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janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 834 (view)

Do women cook anymore?? Posted: 11/14/2009 8:04:57 AM
Many women have this notion that all they have to do for their man is be present. We should be grateful for that alone. Many are extremely selfish only looking to benefit for them self. If she hesitates when asking her to do anything or forgets, kick her ass out of there.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 193 (view)

how come women initiate the breakup 80% of the time? Posted: 11/14/2009 7:58:36 AM
Men have no leverage. Women earn almost as much as men. The cost of living dictates that both men and women have to work to pay expenses. This is where the issues start. Many women have to work full time, come home and have the full burden of being a full time housewife too. Resentment,anger, and exhaustion kick in causing her to diminish her loving feelings towards her man. At that point, the woman wonders "Why do I need him?" In my parents generation, dad earned enough $ for the mom to stay home. This provided a more stable and happy homebase. Plus, having your wife work, puts her into the working field where she gets a chance to meet men that she spends more time with than you. And you know how women are when they have options, FICKLE, FICKLE, FICKLE! I see highly successful men who earn enough for their women to stay home and I see less problems.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 116 (view)

how come women initiate the breakup 80% of the time? Posted: 10/31/2009 11:29:57 AM
A person is only as loyal as their options. Look to what is constant in life and the highest statistical probability. Highly successful men have greater luck with maintaining longer lasting relationships. A female's testosterone level is a ton lower than ours, so good sex won't keep them with you if there is no comfortable lifestyle to enhance it.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 18 (view)

Interesting concept Posted: 10/31/2009 11:24:35 AM
The biggest flaw of human nature. We want what we can't have. It is about self respect. If you like who you are, then you will not tolerate indifference.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 30 (view)

Why women have more sexual prospects.. Posted: 10/31/2009 11:22:01 AM
Do what I am going to do. Get out of Cleveland where guys outnumber females in any given situation, 10-1 it seems. A bunch of us decent looking, educated, well mannered guys are competing for yesterday's garbage.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 130 (view)

COWARD ! - The Ignoring Game Posted: 10/31/2009 11:17:17 AM
Totally agree. People won't answer their calls or texts to let someone don't easy but this is a very cowardly and dishonest way of handling this. Pull up your skirt, grab your balls, and get on the phone and tell the person that you're not interested. People are not mind readers and things do come up. Show some courtesy and let a person know exactly where you stand.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 128 (view)

How do we Unlearn behavior? Posted: 10/31/2009 11:13:13 AM
You don't. You resort to what is familiar and instinctive. To undo it, you would have to make a conscious effort to stop yourself when it happens. That is a lot of work and effort.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 164 (view)

I'm losing my faith and respect for women Posted: 10/31/2009 11:11:23 AM
Games are played by those who are NOT interested period. It is that simple. Would a female act this way around Brad Pitt, a professional athlete, or a highly successful business man, the answer is NO. When females don't find what they are looking for $$$$, they act like fools.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 138 (view)

Wouldn't it be great... Posted: 10/31/2009 11:07:05 AM
IF PEOPLE WERE JUST HONEST!

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 259 (view)

I Don't Need A Man.., I very Independent..etc etc = RED Flags? Posted: 10/31/2009 11:06:00 AM
Amazing how quick they will allow a successful man to take care of them when they find one. Most of the women I know look for a guy to pay all the expense while they go switch to part time so that they can use their own money on them selves.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 108 (view)

How to build chemistry with the nice guy after always going for the bad boy? Posted: 10/31/2009 11:02:33 AM
Simple. Develop your self esteem and stop being commitment phobic. You purposely chose these type of tools because you yourself are indecisive and you have no self worth. A person who knows they are worthwhile will only be with someone that will treat them accordingly.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 80 (view)

Single... does it equal weird? Posted: 10/12/2009 10:58:14 PM
Not unless you would rather be classified as divorcee.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 91 (view)

Do attractive people have more trouble being monogamous? Posted: 10/12/2009 10:57:41 PM
Chris Rock said it best "A person is only as loyal as their options."

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 50 (view)

Firgiving a cheating spouse? Posted: 10/12/2009 10:56:57 PM
Cheating means something is missing. Good BYE

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 63 (view)

What kind of guy do you want to marry? Posted: 10/12/2009 10:56:22 PM
Simple, a guy that allows them to work part time AT MOST! While he takes cares of ALL the living expenses.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 108 (view)

A real woman Posted: 10/12/2009 10:54:29 PM
A woman with 5 inch stelletos, hair extentions, push up miracle bras from Victoria Secrets, saloon tan with fake nails, exotic makeup to the point when removed they become unrecognizable, etc. and they want a "Real Man"? Can you say hypocrisy?

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 96 (view)

If he says he's into you, why does he still look at other profiles? Posted: 10/12/2009 10:50:56 PM
words and action conflict. He like millions of others want Plan A, Plan B, or Plan C, if things don't work out with you. Biggest problem with online dating.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 49 (view)

Should you still see someone even if they lied to you on the 1st date? Posted: 10/12/2009 10:49:24 PM
already shady behavior and it is not even the first date? I think it is obvious.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 416 (view)

Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX? Posted: 10/12/2009 10:47:46 PM
Ex's become exes for a reason.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 83 (view)

Dating a 27 yo girl for several months but she won't have sex Posted: 10/12/2009 10:47:16 PM
That doesn't make sense. Would she act this way around Brad Pitt? No, she would have swallowed him. Don't buy into her bullshit. You have waited long enough, start looking elsewhere.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 36 (view)

mixed messages Posted: 9/19/2009 2:45:20 PM
mixed messages, questionable behavior, uncertainty can all be filed under "Not That Into You."

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 137 (view)

should I tell His wife he's cheating? Posted: 9/19/2009 2:44:13 PM
Let "Cheaters" take care of it.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 43 (view)

Is independence a truly desirable trait? Posted: 9/19/2009 2:42:56 PM
Everything has its good and bad. Learn to compromise.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 132 (view)

Is appropriate to sleep with your ex to get closure? Posted: 9/19/2009 2:42:20 PM
Gee this is a hard one to figure out? NO

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 413 (view)

Guys don't want to be just friends, but girls do, why is that? Posted: 9/19/2009 2:41:25 PM
Single handingly the most insulting thing you can tell someone. Tell her where to go.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 70 (view)

Would you date a women bigger and more muscular then you? Posted: 9/19/2009 2:40:03 PM
Are you sure that she doesn't have a penis too?

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

She needs spce, but we were never exclsive, but dated and were lovers! So confusing! Posted: 9/19/2009 2:39:29 PM
No such thing as "Needs Space" translates into I want to bang other dudes.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 97 (view)

is it him or me?? Posted: 9/19/2009 2:38:17 PM
Very easy for you to say it back when you go out with your friends.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 25 (view)

tough one - some advice would be nice! Posted: 9/12/2009 11:36:19 AM
A woman with a conscience, that is refreshing.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 151 (view)

Anger in a relationship, or in life in general... Posted: 9/12/2009 11:34:36 AM
Welcome to metro Cleveland, Ohio. Land of Pittsburg fans who don't support where they live.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 26 (view)

disclosing cronic illness on profile Posted: 9/12/2009 11:31:10 AM
someone should know up front what they are getting themselves into.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 37 (view)

how fast is to fast? Posted: 9/12/2009 11:30:42 AM
he met someone else that he wants to move in

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 92 (view)

Older Guy Posted: 9/12/2009 11:29:31 AM
What you are involved in is practically illegal. Why would you want someone that much older unless you are looking for daddy?

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 60 (view)

Is this as good as it gets? Posted: 9/12/2009 11:28:35 AM
Until you find "THE ONE". Most will go their whole life with uncertainty with another person. You can go your whole lifetime and date and even get married but not find the person that was really meant to be with you. Until you find that, it maybe as good as it gets.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 535 (view)

why do men always have to look at other women!! Posted: 9/12/2009 11:04:55 AM
not all, correction, ALL STRAIGHT men

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 534 (view)

why do men always have to look at other women!! Posted: 9/12/2009 11:03:31 AM
ALL men are going to look at women. We are visual creatures.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 45 (view)

Question for the guys about dating and children Posted: 9/11/2009 3:29:52 PM
It sucks! Visitation rights break up the bond you start to create with someone. Kids this, kids that, kids, kids, kids, kids. It gets annoying.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 60 (view)

My boyfriend feels he hasnt slept with enough women. Posted: 9/11/2009 3:28:28 PM
You are somehow not satisfying him. You meet a girl that rocks your world, you don't even think about other women.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 399 (view)

I think Girls have it a lot easier than Guys when it comes to Love, Dating, Relationships, etc. Posted: 9/11/2009 3:25:23 PM
Attractive and successful people have it easier PERIOD! An average person will struggle with the game of dating.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 1410 (view)

Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met? Posted: 9/11/2009 3:23:46 PM
You could be setting yourself up for disappointment. If the physical attraction is not there, than anything you shared verbally will dissipate.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 677 (view)

Decoding the Female Language Posted: 9/11/2009 3:21:45 PM
There is no magic to it. When a person likes you, YOU FEEL IT! If you have to question whether she likes you, then she probably doesn't.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 42 (view)

Moving too fast, still hung up on his ex? Posted: 9/11/2009 3:20:31 PM
Nope, you are fine, he is not over her and he's not that into you. He is giving you lies. If it were legitimate, than you can come with him. If the roles were reverse, I am sure he wouldn't be cool with him. Drop him like it's hot.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 66 (view)

What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin? Posted: 8/27/2009 10:01:40 AM
Roadkill or my mom watching us.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 65 (view)

What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin? Posted: 8/27/2009 10:01:27 AM
Roadkill or my mom watching us.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 350 (view)

How many is too many? Posted: 8/27/2009 9:59:59 AM
just be concerned with sexual diseases and AIDS. What a person tells you is a lie anyways.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 122 (view)

Dating in the Dark... would you do it? Posted: 8/27/2009 9:51:08 AM
NO. Attraction is a must. Personality gives you a good friend but we all want to feel that fire with someone.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 222 (view)

Is this enough to ditch her? Posted: 8/27/2009 9:50:04 AM
Doesn't make sense? She can't be that much in love with you! Her needs are getting met elsewhere. Don't be naive. She is not that into you.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 31 (view)

I do wonder Posted: 8/27/2009 9:48:02 AM
You must test drive the product before you drive it off the lot. If that does not work, everything else will not matter.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 86 (view)

What would you think/do if... Posted: 8/27/2009 9:47:02 AM
She will upgrade your house, car, clothes, etc. She is obviously materialistic.

janus20

Joined: 1/1/2007

Msg: 62 (view)

My Best Friend's Girl Posted: 8/27/2009 9:46:12 AM
Attraction is not a choice. Your feelings might subside if you left your dude to be with this guy because the challenge would be gone. Forbidden fruit is always sweeter until you are able to have it all the time.

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