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How do you stop missing your ex because it's so hard... Posted: 6/13/2009 4:57:29 AM
I'm sorry sweet heart...i honestly belive nothing but time will fix it...and for the amount of time..i think its up to each individual person.... My guy left about 5mths ago and i still miss him heaps...wats worse is after he said i wasn't good enough he went back on this site to look for someone else......so now every time i log on he still appears lol, ironic but not funny really... I feel for you, but sorry there is nothing nayone else can do, there's a saying that goes... "can't take my mind off of you...until I find somebody new" maybe thats it...after time youwill meet someone new and it will take your mind off your ex lover... hopefully Its so hard I know....i hope your only young and not 38 like me before you found someone you adored and had too lose...regardless of age i feel scared every day that I will never feel like that with anyone again......just time...and maybe it was what it was and it may be just somehting you will hold onto forever in secret...thats life sweety...cruel...heartless and sometimes hopeless...but better too feel all this than be numb and a non-participant...in a way experience it and take it on board....at least you haven't been boring and never took the chance XXX

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can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers? Posted: 3/21/2007 4:08:30 AM
Robin, U make me laugh lol

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can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers? Posted: 3/20/2007 6:29:07 AM
[kerrymh - Pot smokers crack me up with all the reasons they have to justify it. I will never knowingly date someone who currently smokes pot, its immature, and stupid, lowers sperm count, and leads to memory loss, and once again is just plain stupid. I would even hesitate to date someone who has smoked pot in there life time. But thats difficult to do haha. I am very antismoking, but I would rather date a cigarette smoker than a pot head. I mean come on men in your 30's smoking pot GROW UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!] Oh for god's sake you should grow up. You state that someone who smokes pot or marijuana is immature, stupid, has a lowered sperm count, ends up with memory loss and you reiterate again that the person is just plain stupid, can you even spell the correct term or has alcohol damaged your brain too much. You want people to be honest on this, well stop being such bigoted uneducated idiots - (not all of you of course but most of you). Have any of you ever seen a baby that has alcohol fetal syndrome, well I hope you never have to, and no, a baby does not get this just by the mother consuming alcohol while pregnant, in fact a man who drinks excessively can corrupt his sperm for the rest of his life and create a baby with this terrible defect. I would rather have a man with a lowered sperm count than one who has ultimately damaged his for the rest of his life. Also the statistics for Domestic Violence, Rape and other crimes against women and children are linked with alcohol and not marijuana, in fact where alcohol is one of the main contributing factors, marijuana is rarely mentioned (and i'm not talking about man made or synthetically manufactured drugs). Less wars would be fought as well if more people smoked marijuana, it wasn't called passing the peace pipe for nothing. As long as you work, pay your bills first and keep it away from children, I would prefer someone to have a smoke with me than have a drink. And the fact that you would rather date a cigarette smoker than someone who smokes marijuana is enough of an indication of your mental ability and maturity, and you should be embarassed to spout out so much uneducated, ignorant propaganda as you have done here.

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Anyone from Queensland Australia?? Posted: 2/27/2007 5:13:06 AM
Hello toowoombalady yeah, from Townsville too! 36 yr old single mum of two, 18yr old son and 8yr old daughter, son recently moved out, very sad and announced he's getting married, much sadder. lol Man its hot here, just thought you might like to know that too, chat again some time eh

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Sex on the first date. Posted: 2/11/2007 4:03:07 AM
I believe the only reason a woman would have sex with a guy she just met is either very drunk and/or has low self esteem. Sorry guys its not because they think your soooo hot that they just can't resist.

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Is the fairytale impossible after 30? Posted: 2/11/2007 3:57:59 AM
i think a lot of you are dreamers. And yes i'm in my thirties. Quite frankly I would just be happy to meet someone who accepts me for my crazy sense of humour, can take a bit of sarcasm because sometimes i just can't help it, and can make me laugh, has a certain level of intelligence and can hold their own in a conversation. idiocy is not cute its annoying, however romance is a state of mind and it creates its own chaos, we only want it at all because we have been conditioned to believe that unless we wear the white dress and walk down the aisle we are failures. I have never been married and probably never will be, i accept it and move on, I don't spend fruitless hours searching for a certain someone, I talk to everyone and I don't put unreasonable expectations on them. fell free to disagree, i love a great discussion, keeps the brain healthy and soul alive, bye

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