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Why men don't date strong women... Posted: 10/19/2007 7:18:10 PM
my recent ex has to put me down in every conversation. if that is strong woman.... i prefer being with weak. when i talk to someone i do understand there would be things she would know better than me & vice-versa. besides different opinions are what give us a new perspective. some 'successful women' love throwing their weight around a bit too much.

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Don't Know What You Got....Till It's Gone Posted: 10/19/2007 7:02:07 PM
there are nicer bits in a relationship, bits that got us into it @ the first place. then the aspects which got us apart. the question is... were we serious enough to make it work or were those growing apart feelings more overwhelming towards the pessimism? anyways to hope for a reconciliation...... well plentyoffish.... i dont think is a good idea to rush back to it. on second thoughts... if you love someone set her free if she comes back she is all yours otherwise she never was.

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Lets Face it..English is crazy Posted: 7/20/2007 2:54:05 PM
Live Vs. Live i saw a live match. i love to live in n apartment.

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Lets Face it..English is crazy Posted: 6/15/2007 6:03:30 AM
chi pronounced as in chinese & chiropractor!

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cuddles in sleep Posted: 6/2/2007 9:46:18 PM
lol u guys were right and so was i. hey like one of u guys pointed out, i am sleeping alone once again, so there u go. i learnt a lot from this fellas. thanx 4 sharing ur opinions. cheers

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cuddles in sleep Posted: 5/18/2007 9:42:53 PM
thanx 4 the input guys. valid points i do appreciate that. just 4 further clarifications, when i say cuddles i mean the occassional hand resting on each others body (non-sexual) and an occassional kiss on the cheek or hand or forehead or something followed by a rest (quiet) for another couple of hours, etc. so what i imply there, it is not physical or mental harrassment but some tender touching and a little bit sensual feeling of having the other person's esteemed company. apologise wasnt able to explain that bit when i started the post. but yeah i get the point to leave her alone when she dont want it. to a various degree ppl can handle what i ask 4. what we are talkin about is a complete no-go zone. just askin how much of physical touch can v handle while we asleep, etc. cheers ppl. thanx & regards

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cuddles in sleep Posted: 5/18/2007 8:56:45 PM
just curious folks. all right lemme tell u the story first i am seeing this gal and v have a perfect sexual life. the problem is she wont cuddle when asleep. i just love cuddles and the kisses in the sleep and the morning sex and stuff. so what we are doing is cat and mouse all night. she would sleep with her back on me on the edge of the bed and i would be chasing her all night 4 what i think is the best thing even better than sex. we have talked and she just says thats kinda her with sleep. i feel it is more refreshing than sleep to be in those half asleep moments feeling each other. plz tell me ppl if i am the abnormal here. this is the first time i have come across someone who wouldnt let me touch her in her sleep. we have no issues whatsoever and respect each other etc. i just fail to understand this bit which i wish i could change for good. shall appreciate ur inputs plz fellows. thanx in advance

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do u ever get embarassed when... Posted: 5/18/2007 8:04:46 PM
must admit when i went to buy them first time i did it just to sound cool. never used them meself too. 16 or less was my age. just asked for them at the druggist (didnt have help urself to the counter then). i didnt look at the fella, neither did he. was ready to give him crap anticipating anything, was embarrassed i must admit (besides that was a more conservative society). other time this superstore in balaclava in Melbourne had them with batteries and shaving blades etc behind the counter. felt embarrassed when the lady behind the desk was not getting which ones i was after, with a full crowd behind me. god put them condom thieves to hell for making them an on demand accessory. am 30 now and last week on a working day arvo went to get just condoms, i try not to advertise that i am buying condoms coz of kids and crowd around me etc and besides being a personal thing. with a straight face i usually push it under the nose of the salesfella. this time i had a woman in mid 40s who gave me a giggle coz condoms was the only thing i wanted. said some nice words which would be a case of sexual harrassment if not taken lightly. i liked the idea of a mom figure teasing me, and for the same reason i turned a bit red faced too. except that naah cant think of any other good/ bad experience buyin them.

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can it be too big? Posted: 4/28/2007 3:55:29 PM
maybe try a man that size 4 a change. lol. dont tear urself apart gal. not worth it i tell ya, roflmao

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Walking on broken glass? Posted: 4/28/2007 3:43:39 PM
if u feel u gonna be walking on glass, maybe u might not project ur true self. as long as v dont come out of that formal behaviour and not feel home, v are not able to project our true selves to the other fella. so i guess take it easy. just saying, excuse me if that was loud.

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What should I do? Help Posted: 4/28/2007 3:24:15 PM
how about just being friends. say u will know over the time while u dont let the emotions rule ur head. i think v are 2 judgemental on how we are approached etc. there was this "love at first sight" thing i once had. while the scepticism and the theorists would have said keep away she is a paranoid or stalker or whatever and the same goes 4 me... i was late teens but it went all right 4 us.... not together but v both have a lots of respect 4 each other, learned from each other and cared & still care 4 each other (she is happily married with 2 kids, me still single, and still frinds!) moral of the story face value aint all right always. however more often than not jumping to conclusions is not the right thing to do. stalkers & abusive partners haunt ppl coz they are allowed to do so. give it back to them what they askin 4 and that will be the end of it i promise. at the same time the rationality must rules over feelings, innit. so be ur own judge and take it easy. all the best with things. ciao

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The Funniest Joke In The World! Seriously! Posted: 3/28/2007 8:00:39 AM
the funniest joke. excuse me for saying this... naah! was a nice one though.

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Favorite Shirts with Words Posted: 3/27/2007 8:50:28 PM
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Harry Posted: 3/23/2007 8:18:54 PM
actually i missed this bit about Harry. the ignorant fella was sure he had missed a great job. he thought that place was up in the country somewhere far away. $$$$$$$

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The Vibrator Posted: 3/23/2007 7:59:14 AM
now beat this. its a real life story from Melbourne. i used to drive cabs as a student in Melbourne i had this changeover with this fella also from the subcontinent. one morning it was quiet and Harry invited me in for a coffee. he gets me a cuppa and tells me about this strange incident from last night. an early 20s flags him down and asks Harry if he wants a head job. been a quiet night Harry is grateful to have anything, he nods, the chick is in the car. Harry takes out his street directory and inside out, upside down, 5 minutes of silence............ he puts the directory away and goes in his thick Indian accent "sorry i am a new driver, can u give me the directions plz...........!" the sheila is a bit bewildered, then she giggles and asks Harry if he doesnt know what a head job was..... Harry moves his head side to side. the chick tries to assure Harry that its gonna be good fun! being a cabbie Harry had had the unusual experiences and like a magic goes a stereotype cab-driver "can i have the money upfront plz....." needless to say the chick got something different but equally amusing..... a joke for life. these days Harry has all the requisite lingual skills he might need on a lucky night.

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What do you do if the guy you are in love with is addicted to drugs? Posted: 3/22/2007 7:44:40 AM
say have u tried giving ur fella an ultimatum???? say a serious ultimatum..... if he is serious enough to be a role model to kids and more.....

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how would you handle this Posted: 3/22/2007 6:44:43 AM
wake up man, she comes 2 u when she cant get the money out of ur card.... she took 10k, if she was responsible enough, she would have been paying u back the instalments if not the full amount rather than askin 4 more. the crises and further crises... does that ring a bell? then she kicks u out.... i mean aint that a 'love' in convenience and then a loss of affection when she cant milk u anymore? wake up from ur fairtale dream, she aint gonna pay u back unless u make her pay. she f*** u, u think of ways of f***** her back. say tell the cops she stole ur card which she probably did. maybe she is involved in something more serious that u know of. think about making things so tough 4 her that she wont do it 2 another man, which she probably is while we talkin. forget about the money, be a bonus if comes back, otherwise restart a new life. i can bet u 10k if she returns u any. hey try telling her u lost all the money to a fraudulent company or some crap. guaranteed she will lose her 'feelings' 4 ya. wake up man, u had had a long ride.

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Come here go away. Posted: 3/21/2007 2:06:51 AM
i think there is a fine line between being a partner and being a bully. say the transition of the society.... so when we talkin about role sharing, how come is it inferred to a role-reversal at times? i reckon the transition is towards equality not shifting the balance towards the other side innit folks! besides, are we talking about ineqality in a match just by virtue of who has a more successful career, or who bring in more money, etc? no wonder u think men are stupid lol..

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Come here go away. Posted: 3/21/2007 1:32:45 AM
Oiy yoi yoi (as my Ukrainian Grandma would say). .... hey sombient, was a wonderful post that one. cheers

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Are all prostitutes the same? Posted: 3/17/2007 9:43:51 PM
[She could go to a 7am to 4 pm job anytime she wants doing anything but that.] well said mate. well guys a few points on the topic from me plz there is drugs, prostitution etc coz there is a demand for it. easy money for some, its an individual choice however on the moral issues and dilemmas etc.... living in Oz after having experienced the third world... its not poverty that drives ppl to beg or indulge in sex work or drug trade (as a user or as a pusher) in the developed world. coz that aint poverty if every household owns a car and has a roof on top, (to the someone who decides they not gonna earn it, well they dont count). the definition of poverty to me is when a human being puts in his 8 hours of labour and is barely able to buy edible bread for himself... there are ppl who wont be corrupted (individual choice) in those circumstances, while there is the other lot. an average ozzy makes a minimum 15 bucks per hour, enough to build a life on if one is really keen. yet we have ppl on dole, junkies & hookers on the street! having said that, there will be general exception to the rule and i love oz as much as any other fella ozzy. some 'gals' dont have any moral issues with the work they do.. and thats cool too. quoting this 'gal', who owns a cleaning business too, kids, house and investments. so thats plain work to her. freedom of choice, fair enough. secondly abuse or disturnbed childhood etc.... i was abused when i was a kid; had a disturbed childhood, living within violent parameters having no way out, etc. however, i dont live the trauma every single minute. on an average am reminded of that once a month. i must it is traumatic, and was sickening and depressing earlier on. had this guilt burden on me being a kid for no fault of mine and grew in it to one day when i grew out of it. however one has to move on and salvage a life out of that stigma and add value to self rather than otherwise. ppl get cornered and bounce back... or there are the ones who get cowed down. its being a defeatist to live that for the rest of one's life, i guess! plz correct me if i am wrong!

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Post No. 77 Posted: 3/17/2007 6:56:24 AM
hey that was the best joke in the forum Newbie. cheers dude. wish this happened 4 real mate. them coppers give us lots of crap for sure lol.

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Lets Face it..English is crazy Posted: 3/12/2007 4:07:07 AM
[Ask the English teacher here........] lol. thanx 4 the lesson WD. hadn't had many since the third or forth std when they taught us some tenses. lol my mother tongue (not english) has some funny quirks too. V all laugh about them at times, and at the occassional someone who... lol. again with read. lets say "I read the horoscope (just once or do it everyday)." or a newspaper 4 that matter or the quotes on my shares/ currencies of interest, etc. anyways, i actually thought i add to the humour, obviously mine was a bit dry. apologies 4 the same. wasnt intending to pick on a something though. lol

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Post a JOKE Posted: 3/12/2007 12:10:46 AM
from the sub-continent a peasant was busy ploughing his fields on a hot day. Lord Shiva's wife 'P' is pleased by the hard work put in by the fella and insists on Shiva to grant a wish to the man. Shiva is horrified by the thought, but has to budge, not to displease the "real boss". he appears b4 the farmer and tells him about the plot. the farmer is pissed off on this hermit trying to disturb his routine. upon much thinking he settles for not one but three wishes since he wont have just one. Wish One: My bull has two big horns (as the ones in the sub-continent), make them one. Wish 2: Lord Shiva, shove em up ur ass. Wish 3: restore the horns!!!!!!

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Lets Face it..English is crazy Posted: 3/11/2007 10:52:35 PM
may i add this bit why is b-u-t said like a butt while a p-u-t is like p-oo-t. how do u judge the intended tense in r-e-a-d and why is r-e-d a different spelling to the read as in past tense. lol

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Why do women fell worthless after sex??? Posted: 3/11/2007 3:06:14 AM
hey ppl. i thoroughly read and learnt from this thread. very valid points made there, guess i came out more mature after reading this. guess it is about the mutual and individual feelings, aspirations and the 'players bit' etc. i often think ppl have an animal hidden somewhere. say if we are indifferent to someone being hurt by our actions.... to sometime when someone gets hurt and we cant help it although v never intended to... many more situations like that..... dont know... wish i am never the culprit of the 'offence' ever. still this is an imperfect world. hey thanx 2 all u ppl who posted. nice read.

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