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Msg: 80 (view)

Goodness lads, just step back from the keyboard... Posted: 5/18/2006 4:35:43 AM
A little larf of an advice colemn or whatever , which can be found under the heading of "DATING ADVICE". An idea for part three, it could look like this: Tips for men, part three... If you found the advice bestowed on you in the past two instalments, you're completely ****ed. You deserve to be lonely and single forever. Please say "hi" to right hand for me when it visits. hahahahahahahaha dude you're killing me! that was great.

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I guess some don't know... Posted: 5/18/2006 4:27:19 AM
Wow, I was hoping for some pointers that maybe, just maybe, I didn't already know, when I read your two threads. Christ, was I wrong. You state painfully obvious things, which I am sure are absolutely invaluable scraps of info for many guys. Unfortunately, I am not one of them. I read the screed and I bet I am still going to be just as hopelessly fcked as before I read them. Perhaps you should include this phenominal link in future instalments of "Women: for guys that have no clue how to think of women as human beings"... www.laddertheory.com Sorry this isn't a stroke-reply but frankly, some men just have a certain "je ne ses quoi" that insures that they will be without a signifigant other for a very long, long time. Sorry ladies that have replied, apparently there are things that go on in your minds which you either choose to never speak about or don't know about and those very things are what make young chaps like me...uhm...well...for lack of the better word; f*cked. I really hope there are some other guys that read this reply and confirm my little diatribe. Don't worry, Woodrow, I am fairly tired and I am sure there are holes in some punctuation and spelling on this reply for you to rip on...if you even look at this fossil of a thread anymore. (yes, I know I am pretty bitter now, but things made me that way and I can [unfortunately]guarantee I am not the only one) i gotta say..you are bang on wrar! Woodrow, you could do without all the sarcasm and the overall condescending tone of you "message"...gives the impression of arrogance.

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Msg: 78 (view)

Online Dating Guide for Men: Part Deux Posted: 5/18/2006 3:46:30 AM
Hmmmm... I will say that yes these "tips" are helpful, however that's a pretty large brush you're using there Woodrow in painting all of us men as apparent morons who can't think past their d*cks. It's also nice to see that most women have since followed suit in this thread. You write like an angry feminist, what's with generally putting down guys?. Now having said that, congradulations on stating the obvious, none of this is new..it's actually sad however that someone had to post it and perhaps worst that it came from a guy. Sad really.

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Canadians Rank 3rd in world as being satisfied with their sex lives Posted: 4/21/2006 3:08:04 AM
wow, poor asian countries--based on the poll bottom 5 all asian---what's going on over there?lol

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Msg: 78 (view)

Bad BJ'S ??? Posted: 2/15/2006 9:39:23 PM
@kanada girl....wow, whoever dates you is one lucky guy!!! man...i'm gonna have to take a break from reading this thread for a while with all these detailed accounts. some of you ladies know what it's all about.

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Bad BJ'S ??? Posted: 2/15/2006 9:31:51 PM
@pamelaluva....i know exactly what you are talking about! and i don't get it either(spitting on the guy or girl for that matter)...i find it kinda gross actually...i wouldn't exactly like to be "hocked" on! it would ruin the mood for me big time! man what is with that seemingly new trend? don't get me wrong i like it a little dirty sometimes but c'mon!

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Windsor get together Posted: 2/15/2006 12:41:44 AM
well how many people actually make it out to these things? and simply out of curiousity...what sort of age range are we talking about here (just for the record i would still go no matter what...just curious is all) i'll try to think of somewhere that everyone can agree on...oh! actually Brews & Cues would be a pretty good spot..nice wide open spaces for the non smokers. if you guys/girls want to do this let plan somthing. let me know.

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Windsor get together Posted: 2/14/2006 3:52:17 AM
hey guys, i would like to see if anyone would be willing to have another get together, maybe somewhere that would be open to all kinds of age groups...no offence (seriously) but the last few meeting/get togethers mentioned(that i read anyways) were at places that i don't really find to be "my cup of tea"...i would maybe suggest a place like Moxie's or Dirty Jersey's or somwhere like that? just a thought, i would really like to meet some of you.

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If you cannot feel sexual chemistry, should you continue to date someone? Posted: 2/14/2006 3:28:25 AM
i must say for me the relationship cannot go on, it actually happened to me with my last girlfriend...no chemistry sexually at all and i almost could not believe it because she was quite attractive!...i stuck it out for a while(couple of extra months waiting to see if it would appear), but in the end i just couldn't do it anymore...i find it to be one of, if not, the most important thing in a relationship.

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What do you hate most about being single? Posted: 2/14/2006 3:09:32 AM
watching other couples enjoying their time together, cooking a nice dinner together,going to a movie(just can't seem to go by myself ya know?) having someone to confide in after a bad day...single can be good sometimes, but for the most part it's just lonely...after a while of being single it's just plain lonely...i miss a woman's touch. i've been single for so long it's hard for me to remember what it's like to have a woman around(for more than a few hours after the bar), serioulsly! and it's especially hard because it never used to be that way for me. and let's face it one night stands...just don't cut it anymore(if ever).

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Guys: what is the biggest turn off? Posted: 7/12/2005 3:48:20 PM
i can't believe no one has mentioned...overly dependant! cannot stand when you start seeing a women and all of a sudden it seems as though she no longer has a life of her own! wants to hang out 24/7, doesn't understand why you don't want to be with her every minute of every day! i mean, even if i really, really fall for a girl...i still need my personal time once in a while, i just don't understand how when in a relationship a woman can so easily discard her friends to spend ALL of her time with her new man? not trying to be rude and i know this obviously does not apply to all women of course, but could someone please explain this to me? i just find it to become a major turn off after a while.....let me breathe! lol

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question for the guys... Posted: 7/8/2005 2:32:57 PM
i understood your question...yes i think there are all kinds of differences from the actual feeling of the girl(inside) to what the girl does to you during sex (touching etc..)sound makes a diffrence as well (moaning, screaming..so on) but i think the biggest diffrence for me is the level of experience a woman has...some women just know what to do at the right time, while others just kinda sit there and take it or just go through the general motion/positions, sometimes that can get a little lame.

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What do you folk's think of Posted: 7/8/2005 2:06:31 PM
my last girlfriend was like that (not quite as exaggerated as decribed above) it didn't do much for me...i kind of found it unattractive...didn't affect the sex buti love to please women orally, and this was a bit of an issue for me (sorry) she was also very subconcious about it, she wouldn't let me go down there at all.

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stupid question..need a hand anyways... Posted: 7/8/2005 1:53:40 PM
can someone please tell me how you can view who has rated your image? i forget how..sorry.

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sex on the first date Posted: 7/7/2005 6:22:04 PM
well, why not? i mean if the attraction is there and you're both feeling it..who cares, you're both adults..i have, lasted 3 years...i have no hang ups about it...don't judge the women on it either...but to each their own.

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alright, Windsor...let's have an outing Posted: 7/7/2005 5:08:10 PM
great! now can we get some women involved? just a thought.

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am i the last man that likes a bush down there? Posted: 7/6/2005 7:11:20 PM
great idea umm... "buns buns" (cough) lol...quite interested in knowing what they think.

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i don't understand...18-19 year olds on dating sites?? Posted: 7/6/2005 6:21:30 PM
epsi: i'm glad someone else finally sees it from my point of view thx, it would be kinda cool to get some insight from an 18-19 year old to satisfy my curiousity though. i don't know why this is bugging me so much!

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Question Mainly for the Guys ..... Gals can answer too Posted: 7/6/2005 6:14:57 PM
eeeee9...completely agree.

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How many women here prefer short/skinny men? Posted: 7/6/2005 6:13:58 PM
well ladies what do you consider to be short and skinny? i mean i'm not 6 ft tall by any means and surely am not fat either, but i have gotten nothing but compliments in relation to my size(and mostly they seem quite surprised as well), i don't think that body size always has direct correllation(spelling?) with the size of the package.

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i don't understand...18-19 year olds on dating sites?? Posted: 7/6/2005 5:54:12 PM
imraan47...have you seen some of the girls on this site around that age? hardly seem shy to me(and no i'm not a pervert,lol)....listen if it seems like i'm pressing the issue here, it's because i just want to know how different things are nowadays...just curious is all, i do think that what you said is true for alot of them.and i really don't mean to come off like i was a hero back then either, i'm just saying those were pretty social places to be..even if you were shy...still looking for some input....

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Question Mainly for the Guys ..... Gals can answer too Posted: 7/6/2005 5:40:57 PM
well you pretty much answered the question yourself....men (generally speaking of course) will on average be more willing to lower standards in order to get laid...even still it seems the woman (even if she is lower on the standard ladder) has the final say in the situation it seems. also, it may seem this way because on average men are the ones doing more of the coutring....actually i don't know really...it just seems that way to me as well.

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am i the last man that like a bush down there? Posted: 7/6/2005 5:18:18 PM
LANDING STRIP! i do not like the bald look at all!!! absolutely right, looks like a little girl and well, i want a woman!!!!! no bush though..reminds me of my first girlfriend when i was 15...the bush did not last long, she learned about trimming quickly,lol

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i don't understand...18-19 year olds on dating sites?? Posted: 7/6/2005 4:47:53 PM
really? i still find i meet more women on my own "out there" man, i mean college was full of women...high school was a breeze, you had five years to get to know these girls, correct me if i'm wrong here...i guess it's maybe just a way to keep your options open or something....i mean it's not like you're gonna drive 300 miles to meet up with a "new love" when you're 18 right? man i don't know maybe things have change so much nowadays...who knows...any input from any of the actual 18-19 year olds on here? help the old man understand

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i don't understand...18-19 year olds on dating sites?? Posted: 7/6/2005 4:25:25 PM
yeah but, just for arguments sake...don't you remember being that age? would you have found yourself doing this? "epsi"

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i don't understand...18-19 year olds on dating sites?? Posted: 7/6/2005 4:24:09 PM
ok, that's funny..lol i'm sure you're not a geek...seriously though, any feedback?

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i don't understand...18-19 year olds on dating sites?? Posted: 7/6/2005 3:31:42 PM
i'm not trying to be rude by any means here but can someone please explain to me why on earth 18-19 or even 20 year olds are on dating sites? honestly, i don't get....i remember back (not so long ago) when i was that age, i had no problem meeting tons of people! even without trying, and i'm not thrying to say i was mr. popular either, i just mean, with high school and then on to college/university...i mean it's kinda hard not to meet people of the opposite sex, right? and judging by some of the pics of the young ladies that i have seen...it makes no sense to me? i am asking very sincerely, can someone shed some light on this for me please...

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The Paranormal... Posted: 6/15/2005 3:27:18 PM
hey if you guys are really interested in this kind of stuff here's a few website that i check out all the time...really cool stuff. 1. www.ghoststudy.com 2. www.abovetopsecret.com (all kinds of forums) theres some really educated people on these site that will shed som serious light on these subjects, and some pretty cool and scary pics (ghost site). enjoy.

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i need some opinions here....guys/girls anyone! Posted: 4/1/2005 6:44:42 PM
stress? not this kid...just wanted some different points of view..thanks! not too many people posting on this topic though, i was hoping to get a few different responses, oh well.

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The Thrill of the Hunt Posted: 4/1/2005 6:37:12 PM
in my opinion, these aren't games...it's human nature...this is how we act. can't be helped.

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i need some opinions here....guys/girls anyone! Posted: 4/1/2005 6:18:53 PM
alright! anybody else (women) have advice for me...?

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i need some opinions here....guys/girls anyone! Posted: 4/1/2005 5:36:51 PM
ok wait a minute! yes there are women who voted for me, however the are all like 40+ ouch! still kinda funny though

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i need some opinions here....guys/girls anyone! Posted: 4/1/2005 5:32:16 PM
ok i see what you mean with the voting...never looked at that before, thanks.

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i need some opinions here....guys/girls anyone! Posted: 4/1/2005 5:30:19 PM
voted for me? what? where? and why haven't they sent me some mail or something? as to the first response about the ex-girlfriend in the hot tub with me, i tried to cut her out of the pic, but it looked odd...also, i did kinda think that might not be in my best interest...nut it's a good pic of me....gonna have to looke for another pic of me then...see we're getting somewhere.thanks.

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i need some opinions here....guys/girls anyone! Posted: 4/1/2005 5:09:12 PM
hey y'all, this goes out to anyone who may be able to shed some light on this for me. i have pretty much always had success with women(generally speaking, not trying to be arrogant) but ever since i started this job i work a 4pm to midnight shift and needless to say have not had as many opportunity to meet women lately (or for a while now anyways) not to mention the logistics industry is not exactly where you meet too many women (if any). now, i decided to give this online stuff a try, like the site very much! however...i have sent quite a few emails to women with basically no responses back..not even a "get lost loser!" haha what am i doing wrong? also, not sure but... i have not gotten even one email showing interest from any women. needless to say, to someone who has never experienced this kind of "drought" lol. this is a big shot to the ego. now,...i am definately not looking for any pity...i am not "down in the dumps" or anything, i would just like to see if i am alone here or perhaps get some tips from the vets here at POF. i would appreciate any response. thanks.

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alright, Windsor...let's have an outing Posted: 3/31/2005 2:25:29 PM
ok then,....maybe not.

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alright, Windsor...let's have an outing Posted: 3/30/2005 7:51:09 PM
well what do you folks think about planning a night out in windsor??? we hardly have a shortage of bars in the area!!! seriously though if anyones interested..let's talk about it...

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