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cutieforyou2

Joined: 1/8/2005

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Where are all the good single dads? Posted: 12/26/2005 10:27:45 PM
I heard that! We are all too busy with careers, and working, or just being parents! Often I wonder where the single dads are too. Then I remember that without the internet I might be a real loner. I spend SO MUCH time with my son than many people think I'M a born again child. I look at it as a hell of a lot more fun that being a grown up! Would you rather scooter race with the kids or pay bills?? I say lets all plan play dates at the park and meet each OTHER! anyone wanna? Im in california.

cutieforyou2

Joined: 1/8/2005

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so, why are you still single? Posted: 12/26/2005 10:18:29 PM
speaking of BAD DOGGIES... thats the reason I'm still single. Too many men want the FAST lane and I believe it takes more time to make it work. Sure we can all hump and have sex, but if you are like me... REALLY looking for a great guy with longterm potential I won't accept the BAD DOGGIES coming arround my bush!

cutieforyou2

Joined: 1/8/2005

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Class action against Yahoo Personals and Match.com for fraud Posted: 11/19/2005 6:59:30 PM
I have also known people who forget to delete thier images before they cancel.Then this leaves the perosnals free to continue using your photo to entice people who want to meet you! REMEMBER to take your account info down..ie DELETE it ALL and write a letter stating they are not to use your personal info any longer or you will persue legal assistance! Lastly, go back in as a "visitor " and scan for your profile to see if you are still posted. I know this is....Stupid to have to do this, but when I stop using the service I no longer want them to use me as " BAIT".

cutieforyou2

Joined: 1/8/2005

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4TH of July weekend Posted: 7/2/2005 9:38:06 AM
Hi there I was wondering if there were any sincere caucasian men 36-45 who were looking to have a date this weekend. I am NOT into the sleezy "intimate encounter" ... so if you are married, involved or otherwise in a situation with someone ...You need not respond. Check out my profile and send me a message. I figure I might as well post myself and see if anyone responds. It couldn't hurt to be honest, right?

cutieforyou2

Joined: 1/8/2005

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To Date or Not To Date Posted: 6/16/2005 9:23:55 AM
My opinion is to find yourself again. It's a wierd time because you have become somewhat single again...( Im not sure if you are divorcing) but for me my child is the factor that keeps me grounded. I think about how he will interpret my dating. I dont want to EVER be the mom that has a new man weekly because men will use you for sex... if you let them! Also remember they can be liars and still be married and lastly, one broken condom might deliver you aids. What happens when you find a great sex partner and you hope to have more of a relationship and he's not willing to give more? Then you are once again hearbroken and lonely. I know Im really heavy on this, but I have found more empowerment by finding myself without a man for a while....now I know who I am, am more selective and not as vulnerable. I still do not introduce my child to a man for at least a month... and thats ONLY if we are dating exclusive.

cutieforyou2

Joined: 1/8/2005

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Single mom 1 child in Cali Posted: 6/16/2005 9:08:41 AM
Why is it that a single mom can meet a man online and talk on the phone with them, but upon meeting they claim no connection? Before meeting,I tell them up front I have a child and have a few extra lbs. I know I am cute... so is it the single parenting that scares them off or is it the fact I know who I am and have a great deal of self confidance? Is it true what my friends have told me that most online men are just after the big score that I wont give up without ahving a real relationship? I wish that there were more places to meet JUST men (35-45) with children who wanted to find a good person for a sincere relationship. I am ready to give up again and just stop dating all together!

cutieforyou2

Joined: 1/8/2005

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i love men who have kids Posted: 6/16/2005 8:54:00 AM
I agree that men with kids have a better connection. The level of understanding how crazy life can be juggling work, school and discipline is more in tune with reality. TOO many men I find on line are hoping for some super adventurous woman to have free time for outdoor adventures. HELLO, reality check! We perhaps have responsibilities and this is the reason we are on the internet using a dating service....not alot of time is left over while we decide to skydive or go bunjee jumping... cant you hear the kids telling us they are hungry to eat or want money for something??? Chin up everyone,Someone is out there. We just have to wait for the bus to stop and unload when we least expect it! TIll then....remember the UNCONDITIONAL love that your children bring and how they have touched your life!

cutieforyou2

Joined: 1/8/2005

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God please help me with women Posted: 1/17/2005 4:17:12 PM
Larry if you were 10 years older id date you! I cant fugure men out myself... they meet me for dinner or a couple g=dates and it falls off. I think its cuz i have a 5 yr lod. soee life aint ex for single parents... just be lucky you are younger AND hanve no kids to make dating harder!

cutieforyou2

Joined: 1/8/2005

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Call a woman on her claim of friendship Posted: 1/16/2005 6:21:06 PM
The question you present with pictures and availability all boils down to the fact that we live in a superficual society. Media tells us that money, looks, and everthing but truth and sinerity are needed. It's a shame that the internet has made it possible for people to be disrepectful to others..fibs, liars, cheats or looking for something better than what they currently have. But there are those of us that have the inate courtesy to resond with honesty... yes, we are far and few. I have responded to men and stated that I was looking for something different. I do this for sincerity on the recieving end. (why should I wast thier time or mine?) My girlfriends tell me they will generally just ignore the ones (men) they dont like. Remember a picture is worth a thousand words, but it doest represent the whole person...also many persons post pictures that are old and need to be updated!

cutieforyou2

Joined: 1/8/2005

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What Do Women Want Posted: 1/16/2005 6:07:39 PM
Gino, yes it is what SOME women want, however there has to be alot more. Looks, income, personailty and stuff like that. yah... the superficial stuff. We live in shallow times! You need to take a cold hard look at yourself and see if you like yourself. If you do, then it wont matter if you have no one but yourself. Dont look for happiness in others. Now my question to you is why do men hold the shape of a womans figure in such high regard? I am very cute, funny and about honestly 25lbs heavy. I am about to give up on men because they seem so shallow. I know my self and like being single... at times, but know I could be a great assett to a relationship. I'm with you trying to figure people out...ready to throw in the towel!

cutieforyou2

Joined: 1/8/2005

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Should you call a guy or let him call you Posted: 1/16/2005 5:52:21 PM
I used to call them...MEN. Now i have learned not to. Read the book "He's just not that into you " it is VERY empowering, enlightening and truthful. Take away from it what you wish. I am realizing that men like to have a chase... even if it seems like stupid games. Only because when we (ladies) lay our cards on the table and act like either person can do the persuing, they arent as responsive. I was told from a male friend,that a great date last night will not have the outcome I desire because I didnt act like I had several guys on the line. OH brother...!

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