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redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 28 (view)

the circle Posted: 7/20/2009 9:44:56 PM
Is it "support" the OP is speaking of here.. or.. a close-knit group of folks and/or family that one can "hang-out with" from time-to-time? Cutting the couple some "slack time". Afterall.. no need to cling to each other for dear life. That's not a well-relationship in my minds eye. If it's just a hang-out-with-others thing.. I don't necessarily need others to occupy my time. I can amuse myself quite easily and yet.. still cut my partner some slack or hang-time with his friends. I really just don't see the absolute "need" to have others to run to when my partners not around for awhile.JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 112 (view)

Let's get naked Posted: 7/20/2009 3:08:55 AM
I was a nervous bride at 21! Now??? Three kids and decades later? I have no idea how I'm gonna be. Scared enough to probably have my teeth chattering and my knees knocking. Well.. even if it's dark.. he'll be able to find me!

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 68 (view)

Green Lights! Posted: 7/20/2009 2:47:07 AM
A pulse! That's what gets a green light. Okay.. just not the one in his pants to start with! Chow!

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 217 (view)

Breast Augmentation over 45 Posted: 7/20/2009 2:36:09 AM
My daughter will soon be turning 30. I don't want to look like her twin. I think it's too unnatural looking for too much "work" to be done on anyone. No matter how much the cost.. or the ease of the operations and so on. There is a natural order in life.. and we seem determined to interrupt that for some odd reason. Fear perhaps? Fear of growing old and dying? It is the natural progression you know. Has anyone seen Joan Rivers lately? OMG.. YUCK! That woman looks as though she must be hauling at least 4g's.. but.. she's standing still! Who wants to have a hard time speaking.. because their umpteenth facelift has their lips against their ear lobes now? Not me.. no thank you!JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 24 (view)

Are you trusting, optimistic, or both? Posted: 7/20/2009 2:22:08 AM
OMG RanRan.. you are an insult to humanity! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ In no way am I naive enough to be all that trusting these days! Optimistic? To a point. I consider myself to be more a realist then an optimist. Now.. a positive realist describes me best.JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

How soon do you bring someone into your inner circle? Posted: 7/20/2009 2:04:06 AM
I don't think there's an exact set time.. like.. three weeks or four weeks or something. It's whenever "we" feel comfortable enough to meet each others "inner circles".JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

the circle Posted: 7/20/2009 2:01:16 AM
I agree with breath~ on this one. I was always taught it's best to be good company with and for yourself.. and not depend on others to keep you company. To be your own best friend. I have many friends.. and family.. but.. I do great by myself. I can keep me happily busy for hours and hours. Day after day. It's nice every so often to flex the vocal cords and talk with others.. but.. it isn't mandatory that I do it all the time.JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

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Just want to hang out and date Posted: 7/20/2009 1:49:47 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^............................................ Dear gawd.. may I please have the zest this 70 year old and her 82 year old date have.. when I get that age.. if.. I get that age? Please???? You inspire me OP! I guess I'm at an age.. or a stage in my life.. that I want a man that wants to date me.. and not a man that wants to quick move in on/with me. Good luck with whatever you decide OP.

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 48 (view)

excuses or lies? Posted: 7/20/2009 1:41:57 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^.............................................. Well.. I certainly wouldn't go so far as to say anything like NUTS.. but.. if it were me.. my son would be telling me.. it's my negative conspiracy theory at work. Yep.

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 142 (view)

Why is it tough for men to say I'm sorry. Posted: 7/15/2009 11:30:52 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^................................................. Well.. after having read most of the posts.. I've come to the conclusion that there are many.. men and women.. that are more than willing to make apologies. Now.. whether that holds true to apologizing for something of a more serious nature.. who knows? But.. those of this forum.. are far from being ignoramuses. IMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 59 (view)

why can't people just be who they are Posted: 7/15/2009 11:16:35 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^................................................... People get duped everyday.. even in the real world without any help from dating sites or e-mails on the internet. JMO Sorry OP.. I thought you said he said he had "class". Since when did BK or MickeyD's show a person of class? When did they become "classy" places for dates/meets? That's a place where parents here take their kiddies.. or friends meet for lunch while out shopping. Not very classy places here. Timmy's Mae? Is that in the same genre as a BK? Sorry.. from the Northeast states here.. and there's no Timmy's. We all live in different areas where the resaurants of choice are apparently different.

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 48 (view)

why can't people just be who they are Posted: 7/15/2009 12:50:38 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^................................................... I don't think I'm getting the OP here. Why.. OP.. did you agree to meet a man at a Burger King.. and just how long did it take after that agreement before you realized you were being scammed? What??? Are there no actual coffee-shops/diners/resaurants in your area? I would never agree to meeting someone at a BK! To me.. that's as bad as meeting a man from the internet.. at a bar. Good grief! Are we that desparate now.. or what?JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 26 (view)

Getting to know someone Posted: 6/11/2009 9:06:38 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^................................. Here here Moraima!! The rotaing door on the coffee shop! NEXT! What?? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I have to wonder at times.. these people that "lose attention" so quickly with "just" emails.. having some sort of ADD/ADHD perhaps?? My favorite saying from an emailer from POF.. he hates the pc.. so.. let's hurry and meet. What?? My response is.. why are you on a dating site then?? Why not just take your chances of meeting someone in the real world? Makes no sense to me.

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 58 (view)

Marriage v LTR Posted: 6/11/2009 8:56:43 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^.......................................... Ismene2 and Ladyc4.. I agree.. that particular man certainly was no gentleman. However.. at least he wrote back. Others in my area don't even bother to be kind enough to take a couple of seconds to state that much when emailed. They just ignore the emails.. as though.. I didn't even exist. I asked a friend of mine that used to be on POF.. if she ever encountered such arrogance.. and she told me to forget wrotong to the men.. as a lot of them are friends in the real world.. and do a lot of talking about the women.. and the men think the women are desperate if they write a man an email. Sheesh! Talk about location.. location.. location!

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 20 (view)

Why do we have rules? Posted: 6/10/2009 6:56:29 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^............................................... Hmmmm.. I do like your choice of words Mandrake.. self governing. Governors.. rule.. right? BTW.. I'm not challenging you.. but.. just making observations. A sort of nasty habit I picked up many years ago.. and still enjoy to this day. It's more.. challenging myself then others. Thinking.. outloud (in type).. if you will. JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 51 (view)

Marriage v LTR Posted: 6/10/2009 6:49:53 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^.......................................... Oh boy.. have I been down tha road in here before?! That never works with the men in my area. I even got asked once if the women here are that desperate.. that they have to make first contact. No thanks! I'll hope that the man just hangs on for at least awhile. If not.. I'll hopefully meet someone in the real world. Hey.. a doctor would be nice!

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 49 (view)

Marriage v LTR Posted: 6/10/2009 6:41:48 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^........................................ The key? I think something there was welded shut forever. H*ll.. I can't even find the door anymore.. let alone worry about the key. On a much more serious note here.. actually.. right now.. I'm the one holding things back. Well.. my health at any rate. I'm having foot surgery done. Not much you can go out and do without feet.. unfortunately. I'll be off my feet for at least 6 to 8 weeks. So much for summer fun in the sun! Well.. maybe the man that just showed me a speck of attention.. will hold out for awhile. Trust. I know.. that's asking a lot real quick.. but.. what other choice do I have?

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 16 (view)

Why do we have rules? Posted: 6/10/2009 6:34:12 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^................................................ "I make decisions and choices about what is best for me in that moment, in short term, and long term, and how it might affect my life." So Mandrake.. is that statement a rule.. a preference.. a decision.. or a choice? Sounds like symantics to me.JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 47 (view)

Marriage v LTR Posted: 6/10/2009 6:29:07 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^.............................................. You know.. when I first thought about going online to date.. find the man that was right for me.. and.. hopefully have that LTR (whatever that means).. I thought it would be fairly easy. Man.. was I wrong!!! I don't know if it's just age.. or location.. or what it is exactly. I think.. if I could figure that part out.. I'd find a man that's right for me. Cause.. then I'd know the how.. when.. and where of finding the who. DANG! I think I just depressed myself.

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 45 (view)

Marriage v LTR Posted: 6/10/2009 6:21:38 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^........................ From what I've been reading in the "over 45" forum.. I think just getting a "meet" with someone is establishing something. An actual date after a meet? Almost unfathomable. A second date? OMG!!! Sorry.. I just keeled over for a minute! LTR or marriage.. or.. marriage?

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 22 (view)

too many oposite sex friends..... Posted: 6/10/2009 6:10:20 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^.......................................... Your apology.. however half-heartedly given.. is accepted BisB. No offense to your 5th grade teacher.. but.. a word most certainly isn't just a word sir. It's typed on a website on the internet and is therefore a permanent fixture for all to read from here on. It states everything about the person that says or types it. A single word can permanently hurt and/or offend an entire group.. race.. or religous faction. This.. is the "over 45" forum.. and I have never seen that negative.. derogatory word or term used here before. We're also mature and confident enough in ourselves to not use such negative derogatory terms back. You may call yourself whatever you wish.. but.. I would hope at our ages.. we are all civilized with and to one another enough to not feel a need to use them. BTW.. I know the term.. and the age bracket of those who are negative and/or naive enough to use it.. as I have grown sons that would never think of using it to describe any woman out of respect for all women. Kids? Maybe. Grown-ups? No.JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 20 (view)

Are you a Serious Member? Posted: 6/10/2009 5:49:23 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^............................................... <--- My little yellow dot! Nope.. I'm not a serious member. If I were.. I would at least have the ability to decide not to IM on this site with someone. Since I'm not.. and.. should I find someone I want to IM with.. I'll simply email my addy to them and IM there. After all.. I already pay for that addy and IM.JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 15 (view)

Getting to know someone Posted: 6/10/2009 5:32:24 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^................................................... "their online dating image?" Assuming of course.. everyone is creative enough.. or imaginative enough to create an online "image". Not to mention.. those that don't feel a "need" to create such a thing as an "image" online or not. Reality check.. anyone?

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

too many oposite sex friends..... Posted: 6/10/2009 5:13:57 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^........................ Your very welcome YA. Sorry.. but.. the slang word "Ho's".. is such a derogatory word some use to describe women that is anything but decent. I just can't see a grown man with anything close to manners using it here in the "over 45" forum. Ridiculous! We've more than earned the right to be called women.. if not for some through their actions.. then by all just through our longevity. We are not Ho's. We are grown women. Simply put.JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 8 (view)

Why do we have rules? Posted: 6/10/2009 4:59:22 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^................................. Because rules are guidelines.. and without guidelines you have anarchy and chaos. Who needs anarchy and chaos in there lives? Not me! Besides.. death may come only after years of suffering some painful illness gotten from acting on impulse. Why put yourself through that possibility.. when you can have guidelines in place to help prevent it? I'm here.. to meet a man that is like minded.. with some moral "guidelines".JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

Getting to know someone Posted: 6/10/2009 4:34:21 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^............................ ^^^^ Nope.. I'm right there with you DB. I can talk with someone online without growing "imaginary" attachments. Besides.. if we're talking about forming "relationships" with people.. isn't that what we're here for? I think this hurry up and meet attitude.. is for those that "think" they remember meeting someone they once loved in their past.. that totally blew them out of the water immediately. When.. in fact.. most relationships that are of the lasting power.. come from those that become friends first.. and slowly work their way up to becoming lovers. Slow and easy does it!JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 27 (view)

Things I have experienced that are unpleasant when meeting someone... Posted: 6/10/2009 4:24:54 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^........................................ I've had the hour long run-on sentence of a meet. But.. for me.. the worst was meeting a man that stated on his profile and in Emails/IM's.. and while chatting on the phone.. that he wanted an LTR.. only to find out once at the meeting.. he was looking for just an FWB. Definitely not my cup~o~tea.

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 22 (view)

Room mates 45 and over, Does it effect dating? Posted: 6/10/2009 4:14:51 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^............................... I cooked for a living.. not so sure I'd ever wanna do the "naked cooking" thing. ^^^ OUCH!! The kitchen is actually the second most dangerous place in the home. Second to the bathroom.. only because of so much hard porcelain and ceramic tiles that make for slippery surfaces. I too like and neeeeeeeed my privacy. Now.. stretched out naked on the living room sofa.. reading the paper or a good book? I can see. But.. just not with a group of "inhouse" neighbors.JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 8 (view)

Getting to know someone Posted: 6/10/2009 4:02:31 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^............................................ How long does it take to get from online to a meet? As long as it takes to feel comfortable.. and ready. If.. at all........ JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 17 (view)

too many oposite sex friends..... Posted: 6/10/2009 3:59:38 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^................................................. Bro's before Ho's?? I thought this forum was for "over 45".. not the kiddies! Sheesh! Besides.. I thought breaking a date with someone.. because of someone else.. had better mean for "emergency" purposes. Such as those involving a hospital or jail.. not trimming the trees. Pee-poor excuses are better then none? I guess.. if someone is willing to swallow them. Just.. I'm not! JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 172 (view)

What do women over 50 find desirable and undesirable in a man's profile? Posted: 6/10/2009 3:45:33 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^.................... I'm looking for something that shows he's honest. If he really likes to go hunting and/or fishing more then going to the movies.. or those stupid long walks on the beach (living inland.. it's all but impossible to do without the neighboring lake visitors watching).. then let him put it on his profile. Same as if he enjoys sewing and knitting more then hunting and fishing, Honesty.. is what I look for in a man's profile.JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 58 (view)

Just not going there any more. Posted: 5/23/2009 9:47:07 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^................................................. I would suggest seeking some professional help.. if you're living vicariously through your past. Why would you bring the past into a relationship that's in the present.. if the past is.. the past? Just askin'.

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

New meat at the local Meat Market?? Posted: 5/23/2009 9:36:35 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^.................................... Just remember OP.. this is a bad economy.. and the price per lb. of the grade A selections of beef.. cost soooooo much and are far and few between now.. be prepared to find nothing short of some poor grade of ground beef. By all means.. steer clear if he smells too much like tuna!

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 22 (view)

TV watching habits in relationships? Posted: 5/23/2009 9:19:17 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^............................... Tivo anyone? I like certain tv shows.. and they may not be the same as others. I can do without my favs.. for a night or two or maybe more.. no problem. I also know how to Tivo. Although.. if a show's that good.. it'll be on the boob-tube on some later date in a re-run. Nothing missed! JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 201 (view)

Age 45+ Ladies Posted: 5/23/2009 9:13:39 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^............................... ^^ I guess we can see that some women ^^ are highly competetive.. no matter what their age.. but.. I wonder at what cost? What are these highly cometetive women willing to do in order to "win"? Just how far are they willing to go.. and.. what do they do with the "prize" they've won afterwards? I know I've seen women in their twenties and thirties that are more than willing to break-up marriages.. families.. and so on.. just to win the hand of a man.. only to throw him over a few months later anyway. They're so into the chase.. they disreguard any type of respect or feelings of any other woman and/or children that may be involved.. for their own short lived happiness. Usually.. as time goes by.. they get to experience this poor behavior from the opposite end of the spectrum.. and they learn NOT to disreguard others feelings.. and have a much better respect for other women. It's always best to choose your battles.. and fighting over a man.. isn't one I care to indulge in.JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 64 (view)

Let's get naked Posted: 5/22/2009 9:33:46 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^.......................................... Uh-huh! Why bother with a lousy six pack.. when you can have a whole keg?

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

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Moving on after 3 Strikes Posted: 5/14/2009 2:45:19 PM
I'm with them^^^^^! Take some time to and smell the roses along the way. Every date won't be that "home run". Not everyone who calls you more than once.. will be that prince in shinging armor. They'll be stepping stones to guide you toward a lifetime of happiness.. if you let yourself go.. and just enjoy the company of a man when asked out. Eventually.. you'll find the right man for you. No need to rush.JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 53 (view)

to women what's the difference dating and long term Posted: 5/14/2009 2:24:15 PM
"I think maybe putting "dating" means they actually want to DO something, not just sit in front of TV" ^^That's just why I put "dating" on my profile. But.. after hearing the mens attitudes about women being commitment phobic.. or just looking for sex because they chose to "date" rather than looking for a LTR partner.. I decided to change my profile to LTR. To me.. LTR sounded desperate. As if to say.. I'm looking for a roommate.. now(!).. or.. marriage.. now! What I'm looking for is to date someone.. just.. one someone (at a time.. since no one I date ever seems to work out for me anyway).. then.. hope it leads to that LTR.. forever!JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 136 (view)

Age 45+ Ladies Posted: 5/14/2009 2:08:29 PM
I am in NO way competetive. Not with any of the 40-50-60 year old women.. to even think of being competetive with the 20-30 year old women. Why on Earth should a woman feel compelled to compete with each other in a dating situation? Snagging a man out from under some 20-30 year old something.. for the "right now".. isn't at all like attracting a man naturally.. hopefully.. forever. I want a man to know that what he sees isn't all make-up and charm. I want a man to see me for what and who I am. A woman with three grown children.. in THEIR 20's.. that's got 50 years of experience in lifes ups and downs under her belt.. and she's still here.. full of love.. and just waiting to give it all to the right man. Not her bellybutton that's now a dimple in her chin! Good grief!

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 40 (view)

Shallow superficial seniors. Posted: 5/14/2009 1:54:49 PM
IMO.. we are the sum of what our personalities dictate.. coupled with what we've learned.. our experiences. Excluding the Uber-rich & famous.. "common" men/women live their lives in this type of shallow conceitedness.. because they were taught to want nothing but the outer shell of a person.. and they usually attract only those that want the outer shell of a person in return. I say.. Kudos to them! Cause I know.. they'll leave me alone.

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 32 (view)

do you remember being loved? Posted: 5/7/2009 8:45:33 PM
"do you remember being loved?" By my parents.. siblings.. children? YES! By my ex? NO That's just what I'm looking for.. LOVE! To know it is to feel loved above all others by a man that I love above all others. Just.. trying to find him........ more than just a little hard.

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

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Their families and friends...... Posted: 5/7/2009 8:39:41 PM
. I had a best friend insisting I meet her latest boyfriend. Then.. one night she called me. We hadn't really had any time in the few months before the phone call to talk at all. Every second of her life had been wrapped around her new man. I understood she was moving into a new house with him.. she has three kids.. it was time consuming. So.. she squeezed this call in around 9:00pm one night. We talked for about a half an hour.. when all of a sudden.. I heard this screaming and cursing. I knew just who it was.. as she was "explaining" herself to the new boyfriend.. as to why she was on the phone.. and not spending time with him! WTH??? Then.. he began insisting he meet me! I told her in no way did I want to meet such an @zzhole! I told her if she wanted to be with someone that controlling.. good for her.. but.. I was NOT interested in meeting with him one iota! I think I'd probably flip-out on him for being such a jerk! I later broke all ties with this BFF(?).. as I began seeing some very undesirable statements and pictures on a site she allowed her kids to visit. Just made me wonder.. what was going on in that house with that neanderthal and her minor children! I don't see why people feel a need to insist on meeting the person you're dating.. anymore than I understand why people feel the need to "show-off" their date!JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

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4 dates and they all used someone elses pictures Posted: 5/7/2009 8:27:00 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^........................................ Maybe that's a popular thing in the UK.. but.. it doesn't really happen like that so much in the area where I live.. in the US. 4 times? How often do you date? I mean.. if it's 4 out of 100.. or more.. then.. the odds are on your side that the pics will match the person. Right?

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 72 (view)

Folding Fitted Sheets--Help???? Posted: 5/6/2009 5:04:02 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^........................................ Well.. lavendar is supposed to help promote VIVID dreams! Psychics use lavendar oil to help them "see" clearer visions. Hmmm... not sure I'd want or need lavendar on my pillows. How much more vivid do I really want my dreams to be? Maybe.. a little touch of rose water?

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 46 (view)

Folding Fitted Sheets--Help???? Posted: 5/5/2009 4:24:16 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^................................................. ^^^ But.. are they celery green colored sheets? If so.. Martha would be soooo pleased!

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

What is romance in a relationship Posted: 5/5/2009 4:21:18 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^....................................................... Exciting and crazy? I'm not so sure that's a defintition I'd use for romantic? At least.. not by my definition. The "mystery" of finding out allll about one another was gone between you both alonnnnng time ago.. by the sounds of it. What's left.. is the best part.. no awkwardness.. but.. comfort in and with each other. My question to you is.. why keep searching for "more".. when you've found someone to have a wonderful enjoyable relationship with? The grass.. isn't any greener on the other side!JMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 44 (view)

Folding Fitted Sheets--Help???? Posted: 5/5/2009 4:12:28 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^.................................... ^^^^ unless of course.. they're celery green! Then Martha would make sure to add.. how to fold the fitted sheet.. on her next show!

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 93 (view)

Do men and women really enjoy wet sloppy kisses? Posted: 5/5/2009 3:10:05 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^.......................... Beershark? I still love your sense of humor! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I think men and women who enjoy sharing in each others lives.. sure do love their wet & sloppy kisses.. when the timing is right. What I view as the appropriate time for a wet sloppy kiss ? When it's just the two of us.. cause.. wet and sloppy kisses.. may lead to much more............ !IMO

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 40 (view)

Does head over heels in love still happen after 45? Posted: 5/5/2009 2:55:27 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^...................................... "I find myself less willing to let myself fall in love to the point where I feel out of control," I thought that was a good description of LUST! If lusting after someone is what the OP wants.. then.. I'm sure it's still a possibility. I'm looking for LOVE though.. at this stage of the game. Apparently.. love is much harder to find.............

redarcangel

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 23 (view)

When do you know you want it exclusive? Posted: 5/5/2009 2:50:26 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^................................. Exclusive? I don't think there have been enough men to ask me out at the same time.. to not think of any one man that did.. then being exclusive. Sheesh! I'm not hearing too many women in this site that get asked out.. at all. So.. exclusive? Would be my next "date"!

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