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Joined: 12/29/2004

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Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 7/11/2005 1:50:36 AM
What's up Everyone? This topic is VERY much needed because the harsh reality is that alot of women do not want to date a single father. This doesn't make since because when a single mother speaks up and says that's she is looking for a honest and caring man who doen't mind kids, she receives many replies, but when a single father makes the same comments for a single woman the reply is limited or none at all. It's sad to know that in this day in age where the FATHER is stepping up to take care of his kids...the women are stepping down and condemning us. I am a single father that shares custody with the mother of my son. I have no problem dating a woman with a child or with children, just as long as she can accept my child as I accept hers. Women today need to reevaluate their priorities or there really won't be any good men left for them to have.

Joined: 12/29/2004

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does your kids' other parent hold you back? Posted: 7/11/2005 1:37:01 AM
I'm sorry that you and the father of your kid(s) can not compromise on your living arrangement. As a bit of advise NEVER let anyone (even your child(s) father) dictate to you what you should do. If he loves his kids he would not be selfish and allow them to have a life wherever you decide to move them to. A father doesn't mind having to drive for a few minutes,hours, or even days to get his children if that's what it takes.I am a father and my son lives with his mother about 2-3 hours away from me....but if she or I ever decide that we would like to live in another state, me being the man and father that I am would not hesitate to get in my car, get on the bus or plane to go visit or pick up my child. I want him to have the best life possible and if that means his mother has to move them to another state then I would have to adjust to make sure that I do what I have to do to see my child. It may pain me to know that he is not as close as he once was but at least I know the move is done to improve my child's way of life. I hope you can come to some sort of agreement with your child's father. GOOD LUCK!

Joined: 12/29/2004

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worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart. Posted: 7/11/2005 1:12:50 AM
What's up everyone, the worst thing ever said to me was by my ex-wife...after I found out about her affair with this guy we both worked with, she had the nerve to come home pack all her stuff and then before she walked out the door she looked me straight in the eye and said..." I'm sorry, but I still love you." Now how in the hell did she still love me and went to stay with some other guy. Needless to say 10 months later we were divorced.

Joined: 12/29/2004

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 7/11/2005 12:56:14 AM
What's up everyone, first of all I just want to say that everyone that does not have a pic on there profile is not trying to hide something. Have any of you ever stopped to think that maybe they don't have any current pics to post as of yet, or maybe they really do want someone to choose them for their mind and conversation rather than their appearance. I don't have a pic posted...not because I look bad, but because I don't have any updated pics to post as of yet, the last picture I took was in 2002 while I was still serving in the military. I know that alot of people base their decisions about a person based on apperance and i'm sorry to say........but that's sad. I have met a very beautiful woman on POF and she has yet to see my pic and she knows the honest truth why and she also knows that if she really wants to see what I look like I would be more than happy to send her one of my military pictures until I can get a current photo posted online, and i'm so lucky to have met her because she understands and have accepted it (Thanks to my little boxer...you know who you are).I do agree that some people who do not have a pic posted are trying to hide something and to everyone who has fallen victim to those perverts.....i'm sorry, but for those of us who really have a good reason why our pics aren't posted...please give us a break!

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