I think once you've been blocked, if they send you a note you can still reply to them.

In the "my matches" section I have the drop down menu set on "users i've not contacted" and yet the users in there are people I have indeed already contacted. Is this a known bug? I just did a quick look through recent threads and can't really see anything similar.
Any ideas how i can make the "my matches" section show people I definitely haven't yet contacted?

I have seen it in the deleted threads but I don't have any idea what transpired on that thread when I was not online.

I know nothing about writing code; maybe that would be difficult to offer as a feature. But there are times it'd be nice for some users.

One of the accounts gets blocked, so the user sends an email with the next account and so on. It's annoying.

Also, if a forum post does exceed the character limit, is it simply truncated at that point the same way it does in private messaging? Thanks in advance for any help in this matter.

Doesn't any one else see this kind of problem?

Hello! It appears as if the POF website is not allowing people to reply to my emails. Is anyone else having similar trouble?

It had been a few weeks since my last login on POF. This evening when I decided to sign in, I checked my sent msg folder. Just to see who read and /or deleted my messages. One of my messages was deleted.

If a user requests money on this site it's a scam, and you should report it here along with any other type of scam/spam. We delete messages older than 20 days because they take up too much space.

And Beside where it should have been it said "Messages to deleted users will not show here!"

If this is the case, I would like to see an edit function implemented.

Why does POF keep sending me "My Matches" that are just a bunch of guys that have NOTHING in common with me?

How do the Weekly Matches work?

Your matches are influenced by a combination of basic search settings and your actions on the site. The system identifies what users you generally search for as well as a number of other factors in the system when creating your matches. The more searching and general using of the site you do, the better the system can create appropriate matches for you.

So there is no way around this, right? Wait for the new rude email and block again, and again, and again?

But her pic and profile is still accessible through my inbox when i click her name. So did she delete her profile

I got this message from a girl and i replied back. But when i search for her and check my "who viewed me". She does not show up.

It is ok having pictures of your pets in your photos, in your profile as long as your face shot is included and all my photos with my pets have my own face shot included.

I sent 5 or 6 messages yesterday. Logged on today and checked out my sent messages. Said I sent 1. So I sent one today to test. Said Message Sent. Checked my sent messages, NO sent message. Sent 5 messages. In my sent messages it said I sent 2. And we are talking about 10 seconds. Not long enough for somebody to read, let alone delete. What is up with this site???

What gives with people posting pictures of their pets in their profile. Give us a break. There is a section to report about images that do not represent the person but the rule only states that the main image must meet that criteria. I think its time to update this so that all the images posted represent the person. This isn't Facebook.

I make a reasonable amount of bank, and I know it's helped my results in the past...So please give people the option to show income on profile pages. Thanks

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(and why on earth do I have a mod hammer available to me....?)

so as you seem to find the reason so obvious - perhaps you could enlighten me?

Hang out doesn't count against you does it?

You know, [trappedonbay street], while most of us acknowledge and respect the work you do in moderating and trying provide a real-time source of information in how to navigate this site and make the most of the social experience here, there are times when many of us as adults would just like to understand why something that was well designed is being significantly altered.

into a special spot for review by admin and then they would get final approval before being reposted. See how smart I am??

I have sent a lot of messages that are not under my sent tab... Does that mean they didn't send? It said message sent, but it never added it onto the list.

Now... I am not exactly sure what happens to the picts. that you say to delete - that would be interesting to find out whether they actually get deleted right away or if they go somewhere for review by the site admin first? If anyone knows - can they tell me?

What would be a REALLY cool feature on this site is if you could actually try to fix some of the photos... like the simple fixes such as "rotate photo" and "crop photo" and "lighten photo" - because nothing drives me more crazy than a good photo on it's side or upside down! GRRR! If the users were actually able to help each other out like that - I think that would be great

The uselessness of the feature itself is not nearly as irksome as the superfluous backslash.

I would like a feature called "Users who have been blocked by ___ # of POFers in your area"

There was a tab that stated "users I have viewed" and I cannot find it now. Does it still exist ?

Finally, it asks me to type in the letters in blue to confirm I'm not a robot, which I do. Then click the "Send Message" button. A new page loads and it's basically the exact same page, with my message still there in the text box.

why not make part of the voting to remove a thread process that the voter has to explain why they are wanting the thread removed?

and in the case there the thread is valid, repeat offenders removing threads for non bvalid reasons would be easily identified when the reason they state isnt apparent in the thread. and it might stop some of the people who just vote to remove anything that isnt posted by one of their online 'clique'

^ What Trapped meant (I think) is that all pictures that are uploaded, whether we keep them private or not, go through that rating process - it's how the system is designed to help with pic/quality control.

Sorry I am actually from Toronto, and right now I see in the rows on top of my inbox. Two girls from Scarborough, Two girls from Oshawa, one from Mississauga, and one from Toronto.

I have the same problem. I am in Toronto and I get matched with everything but people in Toronto. I understand exactly what I am doing. I know I have the right postal code, city, country. There has to be some logical explanation to this occurrence. It can't be just a few of us? It would sure be nice if the Admin would help out us poor single souls :).

then why don't you just upload a shirtless pic and keep it private and then attach it to your emails?

I'm trying to delete my sent messages. Pushing the delete button is doing nothing. It makes the action but sent message does not delete. The action button is not working. At first I thought it was my laptop so I tried using my desktop, same thing action delete buttton does not work?

I have sent a lot of messages that are not under my sent tab... Does that mean they didn't send? It said message sent, but it never added it onto the list.

Also a feature i would like to see on here, would be to put when/if you contacted a member already. It would help greatly.

Hey if you see unread deleted don't be disappointed, normally 1 in 3 messages get responded to. We find a lot of people read your profile before reading your message. Check out your entire contact history HERE

I've got this problem from Yestarday. Enybody can help me? Please...

I think it would be a great idea to have a setting in our profiles so that we could block ourselves from messaging users that are looking for intimate encounters or sex

Somehow my About me and First date sections got wiped.

I wish you guys would implement a field for political views

i have looked tyhrough the forums through the faq and the help and cannot find any reference to the mysterious rules that I should be reading

.....*insert WTF here*

how do i view the messages i sent?!
i can't remember who i email all the time...
(sometimes i view someone, but don't email....)

i want to make sure i don't email the same person again, you know!?!?!

Hey if you see unread deleted don't be disappointed, normally 1 in 3 messages get responded to. We find a lot of people read your profile before reading your message. Check out your entire contact history HERE

maybe i will be more clearer. i deleted my account . and not i want that same account back because i need to look at some messages. can i just get the original account back. with the messages that were in it back, if i deleted that account 2 nights ago.

hello. i deleted my account. it was under a different user name. and i need that one back.

Our personal information is Our business no one-elses!!.

I agree. If winks become part of this site I'd like the option of not accepting them or turning them off.

I am un-able to update my profile. what ever changes i make in the profile and adding pictures,they won't display when i click view profile. whats wrong and how can i fix it?

I'm all in favor of any hinting communication that works around the formality of composing an email.

I did a check to see if this question has been asked but couldn't find it.

You're attempting your 3rd post within the last 10 consecutive posts with very little to say to add to the discussion - as a courtesy give others a chance to interject rather than trying to monopolize the discussion. If you have a substantial amount to add, then the post may go through, otherwise if it's just a short off topic, nothing relevant to add to the discusion post, it will not go through. This applies to all in the thread. Don't ask what the threshold for text length in order for the 3rd post to go through as it's not puiblished and Mods will not know either.

oh really, cause i just think they are favoring you to come back later, never really took it as a wink lol. so when you usually favorite them do they respond ? because i've only faved one person.