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beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Anyone interested in a POF get-together in Eastern North Carolina? Posted: 11/22/2007 6:56:16 AM
It seem's you're the only male attending :) sort of like shooting fish a barrel

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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y cant a booty call stay a botty call Posted: 6/27/2007 7:13:45 AM
You selfish SOB.. I can't believe you did not see things changing. Find another woman, be a man, try and remain a friend to this woman but stay out of her bed. Friends don't hurt friends. Think about her feelings , not just your need to get some.

Beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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FISH TYPE ?? Posted: 5/30/2007 8:05:05 AM
Is there a test or is this something we should just know ? If it is a test where can I get it , so I can fill in my profile. Thanks Very Much................................................ Help Please :)

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Do you know the meaning of your name? Posted: 3/5/2007 11:49:52 AM
Maiden( The Lord is Gracious) Sailor I would never have guessed !! Ahoy Mateys !!

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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The Sex Mistake Posted: 3/4/2007 6:42:52 PM
When I first read this title I figured it was a bout Flatulence in bed. There are not many men out there that won't try to make any conversation into a sexual conversation. I have not met any on line that don't. Something just are the way they are.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Anne Coulter Posted: 3/4/2007 6:20:30 PM
raving lunitic with PMS , I'm sure her mother loved her LOL

beargal

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BEST ADVICE TO GETTING OVER YOUR EX Posted: 3/4/2007 6:12:11 PM
All of this is WONDERFUL advice. There's just one flaw, or millions, we each have different stories. We feel each relationship in a different way. You can't replace one with another. You learn to love someone new, this takes time, especially if you were in love with the X for many years. I see the drug bit to a point, only because you become as one, so divorce is like cutting off a limb. I think the best any one can do and this applies to both long and short term affairs of the heart. Take time to be alone to lick your wounds, alone. Alone or with friends, allow yourself to grieve. This time will be shorter or longer depending on YOU. Being in a rush to fill that hole will do that for you. Fill the hole , not the heart or soul. Take this Alone time to learn who you are and what a blessing you are and will be to the lucky person you find that see's your inner light.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Dunno wat to do or wat to think... Posted: 3/4/2007 5:53:36 PM
Go get some help, see a advocate. Talk to someone about what is going on with you and maybe they can help. Don't be so proud that you can not accept suggestions for a way to see this through. You are in my prayers all of you.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Wines? Does anyone drink that Arbor Mist crap? Posted: 3/4/2007 12:06:53 PM
Spits... NO way.. I drink Jacob's Creek Cab. From Australia. It's yummy.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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female roommate...is it a problem? Posted: 3/1/2007 12:35:48 PM
OP: I would befriend her, then explain how you feel, then try and find her a new apartment to share with someone else. Or, he could tell her that it is making you feel uneasy. I think it's best if it comes from you, at least you can get to know her and she will understand your intentions for this guy and see ( hopefully) that teasing him with "light dress" is not a good idea. She might end up being a very nice gal and innocent.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Who's Who ?? Posted: 3/1/2007 5:43:40 AM
This just get's better

beargal

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I need advice! Posted: 2/28/2007 2:24:26 PM
tell him to mind his own business. What kind of a freak is this guy ?

beargal

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Who's Who ?? Posted: 2/27/2007 4:40:04 PM
you are up things !! Thanks for news brief

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Who's Who ?? Posted: 2/27/2007 2:57:23 PM
For some time many of us have wondered just who is Jack Schitt? We find ourselves at a loss when someone says, 'You don't know Jack Schitt!' Well, thanks to my genealogy efforts, you can now respond in an intellectual way. Jack Schitt is the only son of Awe Schitt. Awe Schitt, the fertilizer magnate, married O. Schitt, the owner of Needeep N. Schitt, Inc. They had one son, Jack. In turn, Jack Schitt married Noe Schitt. The deeply religious couple produced six children: Holie Schitt, Giva Schitt, Fulla Schitt, Bull Schitt, and the twins Deep Schitt and Dip Schitt. Against her parents' objections, Deep Schitt married Dumb Schitt, a high school dropout. After being married 15 years, Jack and Noe Schitt divorced. Noe Schitt later married Ted Sherlock, and because her kids were living with them, she wanted to keep her previous name. She was then known as Noe Schitt Sherlock. Meanwhile, Dip Schitt married Loda Schitt, and they produced a son with a rather nervous disposition named Chicken Schitt. Two of the other six children, Fulla Schitt and Giva Schitt, were inseparable throughout childhood and subsequently married the Happens brothers in a dual ceremony. The wedding announcement in the newspaper announced the Schitt-Happens nuptials. The Schitt-Happens children were Dawg, Byrd, and Horse. Bull Schitt, the prodigal son, left home to tour the world. He recently returned from Italy with his new Italian bride, Pisa Schitt. Now when someone says, 'You don't know Jack Schitt,' you can correct them. Sincerely, Crock O. Schitt

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Girl that just doesn't want me.... Posted: 2/27/2007 5:14:46 AM
Honey , you are to young to be settled down with anyone male or female, find a nice place either alone or share a place with others your age. You have so much time to figure things out, don't stress about it , just have fun and enjoy the ride. At your age you should never feel like 70. Good luck, have fun !!

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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the escapades of newbie to online dating Posted: 2/26/2007 5:45:05 PM
Yes great idea, try finding out more about them on the phone before you buy dinner, lunch or coffee.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Be caerful who you meet ! Posted: 2/26/2007 5:32:52 AM
Stay Tuned tomorrow for another " As the Stomach Turns" Brought to by.....The Evil Internet Users.. we are one step away from your pocket Please use some common sense.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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ok, I figured out why women Posted: 2/25/2007 11:51:49 AM
ManWsprr, (ever hear of "**** me" birkenstocks? Case closed.) That is a Funny !!! (high heeled sneakers ? ) (Jump me Jesus Sandles ?) There are many short guys on this site, and In the world ( gasp ) I know women who might be called Inferior but, you would not call them that to their face.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Is Intelligence A Curse In Relationships? Posted: 2/25/2007 9:53:50 AM
Jean. The largest sex organ is the brain. Right you are !!! Although many men think with the smaller head, and there is no way to educate that. I've seen all types of relationships, some couples were very much different in IQ levels. They were still quite happy. I've seen couples that were both high IQ types, they too were very happy and would spend hours discussing similar interests. The thing about love that makes it so special is undefinable. It's there or it's not. It's a very private connection between the two involved, it just "is".

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Is Intelligence A Curse In Relationships? Posted: 2/25/2007 8:18:10 AM
" A browner" geez that is the ultimate in crudeness. You don't look all that brown to me. More tan actually. I know what you are saying though, I came up in NYC. We had busing. We had a lot of fighting, the teachers had trouble just keeping order forget about actually teaching something. Jr. High was a racial mix but we all got on very well. High School, well it was a war zone. I got pushed around some, then quit early and took the GED. It was safer and I was way ahead of the pack. To bad all the kids that really want an education can't get one without a heap of money.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Would you kiss someone with Black teeth???? Posted: 2/25/2007 8:07:04 AM
This is starting to sound like buying a horse :) .. I like the idea of a shot to kill germs. But you might need beer goggles to get past those teeth. Poor woman.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Would you kiss someone with Black teeth???? Posted: 2/25/2007 7:35:02 AM
Toss her back , maybe she will find a nice Dentist to date :) With benefits ?

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Is Intelligence A Curse In Relationships? Posted: 2/25/2007 7:12:53 AM
Anchises.. you get those too ? It makes me wonder what they were doing in school. It's sad, not funny. I hope it does not make you feel superior. I think everyone has a gift. Finding it and developing it is important. I am sure you were a smart kid, but what did you do to help the ones not so lucky ?

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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how do u get over this.... Posted: 2/24/2007 12:04:12 PM
I don't like to preach, but, I think the lord has other ( better) plans for you !! I have the feeling someone is going to come into your life and teach you a lesson about love. Maybe just maybe, this new person will make you see that you did not love the old guy as much as you though. Sometimes it's hard to belive, you can and will find the "right one" and it willbe better than you imagined. PS ugly is not YOU. You are a very Pretty girl.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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I don't like your dogs, we can't talk....ever heard it? Posted: 2/24/2007 11:56:10 AM
sickandtired. That is the truth and thank you for being so kind to your animal. I am an animal welfare worker. We adopt out many dogs and we do refuse people, if they don't give us the right answers. If they want to keep the poor animal chained up in a yard or if they are not seeing the "Big" picture of animal ownership. I have three furry kids myself. I have to live around taking care of them, they did not ask to be born, but they sure do need love and care and they give so much back to me. I would not trade their love and trust just to have a night to sleep at a guys place. I'd bring the dogs or get a baby sitter ;)) I have in the past !! For vacation or a long weekend. I would never date anyone that could not accept my animals or my work which takes up much time.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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meeting his parents Posted: 2/24/2007 10:44:08 AM
just remember you don't have to live with them, just meet them , and it's less painful than going to the dentist, (hopefully) and You might actually like them !!

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Why do some ladies go out of thier way to hurt someone Posted: 2/24/2007 10:27:28 AM
Mean People Suck !! They have a huge charactor flaw. You are better off without that one.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Why men are seldom published.... Posted: 2/24/2007 9:53:08 AM
Why men are rarely published in Dear Abby: Dear Abby: I've never written to you before, but I really need your advice on what could be a crucial decision. I've suspected for some time now that my wife has been cheating on me. The usual signs... phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up. My wife has been going out with the girls a lot recently although when I ask their names she always says, "Just some friends from work, you don't know them." I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the drive. Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her. I decided I was going to park my Harley next to the garage and then hide behind it so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It was at that moment, crouching behind the Harley, that I noticed that the valve covers on my engine seemed to be leaking a little oil. Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it back to the dealer?

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women? Posted: 2/24/2007 7:46:38 AM
Where are these men ? I want one..

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Do you ever wonder why..... Posted: 2/24/2007 7:44:47 AM
Your photo is so green I wonder if maybe you have been over doing the broccoli and salad ? Why do you think women are going to cheat ? If they love you they won't. The only time in my life I ever felt the urge to move on to another man was when I was being treated poorly. When I am treated well, I have eyes only for him. Maybe down deep you don't think much of what you have to offer ? To attract love you have to be "loveable". Not hostile, paranoid and distrusting.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Sleep Sex, Are you Affected By This Disorder ? Posted: 2/23/2007 6:26:10 AM
Ya'll can start a club have sleep overs. No one would remember anything in the morning. No harm no Foul. Just kidding. I hope you can find a cure , meanwhile can someone lock you in your room at night ?

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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i caught my ex boyfriend dressed like a woman Posted: 2/20/2007 4:09:50 PM
newfilad, you are not ugly and if you speak french you must wear knickers.. L joking... maybe I think the benefits might be he has better under-oohs then you perhaps you can borrow them ?

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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How do you know when its for real? Posted: 2/20/2007 3:21:57 PM
I think that is an evolving thing. Relationships build up Like a perfect rose. You are always unfolding new depth of a relationship. When you start dropping petals , you know it's doomed.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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I feel guilty dating while my exwife isn't..... Posted: 2/20/2007 2:20:22 PM
I have to wonder if you have such a great relationship why or why are you divorced ? Maybe you need some time apart ( no Contact) for a while, then once she is "dating" and meeting men that she likes you both can decide if you still want a close relationship. Divorce is not really divorce until you are actually Divorced from each other, this means not holding hands and working out "her dates" .

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Men.. Do you have to have the chase? Posted: 2/20/2007 1:56:31 PM
You are a way to funny :) if you do at least you know how to put them out.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Why men wear earrings Posted: 2/20/2007 8:23:25 AM
Why Men Wear Earrings.... A man is at work one day when he notices that his co-worker is wearing an earring. The man knows his co-worker to be a normally conservative fellow, and is curious about his sudden change in "fashion sense" The man walks up to him and says, "I didn't know you were into earrings." "Don't make such a big deal, it's only an earring," he replies sheepishly. His friend falls silent for a few minutes, but then his curiosity prods him to ask, "So, how long have you been wearing one?" "Ever since my wife found it in my truck." (I always wondered how this trend got started.)

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Being hung up on Posted: 2/19/2007 5:51:41 PM
I would "get busy" not call and if he calls be really friendly but .. BUSY. So sorry, he being a twit. I think you need to step back and get some perspective. Keep busy do other things and see if he really means all that much to you. He seems to have a problem, don't make it yours , you seem like a really nice up beat honest person. Find someone that cherishes you all the time.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Is oral sex cheating? Posted: 2/19/2007 5:01:21 PM
Who are you Bill Clinton ?

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Cell Phones On a Date,Do You Really Need It? Posted: 2/18/2007 4:45:51 PM
It's one way to make a quck exit.. opps gotta run my house is on fire.. or something like that ..

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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How old is too old to still be living with your parents? Would you date someone that still did? Posted: 2/18/2007 1:41:28 PM
Nothing wrong with living with an elder parent. I do, I think it's the right things to do,not always easy but,I could not live with myself if I did the easy thing and was only thinking of myself. I would also have more respect for a date, BF etc. If he was caring for a parent instead of ignoring them. It show's what they are made of. Better to do it, than say I should have once they leave us.

beargal

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Tired of immature men Posted: 2/18/2007 12:09:17 PM
Pablo, Truer words have not been said. It's so very sad. If we can't love and respect each other, be it as friends, or lovers then what's the point really?

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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A Few Extra Pounds Posted: 2/17/2007 10:52:06 PM
there are so many more things in this world that mean something,, a persons weight will most likely change throught their life. So WHAT.. If that is all your small mind can bother it's self with then you need help. Most of us are not runway models. We all have a gift, find your gift. share it. find out what LOVE is !!

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Failed marriage under 30 Posted: 2/17/2007 10:14:01 PM
was married 20 years to anabuser. What does that say about me? I don't care, think what you will, life is hard and we all struggle. We can still love each other. and we better start learning what love is. warning do not necessarly trust your parents ideal as yours Really know, really learn who you are then pick a mate namaste

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Men posing with cars Posted: 2/17/2007 9:32:29 PM
hello, of course women look at your lot in life. if you have nothing, do nothing , are a lazy ass, they don't want you. period. This is reality. no one wants a dead beat, i don't care how nice you are. If you're * mr.thang* is to you knee, wonderful for you, SOMEONE might take care of you for services. men and cars is as bad as women flashing tittie. it's over done and shallow. it will never change .. i give up

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Men posing with cars Posted: 2/17/2007 9:25:42 PM
jet.. I hope you live ina paid for home ? have heathe care and insurance. It's not worth it babe. What are you trying to prove?

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Men posing with cars Posted: 2/17/2007 9:22:57 PM
do'h..... who cares.. if it's real.. great. he has a nice car.. and ........ if not he is limp lol .

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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What do I do now? Posted: 2/17/2007 9:18:48 PM
you wake up and you breathe deeply.. You are in charge of Your world. If anyone ( him too) gets inyour your way , know why!!!!!! be tough. this is YOUR LIFE and YOUR CHILDS life. Nothing else matters. When someone comes along and makes your life feel better, you might date him.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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What do I do now? Posted: 2/17/2007 9:11:58 PM
kill him now... L or............... get to the ROOT of the problem. IMHO 3 is one to many. listen to your heart GF and follow it.

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Women at Pubs by Themselves Posted: 2/17/2007 12:10:02 PM
What does gay look like ?

beargal

Joined: 1/15/2007

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can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers? Posted: 2/16/2007 11:14:42 AM
I don't care what others do, drink smoke , whatever .. as long it's not an addiction. Also as long as they don't insist I partake and as long as it does not become a problem as in.. I am not having a good time because I'm not "high". Blech !! Moderation!!! I am no angel, been there done that and I will say some people can go on forever drinking on occasion , smoking on occasion but I think many more end up with a daily habit, be it pot or drink. Some folks just have addictive personalitys. Only you can decide if you can handle it OP. Is it a habit or a once in a while buzz?

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