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 Author Thread: Rachel Ray on a box of Ritz Crackers
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Rachel Ray on a box of Ritz Crackers
Posted: 4/15/2009 7:44:57 AM
I can't say I know who either woman is, except that I remember seeing Rachel Ray on a box of Ritz Crackers once and wondered who she was and what she has to do with crackers.

But I can attest to this - what you said:

Is it because they are happy women who never are negative . . .

is very true; I believe people in general tend to look more favorably on others who project a 'happy' and optimistic disposition. Conversely, not too many people actively like or are attracted to pessimism, unhappiness, or frequent complaints..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 88 (view)
 
death, for some, is a loss of all control..
Posted: 8/25/2007 7:54:38 AM
The people I know who fear death the most are those who look to exert the greatest control over their lives and their environment; it appears to me that the fear isn't necessarily of death itself, but a fear of irrevocably losing all control.. (which then implies trust issues..)
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 8 (view)
 
What determines a crime?
Posted: 5/24/2007 8:13:20 PM
In New York State, "crime" is defined by § 10.00 of the New York State Penal Law. Unfortunately, it relies heavily upon the definitions of other terms, all of which are:

1. "Offense" means conduct for which a sentence to a term of imprisonment or to a fine is provided by any law of this state or by any law, local law or ordinance of a political subdivision of this state, or by any order, rule or regulation of any governmental instrumentality authorized by law to adopt the same.
2. "Traffic infraction" means any offense defined as "traffic infraction" by section one hundred fifty-five of the vehicle and traffic law.
3. "Violation" means an offense, other than a "traffic infraction", for which a sentence to a term of imprisonment in excess of fifteen days cannot be imposed.
4. "Misdemeanor" means an offense, other than a "traffic infraction", for which a sentence to a term of imprisonment in excess of fifteen days may be imposed, but for which a sentence to a term of imprisonment in excess of one year cannot be imposed.
5. "Felony" means an offense for which a sentence to a term of imprisonment in excess of one year may be imposed.
6. "Crime" means a misdemeanor or a felony.


I am researching the subject and looking at who decides what is criminal or not and who is a criminal.


The legislative branch of the government determines what action/inaction is criminal and what isn't.
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 23 (view)
 
[you don't know that he] FORGOT [your] BIRTHDAY!
Posted: 5/21/2007 9:16:52 PM
I may be over reacting . . .


You are.

To truly earn the 'right' to complain, I believe you should have let the entire day pass before saying anything. Only then can you demonstrate that he was truly forgetful and overcome claims of a subsequent "surprise".

Even so, I believe you are putting far too much emotion into this incident; if you had a decent relationship with this guy, where you both respected and appreciated each other on a regular basis, you wouldn't need to place so much emphasis on events such as birthdays.

If you are judging this guy so harshly because of a forgotten birthday (as this thread suggests), then I'd believe there are far more important issues for you to address and resolve then his lapse of memory...
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 2 (view)
 
advertisements submitted as discussion..
Posted: 3/8/2007 2:45:50 PM
This looks like just another bit of advertising under the guise of a 'forum discussion'...


there's many ways to protect property (laptops, as the example may be) from theft and loss that don't involve spamming the forums..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Jaywalking don hit by full force of the law
Posted: 1/11/2007 7:25:03 PM
Even in the two additional 'accounts' presented/pasted above, I don't see anything that contradicts the professor's claim that he asked for ID from the officer as a requirement for submitting to the officer's alleged authority. A uniform is not identification, and it should never be allowed to be substituted as a replacement. Anyone can obtain and wear a police uniform, legally, without being a police officer. Only bona fide police officers will have legitimate identification identifying them as such. A request for ID from a uniformed officer is just as legitimate a request as a request made to an undercover officer..


The professor did more to harm our sense of security than the rough tactics of the officers. In order for a police officer to do his job at all he needs to be respected, not because of the kind of person he is but because of the office he represents. This is a universal principle which applies to all positions of authority. This professor probably thought that he deserved more respect than the officer who approached him but he thought wrong. The officer was acting in an official capacity and there was no good reason to believe otherwise. The man should have complied and then asked questions later to enlighten his ignorance. It shows a very arrogant attitude when in a foreign country to demand proof of police authority when a case of mistaken identity is all the more likely. I wonder if he would pull the same stunt in, say, Israel.


I don't agree.

The professor brought to light a very important issue: the right to verify the authority before submitting to it. This matter, as I believe, is not about jaywalking, and nobody is going to argue that it's perfectly okay to 'jaywalk'. It's unlawful, even if it's also minor in relation to other notorious crimes. What piqued my interest, and what I believe the true issue here is, is that the professor: 1. asked for identification, 2. was not provided with identification, 3. proceeded about his business, and 4. was assailed and placed under arrest.

From what I've read and from the video interview, I have no reason to believe that the professor would have ignored the officer or continued about his business had the officer shown proper identification, as the professor initially requested.

 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Jaywalking don hit by full force of the law
Posted: 1/10/2007 10:56:26 PM
qf: http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,11069-2541133,00.html



Jaywalking don hit by full force of the law

by: Will Pavia

> Five officers pin professor to ground
> It's lucky he was not shot, says wife

A distinguished British historian who tried to cross a road in Atlanta, Georgia, has complained of being wrestled to the ground, pinioned by five police officers and incarcerated.

Felipe Fernández-Armesto, 56, visiting Professor of Global Environmental History at Queen Mary, University of London, was attending the conference of the American Historical Association last Thursday when he was caught jaywalking.

“I’m a mass of contusions and grazes,” he said in an interview shown on the website YouTube.

“I come from a country where you can cross the road where you like,” he said. “It hadn’t occurred to me that I wasn’t allowed to cross the road between the two main conference venues.”

He was not the only historian so to offend. A policeman called Kevin Leonpacher led a crackdown on the scholars, cautioning several before confronting the British professor, whose work has been compared to that of the 18th-century greats Gibbon and Montesquieu.

“I didn’t appreciate the gravity of the offence,” he said. “And I didn’t recognise him as a policeman. He was wearing . . . a bomber jacket, like a jerkin.”

The officer asked the professor for identification. The professor asked the officer for identification. Officer Leonpacher then told him that he was under arrest and, according to the professor, subjected him to “terrible, terrible violence”.

He said: “This young man kicked my legs from under me, wrenched me round, pinned me to the ground, wrenched my arms behind my back, handcuffed me.” As he bridled at this treatment, Officer Leonpacher called for help and soon “I had five burly policemen pinioning me to the ground”.

His colleagues were astonished. It was “like he was Osama bin Laden or something”, said Lisa Kazmier, a historian from Philadelphia.

The professor had hoped to spend the afternoon listening to his fellows discoursing on arcane topics. Instead, he was handcuffed to another suspect in a “filthy paddywagon” and fingerprinted in a detention centre, where his peppermints were confiscated. His bail was set at £720 and he remained behind bars for eight hours. When he told a judge his side of the story in court the next morning the case was dropped.

Officer Leonpacher was unrepentant, saying: “He chose to ignore a uniformed officer. At what point can anyone say I overreacted?”

The professor’s wife, Lesley, told The Times yesterday: “I suppose it’s lucky he wasn’t shot.”

The professor said that, as an “ageing member of the bourgeoisie”, he found it all educational — and was now seen by many of his colleagues “as a combination of Rambo, because it took five cops to pin me to the ground, and Perry Mason, because my eloquence before a judge obtained my immediate release”.

Walk, don't walk
> Georgia’s criminal code, Section 40-6-96, states: “Where a sidewalk is provided, it shall be unlawful for any pedestrian to walk along and upon an adjacent roadway”

> A police officer was present when the professor, right, attempted to cross the road, so he was charged with being in breach of Section 40-6-90:

> It states: “A pedestrian shall obey the instructions of any official traffic-control device specifically applicable to him, unless otherwise directed by a police officer”




I firmly believe that anyone approached by an officer, uniformed or not, has a right to request identification from the officer before submitting to the officer's will. In a day of fraud and impersonations, we have every right to verify that the officer is who they purport to be before being compelled to follow his orders..


Being that this happened to a historian, I have a good idea of how this incident will be remembered..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
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Questioning Capital Punishment - Moratoria in three states
Posted: 1/2/2007 8:18:27 AM

Why should there be a painless method?


Because the United States Constitution prohibits "cruel and unusual punishment" and the United States Supreme Court has upheld over and over that causing pain during an execution constitutes "cruel and unusual punishment"..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Questioning Capital Punishment - Moratoria in three states
Posted: 12/31/2006 10:51:20 PM

Bruce Shapiro - Sun Dec 31, 1:00 PM ET

The Nation -- In the long, contentious history of capital punishment in America, there has never been a moment like this: Over just a few days in mid-December, judges in California and Maryland and the governor of Florida shut down any pending executions in those states--all because of rapidly growing doubts about the humanity and constitutionality of lethal injection. In less than a week, 1,052 death-row inmates were thrust at least temporarily beyond reach of the needle.

At first glance, the impact of each of these death penalty moratoria might seem limited. In Florida on December 16, Governor Jeb Bush suspended executions and set up a commission to study lethal-injection procedures, after the grotesque death of Angel Nieves three days earlier: The three-drug****ail supposed to sedate Nieves and kill him painlessly and quickly instead left the inmate conscious, grimacing in pain and struggling for breath. It took half an hour and a second round of injections before the spectacle ended.

In California, US District Judge Jeremy Fogel declared that state's execution protocols rife with irregularities. In particular, Fogel raised serious questions about whether "certain inmates have been conscious" when injected with heart-stopping drugs, suffering "unconscionable" pain and anguish.

And in Maryland on December 19, the state's highest court shut down executions, finding Maryland's death penalty illegal because it had been established in secret and never subjected to a public hearing.

None of these orders address capital punishment itself. Governor Bush and the judges each focused on what might be described as "technicalities"--the choice of killing drugs, the training and accountability of executioners, the administrative procedures for an inmate's final hours. Bush and the judges each held out the possibility that, in Judge Fogel's words, execution protocols are "broken, but can be fixed."

Yet taken together, these three rulings--and a cascade of lethal-injection challenges in other death penalty states--have a cumulative significance far beyond their seemingly narrow terrain.

For the last decade, the issue that has driven the death penalty debate--galvanizing the attention of courts and press alike--has been innocence: a capital representation system so criminally negligent that 123 wrongfully convicted death-row inmates have been released, and public confidence in death sentences eroded.

Yet innocence cases, in their own way, have evaded a fundamental question: What about the grievously guilty? What about what one pro-death-penalty legal scholar calls "the worst of the worst"? Are executions of the truly guilty consistent with America's evolving constitutional standards, with national ideals and worldwide human rights norms?

As the three orders make clear, the new challenges to lethal injection cut much closer to that question--forcing a confrontation with America's ambivalence about state-sponsored killing.

Behind all three rulings is a growing body of evidence that lethal injection is far from the humane alternative to electrocution or gassing that legislators around the country sought after the Supreme Court reinstated capital punishment in 1977. As the shocking death of Nievas illustrated--though it was far from the first case to do so--lethal injection is often anything but neat. In California, for instance, what Judge Fogel described as a "mountain of documents" and expert testimony suggest that in at least six of the state's thirteen executions by lethal injection, inmates may have been conscious when injected with drugs that stopped their breathing and hearts, which the state's own medical expert agreed would bring "unconscionable" pain.

Mark Heath, a medical doctor and anesthesiologist and researcher at Columbia University, reviewed California's execution logs and the medical records of inmates. In October, he told Judge Fogel that he found cases in which sedation appeared to have failed, procedures that fall below even the legal requirements for veterinarians euthanizing animals and an execution system that "creates medically unacceptable risks of inflicting pain and suffering on inmates."

Heath has called the three-drug****ail widely used by states and the federal government a "chemical veil," because it masks inmates' suffering through the paralyzing drug pancuronium bromide, freezing their muscles and facial expression before the final heart-stopping drug courses into their veins.

Along with the chemical veil, it turns out, is a veil of bureaucratic secrecy. In Maryland and California and other states, lawsuits are beginning to reveal a scandalous culture of death-row corruption cloaked by governments' habitual insistence on keeping their execution procedures confidential. Guards with sordid records of sadism make it onto execution teams. In California, one guard was added to the team even after he was caught smuggling drugs into the prison. After reviewing prison records, Judge Fogel found evidence that barbituates stockpiled at San Quentin for executions were in fact diverted and sold by guards, and he urged a criminal investigation.

The picture emerging is of an execution system both cruel and corrupting. But will these scandals threaten the political underpinnings of American capital punishment?

Americans--citizens and courts--have long held contradictory views on the death penalty. The proponents of lethal injection over the years have understood that ambivalence well--better, in some ways, than many death penalty abolitionists. In the early 1970s, a moment when capital punishment was on the ropes, then-California Governor
Ronald Reagan suggested that the public might lose its squeamishness if instead of the brutal electric chair prisoners were put down like horses on his ranch, with a painless shot. Bill Wiseman, then an Oklahoma state legislator, in 1976 crafted the nation's--and the world's--first lethal-injection law after the state medical examiner promised a three-drug****ail would be humane, quick and neat. (Wiseman is now an ordained minister and death penalty opponent.)

Jeb Bush switched Florida to lethal injection after the nauseating 1997 electrocution of Pedro Medina, complete with flames shooting from the dying man's skull and the smell of his burning flesh filling the witness chamber. His swift imposition of a moratorium after the Nieves execution last week suggests that one pro-death penalty governor at least sees real risks in the lethal-injection scandals.

Bush's moratorium and study, in turn, raise another critical issue. Judge Fogel and Gov. Bush both seem to think that the lethal-injection system, in Judge Fogel's words, "can be fixed." But it is worth asking, Why haggle over the method of execution? Why encourage politicians technocrats to invent a better mousetrap?

For starters, as the Nieves execution and a mountain of medical evidence make clear, lethal injection inflicts genuine suffering on death-row inmates. Confronting lethal injection in the courts also slows the pace of execution and saves lives, buying time for individual appeals and ongoing reconsideration, state by state, of capital punishment's manifold perversions of justice.

Finally, and most important, the Supreme Court's reversals in recent years--its wholesale rejection of executions of juvenile offenders and the retarded--suggest that "evolving standards of decency" are real. Polling data suggest the same thing. To Americans the other methods of state killing employed by a diminishing number of nations--beheading (Saudi Arabia), the shot behind the ear (China), the gallows (Iran)--all seem archaic, visceral, violent. Cool, clinical and peaceful, lethal injection was supposed to overcome public revulsion, but it will not always do so. California may concoct a new drug****ail or protocol that satisfies Judge Fogel; when Jeb Bush leaves office in January his successor will likely lift the moratorium. But even in the lingering, unforgiving shadow of September 11, the country continues its march away from capital punishment.


(qf: http://news.yahoo.com/s/thenation/20070108shapiro)


Am wondering if there's a truly painless method of killing a condemned inmate.. If one isn't agreed upon, will the death penalty in the United States ultimately be eliminated?
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
leaving town to find someone....too desperate?
Posted: 12/31/2006 10:30:52 PM
Is it an option to go to nearby towns/cities to socialize without actually moving to them?


Is changing your whole life around (am assuming you'd change jobs as well as your residence) a better option than commuting to decent places to socialize?
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Double Standard...Or Not?
Posted: 12/31/2006 8:23:48 PM
The whole concept of a "double standard" does not exist; it's a fictitious phrase..


Whether there is justice in the situation you cite is a different issue.. (I only take issue at the phrase "double standard..")
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
My Merry Christmas
Posted: 12/25/2006 9:54:22 AM
Date a much-older divorce lawyer until things go your way. Just be sure to never marry 'em.
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Best things to invest in.
Posted: 11/30/2006 9:42:50 PM
intellectual property -- the only legal monopolies..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 37 (view)
 
My profile PICTURE and T SHIRT.. It's message..
Posted: 11/30/2006 8:28:52 PM

1) I am a breast cancer survivor. My grandmother had it, and my mother had it. Grandmother lived 31 yrs after it and died from something completely unrelated. So, she survived it.
My mother is still here, thank God. As I am, THANK GOD.

2) I am prior military. I was in the Air Force Reserves for 6 yrs and served my country during Desert Storm in '91. So, I'm a pretty big 'military, TROOPS supporter'.


You've no obligation or need to explain yourself to anyone, particularly strangers. If someone is offended, it's their problem, not yours.
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 1 (view)
 
4-year-old in Power Ranger garb foils robbery
Posted: 11/30/2006 8:22:27 PM
qf: http://www.9wsyr.com/news/national/story.aspx?content_id=C4DA7C5E-96C3-4BDE-9B9C-28561FC75792



By MATT DEES - Raleigh News & Observer

DURHAM, N.C. -- A robber was holding a gun to 5-year-old Mary Long's head when a 3-foot-tall Mighty Morphin Power Ranger leapt into the room.

"Get away from my family," 4-year-old Stevie Long shouted, punctuating his screams with swipes of his plastic sword and hearty "yah, yahs."

The robber and his accomplice, who was waiting outside the apartment Friday night, fled with credit cards, jewelry, cash and other items that Stevie's mother, Jennifer Long, dumped from her purse.

"I scared the bad guys away," Stevie said.

Two men had approached Jennifer Long's boyfriend and his son as they stood outside the apartments she helps manage, according to a police report. The strangers asked for pot, and then a cigarette, and as the son went to get one, both men pulled guns, police said.

One stayed with the boyfriend as the other forced the son back into the apartment, police said. Inside were Jennifer Long, a cousin, Stevie, Mary and two other children, police said.

They were forced on the floor. The robber pointed the gun at Mary and a 1-year-old girl named Sierra, said Stevie's uncle, Bernie Evans, 33, who lives above the Longs.

Enter Stevie.

"During the robbery, a ... boy snuck into his bedroom, dressed himself in a Power Ranger costume and armed himself with a plastic sword," police said. "The child then exited his room and approached the armed suspect, in an attempt to protect his family."

Relatives said the robber abandoned plans to take Stevie's mother to an ATM to withdraw cash when he saw Stevie.

"It tripped him out, and that's when they moved on," said Evans, who did not witness the incident. Jennifer Long declined to comment, saying her employers at the apartment complex would not allow it.

Stevie likes to think he cuts an intimidating figure in his red-and-black mask and foam suit that replicates the rippling muscles of the kiddie adventure show heroes. But Evans said the robber was more startled that Stevie was able to retreat to his bedroom and morph.



I love how Stevie found it necessary to put on the Power Rangers costume before charging to his family's defense..


Someone buy that kid a milk...!
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 38 (view)
 
some advice..
Posted: 11/27/2006 7:04:31 PM
How can I break it to him without hurting him???


You can't. Best you can do is buy him a DVD of The 40 Year Old Virgin and ask him to watch it over and over until he gets it..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Combatting spam is easy
Posted: 11/21/2006 10:39:45 PM
You can redefine how you use email.

I've worked on an email management system that completely alleviates the problem of spam. It works so well that those of us who regularly use it tend to forget that other people are still having problems with spam. With no filters and no false positives, it's 100% effective, and knocks out phishing fairly well in the process.

My point is that there are solutions out there that work, once you look at email a little differently.. Be patient, this system will gain popularity soon enough..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 16 (view)
 
This one is strange
Posted: 11/16/2006 12:47:12 AM
op>>>>> where are you?


She probably has him gagged, in leather restraints, chained up in her basement.. freaks..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 13 (view)
 
This one is strange
Posted: 11/15/2006 10:45:36 PM
What you describe is a dangerous game. Until you ID this guy, you've no idea what risks, if any, you're exposed to..

Do you have a security department at your employment? Can you show them, and/or your HR department the messages you're getting?

If you're not shy about the messages, you could even make up a flyer with the basic info of your story -- complete with excerpts from the messages and whatever description of himself he has included -- and put copies of it around work.. That would not only raise awareness (in the event he's a fruit medley), but could also either shut him up or pull him out of the closet..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 75 (view)
 
What would you invent?
Posted: 11/15/2006 10:27:43 PM
I would invent a medical procedure designed for all politicians that they must submit to upon taking office. It would cause their bodies to turn completely blue (like those munchkins from Willie Wonka fame) when they were lying.


The Oompa-Loompas from the first movie were orange, not blue, with green hair.. In the book and recent movie remake, they were just little people and Deep Roy; I'm not aware of any blue Oompas..

It was Violet that changed to blue (or, if you prefer, violet), after that blueberry gum..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 74 (view)
 
What would you invent?
Posted: 11/15/2006 9:48:55 PM
A propane tank that has a gauge on it so I know how much damn propane is left in the
tank..........

Why don't they make them??


They do. is a sticker actually, that you put on the side of the tank.. It detects the difference in temperature between where the liquid is and isn't, and displays a line at the level of the liquid. Obviously when the line gets to the bottom of the indicator, it's empty or nearly empty..


I would invent a medical procedure designed for all politicians that they must submit to upon taking office. It would cause their bodies to turn completely blue (like those munchkins from Willie Wonka fame) when they were lying.


They have something like this, sans the blue. Upon taking office, you can simply assume the politician is lying.


A device which would destroy an offending stereo from 100 yards away.
When my upstairs neighbor plays his stereo too loud I just point it that direction and BAM, it self- destructs !


There are signal generators which "jam" radio frequencies commonly used by stereo equipment. You can buy kits and sometimes complete and tested units online if you look diligently enough.

They have these for cell phones too -- press the button and anyone nearby on a cell phone will have their call dropped..


something that would stop time.. and wrinkles (oh & grey hair!)..


If something stopped time, how would you start it again?


Soometimes we need sleep. How about a detachable penis?


You've never been 'taken advantage of' while sleeping? No need to remove, and doesn't always have to wake anyone up (that isn't already awake, that is)..


Liquid intelligence . . . especially when I'm talking to an idiot. If he or she can't keep up, I'd hand a vial over and say, "Here. Drink this."


If you're trying to get a point across to an idiot that badly, shouldn't you drink the "liquid intelligence" instead?


I would invent a voice activated device that would surf the internet based on what I said, rather than what I typed. Sometimes I hate typing, and just want to look at stuff, like when I shop online. I hate having to type or retype search words, I just want to say, "Look for (fill in the blank)" and then choose what I want out of the selection.


I think IBM is working on software that does this. It looks like a boring article, but there seems to be some discussion on it here:

http://www.stylusstudio.com/xmldev/200010/post90130.html

and here -- a voice activated web browser:

http://www.seobook.com/archives/000246.shtml


I would invent sensors for your car that could tell how close you were to something, and steer for you. It could tell where a turn is on the road, and which angle the the car needs to turn to avoid over or under steering. It would brake automatically, and would avoid rear ending. If the sensors broke, your could turn the program off and steer yourself, but otherwise you could progam coordinates, and hop in and the car would take you where you wanted to go, painlessley. Could you imagine if there were such an invention and there was no more road rage?


Called a chauffeur..


. . .Hate it when guys leave the seat up....Aughhhhhh.....


Problem solved if you install a urinal in the same bathroom..


I will not reveal my invention ideas as I do not have a patent and do not want someone else getting rich off me.


Better act fast! you only have a year from your 'discovery' to file a patent application or a provisional..


2) A pill that not only increases energy and physical strength tenfold but is healthy for you.


Is called spinach -- didn't you ever watch Popeye?


3) A ring that I could wear discreetly and enable me to read the female mind.


There's only one place that I know of that a male can wear a ring discreetly.. (no, not his collar, either..)


A hose/shop vac thingy to clean the inside of my house within minutes. Hose it down, good to go.


You could do that with a garden hose if you had a house and contents comprised of Colorforms..


I would invent a washing machine that is a dryer aswell so you can put the clothes in turn it on and it washes the clothes then dries them without having to switch the load over...if it folded the clothes that would be nice to but a little to much to ask for lol


They exist:

http://www.toolbase.org/Technology-Inventory/Appliances/washer-dryer-combination

It also folds the clothes -- into the shape of a ball.. (okay, so it needs a little perfecting..)
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 5 (view)
 
questions and curiosity
Posted: 11/15/2006 9:07:00 PM

1. why do people give in so quickly, why do they expect to meet someone so quickly?


Impatience. Many people are far too accustomed to the world of "instant gratification". This is yet another example.


2. why do some people respond so nastily when its a sure sign of putting others off contacting them?


Anger issues. Often it can explain in one message why they're alone and miserable.


3. why do people critisize others in terms of their looks, weight, age etc, when really it shouldnt matter? just move on and look for people you are attracted to.


Self-esteem issues. Those who are critical of others are often inappropriately and indirectly responding to an issue within themselves..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
which one sounds better.....
Posted: 11/15/2006 8:46:01 PM
is there a compelling reason you only have two to choose from? Can't you start fresh with a new, honest guy (if neither of the two are ideal, that is)?
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 4 (view)
 
You favourite quotes (I am sure this has been done before)
Posted: 11/14/2006 1:47:58 AM
"Redundant threads are the fastest deleted"

- me
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 27 (view)
 
US is only country to oppose UN arms trade treaty
Posted: 10/27/2006 5:47:26 PM
Killing people is what the United States does best.
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 25 (view)
 
time to end this relationship
Posted: 10/20/2006 12:22:52 AM
I dont feel like i love him anymore but am here to make my kids happy


That one line says it all. You can't make the kids happy when you are that unhappy. Moving on is your only option.



Here's what I think... you're both scum.


That was unnecessary and rude; she's asking for help, not a verdict.
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Wondering
Posted: 10/19/2006 9:31:28 PM
How many people do you know that put respect towards others as their priority in life?

If you're not sure, reconsider this question while driving in a congested metropolitan area..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Stalking Fighting Combating Child Predators
Posted: 10/19/2006 10:30:17 AM
Because one should leave legal / criminal activity to the professionals ..


This statement is completely wrong. Crime deterrence is everyone's responsibility, just as reporting criminal activity is.

Far too many parents pass the responsibility of their childrens' well-being to others, somehow believing it appropriate or acceptable. It is not. Parents who through negligence allow thier children to be exposed to predators and pedophiles should be held criminally liable as well. Their offense may not be as severe as the predator/pedophile, but they're definitely culpable just the same.

People really need to take more responsibility for their lives, and not rely so heavily on the police/doctors/politicians/misc. other services that are so prevalent in our society. Perhaps it's different in Canada, but here in the United States, our Supreme Court has held that the police do not have an obligation to protect citizens; technically, police are in place to respond (as opposed to prevent), and are instructed to refrain from any action that puts their lives in jeopardy. Yes, this means that they don't have to stop an assailant from hurting you if doing so could put them at risk of harm too.


Been hearing about these online police task forces posing as children to nab online predators. I am AAALLLLLLL for it. However, I wonder if someone should consider aproaching the problem from the other direction at the same time. Some government endorsed/controlled agency that goes online posing as predators to find children who are looking to be used. That agency collects thier contact info and forwards it child protection services and/or family as may be appropriate.



The problem with this is that it would have to be coordinated with one form of law enforcement or another to work, or you'll risk being accused of being a pedo/predator yourself should you by chance come across an undercover posing as a child. From my experience, most law enforcement agencies will balk at the idea of working with volunteer civilians, and will instead respond with a simple "we'll take care of it".

If 'you' were to proceed anyway, it would be important to document every action, and hire a lawyer. A good lawyer would likely try to talk you out of it, and could cover your ass in the event you didn't heed his/her advice..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 13 (view)
 
age discrepancy
Posted: 10/18/2006 4:42:48 AM
i have lived in a few states and minors are NEVER allowed to sell anything to do with alcohol, tobacco, or lottery. if you cant by it yourself, you cant sell it.


Not so in New York State. To buy or consume alcohol, you'd need to be 21 years of age. To sell it or serve it, you need only to be 19.
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 17 (view)
 
question
Posted: 10/18/2006 1:08:20 AM

whats with guys and anal?


typically it means they're gay or bi but haven't realized it yet..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 74 (view)
 
when you guys send emails???
Posted: 10/12/2006 11:27:33 PM

how come so many guy's send one worded emails, like just Hi and stupid stuff like that and do you really expect an answer?


women frequently do this too.
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Sex with Dr. Phil?
Posted: 9/15/2006 12:00:42 PM


I DO want sex



me 2.. is that wrong?.. where`s dr. phil when ya need him?



Why would you want to have sex with Dr. Phil?
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 18 (view)
 
CLeaning a keyboard
Posted: 9/12/2006 7:41:28 PM
Yes I think getting a professional to clean it would be alot cheaper then $1400 dollars and my laptop is only 6 months old...

I have a Sony Vaio.


Laptop keyboards are often easy to remove and replace. If you can remove it yourself, you can possibly replace just the keyboard for less than the cost of a "professional" cleaning. Also, if it's only six months old, it could be under warranty, depending on the terms. A phone call to Sony can answer these questions..


I've seen another laptop manufacturer repair a laptop for a customer as a warranty repair even though the customer openly admitted that he had dropped it..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 141 (view)
 
Poor Losers
Posted: 9/12/2006 5:43:31 AM
I have met some mature men who are 40+ who don't even own a car.
How Serious Is that???


Not serious at all. Live isn't measured in vehicle ownership.



I mean; how do you manage almost half a lifetime, and you don't have anything to show for it??


(changing the subject now, are we?)

If someone goes through life thoroughly happy yet destitute, they have more 'to show for themselves' than all of the workaholics who hoard possessions at the expense of their happiness.


With some people, owning a vehicle makes no sense. For example, those who live in Manhattan and work locally often don't have or need a vehicle to be comfortable. Considering the availability of mass transit, the locality of it all and the huge expense in owning and maintaining a vehicle in Manhattan, you could argue that owning a vehicle while living there would also make someone a loser.





As for the post below this one, Mother by Pink Floyd actually goes:
. . . Hush now baby, baby don't you cry
Mama's gonna check out all your girlfriends for you
Mama won't let anyone dirty get through
Mama's gonna wait up until you get in
Mama will always find out where you've been
Mama's gonna keep baby healthy and clean . . .
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 41 (view)
 
first date
Posted: 9/11/2006 8:10:16 PM
God your beauty [sic] how did one attract such a loser . . .



I don't understand this; I would believe suzanne36 had potential of attracting all sorts of guys -- 'keepers' and 'losers' alike; 'losers' are attracted to decent people too..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 36 (view)
 
How do you tell someone you DON'T WANT to be friends?
Posted: 8/29/2006 10:47:03 PM
Am not about to get into the debate as to how to manage an undesirable; there's enough advice on these two pages to keep you busy for a while..


Only point I am adding is about a "call trace" feature that used to be considered to be universal (before VIOP phones), but should still be in effect in most areas..

The way it work(s)(ed) is that after a harassing, annoying, alarming or threatening phone call, you hang up and dial "* 5 7" (star five seven). This is supposed to trigger a trace and record of the call with the phone company for evidentiary purposes. Your local police can access these records from the phone company should they need to.

This feature may not be available everywhere, often costs a small fee (was $.75 per trace last time I paid attention to it..) and the numbers to dial may not always be star-five-seven. Obviously it's a good idea to check with your local phone company for confirmation on these points.

As your profile indicates you're in Pennsylvania, this document may be relevant and helpful to you:

http://www.oa.state.pa.us/oac/lib/oac/MDs/720.6.pdf

As this document is just over 11 months old, the information should be accurate.
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 27 (view)
 
C.I.A. Contractor Guilty in Beating of Afghan
Posted: 8/25/2006 9:37:50 PM
i never said it was ok for them to beat the guy i am sayin they must have had good reason i wasnt there to see if they beat him for good reason i am sure they had some reason for it


Why must they have a good reason? Are you naive enough to believe that only good intentioned, well mannered, non-violent citizens choose a profession where the primary goals are [1] maintaining the ability to destroying things, [2] mining personal information on every possible person, [3] killing people and [4] being prepared to kill people?

I don't believe that there's any possible "good" or legitimate reason for killing a prisoner who is in custody and making no attempt to flee or harm others -- guilty or not. The circumstances as a whole demonstrate intent, premeditation and lack of cause. What Passaro did was reprehensible and criminal, and I can only hope he's sentenced accordingly.



Any truly patriotic American would be incensed that an innocent person was murdered in their name by an employee of the CIA.



oh, one more thing:

like i said as far as this guy gettin beat too bad so sad isnt that the old sayin he would have got worse if saddam was still there.


Uh.. Saddam lives in Iraq.. He has nothing to do with Afghanistan (where Passaro murdered Wali)..

Are you one of those people who fabricate 'facts' in an attempt to make your stories and arguments sound better?
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Do guys want nice women or the ones who will jump in the sack with you when you first meet them?
Posted: 8/20/2006 11:32:26 AM

Do guys want nice women or the ones who will jump in the sack with you when you first meet them?


no.
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Hot chocolate no treat for stuck factory worker
Posted: 8/19/2006 7:57:36 PM
some people have it rough..


qf:
http://www2.ljworld.com/news/2006/aug/19/hot_chocolate_no_treat_stuck_factory_worker/

(there's photos at that link, too..)



Hot chocolate no treat for stuck factory worker

By Marie Rohde - Milwaukee Journal Sentinel

Saturday, August 19, 2006

KENOSHA, WIS. — An ordinary night’s work at the chocolate company turned dangerous for Donovan Garcia early Friday when he fell into a vat of the molten goo and was trapped for more than two hours.

“I was pushing the chocolate down into the vat because it was stuck,” said Garcia, 21. “It came loose, and I just slid down the hopper into the chocolate.”

Garcia’s co-workers at the Debelis Corp. first tried to pull Garcia out, but his pants were caught on a roller. That’s when they called 911 and the Kenosha fire and police departments both responded, said Police Sgt. Eric Larsen. Garcia wasn’t extracted until 1:30 a.m., more than two hours after the accident.

The viscous chocolate was warm — about 110 degrees, according to Capt. Greg Sinnen of the Kenosha Fire Department. For comparison purposes: The water in hot tubs usually is kept at 103 or 104 degrees.

Garcia can laugh about it now, but not at the time.

“I thought I was going to die,” Garcia said.

Garcia, who has worked at the company almost two years, said he was almost chest deep in the chocolate, the dark variety.

“It was in my hair, in my ears, my mouth, everywhere,” Garcia said. “I felt like I weighed 900 pounds. I couldn’t move.”

Garcia said his colleagues added cocoa butter to the vat in an attempt to thin the chocolate. Sinnen said firefighters on the ladder company that responded to the accident helped scoop the chocolate out of the vat.

He was taken to the Aurora Medical Center for treatment.

 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 13 (view)
 
C.I.A. Contractor Guilty in Beating of Afghan
Posted: 8/19/2006 9:20:14 AM
maybe he shouldnt have had that rocket on his shoulder . . .


Shouldn't you be out hunting with Dlck Cheney?

Wali was only suspected of having been part of the rocket attack -- he was not known to have. Wali came forth and turned himself over to the United States military on his own, once he was informed that the US was looking to speak with him. He was then brought to Passaro for interrogation and Passaro, in an attempt to show off by obtaining a quick confession, tried to beat Wali into submission. Passaro quickly found out that innocent suspects don't confess as easily as guilty suspects; there has never been any proof that Wali had any part in the rocket attacks that he was being questioned about.

There are no laws of the United States that I am aware of that permit abuse of a subdued, otherwise cooperating person in custody. Note that those in custody have an absolute right to remain silent, and remaining silent or providing untruthful or misleading answers when being questioned is not "being uncooperative" in this context. In fact, the only instances that the law allows physical action to be taken on a suspect is when they are: seeking to evade capture (before being taken into custody), resisting arrest, attempting to escape or attempting to assault or cause harm to others. None of these applied to Wali.

Passaro should have known this, as he was a police officer before working for the CIA. I believe he knew that what he was doing was wrong and didn't have the morality or integrity to restrain himself. He probably has pent-up rage issues and enjoyed the freedom of beating Wali under the guise of an interrogation. I doubt he thought he'd ever be held accountable for his crime, likely believing that he was above the law in the ravaged country. The sad part is that there are countless more Passaros enlisted in and working for the United States military that are going unreported or undetected.

As a representitive of the United States, Passaro has betrayed us all (meaning citizens of the United States). The uncontroverted facts show that Wali was in custody and never attempted to escape, thus physical force against him was never justified. Passaro is a murderer with no remorse, and even today, seeks to justify his actions rather than take responsibility for them.

If I ever decide to support the death penalty, David Passaro would be the first I'd like to see in line.
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Is Intelligence Captivating...............
Posted: 8/19/2006 8:01:05 AM

Does a rose stand out among a garden of weeds?


No. Roses grow on bushes.
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Reservists: Officers stopped us attending protest against war
Posted: 8/18/2006 8:22:02 PM
Note: these were reservists in the Israeli military protesting the ~5 week military action against Hezbollah.


qf:

http://www.haaretz.com/hasen/spages/751935.html




Reservists: Officers stopped us attending protest against war
By Nir Hasson

Some 160 infantry reserve soldiers are accusing their commanders of preventing them from participating in a demonstration against the war in Lebanon, which they called a "debacle." The soldiers said they had been used as "sitting ducks."

"I've been in the army and reserves for 26 years and what happened this time was not merely a fiasco, it was a complete debacle. We felt like tin soldiers in a game of Olmert and Peretz's assistants and spin masters," said Avi, a soldier in the brigade.

At noon yesterday 160 brigade soldiers signed a request to take part in the demonstration that would call on the resignation of Prime Minister Ehud Olmert and Defense Minister Amir Peretz. However, their release was put off until today, preventing them from reaching the protest.

They wanted to protest not only the army's moves in Lebanon but the decisions of their commanders, whom they accuse of sending them needlessly to their death.

"They sent us into a village they knew 15 Hezbollah fighters were holed up in at mid-day, we were like sitting ducks, it was total insanity. Two of our comrades were killed because of that. We are being used as though we were in the Chinese army, where it doesn't matter how many are killed," he said.

A few dozen demonstrators arrived at Rabin Square yesterday to take part in the protest that had been organized on Internet sites.

They called for Olmert's resignation and blasted halting the war before its goals were achieved.

Ariella Miller, one of the protest's initiators, said she was not acting on behalf of any political body. "We are family people who used the Internet to form a group. When we went to war they promised us to bring back the soldiers and restore Israel's deterrent force."





Interesting that reservists of a country at war have the freedom to express their opinions publicly. Even though I don't agree with their cause, I like that they've the opportunity and freedom to protest..
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 1 (view)
 
C.I.A. Contractor Guilty in Beating of Afghan
Posted: 8/17/2006 7:43:34 PM
Accountability is a good thing...:



From the NY Times:




By SCOTT SHANE
Published: August 18, 2006

WASHINGTON, Aug. 17 — A C.I.A. contractor accused of severely beating an Afghan prisoner who died the next day was convicted Thursday of felony assault.

The former contractor, David A. Passaro, 40, a onetime Special Forces medic who went to work for the Central Intelligence Agency in Afghanistan in 2003, is the only civilian ever charged as a result of accusations of prisoner abuse there, in Iraq and in the broader campaign against terrorism. He faces a maximum of 11½ years in prison.

The trial, in federal court in Raleigh, N.C., near Mr. Passaro’s hometown, Lillington, included testimony from clandestine C.I.A. officers who wore disguises to protect their identities. It drew close attention from human rights advocates.

Using a flashlight and his fists, witnesses said, Mr. Passaro repeatedly hit Abdul Wali, a 28-year-old farmer suspected of firing rockets at American troops. Mr. Wali was in such pain, they said, that he pleaded to be shot, and he died the day after a second day of abuse by Mr. Passaro.

Mr. Passaro’s lawyers said he had not been trained in interrogation and had been under pressure to stop frequent rocket attacks on a remote base near the Pakistan border. They said Mr. Passaro had tried mouth-to-mouth resuscitation on Mr. Wali after he lost consciousness.

Defense lawyers also tried to mount a “public authority defense,” asserting that in statements and legal opinions, top officials from President Bush on down had implicitly authorized harsh treatment for potential terrorists. But Judge Terrence W. Boyle would not allow the defense to call senior officials, including George J. Tenet, former director of central intelligence, as witnesses.

In a statement sent to C.I.A. employees after the verdict, Gen. Michael V. Hayden, the agency’s current director, called Mr. Passaro’s actions “unlawful, reprehensible and neither authorized nor condoned by the agency.”

The acting United States attorney for the Eastern District of North Carolina, George E. B. Holding, hailed the verdict. “This should be a message to the world that wherever U.S. laws are ruling today, justice will be done,” Mr. Holding said, according to Reuters.

But John Sifton, a senior researcher at Human Rights Watch, said the facts of the case had merited more serious charges, including torture, manslaughter or murder. “We question whether the Justice Department has a real commitment to prosecuting detainee abuse,” Mr. Sifton said.

Justice Department officials have said one obstacle to more severe charges was the absence of an autopsy, which they said had not been performed on Mr. Wali because his family opposed it.

Mr. Sifton said about 20 abuse cases had been referred to the Justice Department by the Pentagon and the C.I.A., but Mr. Passaro’s is the only one to have been prosecuted. The referrals, some involving deaths in custody, have focused on civilian intelligence officers, civilian contractors like those who worked as interrogators at Abu Ghraib prison outside Baghdad and enlisted military personnel already discharged.

By contrast, more than 80 members of the military have been ordered to face court-martial on charges of abusing prisoners, and more than 50 have been convicted, according to Human Rights Watch. At least 40 have been sentenced to jail, though fewer than 10 are serving more than a year, Mr. Sifton said.




qf: http://www.nytimes.com/2006/08/18/washington/18detain.html?hp&ex=1155873600&en=640bf058e91c1ea2&ei=5094&partner=homepage
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 55 (view)
 
I don't believe in 'double standards'
Posted: 8/9/2006 7:33:30 PM
I don't buy the OP's story one bit.



If the OP's profile is to be taken at face value, then he's of decent size and in great shape. He's only two inches shorter than I, 14 years younger and he boasts as being athletic where I do not. (Am using myself as a comparison to try and put it into perspective..) He claims to work in construction, and being that I also work in construction, I know that those who "build houses" (as he puts it) get a decent workout every day they work. He shows signs of intelligence in his writing ability (it seems to be less and less common for a 21 year old to use proper spelling and grammar, particularly on the internet), and smart people are more likely to know when they're in an abusive relationship and take steps to get out of it. They're also better at making up credible stories that stir up debate.

My point is that he'd be quite a challenge physically, and I don't think there are many women that would be capable of abusing the OP in the manner in which he describes. If a woman did beat on him so effortlessly, I think he'd be quite scared of her and would take affirmative steps to avoid seeing her again. If there's any truth to his story -- if a woman did beat on him -- I would have to believe it was because he let her.

I also find it a bit odd that he hasn't posted anything here since his original post, something I think is uncommon for someone who's genuinely interested in the subject matter being discussed.



I'm much more inclined to believe that he made up this story in order to start a debate, probably to see what kind of responses he'd get -- sympathy, outrage or both.
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 18 (view)
 
what should i do
Posted: 8/8/2006 2:25:12 PM

my question is, how long should friends with benifits keep goin b4 u change the subject to bf n gf??


The minute you pass grammar and spelling classes.
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 1 (view)
 
People who hate cats -- why?
Posted: 8/5/2006 6:54:18 AM
Everyone seems to know at least one person who professes to hate cats. I'm curious as to why people claim to hate cats, particularly when they have limited or no exposure to cats as pets.

What's worse is when one of these professed cat haters admits to intentionally hurting cats simply because they don't like them. What drives this behavio(u)r? Are there any reasons that are not tied so some sort of deep rooted psychological problem?
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 28 (view)
 
30 days and 30 nights
Posted: 8/2/2006 1:33:07 PM
Simple method:

If you're straight, arrange to spend every minute of every day for thirty days with Richard Simmons.

If you're gay, arrange to spend every minute of every day for thirty days with Richard Simmons.
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 25 (view)
 
abusive men
Posted: 7/29/2006 3:08:55 PM
Captain Overgeneralization strikes again.


Yes, anyone can change, provided they have the motivation to do so.
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 65 (view)
 
Googling the guy's name
Posted: 7/28/2006 11:12:18 AM
I don't think it's anything I would approach him with right away.


I've been pondering this, and I don't think I agree. Here's why:

1. I believe that with any issue, it's best to address it as soon as it comes up. The sooner something is addressed, the more you set a standard for what is expected and the more you come across as consistent. If you wait to address an issue, you risk not being taken seriously or being thought of as indecisive.

2. Any person you meet on a website like this should expect caution and diligence on the part of the other person. It's implied that we're all careful, concerned and mindful adults, and there's nothing wrong with acting like one, or making it obvious (or appear) as though you are one. If you go to meet someone and you don't convey the message that you're diligent and cautious, then you could inadvertently send the message that you are careless and possibly even an easy target/victim (in the off chance that you do find yourself a sociopath). It's been my experience that criminals prefer careless and helpless victims and tend to avoid those who seem to be more cautious, diligent and confident.

3. I would think (from my limited perspective) that any guy presented with internet findings about him would welcome the caution and diligence of the woman, particularly if he only had good and honest intentions in meeting her. I believe that the only guy who would shy from being 'found out' is a guy who is dishonest and has a less than honest agenda in mind when meeting women. Additionally, by being up front and forthright with her findings, she's both providing him with an opportunity to respond and showing a legitimate interest in him and his life (if she wasn't interested, she'd just block and move on..) It allows the ice to be 'broken' early on and prevents a more uncomfortable surprise than if she found out later on.


Personally, I think that if there's a concern, then there's no problem in laying it on the table for discussion, and no need to delay in doing so. That (coupled with a well-tuned BS detector) is, after all, the fastest and easiest way to a resolution.
 bakedsalmon
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Googling someone's name
Posted: 7/27/2006 12:54:43 AM
And I'll add that an internet search is probably a good check to do. But you might want to think twice about telling your new beau or belle, that you googled them and found a bunch of other information about them on the internet. I was a little freaked out when a woman was able to tell me my address and phone number, before I gave it to her. I've solved that by moving around alot and not having an address or a phone number.... ha ha seriously I just don't give out my whole name until I've know someone for a bit.


Actually, I think this is far too conservative of an approach. I believe we should each expect and act as though others have googled and researched us. It's a far better policy to think everyone knows what's public about us rather than assume nobody knows and being or acting surprised when someone mentions it.


On a different note, there are other sites to 'find' people that work well:

search for people by name and State: http://www.zabasearch.com

reverse address search: http://refdesk.whitepages.com/reverse_address

reverse phone number search: http://refdesk.whitepages.com/reverse_phone



Personally, I seem to believe the opposite of the guys talked about on this post, particularly by the OP. If I was actually going to meet with someone, I wouldn't make plans until after they knew enough about me to ensure there were no surprises. If I'm taking the time and effort to meet someone, the last thing I would want would be for 'her' to be uncomfortable or unpleasantly surprised by something not disclosed in advance.

Unfortnuately (for me), google results for my name display my accomplishments -- something I actually try to keep to myself, at least until there's a reason or necessity to disclose. However, I believe people could accept not being told about another person's accomplishments much easier than an omission of that person's transgressions... (i'm also interested in feedback if anyone disagrees with this...)
 
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