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Thread: Inability to ejaculate
Scruffydude
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Inability to ejaculate
Posted:
6/18/2008 11:54:49 AM
also known as "Baldy syndrome"..........
Zee,...
you'd be surprised what you can find on google about this subject everything from whats known as "retarded ejaculation to medication side effects"
.......Most often, the man who is sexually aroused but is unable to ejaculate intravaginally is suffering from retarded ejaculation, now officially called Male Orgasmic Disorder. This condition has been called by many names, such as inhibited male orgasm, delayed ejaculation, and ejaculatory over-control, to name a few .(1, 2, 3) Surprisingly, many medical professionals have not heard of this disorder.
Joseph Marzucco, PA, PhD
Scruffydude
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Inability to ejaculate
Posted:
6/18/2008 11:05:42 AM
Vanilla sex doesn't cut it for me, and my imagination/interest has to be involved in what I am doing or
I can have a hard on all night
and not be able to cum.
ok there "big fella" stop bragging...........
try slamming it in a door if it's such a hassel......?
I had this happen a few years ago with a gal, she did everything but do chin ups off of it...
he just wasn't having any part of it. Long story short it just turned out to be stress on my part.
Scruffydude
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Why women hate the one night stand and men don't
Posted:
6/18/2008 10:39:50 AM
Just another thing to bytch and moan about in the gender communication gap if you ask me, why women this why women that wha wha wha fawking whaaaa!
some Men think with their dycks and some women think with their hearts.
is it really that hard to figure out?
Scruffydude
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I was told I am a bad mother because I smoke marijuana.
Posted:
6/17/2008 11:38:43 PM
You're not a bad mother. On the contrary. I applaud you for daring to make your own choices, and your child will learn to make independent decisions as well. Some will be popular, some not. Such is life.
bravo johne I'll smoke to that.....
Scruffydude
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spitting during sex
Posted:
6/17/2008 8:57:47 PM
I spit on a guy when giving head to lube it up. I'd like to spit on my exes
and then there are those who enjoy being spit on........
i guess for some it's kinda narly and raunchy...............lol "narly" thats so 80's...
Scruffydude
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Inability to ejaculate
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6/17/2008 8:50:12 PM
Inability to ejaculate
Scruffy screams like Ned Flanders and covers his ears.......LA LA LA LA LA LA..not listening!!!
No problem about getting a woody but can't cum? most likely means he's really excited
and is so jacked up on the fact that he's having sex he can't cum. keep working at it sooner or later it's gonna happen.
don't focus on it ......it will only make matters worse.
Scruffydude
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I have a penis, therefore I make the rules?
Posted:
6/17/2008 7:53:34 PM
Get involved with these bossy dweebs? How can anyone let themselves be controlled to such and extent? And usually these controlling people are damn hard on the eyes even. We even see men who are p***y whipped by women. Why, Why WHYYYY??? LOL.. I personally don't think anyone has the right to try to control another human being.
because people just do plain an simple, either they are weak or they just don't see it.
there are a lot of men and woman out there that enjoy being controlled.
as far as his t-shirt, ,,,,,,,,"the biggest clown in the room is usually the loudest"
Scruffydude
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I was told I am a bad mother because I smoke marijuana.
Posted:
6/17/2008 7:42:00 PM
holy sweet mother of god some of you make it sound likes she's smacking crack and can't pay her bills.
OP you seem like a level headed young lady to me. And no I don't think you should be burned at the stake for indulging when you feel it's appropriate. It's clear this guy had some issues and is now showing his true colors.
Scruffydude
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if you walked in on a sexy chick wanking....
Posted:
6/17/2008 7:03:42 PM
If that was the case then I wouldn't be able to move my hands, wrists, elbows, shoulders ....
What would you do if you walking in on Baldy wanking??
#5 Blush turn aroung and leave the room???
all depends on how hot she was????
Scruffydude
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if you walked in on a sexy chick wanking....
Posted:
6/17/2008 6:49:21 PM
I'd say thats a nasty habit you have there , warn her about the hazards of carpel tunnel syndrome and tell her to lock the door next time.
Scruffydude
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Dating wars, will there never be peace? a discussion
Posted:
6/16/2008 8:36:21 PM
Weekly I see people come and go, some happy, many disappointed, disillusioned and frustrated. If this discussion would help let's have at it!! If not, then delete this.
Bob.
there is order in chaos believe it or not, think about that for a moment even at the basic operating construct of the entity know as the forums..
there is an invisible force at work . Seen some times as negative and other days good there is a weeding out process at work that works tirelessly by it's own design and creation when it comes right down to it.....it's an unstoppable machine that weeds out the strong from the week.
Scruffydude
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Email back and forth then poof they delete their profile.
Posted:
6/16/2008 8:18:49 PM
helloooooooooooooo...they probably were married, got busted, and deleted their profile.
You know???.......that's a very good likely possibility it would explain a lot why some one would just up and go poof wouldn't it.
for all we know they may already be back with a different account.?
Scruffydude
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Email back and forth then poof they delete their profile.
Posted:
6/16/2008 6:07:52 PM
Oh I think they was certainly worth my time.Very intelligent and worth while person. Haaaaaaaaa just start to get used to their weirdness and poof they ditch ya Crazy women
maybe it was divine intervention
maybe she wasn't the one who's weird? for all we know you may have spooked her.???
And what is wrong with 13 Mr Scruffy
it's all good miss, 13 is a lucky number.
Scruffydude
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why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted:
6/16/2008 4:34:11 PM
if you shave it completely bare it makes u look like a baby.
will some body burp johnny and give him his bubba......
not only for her pleasure as SBJ pointed out but also for one's own comfort keeping those bristles trimmed is mandatory to prevent chaffing.
Scruffydude
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Women cross their legs on purpose to show stuff
Posted:
6/16/2008 2:21:53 PM
Ya I really hate it when your walking along minding your own business and they just bend over in front of you.
Scruffydude
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CROSSDRESSING
Posted:
6/16/2008 12:39:58 PM
Bugs Bunny was a cross dresser..........
remember those toones he'd be messing with Elmer's head with the crying game.......
Seriously if the OP's wife is on board with his/her extracurricular activities then I don't think he's doing any one any harm...I mean sheesh give them credit for being bold enough to get his/her freak on. I don't condone this type of fetish or behavior but what ever floats your boat.Just because I may not like what he's doing doesn't mean I'm morally entitled to verbally bash him/her.
Scruffydude
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California Metalheads
Posted:
6/16/2008 12:26:35 PM
Remember the group Europe with their one hit wonder in the 80's called "Final Count Down" I don't care if the lead singer looks like he oiled up a few cucumbers in his day it's a great song.
Scruffydude
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I have known her since she was 13, I'm 12 years her senior.
Posted:
6/16/2008 9:42:47 AM
Also, you're talking about the past....this is the present and future. She is NOW 23, and he's NOW35.....so anything else is irrelevant.
how is some one admitting at the time of being 25 that they were attracted to a 13 year old child irrelevant?
Scruffydude
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What are your fave movie quotes?
Posted:
6/16/2008 9:34:07 AM
Not my fav.....but more because it was so dam funny, from "World Police"...when I first saw this scene I couldn't stop laughing
because in some morbid ways it made so much sense.
The character "Chuck" is drunk feeling lonly in a bar , and calls himself a "dyck"
And this drunk Guy in the bar says to Chuck ...
" being a dyck ain't so bad...Chuck
See, there's three kinds of people: dycks, puzzies, and azzholes. Puzzies think everyone can get along, and dycks just want to fyck all the time without thinking it through. But then you got your azzholes, Chuck. And all the azzholes want us to shyt all over everything! So, puzzies may get mad at dycks once in a while, because puzzies get fuyked by dycks. But dycks also fyck azzholes, Chuck!!!!. And if they didn't fyck the azzholes, you know what you'd get? You'd get your dyck and your puzzy all covered in shyt!!!!
Scruffydude
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Soulja Boy Off In This Hoe
Posted:
6/15/2008 11:28:17 PM
LOOK!!! in the sky it's a bird ...it's plane NO!!!!!!!!!!!!
it's SuperScruffy.
I thought the superman was where the guy stood behind with his hands on his hips and she did all the work.???
Scruffydude
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Would you date some outside your belief system?
Posted:
6/15/2008 9:44:15 PM
Well.......let me know what you think I could be wrong maybe love can conquer all.
then describe love then? where does it come from? or is it just another knee jerk human emotion.?
Oxymoron!
love is a belief system too in some ways.
Scruffydude
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~Laughing At The Movies
Posted:
6/15/2008 9:35:43 PM
Depends on what her laugh is like I guess for some?
If She's snorting like a Donkey by her self with no one else in the theater laughing then ya I can see that as a bit uncomfortable for some one or a date.
I mean let's be honest some people have real annoying laughs.........
"No Country For Old Men"
I watched this movie 3 times one of my favorites of the year .......I didn't find it funny at all so another thing that would have to be explored is one's sense of humor.
if anything I found funny was when the kid on the bike said.......
"Mr there's a fucking bone sticking out of your arm"
or when Javier Bardem would check his boots to make sure he got no blood on them......
Scruffydude
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Would you date some outside your belief system?
Posted:
6/15/2008 9:07:52 PM
But for all those whose beliefs lie near the middle and who have an open mind... I am now realizing that it can add an area of growth and spice.. if you let it :)
I'll have a little pinch of skepticism with my religion please.
Scruffydude
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Sex With The Eyes Mentaly Undress Them
Posted:
6/15/2008 7:25:47 PM
Some of you ladies I just don't understand some of you !!!!!!!!!!
I feel so violated.
Scruffydude
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We need to talk
Posted:
6/15/2008 7:21:24 PM
I dunno about the rest of you but I'm sitting on the edge of my chair with anticipation concerning an update from the OP.
Scruffydude
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I have known her since she was 13, I'm 12 years her senior.
Posted:
6/15/2008 6:33:51 PM
Maybe it's because you are crass.
I may be crass but where I come from? 13 year old children hang out with other 13 year old children . And 25 year old adults should be finding likeness in mind concerning so called "friendship" with others 25 year old adults.
sorry but it's just creepin on me a bit like others have said.
Scruffydude
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Email back and forth then poof they delete their profile.
Posted:
6/15/2008 3:21:26 PM
Kind of makes a person feel empty inside doesn't it?
13 is a very tricky number and it was friday the 13th , maybe she was a bit koo koo for coco puffs.
I have to agree though don't put so much "impotence"
in to a few emails.
perhaps he meant importance.?
some one needs to run a spell check.
Scruffydude
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I have known her since she was 13, I'm 12 years her senior.
Posted:
6/15/2008 2:47:27 PM
that she would grow up to become someone I wanted to be friends with
ahh BS! you didn't want to be her friend and you don't want to be her friend now.
a 25 year old man thinking that a 13 year old child is some one he can base emotional maturity on, give me a fycking break dude.
Scruffydude
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We need to talk
Posted:
6/14/2008 5:45:54 PM
What if she's already at home?
Then that means your a man that is in control of the situation.
but when a Woman says " We need to talk" it means one of 2 things.....either
1.) She is gonna try and change You?
or
2.) it's over.
Scruffydude
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Gonna regret this ....
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6/14/2008 4:44:23 PM
OP!
I don't care what they say about You I think your a nice guy!
Scruffydude
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We need to talk
Posted:
6/14/2008 4:35:11 PM
The guy I'm dating texted this today after acting weird for the past few days. I'm meeting him in in a couple of hours prepared for the worst of course.
Any post breakup reply that can save my dignity? :)
He's not gonna break up with you ...usually when a man quotes this phrase it means he's about to put a Woman in her place.
Scruffydude
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Is reading someone's diary _ever_ justified?
Posted:
6/14/2008 4:31:11 PM
How can I move forward, forgive myself, and trust that I can have a healthy relationship with someone else? Is the main problem that I got involved with the wrong person--or that I was in denial about the fact that it was the wrong person.
Possibly you are looking for justified excuses to deal with your conscious , a good start would be learning to mind your own business.
forgive yourself and move on and respect the next person you get involved with privacy.
Scruffydude
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Sex With The Eyes Mentaly Undress Them
Posted:
6/14/2008 4:20:33 PM
No......I´ve just imagined myself jumping on him or her and tonguing them down.......
right then and there.............
No sex though............
My Spidey senses are tingling again.................
Scruffydude
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Sex pheromones. Do they actually work?
Posted:
6/14/2008 2:15:51 PM
................ waits patienty in the shadows to hear the answer to this questions so that I CAN use it to have women jump my bones ..................
I heard that "Spanish fly" is a myth.................
anyways.
just sayin..................
Scruffydude
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She asked me out, but her sister turned up for the date instead
Posted:
6/14/2008 1:51:19 PM
Or since you work in a hotel and the original sister was staying there, just charge the whole meal to her room!
and a bottle of Petrus to go...............
Scruffydude
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Am I the only lucky one here ?
Posted:
6/14/2008 1:43:20 PM
More people who have found blessings in
the interaction with people here? Just thought to share this good experiences!
over the past week I've made friends with some amazing people.
one of them is bald............it doesn't get any better than that.
OP thanks for an up beat post for a change . cheers.......
Scruffydude
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Guys asking to meet with you immediately
Posted:
6/14/2008 12:57:07 PM
Part of me thinks that they just want to get in bed with me
NO WAY???........really.
Scruffydude
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How long do woman usually wait?!?
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6/14/2008 12:50:20 PM
it doesn't matter how long THEY wait, I'm still gonna have them when I go to bed with my lotion ... except they will be dressed as a naughty, naughty nurse!
..........if she isn't there in 10 minutes start with out her..............
Scruffydude
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She asked me out, but her sister turned up for the date instead
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6/14/2008 12:41:35 PM
She asked me out, but her sister turned up for the date instead
sounds like a football maneuver..."I'll just toss him older sis and see if he goes for it"
When I worked in a hotel, one of our regular cusomers asked me out and I accepted.
rule 1# in dating.....never mix business with pleasure.
Scruffydude
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Sex With The Eyes Mentaly Undress Them
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6/14/2008 12:21:55 PM
or maybe that's because I am mentally undressing you with my inner eye.
stop being so coy and tell the truth!.......you eye fycked the heck out of her.
every position possible.
Scruffydude
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Blame Card's
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6/14/2008 12:15:16 PM
Yep, until people take responsibility for how they got into the bad situations and quit blaming others, they will continue to find themselves in more bad situations and whining about why does this always happen to me!!! Whhaaaaaaa
you are wise beyond your years my dear.
Scruffydude
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CROSSDRESSING
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6/14/2008 12:11:06 PM
Oh yeah....and I like the women I date to wear smaller panties than I do. Don't be so frickin rude Ms. Manly Man.
lighten up mr. sister everyone is entitled to their opinion.
I have no urges what so ever to dress in women's cloths.
scruffydude
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Blame Card's
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6/14/2008 11:21:20 AM
Personally, I do not focus on the negative outlook of others. The only outlook I control is mine, and I make it positive. Besides, people tossing out whiny blame cards makes great forum fodder.
I always give my deck of cards a good shuffle before I enter the threads.
scruffydude
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15 year old daughter and condoms.
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6/14/2008 11:06:47 AM
(me) "I just don't think you are satisfying my daughter so I am gonna break up with you for her."
and........
(me) " If i ever catch you around her again until she's 20 with a box of condoms I'm gonna blow your legs off at the knee with a 12 gauge shot gun"
15 year old daughter with condoms? I'd say I have gone some where wrong as a parent , apologize to her and fix the situation to the best of my abilities.
Scruffydude
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sweat during sex??
Posted:
6/13/2008 11:04:58 PM
man it's getting hot in hear **wipes forehead*** brb I need some H2O.........
if a couple isn't laying in a puddle of bodily fluids afterwards they just weren't trying hard enough.
Scruffydude
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Do you know how to argue?
Posted:
6/13/2008 10:54:54 PM
I just choose to avoid it at all costs. If it's not a calm discussion ~ it's not happening with me.
I dunno there's nothing like a good screaming match if you ask me add in a little door slamming and asking your neighbor "what the fuyk you looking at"........
it's over coming these little conversations that make a couple stronger any ways.
arguments are arguments for a reason and if that means she has to raise her voice and do a little venting at me then I'll take it like a man but at the same time hope she hears me out too . Arguments happen because either partner is not listening to begin with. Or something to that effect I dunno I wasn't quite listening.
Scruffydude
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Your Pet or YourRelationship?
Posted:
6/13/2008 10:38:57 PM
Why do some people seem to so enjoy lumping everyone into a neat little category? So they can insult, belittle, judge, moralize, and feel better about themselves? Makes no sense to me. If you don't like animals, then don't date people who have them. Nobody is faulting you for that, so why fault anyone else because they happen to love animals? Did your Guinea Pig bite you when you were a kid or did your brother's pet snake eat your pet rat? Such anger...
actually I was stating a
fact
from my point of veiw , but it sounds like I hit a nerve instead.
Scruffydude
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Your Pet or YourRelationship?
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6/13/2008 9:28:42 PM
But none have come close to the human bonds I've had -- and I long for that true intimacy a pet will never provide. (for me)
They are an accessory to a life of loving others, not a replacement for others.
That is the difference in opinion that I've seen here. To each his own... but in my heart of hearts I still feel sadness for those that have been unable to connect in satisfactory ways with humans that would leave them to prefer their pets.
If that makes me bitter, so be it.
Not at all.
Are pets being used as a coping tool? for those that are not ready to go out and date again . It's all too easy to cop-out and say "Oh my cats hair went up on it's back when he came over so it's a no go"
per say running back to the felines in fears of getting hurt again it just seems to convenient.
Is it fair to our pets to put such heavy humanly burdens upon them?
that look on their face that says........."when the fyck is my owner gonna go out and get some strange?"...........
Scruffydude
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Sex With The Eyes Mentaly Undress Them
Posted:
6/13/2008 7:49:31 PM
Have you ever gotten a weird look by those you have stared at?
I get eye fycked all the time...........................
Scruffydude
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Do you trust your pet's judgement on your dates?
Posted:
6/13/2008 5:50:52 PM
Oh man, I just now realized I may have had a few potential "Ted Bundy's" in my home before, and my cat's may have actually saved my life. yikes!!!!
another close call for the history books...
The only judgement I rust concerning My pet ..which happens to be a dog , is to guard my front yard when I'm not home.
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