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 Author Thread: i like your view better
 firebug1076
Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 41 (view)
 
i like your view better
Posted: 1/5/2005 3:23:41 PM
sorry, I'm just being an a** lately, I'm not sure why I'm being so cynical lately though? Ignore me. FB
 firebug1076
Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 36 (view)
 
i like your view better
Posted: 1/5/2005 2:12:10 PM
DMT, you've got it right too, she is agreeing with you, I am kinda put off by the way you dismiss others opinions to validate your own, it only works until someone agrees with you. This is a complicated issue and not to be broken down into pigeonholes. My personal preference would be to have absolutely no drugs available to anyone (or guns!) and see what sort of society we develop from there. I know about drugs, more than anyone should have to and I don't have any real answers but I recognize the need for a strategy or solution. FB
 firebug1076
Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
sitting here shamed....
Posted: 1/5/2005 1:23:54 PM
I have recently had a bad time and looking back at the things I've said about other people I realize I was just taking my frustrations out in an inappropriate manner. I'm feel kinda stupid, and kinda shamed. I think this thread will probably be deleted but I'm hoping the people I'm apologizing to will get a chance to read this before that happens. Thanks everybody and cheers to the new year!!! FB
 firebug1076
Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 35 (view)
 
heheheheh.
Posted: 1/4/2005 5:23:55 PM
perhaps you are a turd Varus. Secondly, what do either you or your fan club know of humility. I am going through all the forums and a constant theme comes up, the ego of Varus and the false modesty displayed when someone compliments him. Varus, you are not dumb, I'm not calling you dumb, but you seem like the kid in school that had to try to hard to make friends, you did better with the people you weren't trying to impress. FB
 firebug1076
Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Is America Still the Finest Land Upon This Earth?
Posted: 1/4/2005 5:10:50 PM
A small mind at work varus. The world works the way it works despite your ego. Thanks, FB.
 firebug1076
Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Quotes
Posted: 1/4/2005 4:56:05 PM
The thought manifests as the word
the word manifests as the deed
the deed develops into habit
and the habit hardens into character

So watch the thought
and its ways with care
and let it spring from love
born out of respect for all beings.
 firebug1076
Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 27 (view)
 
what if
Posted: 1/4/2005 4:18:56 PM
dude, sorry, I cannot relate to the exerience you mention but I can sympathize. I do know some people that have gone through major trauma and experienced trauma similar to yours before. I work closely with these people and try to understand the conditions they live under. My friend, I understand and although I can't say anything that will make you feel better about the situation, I will try. My friend Richard is suffering too and I would do anything to help him cope with the cards life dealt. Not everyone will listen, only the truly compassionate will listen. Please tell me so I may understand.. Thanks FB
 firebug1076
Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
I would like to try something new.
Posted: 1/4/2005 4:08:46 PM
I would like to open a discussion board based on quotes. Quote submisssion and then replies to the said quote and the opinion that it elicited. Any takers, reply and I will begin, or you, doesn't much matter.
 firebug1076
Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Why do they say thess things if they don't mean them
Posted: 1/4/2005 3:27:14 PM
and in response to this, easy tiger. There are almost 7 billion people in this world that have to live on the same planet as your ego, I realize it must be fragile to feel the need for defense against what has been said. I would offer that you learn somewhat how the rest of us work, we are not all stage actors in your play of life my friend. As to your comment, "I don;t even know you!!! Stop male bashing!!!" get over the male bashing, just prove yourself different. Look my friend, after a couple dives in the ocean, if you do not find any pearls, do not blame the ocean, blame the diving. Keep in mind that like minds think alike and you will only attract similar people confounded by the same frustrations. Chill bro, just talk to people and respect them as someone who is just trying to live, same as you. You'll probably live longer. Good Luck. FB

So which one is right for you, slut, psycho, or fruit loop. I'm gonna guess you attract all three because of who you are. It is things like this that make you look stupid, anyone with half a brain can see what you are like, you are nothing like what you claim to be. I think maybe you should get an education, a decent job, some understanding of who in the hell you are and then try to establish a life based on that. Situations don't matter, it is your compatibility to them that determines how things work and who you are (you don't have a say in the matter, sorry). Or do you just want to find a rich chick and bullsh*t her until she pays your way the rest of your life. It's just hard to tell with you... Do you have any goals, other than proving you are better than the girls you see because that doesn't matter to anyone than your mom dude! Thanks for coming out chumpass.
 firebug1076
Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Why do they say thess things if they don't mean them
Posted: 1/4/2005 3:21:21 PM
Dude, I don't want to insult you but you are everything that is wrong with communication today. Your incongruency is a cause for me to be concerned. There isn't a right or wrong answer (unless you believe you can accurately know someone you don't know, I mean, don't people still learn new things about each other after many years of marriage). Also, an opinion is also a judgement, the way YOU look at it is irrelevant, it is the way the person getting the opinion takes it that makes it a judgement (egoboy). Your values or ideals are good, I'm not trying to knock them but I think you should learn a little bit more about how humans work and relate that information into yourself and your beliefs. You sound wise up until one realizes that you are not promoting a point of view as much as attacking dissenting views. There a million reason why people of both sexes say the things they do and it has to do with a lot more than what you've illustrated. I only see someone trying to convince someone else they don't know that they practice what they preach. Life isn't a paragraph, don't tell them what you're going to tell them, show them and let them make the opinion. Muttonhead

PS I'm guessing you're one of those people who "fix" everything for everyone.
 firebug1076
Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Not knowing what I'm doing, I say
Posted: 1/4/2005 2:50:42 PM
WTF is everyone talking about. You all seem to be promoting the same values and inner cores but it can't be real. I am hoping someone can maybe explain to me as to how people can discuss other people's genuine qualities. Bogus. Most people don't even know what their genuine qualities are. Tell me and I may not believe but show me and what choice do I have. I do relate to everyone who says their real, don't get me wrong but I wonder how many people act the way they say they act. Seriously, some real life conditions bring about personalities that aren't even what the owner expected. I say easy tiger, just talk to me and everything from then on is less of a mystery. Comments?
 firebug1076
Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
umm, wishing Katlin well, new & shy, need help.
Posted: 1/4/2005 2:22:52 PM
I am new to this and just read a bit of a forum relating to Michael and Katlin, I am sorry to hear about their misfortunes and wish them all the best that I can, I hope things turn out well. I am kinda shy and kinda jealous of the success others seem to have with having a community online. I'm hoping someone can maybe help out a new person by offering some of their views or experiences on being an involved member. It is important to note that not everyone has the same level of knowledge or experience (just because you know doesn't mean we all know) so it may be necessary to explain certain steps. I am also trying to build my first website, people in the know who are willing to assist should let themselves be known. Thanks all, my prayers are with you M & K. FB
 
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