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Flyingace5

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why do men got to lie & play games Posted: 5/25/2007 7:27:08 PM
Men lie and play games because when you are honest and upfront about things you get that dreaded "friends" monicker . Most men are afraid of being alone so they resort to lies and deceit to try and convince you that they are what you are looking for. Very few have the gonads to be who they are no matter what the situation is or how it may affect their love life. Now at the same time some of us ( and I mean men and women) are just incapable of telling the truth no matter what the circumstances I can only assume the first paragraph has some truth to it when applying it to women? If any of you ladies disagree I'd like to hear your perspective.

Flyingace5

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Favorite word Posted: 5/25/2007 7:12:22 PM
My favorite word is S#@t.. it has all of the possible uses as f%$k without getting the s#@t slapped out of you in mixed company:

Flyingace5

Joined: 1/15/2007

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Favorite word Posted: 5/25/2007 7:08:33 PM
For Unlawful Carnal Knowledge is the title to Van HAlens last album with Sammy Hagar doing the vocals............... Cool a#$ album

Flyingace5

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Orlando Xtreme Bowling Party - Saturday, July 7th Posted: 5/25/2007 6:55:52 PM
SWEET! can't wait sounds like a lot of fun ... got to go clean my balls....

Flyingace5

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Why don't men like smart women? Posted: 3/29/2007 1:39:07 PM
I always enjoy a good conversation with a smart lady...the thing that I have found is some of them don't know how to have a stupid conversation as well. And lets face it..no matter how smart we are we all have dumb days/moments and sometimes we just want to relax and not over think things.Especially when or Now being a man that is considered "booksmart" by almost everyone that knows me and "streetsmart" by most I find that if you attempt to talk or discuss things with women and do give them the their discussions (whether of a political nature or otherwise) they tend to either say that they're "not interested in you in that way" or "just want to be friends" I personallybelieve men and women cannot be friends sex always become an issue at some point....one or the other is eventually going to want to go to the next level.This is not to say men and women cannot be friendly. But Friends? No! and if you are not interested in me in that way then what is the sense of continuing something that you know can only end in one or both of you being hurt?

Flyingace5

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Why don't men like smart women? Posted: 3/29/2007 1:08:29 PM
as for not beating men at chess...don't beat them at Scrabble either, or trivial pursuit....they get very upset...it's like playing your kids, you play a good game, but in the end let them win to feel good about themselves I cannot speak for any other men, but for myself, this is a sure fire way to get me mad! I cannot let someone win just so they can save face... How in the hell are you going to learn anything that way? And, I certainly don't want to be allowed to win ... you might as well cut off my nads if I am not man enough to take a good beating and not learn anything from it!

Flyingace5

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Why don't men like smart women? Posted: 3/29/2007 12:59:07 PM
[Now thats what im talking bout... want to add a 26 yr old to that list ] sure -lol, but would probably take a while to train you....lol Damn That Hurts

Flyingace5

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You might be a redneck if.................. Posted: 3/29/2007 12:34:18 PM
WS6TA>>>>>> Quit yer cryin and get back on the porch... so the big dogs can have some fun ...which is exactly what this thread was about in the first place. If it really offends you that much ...LEAVE And just for the record... you will find a very large portion of the African Amercian descent use the "N" word more often than those who truely are racist and mean it just as derogitively as you seem to take Redneck And TheMAdFiddler:: very insightful ....but am I belieing my redneck heritage if I admit I understood what it was saying????

Flyingace5

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You might be a redneck if.................. Posted: 3/29/2007 11:43:08 AM
Yea but the yard is always available

Flyingace5

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LET ME HELP YOU RE-WRITE YOUR PROFILE ! Posted: 3/29/2007 11:30:57 AM
All right I have used this type thread in POF and I wanted a second opinion Thanks

Flyingace5

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why are men so rude to women, judging them by looks Posted: 3/29/2007 10:39:15 AM
And now for the men who don't know what the term B I T C H means Being a ** means........I stand up for myself and my beliefs. I stand up for those I love, I speak my mind, I think my own thaughts, and do things my way. I won't compromise what's in my heart, I live my life my way, I won't allow anyone to step on me, I refuse to tolerate injustice, it means I have the courage and the strength to be ME! So try and stomp on me, douse my inner flame, squash every ounce of beauty I hold WITHIN. You won't suceed. And if that makes me a **, so be it. For men this set of personality traits is refered to as being an A#$hole now to me that is a compliment and if they know that upfront then I will have a lot less heart ache and unwanted drama Now what I would like to know is why do women agree to meet or date someone that does something they don't like and then try to change him and get pisssed off that you refuse to change? I have seen this sooo many times ( a few times to myself but mostly to people I know) I have never seen a man take that attitude but I am sure there are those that do!

Flyingace5

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Romance.....a thing of the past ??? Posted: 3/25/2007 12:21:05 AM
Now I can't speak for all men but for me I save it for those that I actually feel I/We have a chance of becoming something other than"chat buddies" If you do that kind of thing for all of the women/girls you meet or casually date what makes it special when you actually find one that you want it to be special for/with? Just my thoughts

Flyingace5

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The hair factor Posted: 3/25/2007 12:15:07 AM
I am a moderately hairy man and I must say I have never had any complaints

Flyingace5

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Dictionary for decoding personal ads... Posted: 3/25/2007 12:07:04 AM
All right ladies I want to know.... Who the hell gave you our play book? "We" as men need to "discuss" this with him!

Flyingace5

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Meatloaf even meatloaf haters will eat... Posted: 3/22/2007 11:48:34 AM
That sounds like an awesome recipe! Thanks for sharing

Flyingace5

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Dad Beats Up A Dealer For Supplying Daughter. Posted: 3/22/2007 11:41:45 AM
Now, since I am not a father, I cannot say how I would handle this situation. But, I am an older brother with 4 sisters (2 are 12,& 17 years my junior other 2 are 2, & 4, years my junior) and I must say that for all intents and prurposes , yes I would probably lose it and beat the living shit out of them... I would at least attempt to do it in such a way as to not expose myself to reprimand from the law... you know the rubber hose thing! or evn the older brother intimidation tactics they can be very persuasive with certain people ( although that is unlikely with a dealer...unless it was a school friend that got hooked and roped her into it with him) I will admit it is not the right thing or even the best thing but if you have tried several different tactics to stop the situation I can see in desperation making this, the most stupid of all mistakes.

Flyingace5

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would you think this was a little over board? Posted: 3/22/2007 11:04:58 AM
At one point I had a g/f that didn't smoke and I do. She never pushed me to quit ( I would have refused on general Principles and I think she knew that!) but it was alot easier not to smoke when we were together. I believe had we lasted a little longer I could have quit but I would have been doing it for me because I wanted to be with her more often, but it would never had been for her! I have to agree did she agree to meet you and date with the thought she could make you quit? And if she did, what will she insist you quit next( just by complaining about it)? will it be your favorite hobby? or a favorite food? or a good friend that you have had for years?or maybe your nads...so she can put them in her trophy case? Either way I would like to say Congrats ( I still have not managed to ..yet) but don't let her know that her nagging prompted you to do it..or she may cheat on you as well!!!!!!!

Flyingace5

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A stare with no smile from a guy Posted: 3/22/2007 10:43:42 AM
He may have been staring thru you... and when he became aware you were giving him dirty looks... he might have been intimidated .....possibly or just WEIRD

Flyingace5

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Brain Scam: Subliminal Advertising and Idle Brains Posted: 3/22/2007 10:27:17 AM
That is why I have a music player or tv going while I am on the net... neither one gets my full attention and rarely does the TV get my undivided attention! (wheww)

Flyingace5

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Dictionary for decoding personal ads... Posted: 3/22/2007 10:14:58 AM
And sadly ....TRUE

Flyingace5

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Dictionary for decoding personal ads... Posted: 3/22/2007 9:51:39 AM
STOP THaT HURTS!

Flyingace5

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I need some opinions to a very serious problem,,,,PLEASE Posted: 3/21/2007 10:40:46 PM
Being as he does know you and you rchildren personally not just as "Dans" Family I would inform the police and make sure they are completly aware of the all the past you have with this person..there is no reason to take chances overlyparanoid or not!

Flyingace5

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music an memories Posted: 3/21/2007 10:30:06 PM
ALWAYS! And not only for ex's but for old friends and even a few places that I have been Its all good though because it keeps the memories alive and rienforces the good and reminds you of the bad-so you can avoid it. happy

Flyingace5

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Would you date someone knowing they had at some point in there life been a prostitute? Posted: 3/21/2007 10:14:55 PM
Alright I'll pose another question to you DDREAM : What is the diffrenece between a prostittue or a young woman that likes multiple partners/gangbangs? I personnally would have a bigger issue about you not telling me upfront. No I don't mean on the first or second date but before we were to get intimate ...Yes I would rather know. As to how I would handle it if comfronted with it later.. I cannot honestly answer. I'd be pissed no doubt but there are to many other variables about the relationship to know if I could consider trying to work through it as a couple.

Flyingace5

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demanding father Posted: 3/20/2007 11:23:11 AM
The only thing I can add to this is to keep your daughters happiness and needs in the front of your mind....Even if you don't argue with her father in front of her she will pick up on any hatred or bad feelings towards him. By all means get a lawyer and keep as many communcations to the father thru them as is possible but DONT bad mouth or disrespect the father in front of the child it is only going to hurt and confuse her. If he bad mouths you to her and you find out just gently remind her that it is not polite to talk bad about people without attacking him she will eventually see thru his BS as she grows and he shows his true colors whether they be good or bad Good Luck

Flyingace5

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Drug Testing and the working man... Posted: 3/20/2007 11:09:12 AM
I work in the construction field and I must say that most people I have met or dealt with on these sites fit into one of three categories 1: Never smoked/Drank and are totally against it at all times.... Most of these were relatively new to the field/business and had major issues with their employees or their employers( mostly because all of the men or women that worked under them were complaining about everything else they did because of that attitude towards those individuals choice of recreational relaxation.) 2:Smoke/Drink on the job... Obviously this can be a very dangerous combination but if I had to choose between a smoker or adrinker I would much rather have the pothead over the drunk beside me! The pothead may be a little slow in their reactions or thoughts but they are nowhere near as unstable as a drunk on the job! 3:Smoke /Drink before or after work only...These types can be as dangerus as those above...but only if they partake before work( you would be surprised to know how many beer cans are in the walls of most houses that were put there while the house was under construction! The way I see it it should only matter to the employer what you do on your time if you bring it into the workplace with you ie..Coming in still drunk or hungover or calling in sick because of a hangover. I personally don't think that pot is as bad as some peolpe would have you believe...When it is a recreational thing and not an hourly thing! As far as the pay goes.. I'm with ya brother ! It really pisses me off to take a test to determine my abilities (and some of these tests are takin an hour to an hour and a half to complete.. on my time and my dime no less!!!) and then have the interviewer just glance at it and then just talk to you and decide what he is going to pay you! .....Or even worse I had one company here recently that wanted to hire me to make custom Duct Systems in homes that I know they were being paid the equivilant of $50.00 an hour and only wanted to pay the lead(and only) man on the job(me)$13.00 an hour for a job that should have had a lead mechanic in the $17-$25 an hour range as well as an apprentice in the $8-$12 range. I held out until they up to what I had been making 5years ago($17) (with 5 years less expeirnce) well as it turned out they were in a crunch and needed a man right away so they agreed. Only to hire 2 men with less experience after I did all the things they could not do they fired me! To make it worse they tried to attack my abilities as their reason to get rid of me! I fought that and they were forced to apologize to me for deflimation as well as tell the other companies I had tried to get a job with that they had told they would not re-hire me. It would have been OK say they don't like to pay the money that I wanted , they did not they said I couldn't do the job! It almost cost them their State contrators Liscence because of their actions!

Flyingace5

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My man is addicted to computer gaming. Posted: 3/20/2007 10:34:33 AM
The last thing I want to do is be mean or nasty but...why do the two of you have a profile on a dating site? I mean to me that sounds counter-productive to a relationship! Know I am not saying itis OK to ignore your significant other by any means nor do I want to make it sound like it is your fault but from 7:30 till 2:00 what were you doing? Were you in his face the whole time or did you just ignore him and sulk?or did you sulk for a little while and then go in there already worked up and upset? Now if you did give him his space and handled everything tactfully and properly and he still had the attitude then screw him you and your children don't need him if he is that selfish! Good Luck

Flyingace5

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Should you be honest and tell them all the things you dislike about them if they keep asking why? Posted: 3/20/2007 10:09:31 AM
[Most people are aware of their own problems, issues, strong points, weak points, etc etc.] I don't agree with that statement. I don't think most of us know exactly what we are like... we know what we think we are like and what we would like to be like (I hope that doesn't confuse me later we I try to read it again! ) [Not sure it helps hearing them said out loud by someone else though.] Usually it is not good to hear it unless the person doing the critiscm is doing it to help you and not to hurt you. It's also a big plus if they understand the meaning of the word "tactfully"

Flyingace5

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Dating men who have never been married Posted: 3/20/2007 9:44:40 AM
Being a man who is in his early 30's with no exwife or children and no I don't feel that I am a selfish person and I get along with most kids. I have also dated a few women with children and got along with them great .. a couple of times better than I did the Mother! Unfortunately you will find more than a few that do fit that old standard. The trick is finding out before you invest to much effort or emotion into the relationship.

Flyingace5

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men, this ones for you... what would you do if you met a woman who....... Posted: 3/20/2007 9:36:35 AM
I myself would have no issues with it... I have a good job/career that pays good enough money but if I did manage to find a woman that made more than me I'd be like well how did you get to that point in your life?would you be willin to share the secret?I would only have an issue if we were to actually become committed and she tried to hold it over my head like a set of strings! Hell if she made that good of money and we did manage to get married or have children and she did not want to quit doing whatever it was I'd be OK being a stay at home Dad! Why not? PS. No i am not lazy and yes I actually do have a job/career but at the same time when Ido have kids i want them to have at least one parent at home with them before and after school it does not matter to me if it is me or her....the point is that any kids would be able to go home sick (and a parent actually be there for them)if they needed to, or to be able to chaperone on field trips with the class etc. I know it is kind off subject but I needed it to support my point!

Flyingace5

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Traits of a gentleman Posted: 3/20/2007 8:16:32 AM
Which comment? The one that says a woman should also act like a lady? I hope not but if so keep this in mind : You get what you give. If you are generaly a nasty and demanding person , that is what you will get in return. And if you demand he be a gentleman but refuse to be a lady it will only last a short time before a true gentleman will see what you are, and consequently will leave you. And could you blame him? :After all, if you treated him like gold and he treated you like S@#t, would you keep him? or kick his ars to the curb? If you had any self-respect his butt would have a foot print and a bruise from the landing

Flyingace5

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Traits of a gentleman Posted: 3/20/2007 8:01:36 AM
Their is alot of answers to this question but I must say I agree with Tryin2findu2 and I could not have siad it better myself ! The only thing I would add (and some one else already did..sorry I forgot who deserves that credit but I give it to you anyway)This behaviour is addressed to everyone they meet regardless of who or what they are or represent. I myself attribute these same characteristics to the phrase/word "Lady"

Flyingace5

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In need of opinions (beware, this is long) Posted: 3/20/2007 7:40:13 AM
Brother I hate to break it to you BUT... she isn't all that interested. My first thought was she is using you as a long standing joke with her gf's and has no intention of pursuing a relationship with you. Even worse, if she is planning on pursuing a relationship with you she is setting the ground work of you always being at her beck and call and her being able to do whatever she wants. Either way it can only end with you being hurt...your best bet is to end it... maybe that will wake her up and she may stop flaking out on you ... if she does not she was only going to f%$ you up emotionally anyway! good luck

Flyingace5

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What am I doing wrong.... Posted: 3/20/2007 7:27:22 AM
Being a normal guy (at least I think so ) I am sure there is a lot of men that come of that way the question is Do they realize that they do come off that way? or are they just stupid? You Ladies will have to answer that one for me! I'll bet that people run across the same thing in bars and clubs, too. i am here becasue in my line of work I don't get the opportunity to meet women except for house wives that are at home while their husband is at work and I don't like bars or clubs ( I can't be around drunks unless I am too and how can you drink and get home without risking a DUI or spending as much on cab fare as you did on the drinks?) Enjoy your

Flyingace5

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What makes him think................ Posted: 3/20/2007 6:53:33 AM
I might have said it just to see what kind of response I got from you , however I would not have kept repeating it! Saying it the first time would onnly have been to get a rise out of you; however I doubt I would have said it someone that it actually applied to...it's only funny if it doesn't hurt their feelings and if it's obvious that it is not true!

Flyingace5

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Men that wear expensive cologne vs no cologne Posted: 3/20/2007 6:41:02 AM
[I don't know about you but I just love when a man wears a great cologne on a date. I told my last significant other to wear a certain kind that I love and he said " No.... I don't like the smell of it " at all. Couldn't he just do it for me ?? ] If I asked you to wear a perfume that I loved to smell ( and the only reason I loved that smell was because of an Ex) would you wear it?I would think of that Ex evey time I smelled it! I would not wear it for 2 reasons 1:Who in your past wore it and are you thinking of me or them? 2:Being a man that is allergic to certain Colognes I would have to test it out first before I could wear it all the time. Certain ones will cause me to sneeze continuosly others cause me to start tearing up (swells my eyes) and most don't botherme (except maybe I don't like the smell!)

Flyingace5

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Jarheads and people's first impression... Posted: 3/20/2007 6:26:12 AM
As a man that comes from a longline of military men (I was refused because of medical-after 4 yrs of AFJROTC) the most recent 2(Father and Grandfather) being Marines all I have to say is SEMPER FI!!! Being a man that wanted to join the Air Force (see above) I say Thank You and I wish I could have been there to assist all of you (men and women)

Flyingace5

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can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers? Posted: 3/19/2007 9:49:33 PM
Hey Raven maybe you know the details bedind this fact:Marijuanna was originally outlawed in the southwest (and the country) I believe after the construction of the Hoover Dam as a means to remove the large Mexican population that had migrated to the southwest at the beginning of the construction project (Overcrowding was an issue and at the time it was a favored means of obtaining a buzz by the Mexican/Southamerican Latino immigrants and it was used to legally deport them enmasse. Now, what I cannot remember is it may not have been the Hoover Dam Project; it could have been an earlier event such as the California Goldrush or one of the other mineral "rushes" in the southwestern states(i.e. New Mexico, Arizona, Nevada, Etc.) I have had a few myself in my time and see it as a lesser evil than alcohol!

Flyingace5

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Men/Women: What would you do? Be Honest Please! Posted: 3/19/2007 8:56:16 PM
[Oh please....to all the people who say that they would walk OUT on an attractive date is somewhat lying. If that happened to me, I would stay and have a nice dinner with the attractive, hot date. However, I would constantly keep my guard up and tell the person straight up that due to the lie, I would have to go " very slowly " with this whole thing and just start off on a platonic basis.] That is probably the truth for most of us if we can be honest with ourselves! The only thing I would say/do differently is I would have to tell her straight up I didn't appreciate that little trick. I just don't know if it would at the beginning or the end

Flyingace5

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Why do women say they want a nice guy, but go out with a**holes? Posted: 3/19/2007 6:53:30 PM
I have never found a woman that I could challenge to be a ** and she not have it in her at all all women are es and all men are *holes...it is only a matter of what degree they can reach and how much they (or you) have had

Flyingace5

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Girls - Would you date a guy with bad teeth? Posted: 3/19/2007 5:58:48 PM
Damn Gypsy that is soooo true! However as for the "what else don't they take care of" line of thinking you have to look at the rest of whohe is.. Is his hairclean ?does he smell? what does his car look like? how are his clothes maintained? Now, this may cost me "hits" and responses but that is the way it goes! I had perfect teeth until I turned 18 then disaster hit =4 impacted wisdom teeth that have now pushed my teeth out of alignment causeing my gums to bleed and crushing a few teeth as well! The cost to remove the wisdom teeth ? try like $1800 a piece!i brush my teeth 3 or more times a day and have most of my life ( ok at age 10 I wasn't so good about it ) as well as using whiteners and paying the dentist to clean and whiten them it cost 200 and lasted a week before the stains came back now I am making no excuses but it may be worth your time to ask them and find out what his/her story is you may be surprised it might not be because of a sloven disregard for their teeth or apperance.And yes I am currently trying to get them fixed but at least for me and my line of work you may be able to get health benefits but I have never had the oppurtuinity for dental insurance! Oh wait there was one company that offered it but 2 days after I became eligible for the dental plan they discontinued it because it cost the company to much money! I do smoke and that adds a little to the complications of appearance but I have quit drinking anything with caffeine in it ( that only leaves water and when I drink alcohol its vodka ) but the fact remains the damage has been done and the only way to undo it is remove the all and get falsies for a price tag of about $20,000. So don't say "Just go to a dentist" it is not always that easy. Let me ask you this how would you feel if some guy told you all that cellulite around your ass and legs is disgusting to look at why don't you go exercise and get rid of it( and for those of you that don't know this..exercise can never get get rid of the cottage cheese effect only surgery can remove it)

Flyingace5

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage? Posted: 3/19/2007 4:00:51 PM
No way would I marry without knowing what her likes/dislikes are. I could be patient and wait a little while sex isn't everything but it is important if anything is going to last longterm!

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