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Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 50 (view)

First date- and he ogles the 22 yr old waitress all night Posted: 12/15/2007 10:07:23 AM
My mother was sitting at the house when I typed it. She agrees with me. The girl should have joined in and said wow. that 22 yr old has nice assets! I would bet a hundred dollars he would have smiled, said a few words and then she would have had his attention as well as his interests.. He would have felt as if she was more confident and he would have had more attraction to her sitting across from him. Trust me, I have had wemen say this to me and it ALWAYS had lead to a better date and more attraction for each of us... Luke,

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 81 (view)

children come first allways Posted: 12/15/2007 10:02:08 AM
Also, it might surprise all the wemen which have placed judgements on me within this thread already that my ex never worked. When we were married I pulled in about a grand a week, was home every night and in too many ways kissed her but because I loved her. Yes. the Asss has the ability to show love.. She had all the free time in the world. stayed home with kids, had outings with her girl friends. and even had time to bring guys to the house when I was at work.. My counselor said it was caused from me giving her too much, being too kind, and her falling out of attraction with me due to this,, the bad boy on the sidelines became more attractive... so I have heard all the negative replies from wemen in this thread, now you all know why I am not giving that nice side of myself out...

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 46 (view)

First date- and he ogles the 22 yr old waitress all night Posted: 12/15/2007 9:53:36 AM
Thank you, I liked your reply. It was warranted. Its nice to be able to leave an adelpating remark about an attractive individule and have her snap back with a true rhetorical comment. I was thinking you were the girl at the other side of the table... This very topic is also a good reason for us all to have our first dates as a walk in the park, a jog, or a sunset watch so that there isn't such distractions... So, Clubgirl... Very nice and very nicely placed.

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 18 (view)

GUYZ-Need Your Advice On What His Intentions Are & Should I Wait Till He Says I Love U First? Posted: 12/15/2007 9:39:06 AM
Start out with the I am growing FOND of you instead of LOVE you! this seems to work a little better. Once you bolth are comfortable with this step then move to the love word... And the woman should always say this word first! I know several older couples and they all tell me that the man thinks he is in love for the first few years, he even may be faithful and full on dreams within the relationship. But the male doesn't really FALL IN LOVE deeply like a woman does for many, many years. Some guys tell me that they started falling into this type of love after 20 yrs or more and that they just thought it was love when they were younger because they diddn't know any better.. luke,

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 79 (view)

children come first allways Posted: 12/15/2007 9:28:18 AM
My ex wife brought over a dozen guys to the house within 6 months of us seperating. my daughter was exposed to alcohol. guys. cigaretts. and a party lifestyle. She contacted herpes, lots of tatoos, and my daughter was held back in Kindergarden. I tried to proove it all in court but she dresses up nice, works at walmart corporate and looks all professional, and the judge saw me as just another whining dad.. Wemon are not always right. she always says that our daughter comes first but where is this placement really at? She had found the easy life and that is why I am so shaky on this subject. She gets a steady child support from the first dad, from me, from the boyfriends, and her job. My child bounces from school to daycare, to home, supper, and then bed. My ex sees it all as income and tells everyone the same line which the girls I meet tell me....which is that their kids come first.

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

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One Night Stands Posted: 12/15/2007 9:14:14 AM
Sayter... That was right on. I would have thought similar..but not have said it as well... I felt as if she is looking for sex and don't want the guy to think she is a one nighter. made me feel as if she was thinking...Hopefully after we start having sex we will stay together happily. If I was attracted to her and lives close by Would have probably mailed a**** but funny reply, then waited for her to defend herself, got the number, texted for a few days. and then there you go. And if there really was chemestry there I would stay and make things work on my side. its a hit and miss thing. I have dated before and went up to 9 months without the sex and had it and lost interest. also I have had sex after an hour of meeting the girl and wanted to spend a lifetime... its all hit and miss...luke,

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 44 (view)

First date- and he ogles the 22 yr old waitress all night Posted: 12/15/2007 9:04:12 AM
ISOsmart woman... You are probably right as I am... Wasnt thinking about that possibility. Maby club girl should have been more competitive with her assets and joined the gym.

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 74 (view)

children come first allways Posted: 12/15/2007 8:59:39 AM
It says to love the woman.. there is a level of respect which comes within love. I do have the ability to love a woman and have loved before. I am a very kind man to a woman which isn't trying to use me. At first it seems they all try to use men. Right now there is no woman which I love, and since love doesn't happen over night I am not expecting to love any time soon. I do not give this type of emotion away, you won't fine me kissing up to the opposite sex trying to get their approval or get accepted. When I meet a woman which can give respect to a hard working male figure I will fall in love again. and at that time she will recieve true love from me.....I believe that this is the proper sequence and important for a lasting relationship. Too many times does the male fall prey to sucking up to the woman and her taking him and losing respect later and him falling out of love because of it. Alot of devorce happens this way. Luke,

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

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First date- and he ogles the 22 yr old waitress all night Posted: 12/15/2007 8:46:50 AM
I really enjoyed reading this thread. There is alot of people which say DUMP HIM! and this might be the right message to put across. But with limited information its hard to be fair like this.... I am a guy which likes to look at wemon. This does not make me a bad guy. I have never cheated on my girl and never will. Just because a guy likes the look of a "Body" then he should not be dumped. If this is the case you should not date men all together because every man which is "fertile" will look at "Bodies". At least he was confident enough to not hide it. Also if the conversation was a stalemate and nervous.... being the first date..... maby he felt the view as a temporary escape to keep his composure? alot of times when men look at a fine 22 yr old asss they are not thinking about sex, just escaping or relaxing. You would have probably done good to comment on how nice she looked and joined in. It would have broke the ice and you probably would have had a better date. and he would have trusted and bonded with you more as well...

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

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One Night Stands Posted: 12/15/2007 8:24:31 AM
I hardly have a one night stand. it seems that my one nighters turn into many nighters. I usually get a phone call the second day wanting another go around, what am I to say? if it was to dissapate it is at least 5 nights. If the woman was not attractive I wouldn't have been with her the first time. If she is attractive why just go at it one night? I havent met any wemon which were displeased with having their 5 nighters. yes most want it to continue and it is the woman that drives it - even if she knows your not wanting the relationship. Women... you keep trying to play the innocent card, some of us guys know how much you like to ride the donkey and understand the point of not giving "attachment" pressure where such pressure isnt due. Luke,

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

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The single lifestyle trap Posted: 12/15/2007 8:08:25 AM
CJ.... Well spoken. I too have found that I am not as willing to just meet a random girl and lay the smack down the first night. I have gotten so picky knowing that she has to posess certain qualities that I find myself living single untill death. Is it pickyness or is it self worth? Im not sure. I have found though that when I meet a girl that interests me I seem to push them away hoping they would stay. Maby other guys do this as well. I tend to think of it as if they are ment to be with me then they will see past "me" and come closer.... and if they are not ment to be with me then they will just leave and let me continue on......

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 72 (view)

children come first allways Posted: 12/15/2007 7:57:08 AM
I strongly feel like my daughter will have more morals than to be bare foot and pregnent due to me being a real man and taking the leadership role of being a man..... I could not believe I read this this morning from Fab-Mom. I understand we have oppisite views on this matter but it is about balance. Its about respect. I am not a religous man but the bible does say alot of wise things, and if you notice.... no where in the book does it say for a woman to be "in charge" and nowhere does it say she needs to love him... it says the man needs to "Love the woman" and the woman needs to "Respect the man" . no where does it say that the man needs to respect the woman.... and no where does it say the woman needs to love the man... These words are similar but different, its hard to have one without the other. But if they are understood in the relationship the relationship will last and each part will be happy.. This I believe is the balance. And with balanced leadership you will raise balanced pupils...It would take an unselfish mind to think about this and understand it. it took me a while to understand myself.... Luke,

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

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children come first allways Posted: 12/14/2007 2:54:34 PM
Your ignorance has got me baffeld. I am glad you have a daughter and am sure she is great and has great role models. Its too bad that neither you or her will ever have a real man with that attitude.. It almost sounds like you were from a split family yourself or had a mother that told your dad what to do every day... My daughter loves me and is at the top of her class. she is the best at sports, academics, and she respects men.. She will make a fine wife someday and I hope that because she can respect a man that she will acquire a real one instead of a puppet raised without family structure......It doesnt matter how hard a woman can try she can never be a man..... This is what god designed. I had nothing to do with it. God made man. then he took the rib and made woman. he made woman for man. and with this structure man and woman make children......You change this and you have the society you see today....wemon cannot take man's burdons...

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 65 (view)

children come first allways Posted: 12/14/2007 2:32:34 PM
I can see why you are devorced and your children have no male figure. All they need is you. Hope you have girls.

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 63 (view)

children come first allways Posted: 12/14/2007 2:24:34 PM
Statement like what Fab-Mom's are the reson why relationships don't work, why kids grow up with out dads, and etc. etc. I am glad my dad was a dad and came first, I had some one to look up to. A child expects his or her parents to be on top. If a child looks down at their parent they will do anything they want to as a teenager and apast..... If they see their mother putting their new dad or father figure beneith them then they are learning how to behave in their future relationships and future devorces......

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 62 (view)

children come first allways Posted: 12/14/2007 2:20:07 PM
If you come first, your child comes second and the man comes third. Where should his paycheck go to? the woman, the kids, or himself? what about all his efforts? where should the man place his efforts? That last statement seems to suggest that the man is just a tag along, kinda like the little fish that clean the bigger fish's mouths.... If the man is to become apart of the family then he needs to eventually take the roll of the man, and he needs to respected as such,,,he cannot be respected as such being below the children.. This is just teaching the children how to become devorced when they grow up..and in todays society it seems that devorce is more and more around us and excepted.. In the early 1900's to 1950's hardly no one got devorced. the children grew up with respect, dignity, and morals, since the woman's movent occured and they started taking the man's roll look what has happened.. Divorce is about 80 percent.... The family structure NEEDS the man to be in charge,, How can this happen if the woman wont let it?

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 101 (view)

Should I worry if my boyfriend has a close relationship with female friend Posted: 12/14/2007 2:06:03 PM
This is an interesting topic. In my experience females do not like their man having female friends. Meanwhile us men all know that our girlfriends always have male friends, there is a reason for this fellow guys! When the iminant breakup occurs all that the girls have to do is to go to their guy friend bank and bam...instant new boyfriend!..... knowing this they have "guy friends"" or in other words "Penis's in Jars" so to speak.....they do not want their boyfrient to have a " vagina in a Jar" so they usually get upset when he has a friend thats a girl. .....Also girls are such experts with this,,, they also recognise that their current man could be another woman's " penis in a jar" and their boyfriend at the same time! This is unacceptable to her... especially while she is still using it......

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

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children come first allways Posted: 12/14/2007 1:44:19 PM
Well, It seems to be that all the girls now a days have a few trophies. I wouldn't know how to act if I actually met an attractive female without a few. It is really unattractive when they ALL start the My kids come first statements when the guy wasnt even thinking anything different. It makes him feel like she is trying to push him away before the relationship even starts. Of course all you wemon are the perfect mothers, Of course you all had dead beat lousy ex's that were addicts, jailbait, theifs, couch potatoes, that took your money, hit you, and never worked. Us guys know how good of mothers you all are and appriciate that. We do not want to take over your children, or kick them to the curb! We just want a normal, stable, relationship! This might include a portion of your time which you would have spent with your kids but the paybacks to your kids by having a good man around are ten fold on your time investment. ESPECIALLY if you are a woman trying to rais a man.......This just don't work. You need men to raise men or you end up with the term metrosexual.......Luke,

Lukas

Joined: 1/21/2007

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Any get togethers in the Arkansas area Posted: 12/12/2007 2:02:20 PM
wow. I live in rogers Ar. And I would probably not go to a get together, But then I might. so I looked at the posts for this subject and they are starting sometime last year, maby even 2 yrs ago. And most of the posts simply say yea! thats a great Idea! Lets do that, but no posts said a time and a place? and I think That If I went to one of these get togethers then I wouldn't meet anyone that would match up with me so it would be just me and alot of druelling wemon looking at me like a piece of meat. Well, guess I said my two cents on that. anyone else?

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

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Friday evening ..... Posted: 11/4/2007 1:37:44 PM
I agree with beach lady, I would like to be on the beach by myself. I am 32 now and have realized that I will be single for a long time. The girls that go after me seem to be 18 to 22 and then 38 to 45... the girls I go for are 28 to 32. My choice of age wants the secure, has lots of things guy and the girls that choose to go after me want the physical thrills I can provide. I am just tired. A day or week at the beach would be great.

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 47 (view)

What do you think of your results when you do a 'Search' . . ?? Posted: 11/4/2007 1:24:20 PM
I am an athletically inclined individual. It would make sence for me to match up with an athletically inclined girl. So, I just did an advanced search. Put "I don't care" on every choice except for body, which I put Athletic. I put the age range between 25 and 35. Put the distance between 200 miles. This is a dating site so I also added "here for Dating" because everything else would be another story. ..........The result was 4. FOUR girls between 25 and 35 within 200 miles on POF for dating. I tried to contact them and one of the four put so many block's up it stopps everyone. so there was three. Also out of these four ....no one had a pic! so where are we now?? I changed the search creieria from athletic body to 'I don't care. ......There were over 600 girls that appeared from that search. DO I NEED TO SAY ANYTHING MORE! I agree with manerider.... I think I will come here for the forums too.

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

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What do you think of your results when you do a 'Search' . . ?? Posted: 11/4/2007 10:48:41 AM
I agreee with "who me"! every time I do a search I get reminded of all the girls that don't take care of their bodies. DOES ANYONE OUT THERE CARE ABOUT PHYSICAL PHITNESS ANYMORE!!! It totally discusts me. Yes we need to settle down with the right personality for when we get older but I am good for at least 30 more years! what about now! One can eat only so much coliflour until they want a peach.

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 37 (view)

How important is Stretching? Posted: 11/4/2007 9:19:02 AM
I like to gain muscles. I like to work out and watch my muscles develope and grow. I have found that the muscle is alot like a rubber band. When I pre stretch it is like pre stretching a rubber band. Thus making it harder to tear it. I think warm ups are good but not the pre stretch. Seems that the whole purpose for me lifting that weight is to tear the tissues. I do agree that you should stretch between workouts and maby even after the work out though.

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 125 (view)

How did you learn to cook? Posted: 11/4/2007 6:20:29 AM
I love food! can eat it every day! I started cooking soup at 5 and my sister pushed me into the burner and my cotton shirt cought on fire and burnt off my body while my parents were chasing me around the house. They couldn't catch me. I have a light scar from that but it didn't stop me from cooking. I can make about anything I put my mind to. Like healthy food better but those white flour pie crusts made with crisco shortning mmmm. well I wish I had time to cook as much as I would like to but have to work too much. If I ever do meet a nice girl hope she cooks too. Luke,

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 33 (view)

How important are your spiritual beliefs in your search for a mate? Posted: 11/4/2007 6:07:23 AM
I would like to add to that last comment. Today's religeon "IS" the result of the teachings passed onto others from Parents, teachers, ministers, and then the kids are the parents, teachers, and ministers for the next generation. I had trouble with this cycle and wanted to try to do actual research to find out whats going on here. Reserch that consisted of everything except what is drilled into the average person. I found that for the first 60 to 150 years after the desciples walked with Jesus everything said and done in the bible was passed down by word of mouth over the camp fire. then it was put into writing, then 300 years later the writing was voted on by constintine and his priests on to what to keep and what to not keep. I never heard any of this in church. In the 70's there was a documentary on a black tribe of humans in the Amazon that never saw today's civilization or a white man. after the white men flew into the village with their plane and used their medicines to help the sick the primitive humans started worshiping them as gods. They actually thought white man was gods. What would happen if that tribe was left to their beliefs for 2000 years?? what would the world be like then? would there be people waiting for a supreme white god to return? I feel totaly comfortable with not knowing all the answers right now. I have a positive, good soul and feel that what ever designed me or made me should be proud that I am good out of choice instead of out of either fear of punishment or fear of not pleasing the maker all together.

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

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what do you think of hillary's poor debate performance? Posted: 11/3/2007 2:05:39 PM
OMG, I cant believe I ended up in the political forum. What A waist of my time. I feel like I just took a piece of "Good Life" and threw it away, I better look on at something I can do something about or learn from, any fine momma out there want to talk about anything fun or important which we can actually do something about then e-mail me. Luke,

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

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How important are your spiritual beliefs in your search for a mate? Posted: 11/3/2007 1:57:34 PM
I believe that they are very important! I wouldn't like to be married to a crazy girl or anything? Religion is the answer and also the question. It leads to peace and wars, death and life, it would drive me nuts to listen to a preacher woman all day knowing that she could be in the nut house for preaching anything else in the world except for religion. No one has the answers, everyone thinks they do but when it all comes to a fine point it ends with faith. You have to have faith with out certanty. If you are certain it is because it has been driven into your braincells enough for you to be comfortable saying it is fact. I believe that the human brain is capable of believing anything if it is trained to,

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 1056 (view)

kissing after oral sex Posted: 5/25/2007 7:14:01 PM
OH! how romantic, where is the romance these days! If she is fine! all the better! There isn't any crevic I wouldn't lick my manhood off of when I am with a fine female! but she has to be fine! lesser grades of females have lesser tolerances! Luke,

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 1055 (view)

kissing after oral sex Posted: 5/25/2007 7:08:59 PM
Oh yea! why not? If you feel like you are a sexual beast you shouldn't have any problem with this issue. I love kissing my girlfriend right after she has her protein shake! It just confirms how sexual of a girl she is and how close we are together. I think it is very sexy and romantic. Luke,

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 248 (view)

Any women left with body hair? Posted: 5/25/2007 7:03:49 PM
Well? If I find a small batch of "controlled" hair, Less than 1/4 in ch long and not too wide I can deal with it and on some occasions enjoyed playing with it. But anything more needs to be culled. Luke,

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 247 (view)

Any women left with body hair? Posted: 5/25/2007 7:01:07 PM
Hair is gross! ewww! I absolutely love to eat at the Y! it is my favorite place to dine and if I find a hair I won't go back to that restaurant again! Luke,

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 23 (view)

Do men or women have it worse in the bedroom? Posted: 5/25/2007 6:55:30 PM
Well it would be nice to be able to have sex without being in the mood? I think that is a plus wemon have! Sometimes I am just not horny!but I still want to please my partner, Thank heaven and God that made me that I am a master licker! Men definatelly have more pressure on them then wemon with sex, but only if he accepts the pressure. I feel that if a man is really a man he can start or stop strokin anytime he damn well wants to! and get a coffee? quick shower? change the music? whatever! and get back at it! Why let the womon dictate how long you last? Always feeling like you got to Get er done with one fabulous stroke! take your sweet time and be in controll! make her want some more, be a tease, make her squeel, and then worry about yourself! Luke,

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 52 (view)

Is there anything wrong being a virgin? Posted: 5/25/2007 6:43:15 PM
I have been with a few vergins and do not have any desire to ever go there again! In matter of fact the last virgin I dated was 18 and I told her to go through a few boyfriends before me so that she would have some practice and also so that she would not want to go astray later. Virgins wouldn't know what they have got! My best sexual partner was my first and I wish I would have never left her but I just didn't know any better! If I met a great partner that was a vergin she would ultimately think the same way and if she didn't I would feel like she didn't appriciate me because she didn't go through all of the trash most girls talk about all the time. Luke,

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 119 (view)

i cant cum! Posted: 5/25/2007 6:36:33 PM
To give a woman a great orgasm it start way..way before the bedroom. You just don't walk in and say " bend over woman" and expect her body to respond. It comes from the way you are at the dinner table or driving the car or walking through the park. There has to be lust in your eyes before he "might" deside to touch you. Luke,

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 118 (view)

i cant cum! Posted: 5/25/2007 6:33:05 PM
I cant tell you how many times I have had a girl tell me that and later that night she is screaming with orgasm! maby you have a dud and need a real man!

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 120 (view)

What comes first?: sex or the relationship? Posted: 5/25/2007 6:25:45 PM
I wish I knew then what I know now! I would have called it off 5 mineuts after orgasm!

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 119 (view)

What comes first?: sex or the relationship? Posted: 5/25/2007 6:19:38 PM
I have tried it bolth ways! some girls I have had sex with after an hour of knowing them and our relationship couldn't have been better and some girls I was with for up to 6 months without having sex and when we did I ended up wishing we didn't. If there is sexual chemistry and you are positive the other has no deseases and take precautions on birth controll.... why not? My ex wife for example!!! I dated her for some time before we had sex and after I did I would have felt guilty if I broke up and said it wasn't going to work out. we had built a foundation already and after the sex we kept our relationship going. Truth is that she was not there for me sexually and performed terribly. I accepted it, went on, but it did lead to some unhappyness in our relationship. If we would have had sex right away it might have saved 6 years of my life and alot of money and heart-aches! . Luke,

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 73 (view)

Is it me or is it wrong Posted: 3/7/2007 3:07:07 PM
No I am not married, I have been single for 18 months now, my ex-wife found a rich guy and thought she would be on easy street until that didn't work and then she dated 11 more guys within the same year trying to out do me after that she wanted to come back to me. I told her to go back to them. She took my love/...(my daughter) from me so that she could achieve this and now I am devorced and without my daughter and she is jumping from man to man trying to replace me and hasn't so far.

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 69 (view)

Is it me or is it wrong Posted: 3/7/2007 2:50:37 PM
I try not to blame them but I spent a long time as a single guy looking for the right one and when I found her I thought it would last because I did everything right. I have been with the opposite sex now for 13 yrs! shouldn't I have found her yet?

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 66 (view)

Is it me or is it wrong Posted: 3/7/2007 2:35:39 PM
Yes! I have given up! I honestly believe that there are not any wemon worthy of a faithful man anymore! I haven't met any yet! I am sure they exist but everytime I meet one that I believe is good she plays mind games with me in order to start anything up with her. "F#*k" the mind games! I am so tired of the cat and mouse games! I know that is why I am meeting all the wrong wemon for me, they don't play the games and are up front with what they like and want, the attractive girls that have something going for themselves make you run through hurdles, swimm the mote, and jugle the same time and sit back and think its cute. I am not that type of guy anymore to kiss their ass! why is it like this?

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 63 (view)

Is it me or is it wrong Posted: 3/7/2007 2:22:09 PM
well?? do I get points for being up front with them ant letting them know that I am not going to be with only them because I know their not my soul mate? It is strange but true that when I was the perfect angel type of guy the girls didn't want me but when I tell them that I don't give a crap and will not be faithful they all come running?? Maby I suck but they suck harder! I just want one girl that is rite for me and she don't exist.

LukeFraley

Joined: 1/21/2007

Msg: 59 (view)

Is it me or is it wrong Posted: 3/7/2007 2:08:30 PM
I have always been a faithful guy. never thought about cheating, but after being cheated on and lied to for 5 yrs by my ex-wife I just don't give a damn. I am no longer faithful to anyone and don't think I can fall for anyone again. I absolutely hate it! Its been a yr and a half since I was in that relationship! I want to be a husband again! I dated and broke up with a girl 10 yrs ago and she is maried now and has been for 8 yrs. she got my number off of my sister and before you know it we went to dinner a few times, a movie, and talked on the phone and she broke down and told me that she missed me and wants a devorce from her husband and a chance to see me on an "on call basis" but I couldn't sleep with anyone else...come on here! Now she said she can't deal with other girls being attracted to me and has me on hold for 4 months...until July, ?? and theres 3 other girls I know want me to be a booty call. This sounds good and I really, really need the sex! but I am not really/truely attracted to any of them and It is making me feel like I don't have a soul mate, and if I found her that I would not respect her enough to make it work! So, lately I have been a male whore -and married women have been more attractive to me because at least I know that it isn't going to work out and that she just wants the company and sex. So married wemen! Doors open but won't last forever! anyone know where I am coming from here? Is it me? or is it wrong?

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