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Thread: What sign goes good with an aries?
jorel78
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What sign goes good with an aries?
Posted:
8/4/2008 12:24:45 AM
what? you actually believe in that stuff. look peoples signs take a back seat to the kind of man/woman you prefer.
jorel78
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My Ego's Been Bruised; How Do I Cope?
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8/4/2008 12:14:27 AM
you recover by moving on, the only thing that you have invested in this whole thing is that you bought a cu of coffee. do not worry there are many women and men who have experienced this happen to them. just move on you will save yourself a lot of grief.
jorel78
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3 day rule
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8/4/2008 12:10:47 AM
if a man/woman plays the 3 day rule, the way i see it is that there are not confident in them selves, or they are not very interested in you; which give you a chance to find someone new every 3 days, and turn the 3 day rule user into your back up in case you can't find something in 3 days. I feel that it is rare for people to actually be truly to busy to contact you, or contact you back. is someone tells you that they are way to busy, and barley have time for a relationship. just move on to the next person. it will save us at least 2 to 5 forum topics on why he or she doesn't contact you back, and that you think its rude.
jorel78
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Do men really know what Women Want???????
Posted:
8/2/2008 10:40:04 PM
look since women don't know what they want you really shouldn't post this little girl. if you are talking about what kind of guy they want, it would be more like they were choosing and outfit to where. they change to many times. but if this is a general question I can name a few things.
clothes that fit, guys to be ready for marriage and kids at the same time they are, to never go bald, to be able to eat all the tasty, and fattening foods they can eat with out worrying about gaining weight, a hairless body only to grow hair on specific parts of there body. for a guy to be called a slut if he has sex with a woman within 2 months of dating, to break a guys heart and make him cry, to be able to trust another woman around her man. to control her ovulation cycle. did I mention "world peace" but I think everyone wants that. to actually get along with other women without worrying about them being caddy.
I would try to think of more, but I became bored.
jorel78
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Should this be a problem?
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8/2/2008 10:08:52 PM
your not against religion its self, but you are against organized religion, which forces beliefs on you. and besides religion took some of the basic morals that people live by and tried to claim it as its on, for example. "do on to others". so don't worry you will survive. just make sure you let the new guys that you meet know this is how you feel, do to your past. but I doubt that the topic will come up anytime soon.
jorel78
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STOOD UP by a P.O.F. MEMBER
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7/30/2008 9:56:06 AM
it happens to guys and girls all the time. but what I am wondering is that why everybody gts so angry. over someone they haven't even invested emotions into. I think people need stop bringing there past to a new beginning. I believe that is half the problem.
jorel78
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Dating 3 girls....yikes
Posted:
7/30/2008 9:52:00 AM
hey as long as you are honest with them, and tell them you are casually dating right now then there wont be a problem. as long as they know, the choice is theres to stay or go. but just make sure that you get your ring back. even if she says she wants to hold onto it for a while, get it back immediately . you will regret it if you don't.
jorel78
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Approaching a cashier for a date... (Help)
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7/30/2008 9:27:28 AM
look just save yourself the trouble, and hoe that you see her in the bar or something. but be careful of letting here know that you have liked her eve since she asked you " if you would like fries with that"
jorel78
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would guys date a female cop?
Posted:
7/30/2008 9:24:37 AM
what ever there are alot of hot female cops, I would date them. hell if there are any in my city that would like to go dancing tell them o hit me up. but they all go through the same screening process as every other female. they just extra hotness points for being a female police officer.
jorel78
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Should I run from weak work ethics or stick around?
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7/30/2008 8:49:28 AM
I think the problem might be her, and what she as dated in the past. so she has all of a sudden put him in a category of lazy people. I think you might be bad for him. maybe he might be able to show you how weak your work ethic is. the way I see it; someone who works for 3 months and then relaxes for 9 months, seems to me that you are jealous. I think you want him to to support you, but he said that he will never support a woman financially. and he has done it in the past, maybe you came in for your meal ticket and discovered that there is none to be found.
jorel78
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Players! What is it like to play? C'mon be honest!
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7/29/2008 1:47:12 PM
your list describes both sexes. look when women use the word playa to describe a guy, please make sure he is one, and that you are not saying it out of anger because he didn't want to date you. because I am pretty sure that you would not like to called " a dirty ass Gold digging hoe" .
jorel78
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would guys date a female cop?
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7/29/2008 1:40:28 PM
hell I would date a female cop. the only thing I would ask her is if she is the crazy jealous type. as long as she can separate the cop from the girlfriend when she is not in uniform then every thing is cool, for example if I found out she was doing back ground checks on my friends and family, then that wouldn't be cool. that would send warning signals to me to move on.
jorel78
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Should I run from weak work ethics or stick around?
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7/29/2008 1:31:38 PM
Maybe when you actually start dating him he might just change his work ethic. just remember when you are single you only have to worry about yourself. when you are dating things change. a lot of the times for the better sometimes for the worse. who knows give him a try. you never know he might actually change his work ethic.
jorel78
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Is This Considered Cheating ???
Posted:
7/28/2008 9:37:38 AM
alot of people are calling it cheating. they have to ask themselves this "if your at home and masturbate byy yourself is it cheating? what about if you masturbate while watching some porn that you both have watched together? the way I see it if there is no physical touching, or fluid exchange. that also includes shooting your load from across the office onto her. and since there was neither of the above, its not cheating. but this is one hell of a story. this a story that you brag to you friends whether they be male or female. cot damn! that was a hot story.
jorel78
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So a guy turns up skint for your first date..................
Posted:
7/24/2008 8:08:11 PM
you already made your decision on what to do. so asking us is pointless.
jorel78
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Answer This
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7/24/2008 8:04:20 PM
I have to agree with " StarMama_2". it will eventually happen.
jorel78
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Allergic to Cats...what to do
Posted:
7/21/2008 2:38:47 AM
1. Allergic to Cats
thats says it all, ask yourself this is the guy who is allergic to nuts gonna store peanut butter in there cupboards for just in case that one person who comes along in there life nuts.
look keep the person as a friend. that is the best you guys can do in this situation. that is you only compromise. otherwise make sure that when you want a date that they will never want cats. or that they are allergic to cats as well.
jorel78
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Is truth always the best policy when chatting/profile?
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6/12/2008 9:18:23 AM
it really depends on what kind of truth you are trying tell them.
things you can tell - if you were to tell them that your ex was crazy then that is fine, or that you have never really had a long term relationship. then that is fine.
things you should never tell - if you are crazy, or addicted to porn. if you have had a gang bang with your friends, then that to might not be something they need to know.
jorel78
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How do I lower my standards without compromising too much?
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6/11/2008 5:50:45 PM
you say you want "Someone attractive, intelligent, productive, and caring. I also want someone who finds me interesting and who's open-minded.". just make sure that when you have expectations, that you live up to that same caliber. if everybody were to look at themselves, and I mean truly look at themselves. especially in there profiles. some could say that they live up to that they request from others, but the majority of people couldn't say that they live up to even have of there standards of what they request of others.
jorel78
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Next day phone calls
Posted:
6/11/2008 5:41:11 PM
if you like her, call her up and schedule another date, for 2 days later. if she thinks you are week & nerdy for calling the next day, then you know on your next date with her, don't bother calling for a week, or just let her call you. if she gets mad at you, tell her why you stopped calling her.
jorel78
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I don't understand whyonline guys can't be respectful
Posted:
6/5/2008 10:38:15 AM
look men and women both do the same things. hell I have added females to my msn, and withing 2 minutes of the conversation, she has sent me those msn "emocation gifs" of a small picture of a chick giving head or a chick getting eaten out by another chick. so really you should change your topic title to "why do men and women feel its okay to be disrespectful"
jorel78
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Best friend sleeps with ex after relationship ended..
Posted:
6/4/2008 7:25:28 PM
"Sex is one thing but wanting to be with my ex, knowing the life that we had shared together, was very hurtful and wrong"
ok look right now you are feeding us some BS. if it was just sex between them you would have been raging mad. but it wasn't just sex; there was an actual relationship there. this where your ego is coming into place. you thought to yourself
"what does she have that you don't?"
"what does he see in her?"
"they don't even have the same things in common?"
you and him have split up 3 times already. which means you guys are really not meant for each other. look she is trying to make a mends. either you can admit your insecurity to her about the dating part. or you can be stubborn and let it eat you from the inside out.
jorel78
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Guys asking to meet with you immediately
Posted:
5/27/2008 5:50:44 PM
if you think they are all trying to get in your pants, then that is your ego talking. if you think its just them asking for coffee then clearly you are ready for dating. if in there e-mail they are not saying "I want you to sit on my face" then that is a good sign, and besides i think you will be able to tell within the first hr of coffee what you are potentially dealing with.
jorel78
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Why can't I get over this guy?
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5/7/2008 12:33:49 PM
OP its all in your head, and alot of pride. that you have lost this battle. just walk away.
jorel78
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How long should I wait???
Posted:
5/7/2008 12:32:32 PM
well if you are not gonna get it from her, some other woman will give it to you, but stck it out for another 2 weeks, then if she doesn't then bang someone else.
jorel78
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Am i an a*hole?
Posted:
5/7/2008 12:29:46 PM
all guys and all women are assh@les, at some point in time, so don't stress it.
jorel78
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Do people really spend hundreds on a date?
Posted:
5/7/2008 12:26:30 PM
it really depends on what the 2 of you are doing.
jorel78
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Is it wrong or a natural instinct to find another person attractive if you're in a relationship?
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5/7/2008 12:25:33 PM
it is ok, hell many people still think some celebrities , are attractive and they are dating someone, but nobody thinks twice to say it wrong. maybe there is a double standard.
jorel78
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Talking about sex before even meeting
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5/7/2008 12:23:40 PM
talking about it leads to it. so if you don't want sex never bring it up.
jorel78
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He is jealous of my male friend
Posted:
5/7/2008 12:22:53 PM
ya why wouldn't he, if he had a female friend you would hate her.
jorel78
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Of birthdays and dates
Posted:
5/7/2008 12:22:14 PM
if they wanted to celebrate it with me, that is fine, but I wouldn't make it a date. and I would let them know that anything wrong that I do on my birthday cannot be held against me. it is the rules of the birthday.
jorel78
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Is it just a guy thing or am i being a prude?????
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5/7/2008 12:19:52 PM
PRUDE. because if things were switched around you would freak out on him.
jorel78
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what info would send you running on a first date.
Posted:
5/7/2008 11:53:21 AM
for me if the girl said that she had wrote about and ex-boyfiend of hers on a website called "don't date him dot com"
jorel78
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Chemistry...explain please
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5/7/2008 11:51:15 AM
hey just move on, and find another girl to kiss. she said she didn't like you in a certain way. but hey that means you can date who you want. don't waste you time on this one, treat her like a friend, and never let her get past that point.
jorel78
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Headboard banging against wall?
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5/7/2008 11:48:08 AM
rearrange the bedroom. so the head boards are on opposite sides. otherwise don't complain, I think you love, could this be a little fetish of yours.
jorel78
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Pets in Bed
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5/7/2008 11:46:18 AM
pets sleep on floor, or in their own pet bed. some people think that they would rather date there pets than anyone else. in this world we call that beastiality . also classified as a mental disease.
jorel78
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Men Who've Passed Their Expiration Date
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5/7/2008 11:44:08 AM
men / women everyone expire's at some point in time.
jorel78
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The baby was born, now what do i do with my relationship?
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5/7/2008 11:43:07 AM
its ok to feel that way, you would have preferred it to be you who had his kid, but I think it is more that you feel that he is now gonna leave you and start a relationship with her be cause they have a kid. that is not always the case, all I can say is talk to him, and let him know how you feel. he will understand if he the guy you hope him to be.
jorel78
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outrageous expectations from online daters
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5/7/2008 11:37:46 AM
it happens to both sexes. just remember POF, has given you a block button, use it wisely
jorel78
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Has common sense been replaced by paranoia in online dating?
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5/7/2008 11:36:14 AM
this the 2nd most leading cause of death of the "dating seen". eventually a cure for this disease, but for now we have to wait.
jorel78
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I need help please
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5/7/2008 11:31:43 AM
you have now been thrown into the friends zone, the only chance you have now is to date one of her friends. if her friend is hot, then this is a bonus for you.
jorel78
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BEING FAITHFULL OR IS THIS STUPID
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5/2/2008 2:54:41 AM
if you both cannot be physically attracted to one another, which is also part of a relationship. then sorry to say this is but you have to get a divorce.
jorel78
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Seven traits to avoid in a partner
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5/2/2008 2:51:18 AM
when they have have their own test; to see what kind of category you fall into. sorry but that is just creepy. another is when your first date with them seems more like an interrogation, and they can't seem to enjoy them selves if it doesn't involve them asking more questions.
jorel78
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New law makes it legal to sue homewreckers.
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4/21/2008 8:42:03 PM
if it is just sex between the home wrecker, and the partner, than there shouldn't be any law suit. but if they are getting money, and there bills payed, then the home wrecker should reimburse, half of what they got from the partner to the partners partner. I don't know if this makes sense , but it it did at the time of writing it.
jorel78
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How to get your date to check his appearance during the date
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4/21/2008 8:14:04 PM
I figure you should have put a hole bunch of water in your mouth and kissed him, spitting the water in his mouth. that would have 1)rehydrated him, 2) possibly cleaned the food from his teeth, 3)maybe cleaned some of the white stuff from the side of his mouth, 4)given him the kiss he so desired, 5) and last ended the date so you wouldn't have had to look at him again.
yes I know that sounds really disgusting, but the way you described him was kinda sick. and he wouldn't listen to you, because you asked him if he wanted some water many times. so if you have told him about the his appearance. he might have gotten mad.
jorel78
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I am So fed up with men these days
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4/21/2008 7:56:26 PM
I think that they want sex from you, maybe they don't see you as a person that they would marry, or have a long term relationship. hell its the truth, people have the right to decide who they want to be with, I am pretty sure you have broken several mens hearts in your life, so suck it up butter cup...men are bad ...men are evil... all men want is sex..... blah blah blah.. sob sob sob...... so how many of these guys who you have loved have done this to you. cause you say all men, so this means you have dated( aka. had sex with) alot of men. give us a total. you can leave the rebounds out. just to make your total seem smaller.
jorel78
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How long after a POF date doesnt work out is appropriate to see someone else on a date site?
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4/21/2008 7:47:20 PM
look you can go on another date, an hour later if you choose. since people break up and are hooking up with people that same night, you are fine, hell your not cheating on anyone, so cheers.
jorel78
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He Says Lose 30 lbs and He Will Give you an Engagement Ring.....Would Ya????
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4/17/2008 10:03:32 PM
first off he is still married, then the answer is "no"
and this blog isn't being written for a friend of yours cause you wrote "problems are my religion and my weight"
jorel78
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you're not their first choice........
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4/17/2008 9:55:31 PM
nobody is ever someones first choice, and besides you were both just getting know each other, and since nothing happened yet between the 2 of you then its ok top pursue them again. but since you wrote a blog about it, then the answer is "no". you clearly have a problem with it.
jorel78
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Men Who've Passed Their Expiration Date
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4/10/2008 12:42:21 AM
maybe you should re-word this topic to include women also. seems a little one sided.
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