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Joined: 1/11/2007

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Why men wont date independant women Posted: 1/23/2007 1:03:39 PM
Most men that don't date independant women have a huge ego problem. At least with what I have found. They have the need for clingyness, control, and someone to enlarge the ego that they carry around. However, there are a lot of good men that encourage a woman to be independant and to be able to take care of herself. This is what makes a great team!!

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men getting it on Posted: 1/19/2007 1:55:19 PM
Same thing as men watching two women. I think most women feel the same way.

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Why would some one not NOT talk to you if they think you're hot? Posted: 1/19/2007 12:27:21 PM
I understand this one a little. But need to add to it. I am a pretty average looking kind of girl. I can get dressed up, make up, hair fixed, looking right snazzy,(at least i think) and will not have one guy flirt or talk to me. I can throw a baseball cap on , old levis, boots and no makeup and have them following me around the stores. Go figure????

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I want to be married..... Posted: 1/19/2007 6:01:24 AM
I dont miss being married. It was awful. I lost myself, had no clue to who I was and it took so much away from me. My divorce was the most painful thing I have been through. It has been a very long time since I was married. I really enjoy my life now and I can honestly say that I am happy. On the other hand, I have friends that are married, and very happy. I dont have a neg outlook on marriage, I just have not met the right guy yet. I think it would be great if you were with the "right" person.

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Life's Too Short -- Why are We so Set on Perfection?? Posted: 1/19/2007 5:34:09 AM
Very well said, couldnt have said it better myself! Finding the one who gets the reactions I want has happened before so I have no doubt that it can happen again. Flaws and all. Not gonna settle - can't make me. I'd rather have no mate then one who 'doesn't do it for me'.:

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Would You Help An Ex In Need? Posted: 1/18/2007 9:20:25 AM
That was a great story. You can tell a lot about a person just by reading these Forums. I wouldnt care about the people downing you on this. You are just a good person! True story: Last summer, I was on my 4th date with a fellow fishee, and we had just arrived at my home after spending a pleasant evening together. It was 2 a.m. and this was to be our first night spent together. As we came in the door, my phone was ringing, so I answered it. It was my ex from almost 3 years ago (my last serious relationship but we've maintained the friendship), in tears, stranded an hour out of town with her 14-year-old in tow, nearly broke and she had just missed the last bus/train home. Before she actually had time to actually ask me anything, I calmed her down and told her that coming to get her and bring her and her boy home would be a little difficult this evening, but if she grabbed a cab to my place, I'd pay for the cab when it got here and it could then take her and her son the rest of the way home. After I hung up the phone, I looked at my date (who, I will admit, was extremely understanding about this), apologized for the inconvenience, and suggested we go for a walk downtown for an hour till her cab arrived. We then put on our jackets and went for a very pleasant walk while I showed my date the centre of my town, arriving home just in time for the cab to show up, which I paid. Then my date and I went upstairs and my ex and her son continued on their way to her home. I've taken a lot of flack over the last few months, relating this story in various examples around the internet, but if this type of situation ever arose again, I'd not hesitate to do exactly the same thing. In my opinion, there are some things in the world that are just the 'proper' thing to do. In my world, this is one of them, and I don't care who says what about me because of it. cdn guy

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Would You Help An Ex In Need? Posted: 1/18/2007 7:39:06 AM
I would. And I am sure they would help me as well if I need it. I dont hold grudges, it makes me feel better by not holding them. It helps to remain friends and let the hate go.

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have you hit your sexual peak?.... Posted: 1/17/2007 12:46:10 PM
Mine started about 35 and getting higher and higher with age. 39 now.

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Why are older women not into younger guys??? Posted: 1/17/2007 10:00:34 AM
Honesty coming out now. I have dated some younger guys and these are the facts. (At least for me) If I am looking or wanting something serious, I would not choose a young guy. I dont have much in common with him and I like having good conversations. Most young guys are not very stable on jobs, what they want and are just silly sometimes. It is hard to take them serious. On the other hand. If I am not looking for "serious" these are most likely the best ones to have as a toy. The sex is great and even if it isnt, well, you have 10 more chances at it with in a few hours. They are very willing to learn. I guess it depends on what you are looking for.

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Should I put this in my profile? or will i attract the wrong ones? Posted: 1/15/2007 11:45:19 AM
Thanks guys. I think I will just leave it out. Thanks a bunch!!

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Should I put this in my profile? or will i attract the wrong ones? Posted: 1/15/2007 9:47:19 AM
Here is my question. I would like to put in my profile that i have a very large drive and i dont really know how to word it with out attracting the wrong kind of people. On the other hand, I dont NOT want to put this out there and start dating someone and he is a dud in that area. I really need someone that can keep up with my drive and to be honest, I dont want to waste my time on someone that cant. I know how awful this must sound. How would you put this nicely in your profile without attracting the wrong ones? Or should I just not even mention it? This is a very big reason I would decide to continue to date someone. As bad as it may sound, it is the truth. I do not want to appear as if I were looking for one night stands or anything like that. I am not. Your thoughts please?

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