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candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 14 (view)

Pleading Posted: 8/13/2008 4:23:59 PM
Ooh, the pleading is never good. I kind of wonder, do they think it makes them seem more interested? Definitely a huge turn off.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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Have you? Would you? Posted: 3/16/2008 4:59:05 PM
Like ~Mama~, they can have everything but my eyes. I have the concent card in my wallet right behind my health card

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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TORONTO FREAKS/GOTHS Posted: 3/16/2008 12:33:38 AM
we're looking for freaks? I'm here! I'm here!

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 9 (view)

Things are not always as they may seem. Posted: 2/20/2008 3:24:11 PM
That's a wonderful story! I love it.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 13 (view)

She Says - She Means Posted: 2/20/2008 3:19:41 PM
Oh am I ever guilty of those, especially "Fine." Which can be used in the ways of "I'm fine." or "That's fine." Neither of these means anything is fine. My brother used to tell me that when I told my boyfriend things were "Fine" you actually saw the fires of hell blazing in my eyes. Oops. lol

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 25 (view)

How long have you been looking online? Posted: 2/19/2008 4:48:29 PM
Personally I have been on here two years, I joined just after I moved to the city to meet people and make friends since, at that point, I was working shift work and was able to go out very rarely. Now I work two jobs, and have even LESS time to go out, but I still have made a few friends here. I think Plenty of Fish is a great experience, there are lots of great people.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 9 (view)

What is the weirdest place Posted: 2/19/2008 4:34:45 PM
My mom's apartment! Wow that sounds bad, but lol, my mom and my aunts were moving in, and they hired movers, and one of the movers was hitting on me. it was so funny, everytime I went outside to get boxes or whatever, he'd be walking with me, talking with me, he asked me out at the end of the day, but I ended up declining because he was at least 20 years older than me.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 554 (view)

Where did you go to high school? Posted: 2/19/2008 4:27:46 PM
Elliot Lake Secondary School and for 3 months Sudbury Secondary School.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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Did not want to hurt anyones feelings. Posted: 2/19/2008 4:25:02 PM
I've done lots of things to try and prevent myself from hurting other people's feelings including getting into a fist fight in highschool, as strange as that sounds. I had a casual aquaintance who was just that -casual, half the time I didn't even remember her name and she was really rather a little snot. But I ran in a rough crowd, and she got into a scuffle with some girls that were going to "Beat her up" and she was a tiny little thing, and I...well...I am not. She came running to me, and I said I would talk to them to help her out, just because I didn't want to see this poor kid get her brains bashed in and I didn't have the heart to tell her that she most likely deserved it. Well, the talking didn't go so well, and I ended up getting into a fist fight with four girls, suspended for the week, and a crazy lecture from my mother, boyfriend, and aunt. Ick. I won the fight though, lol. And of course, other than that time, there are lots of little things that I've done just like everyone else "How does this dress look on me. I love it!" "Oh...it's fantastic!" when you're secretly thinking they would look more presentable in a potatoe sack. And...that's my two cents.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 8 (view)

Anybody watch daytime soap operas Posted: 2/9/2008 2:41:26 PM
I watch Young and the Restless everyday. Until this year I thought Soaps were a pointless waste of time, but my roommate watched Young and the Restless religiously and because my TV was in use for an hour I would sometimes sit out there and watch it with her...and got hooked. Now I work a job that doesn't allow me to see the show on TV...so my roommate tapes it for me! lol. Love it. Victor Newman is my hero.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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How do people feel about this Valentine's Day? Posted: 2/2/2008 5:22:36 PM
I plan to spend most of that particular day holed up in bed with the comforter firmly wrapped around my head so I can just drown out the whole thing. I despise Valentine's Day whether I'm with someone or not.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 24 (view)

you would be surprised 2 see what the guys are doing Posted: 1/31/2008 4:27:54 PM
The only thing that suprises me is that they had nothing better to do at a bar then flip open a laptop and look and laugh at online ladies. Seriously, why not maybe talk to a woman that's actually there or something. Seems silly to me. But honestly, who cares hun? Even if they did come across your picture and laugh, it's not a big deal, they really aren't worth as much thought as you're putting into this situation.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

Facial hair/goatees? Sexy/romantic yes/no ? Posted: 1/31/2008 4:19:14 PM
I totally agree with photopilot, it's ALL about the grooming. If guys are going to have facial hair, they should keep it well groomed, like a girl with long hair, if it's messy, and unkept it really isn't that attractive. I like facial hair personally, it think it's sexy as hell.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 5 (view)

Ladies this book is for us all Posted: 1/3/2008 12:38:32 PM
My roommate got that book for Christmas, and wow, totally opened our eyes. It's such a fantastic book to help you see not only your prospective, but also a man's. I noticed that a lot of the letters in there were things that I had actually done, and it made me see that the guy I've been going after just isn't that interested in me. I like to think that this book helped me start putting my life back in order when it comes to dating, I'm not, of course, going to break up with a guy if he calls me on Monday, instead of Sunday or something, but I do think that the book helped me clear things out in my head a little bit. It's kind of like when you know something is off about anything in particular, but it just takes someone else showing yo uthe problem in black and white to spur you on. I recomend this book for any lady that's ever wonder if a guy is just not that into them, just because you'll get a few laughs, maybe a get a few insights, and learn some new things. The book is so cleverly written, I just know you'll enjoy it.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 5 (view)

My 2 cents Posted: 1/3/2008 12:31:47 PM
I would be happy too! if you save 2 cents on 50 purchases, you have yourself a whole dollar, my friend! And if you have a whole dollar, you can down to the dollar store and buy yourself something snazzy! The sad part about that comment is that I'm not being facetious! lol, I love to shop at the dollar store, and hey, with saving some money on GST maybe I can afford a couple more things there!

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 22 (view)

2008 New Years Resolutions Posted: 12/30/2007 12:14:00 AM
New Years Resolutions: - Get another job - Start saving to buy a house - Lose weight - Have at least one date that doesn't leave me wanting to run away screaming at the top of my lungs. - Get back on the stage

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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New Years eve is around that corner and......no plans what about you?? Posted: 12/30/2007 12:07:19 AM
My friends were supposed to come up and see me, but bailed on me, so instead I'm spending that night with my roommate watching TV, and maybe having a beer...which we do almost every other night...minus the beer. It's just another night, and honestly, if you're worried about it being sucky because you're alone ( this is my second New Year's Eve 'alone' because I broke up with my ex last New Year's Eve at like 6 o clock pm) just go to bed early, at least that way on the first day of the New Year you'll be well rested. Hope you find a way to spend it that makes you happy. Cheers!

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 33 (view)

What was your best Christmas gift this year? Posted: 12/30/2007 12:01:59 AM
I have to say that this was one of my best Christmas' ever, I for the first time in my life, spent Christmas with my beloved aunt who moved back to Canada on December 20th after 50 years of living in the US of A. The most wonderful material item I recieved was a digitally enhanced picture of my Grandmother and Grandfather, my Grandfather passed on long before I was born, but I felt a kinship with him from all the stories, and my Grandmother went to join him last year, only a month after Christmas. My Grandmother was the light of my life, and the gift was the best thing anyone could have gotten for me.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 193 (view)

Abuse: Please read and sign Posted: 12/29/2007 11:57:20 PM
I will treat others as I wish to be treated. I agree to think before I post. I will not attack anyone. I will not bully anyone. I will not degrade anyone. I will not threaten anyone. I will not post topics that violate POF's code of conduct. I will not message someone just to insult them and put them down. Although my opinions may differ from someone elses, I will not attack them just because they have an opposing point of view. If I have a private matter that needs to be dealt with, I will deal with it privately.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

if you had a child and they were born mentally challenged, would you keep it? Posted: 12/29/2007 11:46:05 PM
I think that yes, I would definately keep this child, they were obviously mine for a reason, and I wouldn't give the child up. My best friend's father was a wonderful man who adopted one young man who has a mental retardation, and has taken two other men into his home, one who is in his mid 30's and severely austistic, and another in his 60's who has a severe mental retardation to the point where speech is difficult for him. These three men are wonderful, and I was blessed to be apart of their lives and help to care for them. They are funny, incredibly affectionate, enjoy the simpleness of life to it's fullest, and the tasks that come so easily to myself were all victorious triumphs to them. I would never pass up the chance to have that same kind of relationship with a child, especially my own. Yes, raising a child with a mental defect is not an easy undertaking, but I think that I would take the challenge head on, and love my child. To them, they are not different, we are. In all honesty, they are more loving then some children, they are beautiful souls, and wonderful people, often kinder than any other person you will meet. The man I mentioned before, in his 60's has so many problems, poor eyesight and hearing, deformed upper and lower palate making it hard to speak, his hands and feet are deformed, making walking and holding objects a trying experience for him, he is overly sensitive to hot and cold, and thrown to fits of anger where he lashes out and will strike objects, but never people. When I first met him, I was intimidated by him. I was young, and uninformed, but as I got to know him, he became a wonderful man. Everyday he smiled, went to his work, where he made crafts, and came home. He had the most infectious laughter, and helped anyone when he thought he could. He was in so much pain when he walked, but he would still get up from the table and walk to anyone who had come into the room to greet them. Everyone he met was his new friend. He even took his time and effort to learn to pronounce my name, and all though he was only able to pronounced "Kah" It meant alot. I will never forget the day I told him I was moving away, he hugged me, more tightly then I have ever been hugged and all he said was "Kah". It was sweet, and so beautiful. He was such a beautiful soul, and because of everything I learned from him, I would most definately keep a child with any mental defects. I find that we as "Normal" people (please notice the sarastic quotations) think there is something 'wrong' with people with mental defects, but when I look at my friend and see everything he brings to the world without a complaint, I wonder who really has the mental defect, him...or me?

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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vegan/vegetarians Posted: 11/5/2007 3:15:14 PM
It wouldn't deter me from dating someone I really cared for if they were vegan or vegetarian, unless they were the type to make some crude comments about what I was eatingor shove they'd dining philosophies down my throat. Like others have said, it's your choice to eat whatever way you want to.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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Devil's night--reminiscing Posted: 10/30/2007 11:01:30 PM
We TPed our school and egged the lady down the street's house, and car, we probably would have egged her if she had come outside. She was mean.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 125 (view)

What are the lamest excuses someone has used not to date you Posted: 10/30/2007 10:59:35 PM
I've had a couple of them: 1) You're too masculine (Kay...that one kind of hurt!) 2) You're brother and too many of your close friends are gay for me to be comfortable with. 3) You haven't had enough sexual partners. ( I'm sorry, if I sleep around a little more, will you date me? Please? ) 4) Your braces make me think of you as a little kid ( Good thing they're gone now, eh?) 5) Your obsession with cemetaries and the color black bothers me. (Than why did you message me in the first place...it's right there in the profile)

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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~BEING A WOMAN~ Posted: 10/30/2007 10:43:51 PM
What makes me happy to be the sex I am? -My clothes and makeup can change people's idea of me. -My BOOBS! I have an unhealthy pride in my chest size -Being able to paint my fingernails -That most of my best friends are gay men. -When I'm drunk, I can put my arms up over my head, shake my ass, scream woohoo, and be damned sure that I'm sexy. - When a guy helps me do something, and I get girly and giggly, he feels all macho. It's so cute. -That I can still hold my own in a fist't'cuff And what makes me happiest about being a woman? The fact that I can go through all kinds of pain ( waxing, those wonderful cuts you get from shaving your legs, when the soap gets in there and burns like crazy, burns from my hair straightner, collagen lipstick stabbing me) and I think, it just can't be worth it. Then I walk in to where the guy in my life is, he just takes one look at me, and his face lights up with smiling appreciation. That makes me happy to be a woman.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

sex is so much more intense w a little pain Posted: 10/30/2007 10:20:30 PM
Is this the 21 year old that called you a hoe, by any chance?

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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An open letter to people who live one place but list somewhere else Posted: 10/30/2007 10:14:21 PM
Okay, so, this is the second post I've read of yours, and all I can think is...wow you like to complain. So far you've complained in 'open letters' about women's headings, and women not putting their proper place on their profile, perhaps she had a reason that you're not seeing, or that she didn't tell you about because you were too quick to judge her. She could have been in the middle of moving, or have two homes or anything. You don't know. Stop being so close minded and judgemental about everything that pops onto your radar that you don't like.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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TRUE CONFESSIONS - only if you are brave enough Posted: 10/23/2007 11:42:36 PM
Oh goodness, I so agree with the monsters under the bed, I swear, I've learned how to fly because of those monsters, I can get across my room in a single bound. But my secret is, I'm terrified of Bloody Mary! I heard that story in my early youth, and to this day, I stick my arm into the washroom, and flip on the light before entering. When I'm finished, I walk out of the bathroom, slip my arm back in, and flip the light off. If the house is dark when I do this I procede to flee back into my bedroom (leaping from floor to bed) and huddle under my covers because covers can, of course, protect you from evil beings. Yeah, I never grew up. I also didn't sleep for a month without the lights on after seeing the 'worst horror movie ever made' when darkness falls. Evil toothfairy ain't gonna get me! No sirree!!

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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siblings Posted: 10/3/2007 9:53:12 PM
I have two brothers, one I am not close to (as in I saw him for the first time in 8 years and he was shocked because I wasn't a little girl anymore) he's the oldest and our age gap is 40 years. My 'youngest' brother is 23 years my senior and I adore him, we had a very close relationship, I told him everything, and he told me everything. he was the only guy that ever stuck around in my life and I would do absoloutely anything for. He vanished from my life about 2 years ago now, and I miss him. I think about him everyday. I know that he's just having a hard time, and doesn't want to involve me and my mom because he's afraid we'll get hurt, that's just the way he is, putting his family first, even if it doesn't make sense to us at the time. He'll reappear soon though and I'll be happy to have my brother back. I miss him quite a bit.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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Are you passionate about your work or is it just a job to you? Posted: 10/1/2007 8:42:22 PM
I loved my job, absoloutely adored it. The clients were great, I was popular with them, I enjoyed doing it, loved helping people with their skin and feeling better about themselves, I would never have put in my notice, except that my boss is evil and I could no longer stand to work with her. I'll miss it so much after I leave.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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Something wrong? Posted: 10/1/2007 3:17:24 PM
2 words man: Thread search. This topic has been beaten to death everyday since this site started I'm pretty sure! Some women answer, some women don't and the reason women don't answer is generally because we're tired of getting the email response calling us fat ugly whores and telling us they weren't interested in the first place. It gets old real fast. You're young, you're cute, there are thousands of little fishies swimming around here, don't worry if yo udon't get a response, eventually you will. Good luck and happy fishing!

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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smokers contacting non-smokers - is it ok? Posted: 10/1/2007 2:03:53 PM
I think that it's fine to contact non-smokers and I do all the time. you have to be prepared for some small minded, rude people who don't realize that hey, smokers do happen to know that the things smell, and how to take care of the odour. But other than that, it's really nothing, some women have aversions to people that smoke ( I suppose some men do too) because they have lost someone to lung cancer or another disease related to smoking, and that's the only reason they won't date a smoker, but you'll never know until you try.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

young parents! Posted: 10/1/2007 1:33:08 PM
I don't think everyone critizes young parents, i think they critize the young stupid ones, and there are plenty of those. The sad thing is, that the young stupid parents make a bad name for every other young parent, just like in many other situations. My roommate is a young mother, raising a son by herself, and she is one of the best moms I have ever met. She adores her son, and works hard every day to help shape him into the man he will be one day. She's not a perfect mom, no mom is, and her son isn't the perfect child, no child is, but she's raising him the best she can, and I have to say that the outcome is better than some older parents I've seen. I think older parents have a tendancy to be more controlling of the child, which makes them want to rebel, and most of the time, they give them anything they want, so the child is not only spoiled, it's rebellious, neither are good traits. I'm not saying all older parents are like this ( again, that generalization stuff) but the parents I grew up with, including my own, and my friend's parents follow this exact description. They've read too many books on child rearing and don't take time to really realize that they're child is just that. A child. Not a text book scenario. And the more I write, the more I figure I should just erase all of this. It's not the age of the parent, it's the parent themselves, some people make awesome parents, and some people don't. I think people who have kids, who are good parents at any age, who spend time with their children while holding down a job, and going to school or just leading any kind of life at all outside of the child, should get an award. They are hard working dedicated people, and I know I couldn't do it. Hats off to the awesome mom's and dad's in this thread.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

what was your favorite first date? Posted: 9/30/2007 9:45:36 PM
Walking around with a friend of mine that became my boyfriend. We went to the store to rent movies on our first official 'date', and on the way back it started raining, so we we end up dancing and kissing in the rain, it was lovely. I'll always remember it, he picked a dandelion and stuck it in my braid just before we walked in the front door.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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Photos and dark clothing? Posted: 9/30/2007 8:17:26 PM
I'm about 2 steps away from being gothic, OP. I don't own ANYTHING that's colouful, except maybe one or two black shirt with some coloured designs. Colours in my profile pics would make me look completely different then what people are going to see when they meet me. I agree with the other lady on here that says she doesn't like to be told what to do, every woman dresses on here to suit herself, we're not looking to meet men that are attracted to who we COULD be, we're looking to meet men who are attracted to who we are. Thanks for your advice though, I'll take it into consideration the next time I go shopping for a new wardrobe.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 69 (view)

when in a mall what do other people do that piss you off? Posted: 9/29/2007 11:16:09 PM
Those retarded security alarms that go off constantly, whether someone has stolen something or not, sometimes when people haven't even walked through them ( I work in a mall, so I hear the store across the hall's alarm going off 500 times a day) it's enough to give you a raging headache. Screaming kids. If they scream take them home., don't drag them around to annoy me. People who bash into your ankles with their carts, makes me want to bash into them with my car! and...women in the washroom who try and like force the stall door open because even though it's locked...it could be empty. Damn irritating!

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 36 (view)

what is it with men not using toilet paper when they go pee Posted: 9/29/2007 11:10:30 PM
wow, this whole thread just made me pee myself laughing ( don't worry OP I made sure to wash and wipe afterwards!) I can't believe someone would actually ask this kind of a question, and I totally agree with the lady that said that "it's not something she would want to see...or spit out later!", honestly how do you know what guys do at the urinal? Why are you paying that much attention, guys need some privacy... And not all guys wash their hands after they go pee, whoopie, I don't either...I have germ killing anti septic in my purse that I use, that most of my guy friends use because there is probably more germs on the taps then there are on the guys penis ( one would hope anyways) Thanks for the laugh OP and to everyone that replied. This thread is a riot

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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do men prefer womens with make up on or no make up? Posted: 9/29/2007 4:17:52 PM
I wear a lot of makeup during the day because I have to ( I'm a makeup artist) however, wearing a lot of makeup, and caking on your makeup are two different things... I have to wear a lot of product ( foundation, translucent powder, concealer, eyeshadows, mascara, eyeliner, lip liner, lipstick and blush...try that for a morning routine) but I never wear enough to make it look cakey or gawdy. I think that's the real trick that some ladies I've met haven't learned, using your makeup to enhance your features, not slathering the stuff over your face and hoping it will work wonders and make you beautiful. But when I'm not at work, I try and keep it pretty natural, gloss, eyeliner and mascara.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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Simple question Posted: 9/29/2007 12:18:58 AM
I think it's probably something to do with all the other double standards out there: Man sleeps with 2 or more women : God of the bedroom Women sleeps with 2 or more men: slut of the highest order. Men that are obsessed with their career and reaching their goals: Driven. Women that are obsessed with their career adn reaching their goals: Ball breakers. I'm not saying that any of these are actually true, it's just that they're common double standards that have built up over time, I wish I knew how society got to this point considering we're all supposed to be equals, but I suppose their will always be things that seperate the male and female of the species.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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do you really like watching sports? Posted: 9/28/2007 11:58:22 PM
Oops! Double post! sorry!

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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do you really like watching sports? Posted: 9/28/2007 11:57:47 PM
I LOVE to watch sports, hockey is my all time love, I would probably sell my soul to go to a game...any hockey game. I don't like to watch all sports though, I can live without golf, and tennis. For the most part I enjoy playing, but there are certain sports -- hockey, soccer, baseball, and football--that I love to watch, even more than some guys do. Give me a beer, a bowl of doritos and hockey game any night of the week. Leafs rule!!

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

Erotic Profile...Turn on or Turn off? Posted: 9/28/2007 11:18:28 PM
In my personal opion, I think that depending on the profile being erotic can both ways, just like when you're talking to someone, or spending time with them, it can cross the line. I have to say, for myself, that a slightly erotic profile is a huge turn on, because it gets me thinking, and I like to think. However, something that's over the top that goes beyond being erotic, and more towards being perverse, is just that: perverse. That kind of thing is a turn off to me. If your profile is erotic in the sense that it makes you smile and wonder just what kind of fun we could have after a few dates, that's awesome. But like Kynnie said, if you're going to call me a slut on your profile, take it somewhere else...like pornotube or literotica. ^_^ Hope I answered your question, I think I just kind of talked in circles, I swear I know what I mean, even if no one else does!

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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Wicked Wish (Canadian) I don't get it... Posted: 9/23/2007 8:55:30 PM
Haha! Sweet! Lol love it!

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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Wizard of Oz Posted: 9/23/2007 8:38:52 PM
I would be the Wicked Witch of the West, complete with the crazy black hair and the flying monkeys...( The voices in my head sound suspiciously like the noises the monkeys make...)

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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Gender wars - who talks more? Posted: 9/23/2007 8:17:00 PM
I think it depends on the subject, honestly, they're experience in the particular subject yadda yada yada... For me, I find that guys are more talkative than me, unless you get me going on something I feel strongly enough...or if you get me drunk then I don't have the power to shut up and I'l ltell you jsut about anything including where my grandmother keeps her family heirlooms lol. I don't think it's really a gender question though, it's based solely on the person in question, but that's just my opinion. I think I might have just contradicted myself...I don't know. I've had too much cough syrup!

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 23 (view)

I have a question Posted: 9/23/2007 6:38:29 PM
Well, like so many others, the OP's post sent me to look at my profile, and I don't see anything about me telling about the type of guy I want, my profile is long and windy, and makes it look like I have way too much time on my hands, did I mention it's all about me? Honestly, OP, people are free to write their profiles however they please, if they want to tell you the kidn of guy they want to contact them, fine. If they want to describe every little single nuance of their personality, fine. Everyone is different, and no one has to cater to how YOU think profiles should be written.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

What do you do about rude people talking at the movies? Posted: 8/18/2007 6:47:15 PM
I get very angry at that sort of thing too. Depending on where they sit in relation to me, is how i get the best results. I have simply told management, gotten a little more extreme and shouted at them to shut up, booted the back of their chairs, and in one more intense moment, I took my Pepsi, ice and all, and dumped it over their head. ^-^

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

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Working on any novels? Posted: 7/11/2007 11:56:11 PM
I've been working on my novel off and on for about a year now. I enjoy writing novels, but I find that you pour so much of yourself into the characters, and the plotline that you almost lose yourself within every page that you pen. My story seems very mundane, and all too cliche, it's a fantasy novel based in the land of Karandroth, an Elven king has destroyed a race, leaving only 4 members of the royal family barely alive, and imprisoned in the four corners of the land, the story is of the young princess breaking free of her prison, and avenging her people. I have taken alot of cultural issues and integrated them into the plotline. I'm having fun, at least. Good luck with your novel! I'm sure it will be fantastic

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 14 (view)

What fuels you...... Posted: 7/11/2007 11:34:02 PM
This incredible need to prove to my hometown that I'm worth something. I had a pretty rough childhood in a small town, I was made fun of, suffered with depression over everything that went on, and now, for an 18 year old, I am fairly successful and doing well in life, knowing that I proved them wrong, that I will continue to prove them wrong, and that I am finally happy is what's keeping me going. Probably a little bit of a vendetta wandering around in my battle of wits with this thing we call life too.

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 23 (view)

Mother's Best Advice Posted: 7/1/2007 10:04:08 PM
Me: Mom, what's the best form of contraceptive? Mom: Orange juice. Me: Orange juice? Really? Before or after? Mom: Instead of. My dad told me "Stay away from men that remind you of me." My mother told me a quote that will last with me my whole life. " Sing like nobody's listening, dance like nobody's watching, live like you were dying, and love like you've never been hurt." and my grandmother told me "You are by no means conventional. You are wild, beautiful and a free spirit, don't let anyone tame you. "

candycoatedcyanide

Joined: 1/19/2007

Msg: 46 (view)

What's your arguing style? Posted: 7/1/2007 9:48:16 PM
I'm a very physical and emotional person and my arguring style reflects that. If you ever seen the Notebook, I'm alot like Allie. In your face, gesturing, almost to the point of being physical, however I would never harm anyone unless I was protecting myself. After I've finished screaming, and he's said his piece. I will leave, just walk out. Probably head for the woods, because that's where I"m most comfortable. I'll cry it out, beat up a tree (and consequentially, my knuckles) throw rocks, do whatever it takes to calm me down, then I will head home, and talk it out. Apologize for being irrational and then comes the make up sex But that's only for really intense arguments. I love to debate, and I even get a rush out of little disagreements.

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