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neurotique

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38 and thinking its too late Posted: 2/9/2007 12:31:48 PM
You're right. Pack it up and move to a monastery. While you're at it, leave all your worldly possessions to me. You won't be needing them where you're going. Here's a hint for you: there are no soulmates. It's media hype made up for movies. If I knew you better, I'd probably say, "you're on a pity pot. Now get over yourself." But that's only if I knew you better.

neurotique

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I'm 30, own my own home, have a full time job, and am very loving! Why am I alone?? Posted: 2/9/2007 12:26:44 PM
Define yourself by WHO you are, not by WHAT you have. Lots of 30 yr-olds with homes and full-time jobs are jerks. Material things are transient. You could be laid-off tomorrow and lose your home. Then what? Does that make you any less of a person? Imagine yourself without the "stuff", then describe who that person is in your profile.

neurotique

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other relationship Posted: 2/9/2007 10:32:28 AM
Topic has been "done to death". Search the forum for "other relationship" to learn more. Here: http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts6257443.aspx here: http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts6243266.aspx and here: http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts2884180.aspx just to list a few.

neurotique

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Did many of you go through never ending patterns from a relationship to another ? Posted: 2/9/2007 10:13:09 AM
Very simply, the culmination of all your personal experiences - at any given moment - is what you bring into your relationship. Like Eddie Murphy said (about something else, mind you), "You carry that sh*t with you like luggage!" So, if you recognize patterns, especially negative ones, this could be a signal that something in YOU needs to change. Once you change, the pattern will change.

neurotique

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Setting out expectations for relationships in the beginning? Posted: 2/7/2007 3:56:47 PM
Why are you pissed off? Why would he be obligated in any way to tell you that he wants to date casually? Did you ever ask him that question? My guess is that you assumed that because your attitude changed from "dating" to "long term", he would just somehow magically "pick up the vibe" and since he didn't initially object, then you thought you assumed correctly. Hell, woman, we do this all the time! But invariably, someone gets their feelers hurt. Do I drill the guy, asking if he just wants to have fun or if he is looking for a relationship? Turn the tables here. Would you want to be grilled in the same fashion? How about this as an example: Take control of your own side of the relationship street. Tell him what you want and ask how he feels about the state of your relationship. I guess my final question is more general: Why would you not want to be crystal clear about your expectations with someone that has a chance to become a long-term partner? Hope that helps.

neurotique

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inner beauty of the person or the outside beauty of person prefer Posted: 2/6/2007 3:11:18 PM
I'm part of the Outtie crowd myself. And I don't believe for one minute that anyone on here prefers inner attraction to the exclusion of physical attraction. Humans aren't made that way. You may have convinced yourself of this phenomenon, but barring visual impairment, we are visually-oriented animals and physical attraction is a huge part of the whole mating ritual. Now, you may eventually get to the point where the person is beautiful to you because of who they are, but they have already passed the physical attraction test or you wouldn't have stuck around long enough to find their "inner beauty." So, this discussion may be all about timing. Are you asking about the immediate dating stage, or the long haul? You'd get two very different replies depending on your answer to that question.

neurotique

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Trust! given or earned? what is your opinion based on your experiences and wisdom Posted: 2/6/2007 2:58:26 PM
Trust is earned in any relationship, not just interpersonal ones. But it doesn't have to be a zero-sum game either. Wholeheartedly trusting someone right away is just as foolish as completely distrusting people immediately. Give your new friend a little, let them give a little back. It's the give and take, the discovering each other that builds the trust. Of course, this is a reductionist view because human relations aren't quite that simple, but it works by way of example.

neurotique

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We don't get subtle... Posted: 1/31/2007 4:34:46 PM
This quote sums up this whole thread for me: I've found that if I say what I'm really thinking and feeling, people are more likely to say what they really think and feel. The conversation becomes a real conversation. -- Carol Gilligan

neurotique

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Everyone's a friggin' nut-job! Posted: 1/31/2007 4:23:37 PM
We do not have to visit a madhouse to find disordered minds; our planet is the mental institution of the universe. Johann Wolfgang von Goethe Insanity in individuals is something rare - but in groups, parties, nations and epochs, it is the rule. Friedrich Nietzsche Love: A temporary insanity curable by marriage. Ambrose Bierce

neurotique

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We don't get subtle... Posted: 1/31/2007 7:59:36 AM
Over and over again men are treated to comments suggesting we're dense or uninterested simply because we don't speak "female". Exactly. This is the reason John Gray (mars vs. venus paradigm) is now a rich man. I've spent a lot of my life learning to "get it". I am old enough now to understand that I'll never fully realize that goal simply because I'm not a woman. It's not right, wrong, or indifferent. It's just biology. But in my pursuit of understanding, I personally need to learn to listen better which does not equate to simply waiting for my turn to speak. Listening is a skill that requires hard work. I, for one, am woefully ill-equipped for the task. So, I practice, practice, practice. And actually, forums are an excellent place for me to practice, because I cannot interrupt you. Granted, a lot of the non-verbal communication cues are lost, but hey no medium is perfect. Thanks for everyones' comments.

neurotique

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We don't get subtle... Posted: 1/30/2007 10:24:29 AM
I just asked this very question to a female POF'er. The question is still relevant as I'm sure it has been from the beginning of time. First, let me say this. It IS NOT that men are uncaring, unfeeling, or selfish! Some men are, just as some women are. It IS that we are not biologically or sociologically programmed to recognize subtlety ESPECIALLY when it concerns emotions. We have been taught since our hunter-gatherer days to focus on visual clues and ignore extraneous sounds or activities because it could interrupt our concentration. Please remember this, ladies. If you impart to your guy some critically important interpersonal relationship information, and you are anywhere other than right in front of him with his eyes looking at yours, he will not hear you or even remember it. Guaranteed. When it comes to that stuff, we really are that dense. Really! Not because we are stupid, but because we don't recognize or even understand the value of that information. It doesn't register with us. Of course, some male POF'er will respond, in a snit, that I don't speak for him. Fine. Don't flame me about it because I'm not interested in a pissing contest about it. I'm talking in generalities and not about any one person. There, mea culpa if I piss you off. So, I ask you, any female POF'er who reads this. Help us to understand how we can begin "getting" the SUBTLE.

neurotique

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Relationships require tending...or else. Posted: 1/28/2007 8:02:07 PM
Much to my chagrin, I learned too late that a relationship left mutually unattended stagnates, withers and dies. So, I find myself here writing Japanese poetry of all things. wed in life's summer; since... hope stagnated into twelve moribund years.

neurotique

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First date Haiku Posted: 1/28/2007 7:49:59 PM
One point, which adds an additional challenge to the craft is that according to this website, http://www.toyomasu.com/haiku/, haiku should contain a reference to a season.

neurotique

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First date Haiku Posted: 1/28/2007 12:29:40 PM
This forum apparently favors expositions on the order of magnitude of Poe, Hawthorne, or Angelou rather than, say, Shiiki, Bosa, or Issa. Sorry, haiku does not conform to that standard so you're force to read my dialectic beforehand. New fallen snow drifts; Eyes meet above steaming mugs; Date two could ensue.

neurotique

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would you ever lie about ur age Posted: 1/26/2007 3:00:21 PM
No. I have nothing to gain or lose by lying. I've got my license, I can drink in bars, I can get drafted. Oh, and my insurance rate dropped when I reached 25. That's about all the milestones I get from age. Well, I guess I now can dream of having an AARP membership someday.

neurotique

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Why men wont date independant women Posted: 1/25/2007 3:03:42 PM
Ok, so if there isnt a need to fulfill a need then why pursue a relationship at all? There is a bright line between independence and inter-dependence. We are social animals and the "need" is the need to share our existence with another. That's not co-dependence, that's biology. Independent women are sexy. They know what they want and know how to ask for it and if you don't have it or aren't willing to share it, then it's "pleasure to meet you. I must be going now." The other benefit I find in independent women is that there's no need for them to be mean about saying "no thanks." OTOH, if you have what they're looking for, watch out! Take it from here, nanner -->

neurotique

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Traits of a person likely to commit marital infidelity Posted: 1/21/2007 10:47:56 AM
In the included link, a marriage counselor outlines his views as to some of the root causes of infidelity. The three traits named by the OP are noted as being in the distinct minority of all cases he's had in the last twenty-five years. I won't burden you with the details. Please read at your leisure. http://www.counselingnet.com/affairs.html

neurotique

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Infidelity should be a criminal offence!!! Posted: 1/21/2007 10:37:37 AM
There are countries and cultures that already have codified adultery laws. Please feel free to move to any one of them at your earliest convenience.

neurotique

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How much more does muscle weigh than fat? Posted: 1/20/2007 10:17:57 AM
yeah i wasnt aware my self either until pops educated my hiney lol, huh, zero to back-pedal in 2 seconds. lighten up, young'en. if you're gonna make claims like 'dude, muscle's heavier'n fat', then be prepared to have your elders inject some wisdom. Peace out, is that what you kiddies say these days? Huh, speak up, can't hear ya. Ears ain't as good as they were back in my day.

neurotique

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Changing the type of person you attract. Posted: 1/19/2007 11:59:35 AM
It requires you to change from within first. Damn, he beat me to it. I was gonna say that. Just wanted to bump the thread because I think it is insightful.

neurotique

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Why do married men lie about being married?? Posted: 1/19/2007 11:46:04 AM
So leave this old stard out of this thinking that ALL married people are looking for anything other than the fun of the forum. I hate this type-casting shyt. I don't give a damned about anybody as far as getting into any relationship whatsoever. Methinks doth dost protest too much. If it's no big deal, let it roll off ya like water off a duck's back. I'm married, I'm here. So what? As for those that personally don't like the thought of married people looking for a romp, then just ignore them. If you don't wanna**around with married people, check it off on your profile. Easy as pie. Now get off your high horse and go have some fun.

neurotique

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When it comes to the opposite sex, what is your weakness? Posted: 1/19/2007 11:28:37 AM
A firm bottom can make any man run his car into a telephone pole. luscious lips (real ones, not those inflatable, collagen kind), curvy hips, and legs that go all the way up and make an a$$ of themselves. Oh, and the small of the back...right there peeking above the panties. ummm-mmm. Makes my banana wanna cream!

neurotique

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How much more does muscle weigh than fat? Posted: 1/19/2007 10:55:17 AM
dude muscle is heavier than fat "dude", lemme guess, you didn't take a Physics class in high school or college, right? Ok, I'm gonna hafta go ACADEMIC on your hiney. You asked for it. Please follow this link for a multimedia description of the difference between mass, volume, and weight. Please have Adobe Shockwave installed on your system first. http://www.eoascientific.com/campus/science/multimedia/weight_mass/view_interactive Then if you want to return and maintain your erroneous statement, we can discuss.

neurotique

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Why do men feel scared of a woman who is widowed? Posted: 1/19/2007 10:33:44 AM
Now this just looks weird. The person's post to which I replied is gone. So, just ignore my post. It referred to someone blaming the OP for the death of her spouse. What a **stard.

neurotique

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What ever happened to committment and chivalry? Posted: 1/18/2007 5:51:06 PM
A person shapes their world by their own actions. Lament, deride, or heap scorn upon other's un-virtuous actions to no avail. Want chivalry in your world? Act chivalrous. You then can sleep well at night knowing there's one more person in the world who reflects traits you found lacking when you started your day.

neurotique

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A question for the Guys...Ever been TOO BUSY TO CALL? Posted: 1/18/2007 3:59:21 PM
Never. If we've just started dating, and I've got those hormones going. No way. Work does have a way a making me a liar though.

neurotique

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How much more does muscle weigh than fat? Posted: 1/18/2007 12:07:49 PM
Muscle doesn't weigh more than fat, one pound of each is still one pound. But muscle is more dense than fat, so if you had equal VOLUME of each, muscle would weigh more. As a general guideline, one would get a more accurate gauge of health using the body-mass index or BMI. That number gives you percentage of body fat for a given scale. I don't agree with it, per se, but it's more accurate than just saying, "I work out regularly, why do I gain weight?" Weight is a poor indicator of good health. Hope that helps.

neurotique

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Why do girls like morning sex sooo much? Posted: 1/18/2007 11:52:34 AM
It's not just the morning...we love it all the time! bostonjen, if it was me with you, yea i could see how my priorities would change overnight..and over breakfast, and the breakfast table, and the lunch counter, the drive-thru, oh and that nice secluded park we passed on the way! Well, that was a sweet fantasy while it lasted... Thanks for sharing your profile. Loved it!

neurotique

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Show stoppers! Posted: 1/18/2007 10:05:37 AM
Nothing stops the show faster than a curious dog (trust me on this) A cold-nosed curious poochie at that. Yowza! I've had the blast of sweaty ass crack as well. But my two worst moments were when 1) my ex-girlfriend and I got back together for a trip down memory lane. Only, when she was about to see stars, she moaned out her new boyfriend's name. I went from "flagpole" to "vienna sausage" in about 2 seconds. I LOVE muff-diving, but ladies, don't eat Mexican food and expect a head in your lap. I had a woman fart in my face and later said that she couldn't help it. OMG, I thought I was going to asphyxiate on the spot. Talk about killing the mood.

neurotique

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Morning Wood Posted: 1/18/2007 9:43:50 AM
Morning wood means I gotta pee. And if it doesn't settle down, I gotta take a 3-point rainbow shot and hope I hit the toilet. I don't want anyone bouncing on my full bladder, thank u very much. Lemme do my biz, then let's saddle up!

neurotique

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Why do girls like morning sex sooo much? Posted: 1/18/2007 9:32:52 AM
oh and u guys are so easy to "wake up" so hard in the morning...and you have all that energy from a good night sleep so you keep going, and going, and going!! Giddyup li'l grrl! I can only assume that the original poster does NOT like a morning "pony ride", hence the question? Is that correct? Hmm. Morning when I'm "fresh as spring breeze" and afternoon delight when I'm sleepy, cozy and warm from the late day sunshine. mmmmmmmmmm. Actually, late nights I find to be the worse time cuz we're all worn out from the day's work.

neurotique

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Why do men feel scared of a woman who is widowed? Posted: 1/18/2007 8:21:22 AM
You are so full of shit and a fear-mongerer! There are no data to support your claim. This DID site is politically motivated with its main goal being to try to scare people into changing child custody laws in Australia. Additionally, the site's main theme is , and I quote, a "dedicated support group of men (in Australia) whose immediate concern is to stem the present trend of male suicide due to the trauma of divorce or separation." It does not say anything about battered spouse suicides. Next time, get your facts straight before blaming this man's death on his wife. That's just wrong. Here's where I got my facts: http://www.cdc.gov/ncipc/factsheets/suifacts.htm http://secure.cihi.ca/cihiweb/dispPage.jsp?cw_page=media_28nov2001_e http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/suicide.htm http://healthyplace.com/communities/depression/related/suicide_8.asp There's alot more info, but I think you get the point.

neurotique

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Guys...would you...[re: higher sex drive in women] Posted: 1/17/2007 9:27:20 PM
Hmmm...forgot what that was all about. Count your blessings.

neurotique

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Males rating pictures. Posted: 1/17/2007 9:25:19 PM
Good question. I don't rate the dudes b/c I don't care how they look.

neurotique

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When we were created we were to have a partner in life? Posted: 1/17/2007 4:44:26 PM
What in Sam Hell are you both talking about? Reductionist views about life and love stuffed into a quasi-religious context have no grounding in the modern world. And challenging a guy's manhood to pony up and NOT have sex with you is not what I would describe as "breaking the ice". Back off the threats and the religious dogma and you just might get some responses. Put a cork in the angst while your at it. Oh, and buy a grammar book while you're there too, for pete's sake.

neurotique

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meeting someone on this site Posted: 1/17/2007 4:31:59 PM
Wow, bummer to hear that dude. Your example highlights why it's so frickin' important to keep an arm's length until you're absolutely sure about the person(and until you meet'em at least). I'm sorry you had that experience, but please don't let that put you off. I think there are some good people on here that truly just want to make a connection. Seek them out and drop the others like a bad habit. Now, to answer your question: I've met someone very nice ladies here. I haven't met them in person because that's not what I'm here for, I'm just chillin' and seek my own life answers. It seems to have worked so far. If you're wondering if your profile is up to par, post it on the Profile Review forum. Lotsa helpful folks there. Hope that helps and hang in there.

neurotique

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Tulsa - have neuroses - will travel. no i won't, yes i will, uh-uh. oh shut up. Posted: 1/17/2007 4:18:00 PM
Hi all, Just droppin' a line to the Okie folk. Doesn't look like this link gets much traffic though. Say hi if you get a chance.

neurotique

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Funniest bumper sticker you have ever seen? Posted: 1/16/2007 6:26:17 PM
Just one?! That's tough. One of my faves is from landoverbaptist.com "Baptists - The Christians' Own Taleban" If you live in Oklahoma, it's really funny.

neurotique

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best ways to get even with your ex Posted: 1/16/2007 4:20:43 PM
Living well is the best revenge.

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To the men: What do men want in a woman? Posted: 1/16/2007 4:18:28 PM
sharply intelligent rapier wit cares about and for herself, mentally and physically able to give and receive love can screw me so hard my eyeballs pop out! (oh, you said descending order )

neurotique

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Why do people get fat after marriage? Posted: 1/16/2007 12:04:47 PM
You go grrrl. I'm trying my best, too. After gaining 60 lbs and then turning 40, it's time to get serious. I'm proud to say I ran, and completed, my first 5k race in November. It's a slow process but definitely a worthy goal. I applaud your efforts!

neurotique

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Suject change: How do we stop more troops than the 20k from being sent? Posted: 1/16/2007 12:00:02 PM
If there's any truth to that... . Honey, it's ALWAYS been about the oil. But there was no way in hell that the administration could say so. Their ass was busted the moment the media learned there were no WMD. Remember that? That was the justification to invade a sovereign country. It's all about the oil.

neurotique

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Why do people get fat after marriage? Posted: 1/16/2007 10:50:54 AM
There is actually a large body of data on this. If you want to get really scholarly about this question, read the following academic abstract called Cross-Sectional and Longitudinal Associations between Body Mass Index and Marriage-Related Factors: http://www.obesityresearch.org/cgi/content/abstract/10/8/809 In short, "the results suggest that spouse similarity in BMI is at least partly due to shared environment. The observed effects of marriage and divorce on weight may be due to the influence of marriage on inducements to eat (e.g., shared meals) or on motivation for weight control." There you go, straight from the researchers mouth! And as for all the young'ens who say "that'll never happen to me." Call me in twenty years, we'll see.

neurotique

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Expecting your sweetie to do it for you Posted: 1/16/2007 10:39:24 AM
In today's age.... COME UP with a CHECK LIST of HIS & HERS... Excellent point and well said. The days of "women's" and "men's" work are over! We both live in the house, we both clean it. Simple as that. Of course, I know I don't do nearly half of the work that could be done around the house because some things don't rise to my level of attention -- like dusting, or mopping wood floors. I don't notice stuff like that. But I can feel the women out there now cringing as I speak the words "who cares about dusting?"

neurotique

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Why are older women not into younger guys??? Posted: 1/16/2007 10:27:14 AM
what you have to understand is there is a BIG difference in social maturity between men and women. Most women, (not all) by the time they are 19 they can function as adults ...So a 21 year old woman should try to find a boyfriend about 35 years old, because a man her same age is still lighting his farts on fire and spending more on PS2 games than he will ever spend on her. I love it! It's so frickin' true. It's like when I turned 35, a switch flicked a message on in my head which said, "play time is over, boys." Of course, that was right about the time I hit the trailing edge of my sexual peak. Rats! Of course, older women know that younger men have the testicular fortitude to give them what they need and keep givin' it. But the novelty of that wears thin real quick. For a celebrity example, see how long Demi Moore stays married to Ashton "i was in diapers when my wife was in high school" Kutcher. I misread, I thought the poster asked why they are into younger guys.

neurotique

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why does a man say he loves you deeply but doesn,t mean it ? Posted: 1/16/2007 9:55:44 AM
Perhaps if he hasn't already....he wants in your "pantaloonies". If he has..."already been there"....and, it was "good"....he wants to make sure that he can ..."go there again". Just a theory. Couldn't have said it better myself. But of course, she said it much more eloquently than I ever could have. Bravo! There are 300 MILLION people in the US, in which a huge number of them are adult males (follow link for demographics http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Uspop.svg). If one person doesn't work out, there are plenty more where that came from. HTH, thanks for the post.

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UMMMM excuse me but my eyes are UP here! Posted: 1/16/2007 8:37:38 AM
If someone present's something in a look at these manner that they know full well are sensational and eye catching as boobs are , to the public, they can expect that to draw alot of attention .....to expect otherwise is illogical and childish...not mature.....simple as that. To debase another's argument as illogical and childish begins the slippery race to the bottom ending in name-calling, epithets, and veiled threats. There's no reason to lower this discussion to the level of a flame war. Unfortunately, for the sake of justifying your point, you ignored the point of the original post. The point wasn't "does the man-in-the-street look at women's boobs" Yes, he does. The point was, when engaged in a face-to-face discussion with a woman, why can't a man look her in the eye rather than staring at her chest. I stand by my points made in an earlier post. Men, as a group, need to get their act together and quit bandying around lame excuse like "it's a habit, or women secretly like it." Bullshit, it's just another excuse so that you won't have to take personal responsibility for behavior that YOU KNOW is no longer socially acceptable.

neurotique

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Suject change: How do we stop more troops than the 20k from being sent? Posted: 1/16/2007 8:22:00 AM
That act of not sending them is the only way to guarantee saving their lives. Too late. The administration has a cadre of highly-educated, highly-paid consultants whose only mission in life is to find a way for 'W' to do what he wants and say f*ck off to the will of the people - the Vox Populi! And guess what, daughters and sons of Republicans bleed and die just like those of Democrats - all 3000 of them. So, pissing and moaning about sending more troops is fighting the wrong battle. Democrats lost that battle before it even started. The Dem's mission now should be to continue to win the hearts and minds of Americans at home while there is still this window of opportunity. Then, when the administration comes to the Hill sucking up to Congress for more money, kick'em in the cajones! Demand a timetable for withdrawal. Demand accountability for the BILLIONS of taxpayer dollars lost to fraud and waste. That's a battle the Democrats can win.

neurotique

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BEDROOMS, what dose your bedroom say about you? Posted: 1/15/2007 7:05:34 PM
Mine says, "Quit letting the dogs sleep on the bed." or "Did the dogs crap in here again!" Then it says, "Rough night, huh? Maybe you should get your a$$ off the Internet and get to bed at a decent hour!" Really, it does.

neurotique

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Why do men feel scared of a woman who is widowed? Posted: 1/15/2007 7:01:16 PM
Wow. I'm sorry for your loss. Your situation isn't something I would have expected. I haven't dated someone widowed, but I just find it odd that other men would act like that. I don't have any wisdom to add. I just wanted to let you know that someone has heard you. Thanks for sharing that.

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