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Thread: Seperated for four months, do i have the right to move on?

Joined: 1/4/2007

Msg: 31 (view)

Seperated for four months, do i have the right to move on? Posted: 4/18/2007 11:19:36 PM
I would think you'd have the right to,after all that's why you seperated.You obviously wasn't happy in your first relationship so what's there to stop you from finding the happiness that your previous relationship lacked.

Joined: 1/4/2007

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CHEATING LEADS TO LOVE? Posted: 4/18/2007 11:16:10 PM
I think it is possible,but I don't think it would be a good relationship since neither of them would forget how they got together,so they wouldn't have any trust in each other.We all know trust is a big factor in a lasting and happy relationship.

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Msg: 57 (view)

POLL: Would you leave your SO for Millions? Posted: 4/18/2007 11:12:56 PM
Well I'm not gonna lie here and say I don't like money because I do.But if I had to choose money or happiness I'd go with happiness hands down.The term"money doesn't buy love"is so true.I've learned that you can live without lots of material things,but being happy is a necessity and it is true when they say it's the little things in life which mean the most.

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Why??????? woman preferably..but any good answer is appreciated. thanx. Posted: 4/18/2007 11:07:14 PM
Well I can't speak for all women,but I can say if I was in a relationship that I wasn't happy in I'd leave.I wouldn't want to hurt the guy either,but I'm not certainly not gonna cheat us both out of the happiness we both deserve.Life's too short to live it unhappy.As for the kids picking up on someone who's not happy sure they can and we all know kids aren't stupid,but if you paid any attention to your partener you'd also know their not happy.

Joined: 1/4/2007

Msg: 40 (view)

Would you give up your friends for your soul mate?? Posted: 4/16/2007 10:42:58 PM
I don't feel you should have to give up your friends for anyone not even your soul mate.If the guy is in fact your soul mate he'd care enough about you that he wouldn't let you give up your friends anyway.

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Msg: 70 (view)

Is it ok for a guy to have female friends while in a relationship? Posted: 4/16/2007 10:40:21 PM
I personally don't have a problem with it just as long as the door swings both ways.If your confident enough about your relationship having male and female friends shouldn't be a problem.A relationship is built on trust and if you don't trust each other enough to have friends of the opposite sex then I think you need to take a long hard look at your relationship.

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Msg: 265 (view)

My 14 yr old dating a 20 yr old and on the pill Posted: 4/16/2007 10:35:07 PM
A very interesting and disturbing topic to say the least.Let's put it this way,if a 20 year old guy came to my house to pick up my 14 year old daughter,I'd be the crazy woman on the news chasing a 20 year old guy with a gun.I think no mother in their right mind would allow this to happen.I mean at 14 you have no clue what lifes all about despite what they think they know and their certainly not ready for any relationship let alone one with a 20 year old.As for the 20 year old,this guy is looking for sex and sex only I mean what else would he want with a 14 year old.No matter how much we don't want to accept our kids growing up and having sex it will happen at some point and that's natural.But I don't think their first experience would be a good one if it's with a guy way older and more mature than they are,not to mention one that's been around the block more than a few times.

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Msg: 274 (view)

Would you date a married man or woman? Posted: 4/16/2007 10:26:36 PM
I've seen so many people hurt because of this and I think it's unfair.I personally do not believe in messing around with a married man but there are many women who think differently.In my opinion if you go after a married man its a sign of being desperate.Since you can't find a man of your own you sink so low as to try to steal someone elses,and I think people who do this have no confidence or morals.I also think when a married person even begins to think about messing around it's time to end their marriage.

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Cheating- can you forgive? Posted: 3/1/2007 11:34:00 PM
To be honest I would never put up with any guy who cheated on me.When I'm in a relationship it's either all or nothing.Another thing I've seen that if you get away with it once you'll keep doing it.When I'm in a relationship I put in 110% and I expect the same of my partner.I think by cheating you had no respect for the person your with and has never really cared about them.If you even start to think about being with other people,the least you can do is leave the person your with first,at least that way it shows that you did have some respect towards them.It still might not be perfect at first but in the end they'll find it easier to forgive you.

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Why are older women not into younger guys??? Posted: 3/1/2007 11:27:04 PM
Well First I'd have to say I prefer to talk to men who are intelligent and most I've met who are,are not young.Another thing I'm not a patient teacher so I'd have to say I prefer a man over a boy.When I say man I don't mean someone as old as my father but a couple of years older is fine with me.I'm very young at heart and guys who are alot older are not appealing to me anymore than a guy too young.

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Msg: 528 (view)

When it comes to the opposite sex, what is your weakness? Posted: 3/1/2007 11:22:21 PM
I'd have to say my weakness would be a couple of things actually.First and foremost nice white teeth,great smile and a great sense of humor is a must.

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Wanting more than just casual sex on a first date. Posted: 1/12/2007 7:58:57 PM
I think there are two possible reasons for what's happening to you.One you have the ability to attract the worlds biggest pigs or you send them the wrong signals.Since I don't think anyone could be that unlucky I'm thinking you send them the wrong message,maybe not on purpose but maybe your trying too hard to please guys.I'm not judging you it's just what I think.Some woman will say and do anything to get guys attention,even if it means they make themselves look trashy.

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Msg: 67 (view)

are both sexs here looking for perfection in a mate Posted: 1/12/2007 6:56:29 PM
I think it's safe to assume that if your looking for perfection your gonna grow old alone.There's no such thing as a perfect mate,everyone has some inperfections so stop looking.The only perfect mate you can find is one that's perfect for you.

Joined: 1/4/2007

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can we change somebody Posted: 1/12/2007 6:53:01 PM
I can't understand anyone who tries to change someone else.I know that no two people are alike and enjoy different things so you have to learn to live with it.If you want to change the person your in a relationship with I think it means you really don't care as much for that person as you might think.I would change for no man and I wouldn't want to chnge them.Our differences and likes are what make us unique.

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