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Joined: 1/12/2007

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Expecting your sweetie to do housework for you Posted: 1/16/2007 6:11:40 AM
I'm a young'n here so I havent really had much experience with the doing chores for your sweetie thing - mostly chores and stuff my folks had me do when I lived with them. However, I was raised pretty well (until proven otherwise) and I believe that dudes should do equal parts around the house as the ladies. Women today have full time jobs just as much as men do and coupled with the responsibility of parenting, if women are expected to do all of the housework too, then they are really being dealt a bad hand here. I figure, if a woman cooks, the dude should do the dishes and vice versa. Young women in my generation arent being taught to cook by their mothers because most of the moms out there these days have full time jobs or whatever and the girls usually have some kind of extracurricular activity going on after school or something. So, it's important that dudes learn how to cook because one of 2 things will happen when they meet and end up living together: 1. They will starve to death. 2. They will get fat and die from eating nothing but fast food I also know that it's not hard to pick up after one's self and being single and living on my own for a few years, I know that it's not rocket science to do laundry either. I've also learned that being on my own, I want my place to look clean in case I have lady friend over so I'm not afraid to get down and scrub the floors and windex a few windows or clean the pee off the toilet seat, etc... Now hypothetically, if I met a woman and we ended up getting married would I magically forget how to do all of that stuff? Hell No. I certainly hope not. Most guys who are looking for a woman to cook and clean for them probably have mommy issues and are trying to fulfill some sick Oedipus complex. No sane guy wants to marry his mother. I take pride in having a clean place to live. Being a couple takes equal parts from both people involved and the Neanderthal mentality that cleaning is **** work needs to go away. It's 2007, not 1957.

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 207 (view)

Are virgins more attractive? Posted: 1/16/2007 5:55:11 AM
That is a big En, Oh - NO. Back when I slept with virgins in middle school and high school, they were kind of lame - it wasnt thier fault, they just didnt have the experience necessary to enjoy sex as much as I did. Virgins are generally more nervous and have a hard time providing positive or negative feedback on how they are feeling. I prefer a woman who knows how she is feeling, knows how to let me know how she is feeling, and knows how to make me feel the same way. So, Yes - I prefer experience.... Unless of course I was seriously involved with a virgin and we were gonna get married and spend the rest of our lives together and I could somehow go without sex during our courtship without cheating on her. One positive thing about virgins is that they have yet to form bad habits. You can mold them fresh from the start to your liking. I've found that some experienced women have developed some bad/annoying/painful habits from previous relationships/sexual encounters that a virgin wouldnt have. But that's not gonna happen so I'm sticking with No. One last thing - 2 virgins should never lose thier virginities to eachother - one of them should always know what they are doing and what's going on.

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 28 (view)

Now is this the right attitude Posted: 1/16/2007 5:26:23 AM
That girl is a lame biatch. That's borderline racist to me. Now I'm pretty blunt myself, when I get a message from a porker or something I tell her that we wouldnt be able to connect physically - but that girl overstepped the line here. It looks like she actually spent some time thinking of a way to lower your spirits and keep you from pursuing women who looked like her. Someone should give her her a Tijuana Bullwhip - look it up on urban dictionary. Totally heterosexual comment: You dont look bad at all dude - and you are a surfer and a firefighter so you've probably got good stamina/endurance and physical conditioning. Dont let this broad get you down.

Joined: 1/12/2007

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 1/16/2007 5:13:58 AM
I think this thread is lame - people go through all the trouble of finding the right thing to write in their profile and now you're asking them to do the same thing here!? I'll do it because I'm bored and drank too much earlier and have nothing better to do at 5 in the morning: I'm Chris. I loathe redundancy. I love love, I hate hate, and I'm indifferent towards indifference. The end.

Joined: 1/12/2007

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Ladies....how much muscle is too much for you? Posted: 1/16/2007 4:35:35 AM
I think is depends on the type of women you are trying to attract. No sane woman wants a fat guy but a lot of bigger girls are looking for bigger guy so a lot of muscles is the way to go. I weigh 170 right now and am trying to gain weight in muscle so I can see bigger girls and widen my scope of possible women to date. Couples should be proportionate to one another. If you are going for women around the 130 and 150 lb zone - I would recommend losing weight and getting leaner, If you are going for heavier women - I would stay the same. That's just my opinion.

Joined: 1/12/2007

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PICK UP LINES Best and the worst Posted: 1/16/2007 4:19:41 AM
The best - this one used to work for me all the time when I was into the club scene: First, I wouldnt show up until past midnight and all the girls are tired of seeing the same dudes' faces all night, plus they've already had a few drinks and you are sober and at the top of your game. I would walk around, kind of like hunting - I'm looking for an attractive young lady who looks like she is being bothered by some greasy old guy or is turning other dudes down left and right. I walk up and say in her ear "When you're done talking to this dude, come see me." and then I walk away, get another drink or whatever but I stay within her view. Next thing I know, by the time my drink is done she's grabbed my hand and we are heading for the dance floor. The rest is just funny stories and phone numbers. Another one that works for me: Has any of you guys ever seen a girl at a restaurant at a table with a couple of dudes? Well, in passing, if you and her make eye contact, you would be stupid not to try this: For starters, make sure you dont have food on your face. Walk up to the table, ask the dudes there if either of them are seeing her - if either of them say yes, say "Alright, take it easy guys - enjoy your dinner." and walk away quickly. If they say no - then tell her your name and ask for her phone number. Its really blunt and to the point - it kinda catches her off guard cuz no girl thinks a guy will try to hit on her sitting at a table with some guys and it shows some balls to ask the dudes first.

Joined: 1/12/2007

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Why are older women not into younger guys??? Posted: 1/16/2007 4:01:39 AM
It's been my experience that a lot of older women have insecurity issues about thier age, physical appearance, and possibly what thier friends and family would think. Quite possibly, some older women have gotten out of relationships/divorces or whatever and have been told that they will never meet anyone as young or attractive as they could have when they were younger. I've been with a few older women and constantly had to remind them how beautiful and smart they were - that, and they would never introduce me to their friends, let alone thier family or children who's age I was damn well near myself. There's also the idea that most older women have already had kids and dont want to have to play mother to someone that they are romantically involved with. So, there are a lot of things to look at here.

Joined: 1/12/2007

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What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread? Posted: 1/15/2007 6:55:00 PM
I was replying to myschtick but some dude got to it before me so I'll critique his - kinda wordy, moreso than mine. Kinda reminds me of my dad - he knows what he is looking for and that's cool - life experience is a plus. Didnt really need to write the words out to your favorite song - kinda lame. The cancer ribbon and tribute to your mother is endearing and shows your love for family. Good luck dude.

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 1454 (view)

What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread? Posted: 1/15/2007 6:50:05 PM
Well, for 35, she is in totally awesome shape. I really like the Apple analogy and averyone should visit her profile to read it. If she were looking for younger guys, I would definitely try to climb to the top of the tree.

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 156 (view)

I'll give you an honest and detailed opinion Posted: 1/15/2007 6:29:12 PM
Ok - so I'm kinda new to this thing too and am looking for a female's perspective on my profile. I think it's pretty awesome and should get great results but havent seen any yet - think you can tell me why?

Joined: 1/12/2007

Msg: 1451 (view)

What is wrong with the persons profile above you in this thread? Posted: 1/15/2007 5:37:04 PM
Her profile and pictures remind me of my mom.

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