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 Author Thread: Broken hearts!
 Phieeel
Joined: 1/11/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Broken hearts!
Posted: 3/19/2007 1:57:04 PM
A bit hard to read at some points, and with no clear point.

Yet the point contained within rings oh so very true.

You love someone, you believe against belief that finally, after having had your heart broken before, once, twice, many times, you believe that the person you found was 'it'. They were 'The One'. And in the end, the feeling of betrayal, not by the person you long to be with, but feeling betrayed by yourself. By your own belief. And time carries on, and little by little, without even realizing it sometimes, you heal slowly.

No one ever quickly gets over someone they truly love. If they did, then they did not truly love.
 Phieeel
Joined: 1/11/2007
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Ever date someone with BPD? (Borderline Personality Disorder)
Posted: 1/25/2007 8:53:15 PM

Splitting: the self and others are viewed as "all good" or "all bad."
Alternating clinging and distancing behaviors (I Hate You, Don't Leave Me).
Great difficulty trusting people and themselves. Early trust may have been shattered by people who were close to you.
Sensitivity to criticism or rejection.
Feeling of "needing" someone else to survive
Heavy need for affection and reassurance
Some people with BPD may have an unusually high degree of interpersonal sensitivity, insight and empathy


What if these all apply to you, or your loved one, but not all at their most extreme interpretation? Is BPD considered a 'spectrum disorder'? And what if some of those traits apply, yet there is no tendency towards self-destructive behaviour?

Just curious, that's all.
 
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