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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?  KATSAR Joined: 1/19/2007 Msg: 1373 (view)   Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 3/5/2007 7:15:57 PM i have meet 2 men from pof without exchanging pictures.both experiences were pleasant. it wasn't so much about looks as that there was no spark. both were very nice men , just not for me. i once met a very attractive man on another site, we did exchange pics first. he had the great looks but no personality. men that work alot to climb the " proverbial ladder" get very rusty at social situations and conversations with women. was a very eye opening experience. attraction is subjective. a nice kind face, warm eyes and the rest of the package to go with it will work wonders. humour and interesting converastion are attractive, attention grabbers. chemistry is way more than just physical appearance but what a nice place to start  KATSAR Joined: 1/19/2007 Msg: 19 (view)   Hearts don't just break: they also wither... Posted: 1/28/2007 2:47:58 PM no one else can heal your wounds...that is your job. someone can love you but that too will not heal your wounds. you can't love another until you love and accept yourself first, wounds and all.people talk of soulmates like there is a one and only person out there for each of us. i don't agree with this. life offers us many opportunities to learn and grow and heal and love...and they definitely aren't all in the form of a romantic relationship, thank GOD...cause if u think someone loving you is going to make it all better, you're wrong. it's apt to make it worse cause she/he doesn't do it right and then u feel hurt , then resentful, then u pull away, then u breakup. and then u will ask yourself why couldn't she/he love me.... could it be, maybe u couldn't accept love cause your wounded self is making u feel unlovable. sometimes the less physically attractive people are more emotionally evolved because they needed to make something special about themselves so they could stand out. they didn't have the luxury of being "one of the beautiful people". their beauty is usually an inside job and that kind of beauty lasts a lifetime. many gorgeous people get by on their looks and have not developed emotionally cause life/people hand them whatever they desire just to be with them. notice that many are selfish and self-centered. now to find someone with a good mix , that's gonna take a lot of meeting new people.   Show ALL Forums