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Sandbug

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Michael Jackson dies in LA Posted: 6/25/2009 4:58:02 PM
i like the previous forum poster never bought an album or cd... though i did grow up with him and enjoyed his music and classic lyrics through the many years. Rip Michael. Sandbug

Sandbug

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B.O.B. (battery operated boyfriend) Posted: 5/8/2009 6:15:22 AM
hmmm, Purple rabbit??? B.O.B I Plead the fifth!! The 22o plug in sounds interesting. my 2 cents... Sandbug "sometimes" happy fishing to my friends!

Sandbug

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Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 3/3/2009 2:30:15 PM
i plead the fifth... no not this woman! enough said. sex is very important in a relationship and in life... just my 2 cents! Sandbug

Sandbug

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Married /In a relationship = Happier longer life? Posted: 2/19/2009 4:45:58 AM
yes thinner, happier and i believe that studies have shown that people live longer when married. Not sure about a relationship if people enjoy going out alot and that is a passion.... Sandbug

Sandbug

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Question for the ladies about texting Posted: 2/19/2009 2:37:43 AM
texting is the "way of life" for quite a few people, i do like talking on the phone and like to hear who i am talking to. too much texting can get tedious, i guess i am "old school" i like to get the feel for someone after texting and you can tell by the telephone if there is a connection to meet in person, enough said. Sandbug

Sandbug

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Those Who Want You ONLY When Its Obvious There Is Someone Else Posted: 2/19/2009 2:33:19 AM
hmm a little too early but, it is hard i have come across those "types" i have changed my profile from dating to long term because how can you not date before you are involved in long term, in the real world it happens when there is someone else but many people have a hard time admitting that. i am not one that likes dishonesty and am very up front here. i think that "timing is everything"... just my 2 cents. Sandbug

Sandbug

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What to do in inclement weather? Posted: 2/18/2009 4:10:57 AM
well, lets see... hmmm listen to nice soothing music and have a good cup of hot tea, catch up on some reading, going to the movies is always nice but "indoor games" they are the best, and yes listening to the rain fall down. Sandbug

Sandbug

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who should do the calling? Posted: 2/17/2009 12:42:24 PM
it depends... i like to talk on the phone after a few e mails, i don't like to do constant e mailing can be tedious and im'ing is new to me(guess i am "old school")... i am open and if the guy wants to give you his number then you can start that way... no expectations i am not that old fashion that i am going to sit and wait for "his call"... Sandbug

Sandbug

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Thin Mints, Samoas, Tagalongs, Do-si-dos, Trefoils Posted: 2/16/2009 2:03:43 PM
Yum! i was a brownie and a girl scout and with my late father's help i sold the most cookies 1 year! love them all Ali... Sandbug Ooh Thin Mints rock! try them frozen even better.

Sandbug

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How important is affection in a relationship on a scale of 1 to 10 Posted: 2/16/2009 8:36:23 AM
A 10! i really appreciate affection and why would anyone want to settle for anything else? my 2 cents here... Sandbug

Sandbug

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Nudists Posted: 2/14/2009 5:44:26 AM
well interesting.... it is always nice to have someone be of help, got to cover all spots!! my 2 cents... love nudism... don't need to elaborate this early in the morning. Sandbug

Sandbug

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Valentines Day-A time to not reflect on better times... Posted: 2/14/2009 5:37:29 AM
well let's see... hmmm not sure what the day will bring since i don't have a "Valentine". i guess since it is the "crack of dawn" i will wait a few hours to make plans... Feeling better would be a start (fighting the nasty cold going around) I feel it is a hard thing to be around all my friends that are coupled up or married when i am the "single one" after the actual day all will be "back to normal" if you can call it that, i did have a invite from a friend to come over and have tea with her... warm and soothing. anyway... Sandbug in what we call the "pond"

Sandbug

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how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman? Posted: 2/14/2009 5:23:35 AM
just happened to check out the forums this early morning, why would anyone want to prevent such a thing from happening??? just my 2 cents... (shakes her head) Sandbug: Happy Valentine's Weekend to All!

Sandbug

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Something you're happy about TODAY! Posted: 12/25/2008 8:26:31 AM
that it is Christmas and i have family to be with, after losing my dad and my 98 year old grandmother this year. looking forward to 2009! Sandbug happy holidays to all!

Sandbug

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When is it time to pull profiles ? Posted: 12/25/2008 8:23:04 AM
i beleive that it is time to pull your profile when you are in a commited relationship and you both agree to it, that is if your so is on the site, just my 2 cents.. having been on the site for quite awhile, i feel like it would be refreshing to pull my profile then... (though i would have a hard time leaving my friends that i have met over the time on here) Sandbug

Sandbug

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If you had one wish... Posted: 12/23/2008 6:19:35 AM
i wish that my grandmother was still alive she was 98 when she died in her sleep, she would have been 99 in May.. i miss that i did not get to say goodbye. Sandbug

Sandbug

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MUSIC THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY Posted: 12/23/2008 5:43:26 AM
The one song that comes to mind is "Over the Rainbow' it has been done by a few different artists, just a happy song and brings back good memories for me... plus i love to see rainbows here on occasion or in my favorite place Hawaii! Sandbug

Sandbug

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Being Choked while having sex Posted: 12/20/2008 6:23:17 PM
Oh no i don't think so... isn't sex suppose to include loving and caring about each other's feelings? not to be scared by somebody? just my two cents.... Sandbug

Sandbug

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Something you're happy about TODAY! Posted: 12/20/2008 2:56:21 PM
That i could take part in a biker toy run for children less fortunate than i am, what a great feeling seeing all the children and there families faces when we pulled into East Los Angleles in the projects, that in it's self makes me very happy today! Peace to all this Holiday Season Sandbug

Sandbug

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Are you your Car? Posted: 12/20/2008 12:06:37 AM
I think so, a free spirit seeing that i have a convertable put the top down, crank up the tunes and go! fun fun fun... Sandbug

Sandbug

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Women & Tattoos Posted: 12/15/2008 6:09:54 PM
I love tattoos, i did not get my first tattoo until i was in my early 40's. I have always thought a long time about each one that i have gotten, they each have a special meaning to me. All my tattoos are covered up by my clothes, having worked in the corporate world they have (had) to be.... Sandbug to all!

Sandbug

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Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 12/15/2008 6:03:06 PM
Not this girl... need i say more? Sandbug happy to all!

Sandbug

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If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex? Posted: 12/15/2008 3:50:51 PM
I beleive it comes naturally and take it "one day at a time" i don't look for a "qouta" it is nice when sex is natural and unplanned.... Sandbug

Sandbug

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Something you're happy about TODAY! Posted: 12/15/2008 7:30:33 AM
I am happy that i am able to spend time with my mom, a lot of people don't have the oppurtunity to do so, some because they live too far away and some because their mother's are no longer alive... I cherish my time with her and glad that we are close. Sandbug

Sandbug

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When is it OK to cheat? Posted: 12/14/2008 7:51:44 AM
It is not ok to cheat if you are in a commited relationship, no one likes to be hurt... Enough said... Sandbug

Sandbug

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What CD is in Your Car Now?..... Posted: 12/11/2008 11:12:05 PM
Enrique Inglesis, a cd from a few years ago that a friend burnt for me, great mix and i never get tired of listening to it, grows on you! Sexy and sensual.... Sandbug

Sandbug

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men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking Posted: 12/11/2008 8:38:32 PM
if you like toys then enjoy... many men may feel threatened by the women using them. toys bring something exciting to the relationship. everyone is different and discussing the use of toys with your partner is important, you have to be on the same leval to begin with.... Sandbug happy holidays to all!

Sandbug

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MUSIC THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY Posted: 12/11/2008 8:19:13 PM
I love all kinds of music, but the first thing that comes to mind is Reggae! Always happy and uplifting, like i like to be... Sandbug happy holidays to all!

Sandbug

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My boyfriend broke up with me by email Posted: 12/10/2008 1:08:11 AM
my boyfriend broke up with me via e mail, i beleive that one should have the courage to let someone know how they feel in person... he needed to "re-group" i feel that closure is needed, my own opinion. life goes on "and so it goes" Sandbug happy holidays to all!

sandbug

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What would you have done to change your past?/what was your biggest regret? Posted: 7/23/2008 2:33:36 AM
my biggest regret is that i did not have children, was married late it did not happen... i love children and glad that i have a neice and a nephew... love them and i am aunt to my friends children as they have grown up... still not the same, have no problem with someone that has children and or grandchildren... my 2 cents! Sandbug

sandbug

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How far would you travel? Posted: 7/12/2008 2:02:54 PM
i normally go with the "within 75 miles" radias, seems many guys live very far away. meeting in the middle is always an option, "it takes two".... happy Sandbug

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How much do your REALLY want to know when breaking up? Posted: 5/11/2008 1:10:42 AM
i beleive closure is a good thing, i am very honest and i would like honesty in return... sometimes individuals are too scared or do not know how to go about breaking up... not fun to hurt anyone that is for sure. once i got the "there is no one else, it is not you years ago, come to fine out after a few weeks he had moved in with the "new gal"... more to it that he lead on... enough said. Sandbug

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Ladies: your take on short guys? Posted: 5/9/2008 7:43:24 AM
I prefer taller men though i have dated shorter guys, a bit under 6 feet is ok. The thing is my ex was 6'5" and i like to wear heels.... my opinion Sandbug good luck

sandbug

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Long hair on older women Posted: 5/8/2008 1:44:16 PM
this forum has been around for quite some time, i love having long hair and do enjoy long hair on guys too, kept neat and clean. it is nice to have a few different ways to wear it as a woman, my neighbor stopped me the other day and commented "your hair is getting long" and i appreciated when someone notices or compliments me on it. We all have our own opinion. Sandbug

sandbug

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POF WORKED FOR ME!!! Posted: 5/7/2008 11:45:20 AM
*** Chills.... good luck and thanks for sharing your positive story, there is a "reason for everything" take care and be happy! "timing is everything" take care Aimee. Sandbug pof does work!

sandbug

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Would you date someone on antidepressants? Posted: 5/7/2008 9:09:34 AM
i would not have a problem with dating someone on anti depressents... i do agree with the fact that eating healthy and taking care of your self makes a difference. i could not put it better ironhorse! i have dated someone that told me that he was on anti depressents at the start of the relationship and very upfront about taking his "happy pills" that is what he called them, i know that people will not agree with the term. Sandbug happy to all!

sandbug

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Do men react negatively when women make the first approach? Posted: 5/6/2008 9:26:35 PM
i have not encountered any guys that react negatively, when i make the first approach. i just take a chance and if i hear from them fine if not life goes on(just my 2 cents) Sandbug one user told me that he "was blushin". i take a chance i am not very shy, though i do tell them that i hope that i was not too forward

sandbug

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Nostalgia Thread - favorite tv shows from when you were a kid Posted: 5/6/2008 4:10:28 PM
oh yes Dark Shadows... just so many great to see all the post!!! i am still thinking of my favorites... Sandbug

sandbug

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Nostalgia Thread - favorite tv shows from when you were a kid Posted: 5/6/2008 5:35:09 AM
I love this forum, socalibob you "hit the nail on the head" so many fond memories of days gone by... before cable, love to watch Tv Land and Nick at Night to catch quite a few of my favorites... who could forget Love American Style...did not miss many episodes. I need to think about other favorite tv shows of mine (yes the memory is one of the first things to go...) Love nostalgia! Sandbug

sandbug

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How soon is too soon for a second date? Posted: 5/4/2008 11:00:43 AM
yes i agree that "if it is meant to be it will be"... one day at a time... i have gone on the first date and the second date the next day... just depends and yes good luck to you. Sandbug

sandbug

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Men Shaved??? Posted: 5/4/2008 10:18:17 AM
Yes i prefered shaved please... i do not need to elaborate... interesting forum. Sandbug

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 5/4/2008 2:16:03 AM
***Welcome to all the new "fish" not a bad "pond" to be in... good luck to all and i can truely say since i joined (last jan 9, 2007) i have had a good time here and enjoy the forums i have met quite a few "pen pals" (if you call them that) that live to far away and had dates and one serious relationship so far...i keep on "truckin"...(old school showing my age!) Sincerely, Sandbug

sandbug

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Body Type : Prefer not to say. Posted: 5/4/2008 2:08:36 AM
yes i agree with Miss W(hi there friend!) curvy should be added personally i have changed mine on occasion... everyones take is "different" and yes my weight has changed in the last couple of years that i have "prefer not to say" i have also had average and three years ago after a 26.2 marathon (first one at age 46!) it would have been athletic... oh well don't want to too come off as "wishy washy"...just my opinion and curves have their place in society... my own take on this subject... (still) Sandbug "sometimes" happy

sandbug

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Reasons not to go to the gym Posted: 5/1/2008 10:44:18 PM
Lost my card- seriously i did??? too hot, too cold... excuses excuses-got to get back to it! Sandbug

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Does it matter how you pay for a date? Posted: 5/1/2008 1:24:56 PM
In my opinion no, the fact that you ("us women") have been asked is nice and we should appreciate going out, it is none of our business to comment how the date is paid for... tact, i guess some people were not "paying attention" when the subject was discussed and morals... remember those? i guess i am "old school". Sandbug happy

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Legos — they're not just for good kids anymore. Posted: 5/1/2008 9:30:44 AM
P.S. Don't forget legoland in Carlsbad, California. I myself have never been but my relatives have and what an amazing place!!! Love good ol' childhood memories... (i apoligize if lego land was mentioned already California) Happy Building and creating! Sandbug

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Mike's Hard Lemonade - heard of it? Posted: 5/1/2008 4:28:57 AM
Mike's Hard Lemonade has been around around for many years, i have indulged and it comes in a few different "flavors"... Come to think of it i do not recall ever seeing any advertisements on the television for it, maybe they run them (or ran them in the "hey dey") when Mike's was first out on the market. The lime tastes just like a lime popsicle takes me back to my "childhood" so i could see that it could be a "drink" that a child may not say much about if given by a parent, not much alcohol taste... and not that i am condoning giving children alcohol. Growing up if we we were curious at home and wanted to try a drink (in high school) our parents did not have a problem with us trying it in their presence... kept us pretty clean and sober in the "formative years", but not all parents were are open and honest as many of our friends parents. my thoughts Sandbug

sandbug

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How true are these ~ Southern California :jump: Posted: 4/17/2008 2:00:15 PM
Jademuse, The Bahooka is still in Rosemead on Rosemead Blvd. i have been there in the last few weeks and my friends that i have taken there loved it-especially the 100 fish tanks that are through out the restuarant, fun drinks and pretty good food too! Sandbug

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Just for fun: What was your first car? Posted: 3/31/2008 10:31:51 AM
A dark blue 1970 Volkswagon bug, $900.00 what fun and memories i had. I just wish that i had held on to it and restored it.... Sandbug

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Agoraphobia Posted: 3/29/2008 9:03:09 AM
my ex husband suffered from Agoraphbia, with help and therapy it can be conquered.. panic attacks and anxiety in general is not fun. he did order the Lucinda Bassett tapes but don't know if he followed through... there are other forms of help and support groups that i am sure would be of great help,good luck and take care! Sandbug

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