 9:59:18 AM
> I hear that. I've always had the same problem. These days the older ladies don't even seem interested in now and them, much less once a day or more.

dallior

Joined: 1/1/2007

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FAQ- New POF Feature- Viewed ME Posted: 2/19/2007 9:56:12 AM
You people are too paranoid

dallior

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Msg: 197 (view)

Long hair on older women Posted: 2/19/2007 1:33:13 AM
I love long hair, but I don't really care what length a lady wears her hair though.

dallior

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Open realtionships is it just cheating Posted: 2/19/2007 1:28:51 AM
You can't cheat with permission. If you have permission then it isn't cheating. The definition of Cheating is breaking rules that have been previously agreed upon. If you are following the rules you agreed to then you aren't cheating. Lots of people live life styles that other may not understand, but they have the right as adults to live and enjoytheir life as they wish. The homosexual lifestyle comes to mind. I don't really understand it but adults should have the right to make their own choices.

dallior

Joined: 1/1/2007

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Why do women use sex to get their way? Posted: 2/19/2007 1:22:57 AM
If you with hold sex for what ever reason, you're not getting any either. It seems about the same mentality as a hunger strike. Then again that seems to work too. BTW Nice legs.

dallior

Joined: 1/1/2007

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Why do women use sex to get their way? Posted: 2/19/2007 1:17:30 AM
Because it usually works.

dallior

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Msg: 134 (view)

Is oral sex cheating? Posted: 2/19/2007 1:16:04 AM
Now this is a stupid question. Like the lady said. It is sexual contact. Cheating is when you agree on rules and then break the rules. If you have promised not to have sexual contact with other people then it's cheating. If you happen to be with a partner that is into swing or some other open life style and it's all agreed upon prior, then I guess it would not be cheating. I seriously doubt that anyone can cheat and not know they are doing cheating. I guess that means all cheating is done on purpose. C

dallior

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Are there any gentlemen left? Posted: 2/19/2007 1:02:09 AM
I have several friends who are into Belly Dancing. Some in Melbourne and some in Tampa. They dance with a group or troupe as they call it.

dallior

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Are there any gentlemen left? Posted: 2/19/2007 12:59:47 AM
There are a lot of choices but it's too bad you cannot select more than one. Picking just one doesn't indicate what you are really interested in. I thoughy Hanging out is like what I do with mosty of my friends on weekends. Spending time together to enjoy the company. Other? hmmm maybe like whips and chains or something?

dallior

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Are there any gentlemen left? Posted: 2/19/2007 12:56:04 AM
I used to have that same problem. The ladies used to get tired and want to sit down. I wish I had met a lady like you in my younger days. I don't get to go dancing these days. I don't even know a place around Orlando that isn't full of kids and strange music. I used to love a place called Ricky Lee's. They played oldies and it was never very crouded. It's been closed several years now. I miss going dancing on weekends. c

dallior

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Males disapproving of women having male friends Posted: 2/19/2007 12:44:10 AM
I think Eric is in a dream world. I understand her completely. My ex was my best friend and they told us we would be perfect as a married couple. We weren't. Since the divorce some 6 years ago we have once again become friends. I have several lady friends that don't think I would be willing to give up to date somebody else. I'm with her. She should not have to give up her friend to find a match. People who don't understand probably have not had a best friend, have trust and jealousy issues.

dallior

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Males disapproving of women having male friends Posted: 2/18/2007 3:18:59 PM
> If I can go to dinner or movies with men frineds I can certainly go with women friends. Doing anything with friends is about as right as it gets.

dallior

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Males disapproving of women having male friends Posted: 2/17/2007 4:45:43 PM
I have several very close lady friends. It is possible to be friends with the oposite sex. Very close intimate friends. Sex does not always have to be a factor at all. One of my closest and dearest friends is a young lady I have known for about 6 years. I know her partner and other friends. I've stayed over at the house when he was out of town so she would not be alone. There is no sex and never has been. We are friends and he, she and I all know it. It can be done.

dallior

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Are there any gentlemen left? Posted: 2/17/2007 4:30:54 PM
People lie? Surely you gest?

dallior

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Are there any gentlemen left? Posted: 2/17/2007 4:27:49 PM
Talk sex? Geez you sure have been getting some winners haven't you? Who sends naked photos anyway. I sure never got any. What kind of people do that with total stranger? I don't like coffee either but it seems that's what most everyone on here wants to do. Go for coffee. I'm not one for online buddies either, but I would like to meet some nice friendly ladies. Some of em out there must ne looking for a friend. I do have a question, you said, "when I meet someone i'm interested in, i want to move from emails, to phone and if the interest is still there, we'll go on a date." How do you know your interested if you have not met them yet? I can't tell if I like somebody by writing or even talking on the phone. I'd prefer to meet them face to face so I can tell what they are like. Another question. I've noticed that many people have in their profile. "must not be looking for other relationships" But isn't that what we are all on here for? So what does that mean? If somebody writes to them once then they cannot write to anyone else until they decide if they are a winner or not. How exactly does that work?

dallior

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 188 (view)

Males disapproving of women having male friends Posted: 2/17/2007 12:15:28 PM
Anyone that disapproves of you having friends of any gender should be considered a RED flag. Get away from these people ASAP. They are control freaks that will make you life miserable. Everyone, male and female should be allowed to be friends with whom ever they choose.

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