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 Author Thread: if a women is single for a long time would you think she was odd?
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 45 (view)
 
if a women is single for a long time would you think she was odd?
Posted: 10/2/2007 8:50:39 PM
Depends on the woman. As a rule I would assume some kind of very ugly special baggage, be it a rape, abuse, bad breakup, losing SO, or whatever...

I would tread with care till I knew and proceed from there.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 112 (view)
 
Dead Aminals on Profiles...
Posted: 10/2/2007 8:45:56 PM
Occasionally yes women do. They're called BOYFRIENDS.

Many men have pictures of themselves in memorable moments like...hunting. Not all can use digital cameras themselves you know. And lots of women find a man who can hunt and kill his own dinner sexy.

Or so they claim ;).
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Should I confront him?
Posted: 10/2/2007 8:43:26 PM
Undoubtedly already said but...

Put your foot down or it will continue.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Eye Contact at work
Posted: 10/2/2007 8:41:59 PM
Hopefully reciprocated feelings.

However let me remind you that that is work, there are policies in place, and frequently at work relationships go bad and that makes it hard for you, him, and everyone else around you which is why you don't date coworkers.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Do men think that women don't have a sex drive?
Posted: 10/2/2007 8:39:37 PM
I'll wait till you're done blogging...

59...58...57...56...

(humming)

Done? Ok. I know you have a sex drive. I know the second you invite me out and start touching me. I know when we go to your place and I know when we end up having sex. I know when we get in your car and you direct my hand where you want it to go.

Yes, you certainly do have a sex drive.

Your mistake with me is thinking I'm judging you by it.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Why do guys talk about how wealthy they are?
Posted: 10/2/2007 8:35:33 PM
"Why do guys talk about how wealthy they are?"

To attract you.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Where is the best place to meet a nice guy?
Posted: 10/2/2007 8:30:41 PM
ROFL...

Let me get this straight...

Someone knocked you up and you're looking for Mr Right as the replacement...

Little late there aren't we?
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
addiction and alchoholism
Posted: 10/2/2007 8:25:43 PM
She'll be more in love with it than you. Encourage her to seek help. In the mean time...find someone healthy.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 38 (view)
 
What is the real reason???
Posted: 10/2/2007 8:24:02 PM
There's more to it than that most likely.

Inconvenience or massive increases in gas, repair, and travel time would be my first guesses. If of course you could accept his answer at face value.

I wouldn't.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Dating Intimidation…
Posted: 10/2/2007 8:21:41 PM
If I couldn't speak to them on a date, how do you think I could get the date to begin with...?
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Can't be friends
Posted: 10/2/2007 8:19:19 PM
Hi. I'm here for romance not friends. Women may have learned over the last 20,000 years since we came out of the last Ice Age that men are useful for lifting heavy things and killing beasties that scare them but that does NOT mean we have to play that game. So when it's over...it's over.

Farewell, so long, and friend zone someone else.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 187 (view)
 
Weight and Sex
Posted: 10/2/2007 8:10:55 PM
My clothes? Not really. I worked hard to look as I do, which, though not perfect, isn't too bad either.

Her on the other hand...well...I could be really graphic and point out the various limitations and difficulties a man can have but I'll be kind and just say that losing weight is good for you in a lot of ways.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 88 (view)
 
Can a Vegretarian or Vegan perform oral
Posted: 10/2/2007 8:07:39 PM
So are the plants they eat, a fact hypocritically overlooked...

I'll give ya points for the most out there question I've seen today though...
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Single Catholics
Posted: 10/2/2007 7:59:18 PM

Posted By: whisper67520 on 10/1/2007 1133 AM
Subject: Single Catholics
Message: I've had a question on my mind for quite sometime and wonder how other forum posters view it. Would also like some feed back from single Catholics.

When you view a profile, widowed, or divorced and they list their religion as Catholic does that cause you to step back? Since the Catholic religion forbids marrying someone divorced, one would need to have the marriage annulled to be able to again marry with the blessing of the church or marry in the church.

Right or wrong, I find myself by passing those folks.

So how serious and how much does one's religion (catholic) play into the situation of second marriages or finding and committing to a mate?


I'm single and Catholic. However I don't go to church or necessarily condone all stances of the Catholic Church. This makes me a bad Catholic. Why? I have a brain. Does that mean I don't have a relationship with God? No, not by any means. Nor does it mean I am duty bound to blindly accept all things the Pope, the Cardinals, and the Bishops preach either.

Thus, I am non religious, and you're foolish to be that strictly bound by the word of man sometimes purported to be the word of God. There is a difference.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Texting habits of partners
Posted: 10/2/2007 7:47:36 PM

Posted By: anwat76 on 10/2/2007 238 PM
Subject: Texting habits of partners
Message: OK I’m just wondering if anyone else has encountered this same problem….
I’ve been dating someone for sometime now and am not able to get over the fact that he has multiple female “friends” that txt him all hours of the day and night.
I have checked these messages (I know it’s wrong on my part for going through his phone but I can’t help but wonder what is so important that it can’t wait till decent hrs of the day) nonetheless….
I feel the messages are very inappropriate, very sexual in nature. Most of the “friends” are ex gfs and lovers that he says are just friends now. I have made him very aware of my feelings about it all; we have had huge fights over this issue. Of course it was all turned around on me for going through his phone, my feelings on that are, if there’s nothing to hide then why would it matter if I went through his phone!?!!
So I guess what I’m asking here, is how would any of you feel about your partner having inappropriate sexual conversations with someone? Do you feel like it is another form of cheating?

Sorry if this topic has been covered before, I did check and didn’t seeing anything on the subject.


Ok I'm just a stupid guy who hasn't read the entire thread but...

1) I existed before the stupidity of what is now called texting.
2) That doesn't mean I would stand for it. If you are exclusive you shouldn't either.

Key word exclusive.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Can you sincerely be objective?
Posted: 10/2/2007 7:42:19 PM
OP,

Unfortunately I can. It's most inconvenient. It is however...honest.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 80 (view)
 
Do men really care about a womans religion?
Posted: 9/25/2007 11:34:43 AM
Anytime.

I don't need 5 alarm walking red flag factories making my life more difficult as they try to 'discover themselves' either. Many who do make that choice to pursue these lifestyles (not religions, lifestyles, let's be clear on that) have issues.

Oh, and I DO understand a lot more than ya think...

Goths espouse a dark lifestyle, tend to dress in black/heavy make up, tend to be horridly negative about life, the universe and everything, and many are covered in tats. Not who I want to hang with.

Atheists are just plain blind to the world around em, and that's their right.

Witches are nice...well some of them. Some aren't. Probably not what I'm going to spend my life with though...too much tripping and cursing and spell casting and fun.

Satanists are evil and if I have to explain that one to ya, seek help.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
unnoticed flirting signs by women
Posted: 9/25/2007 10:11:32 AM
Looks, touching, flirting, hair tosses, glances, walking by you, bumping into you, coy glances, sometimes arrogant behavior (hiding painful shyness), etc. etc. etc...

If you want to know, you must approach, you must confront. Even if its hellishly difficult.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Would you confront them?
Posted: 9/25/2007 10:09:27 AM
Go there? No.

If ya love em, it's up to you to determine what you're going to do. If you want to give em time to resolve a situation and see if they return...that's up to you. If you just won't deal with that...also up to you.

If you really want a brutal, in your face kind of trauma, by all means go...
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Friends w benefis when to quit...and when to stay...
Posted: 9/25/2007 10:06:03 AM
FWB is a losing proposition because at some point someone is going to meet someone or feelings are going to develop. If ya don't like that situation, don't engage in it. But don't be surprised if just because you want to change the situation the other party doesn't.

Obviously your friend is developing feelings and wants to go exclusive and he doesn't, so she gets burned. Her choice to stay or not and how long to do so.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 51 (view)
 
How you handle a pissed off girlfriend.
Posted: 9/25/2007 10:01:10 AM
People get ticked and do stupid stuff. We're supposed to be big enough to deal with it, and apologize if we're out of line, but if it becomes a routine thing it's going to the level of abuse, or game playing and should be dealt with as you have...but that treatment is supposed to end; otherwise...might as well turn off the lights and lock the door because the show's over.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 48 (view)
 
thanking a man for sex
Posted: 9/25/2007 9:58:10 AM
Sounds like you had a good time and you want to again sometime, which is the basis of more isn't it?
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Do men really care about a womans religion?
Posted: 9/25/2007 9:54:56 AM
Atheists, Satan worshiping Goths, Witches, etc. need not apply...

Why? Because it is an indicator of other issues and sometimes mental stability (in my experience). I don't need to argue with you over God, sacrifice, or witchcraft thank you very much...

Otherwise I'm fairly flexible on that one.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Weight loss.
Posted: 9/25/2007 9:51:29 AM
I look at it this way.

If you're making an effort, good for you, and maybe good for me. I don't need to know because I can recognize signs of positive change BUT...ask yourself this...

How's he going to react if he finds out later how big you were? Some guys take that thing kinda badly...then again do you want a guy who thinks in JUST those terms?

Many guys are happy with non Barbie dolls but there 's a difference in being your best an being what you think is 'ok' cause chances are when you make that judgment, your self esteem is in the hole anyway and you will not get the whole 'acceptable' thing.

Be your best. It pays off in soooo many ways...
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 197 (view)
 
The High Heel factor
Posted: 9/25/2007 9:40:58 AM
Guess he shoulda learned to sweep the leg :).
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 107 (view)
 
Canadian women hotter than American women
Posted: 9/25/2007 9:38:08 AM
I prefer plan 'b':

Since comedy is the primary export of Canada anyway, let's just bring them to us, because obviously the Canadian guys aren't cutting it, which is what happens in a socialist country where the men are taught that they are bad and the real men are all in oilfields on the tundra, chopping wood, or drunk at hockey games.

Lots of space down here in TX for hotties with cute accents (and more Canadian women arriving all the time...).



(The above was mostly a joke. Mostly).
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
What happens when you run out of things to say on a first date?
Posted: 9/25/2007 9:27:34 AM
Do things that don't require talking. MSN had a nice little article on building chemistry up yesterday, search for it.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 94 (view)
 
fake pics on profile
Posted: 9/25/2007 9:23:36 AM
Lies are lies. And there are some chicks that post up bogus profiles out there of themselves and even men for 'fun'. A meeting tells the tale real quick though doesn't it?


Posted By: dreadstalker on 9/25/2007 5:33:57 AM
Subject: fake pics on profile
Message: 2005 to 2007 and nothing has changed. Go through the pics today and you will still find an over abundance of fake pics.
From what I have seen admin does nothing about them when reported.


Get Firefox and the Adblocker add on. Then you can right click and remove the pic, so you never see it again...also handy when you get rejected/no replies from someone. Kinda like dealing them out of the deck if ya know what I mean (just don't block the whole domain, that picture only).
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 393 (view)
 
Are women marketable after age 30?
Posted: 9/25/2007 9:21:02 AM
Depends on them. Makes you not marketable - weight, failure to take care of yourself/develop decent hobbies outside a bar, many little mouths to feed, no time. There's only so many hours in a day and so many people I want to share ya with. What's the point if there's no 'us' time?
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Attracting Women: An unteachable skill?
Posted: 9/25/2007 9:13:22 AM
There are plenty of how to's out there about how to do it and to an extent many are good. Depending on your objective...but at the end of the day it doesn't change who YOU are...

I for instance could tell you a whole lot of ways to attract a female but when it comes down to it...the ones who work with me and know me want lots to do with me, but the ones that don't only seem attracted when I'm either a) ticked off, b) down a well emotionally and in no shape for dealing with a female socially, or c) too distracted to do anything about it. I could say more but...heh...I'm not on here by accident.

It really sucks when you can walk through a social venue and have lots of pretty girls check you out and have no time to get a number, or they assume they'll see you again and maybe you'll make a move when that will likely be the only moment ya got...

Ho hum.

Honestly though? Your best bet is to 1) not take it seriously at all if you can, 2) realize none of it is going to last in all likely hood so have fun while you can, and 3) your next opportunity is the next isle over at Home Depot.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Womens ex boyfriends
Posted: 9/25/2007 8:59:31 AM
Carn...

First off, all contact with the ex's needs to cease for you to have a RL. So right there ya failed to put your foot down. The only exceptions to this are financial/child related/divorce issues. Anything else needs to stop. Immediately. Or you SHOULD walk.

Secondly, how she's 'giving in' going back to him I don't get. To me, that means she has feelings for him still, which means she's basically been misleading/using you the whole time, which says a lot about her. If nothing else, it makes her a weak little thing and probably not worth your time anyway.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 50 (view)
 
If Mr./Mrs. Right was terminally ill...
Posted: 9/25/2007 8:53:53 AM
Posted By: snugglesmacks on 9/21/2007 916 AM
Subject: If Mr./Mrs. Right was terminally ill...
The question is, would you get involved with someone knowing that they are terminally ill, and, on the flip side, would you get involved if you found out that you were dying? Would you feel that you were making some sort of noble sacrifice by refusing to get too close, or would you make the most of the time you had left?


Yes. "Noble sacrifice"? I'm assuming there is love here? If the guy is dying, he can get companionship any number of ways...so if you do it, do it for the right reason Snug...

Compassion is a good reason in my mind.

If it was me, I wouldn't want to inflict the pain on them my passing would cause.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Is it a good idea to go back to the ex...and which one??
Posted: 9/25/2007 8:48:28 AM
I'm told...(yes I said told as in "I have no experience at this") that if, after a while, two ex's who have been apart a long time come back together as different people, then yes, things can potentially begin anew...

However, short term? They are ex's for a reason.

Now to your other issue of 6 years single: you are far too pretty for that, so either a) you're not putting yourself out there, b) you have numerous red flags/issues stopping you from being with someone, c) you live in an area so geographically isolated that there is just no real population for you to choose from.

All of which you can deal with.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Is it a bad sign if a person comes on to strong before they even met you?
Posted: 9/25/2007 8:43:52 AM
A little of column "A" and a little of column "B".

There are lots of players out there who look for girls they may think have low self esteem because they will be easy and a nice soft landing spot while they line up their next conquest.

HOWEVER:

When dealing with online...amount of contact and the context of it indicates interest too. I have seen interest start strong and just freakin' die before it went anywhere. I just had one of those where she was too busy, and so was I. Takes the magic out before it ever even begins, which is a shame, because you're left wondering 'what if we'd just made the time...?'.

Luckily there is no end of hotties out there at the moment. Maybe the next one will find time *shrug*.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 51 (view)
 
How Do You Rate The Importance of Sex In A Relationship
Posted: 9/25/2007 8:39:01 AM
I rate it very high.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 150 (view)
 
the first date and he wont respect your pet
Posted: 9/25/2007 8:38:17 AM
1. It's a pet. It will be treated well by me but that's about it. Respect? Um...ok.

2. It's hard to instruct people close to you. Usually this should be left to others to do.

3. If your pet is an annoying pain in the butt...that little beast can put the kibosh on things really fast...I'm not going to make a move on a woman with animals who want to be active participants, and as much as I like animals, if we're going out and the furball has contaminated every possible place in your home/apt. with hair, that doesn't mean I want to be covered with it...
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 681 (view)
 
Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 9/25/2007 8:34:05 AM
No, you can't. Not if you've ever been to that level of happiness. Unless of course you put yourself in a position for that to happen and someone else wants you so badly that they will take advantage of you...

"Animals hunt for food, people hunt for sport" - Donald Trump.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
why are some men gutless
Posted: 9/24/2007 8:02:38 AM
Winter Sparkle
Joined: 9/14/2007
Msg: 14
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why are some men gutless
Posted: 9/23/2007 601 PM
What's wrong with saying I don't see this going anywhere??

If I don't have a problem saying it then why should you?


Because that's drawing a line in the sand that once crossed ends things real quick. You're pretty. You have options. You have them come to you. That makes things as easy as "I want to have fun/I don't want to have fun/who should I have fun with?" versus the men's having to do well....everything. And still being told to piss off much of the time.

For the OP...

Don't call men gutless if at a given second in time we lack the confidence and opportunity to approach you. Some of us might be distracted, down on ourselves, occupied, or just don't really want to have to fight through a crowd of other people just for a big unknown who, like most women, surround themselves with friends, accessories, and men as protection, many of which want her as well and will cut our throat at the first sign of opportunity with you. Some of us don't find that 'fun', and there is nothing more depressing to me than the number of hot women who magically find me attractive when I have I am down a damn well and can't deal with them or don't have time to deal with them and then don't pay a whit of attention to me any other time.

And don't whine about your love life if all you do is choose losers. You picked em, you deal with it.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
How far would you travel?
Posted: 9/23/2007 9:35:27 PM
Longest travel 2500 miles, second longest 500 rnd trip.

First I would have continued and planned to, second was a waste of gas.

Although I tried 2-3 others that were similar that isn't going to happen again except in a special case. And it would have to be damn special...
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Why do men get scared to love again when theyve been hurt?
Posted: 9/23/2007 9:24:46 PM

Posted By: SexyBumLover on 9/12/2007 1035 AM
Subject: Why do men get scared to love again when theyve been hurt?
I met someone whose 41 and hes been married got a kid and is scared getting serious. He doesnt say why they split up but me an him are mega together. He bought me a ring and he says he loves me though. Whats his problem whys he not showing more interest if hes interested?


First part - put your hand on a stove and turn it on high. When you are tired of screaming take it off and put it back on again. Then ask yourself why you would ever want to subject yourself to pain that bad again and maybe you got your answer...

Men heal slow. We don't have 20 other offers to consider so our rebound takes a helluva lot longer than yours does.

Second part - he's got a kid to think about and doesn't have time for 'fun' and confusing his kid. He's taking it slow.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
why are some men gutless
Posted: 9/23/2007 9:15:08 PM
Because it is hurtful, hard to do, pisses you off...oh and women do it to men all the time. Plus if there is no chemistry continuing the whole thing is a bother now isn't it? Or if someone else came along...? There's a reason.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
5 time loser! First time winner?
Posted: 9/23/2007 9:06:47 PM
What makes you think she's ready for you? Likely you are a simple rebound to the next bad boy. And if she stays with you she'll probably cheat with one. Good luck if you decide to pursue.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 61 (view)
 
The Dumbest Thing You've Ever Done For Love...
Posted: 8/30/2007 7:43:50 PM
Been in real love one time, and did every stupid thing I could for her under the impression that the feelings were mutual. Well, I was wrong. And then I screwed up some more.

We are now not only not friends, but not going to talk ever again. Helluva way for what I thought was a multi year friendship to end.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
How would you react?
Posted: 8/22/2007 5:38:25 PM
That would be a very good day for me.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 73 (view)
 
Guys, why doesn't your profile STAND OUT?
Posted: 8/22/2007 5:34:25 PM
One question: how many guys like you want have you bothered to write this week or are you still waiting for them to write to you?
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Emotional affairs vs physical affairs
Posted: 8/22/2007 5:29:32 PM
Oh ya, major danger zone. Cheating in all but the actual act.

Every time I hear 'it's ok to have friends of the opposite sex' I cringe because of the potential for this. A lot of men don't believe in emotional affairs but forget that women are emotional creatures...

Women ought to know that even right minded men can be lured away by enough of the right temptation...

Best defense: watch your mate carefully and their choice of friends even more so. Stop any questionable behavior you spot ASAP or...face the potential consequences...
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Is clingy the new relationship thing?
Posted: 8/22/2007 5:07:58 PM
Posted By: cuteindallas on 8/5/2007 8:08:49 PM
Subject: Is clingy the new relationship thing?
Message: So I started seeing this guy we have went out a couple of times. He seemed like a nice guy at first but now it seems like he wants to hang out everyday and always has to be touching me. It's not that I don't like him but I just met the guy. I fell like I'm married to him or something. Ok so an example of how "crazy" he is the other night I went to my girlfriends house we had a few drinks talked about things going on and watched a movie, it was late so I just stayed over. While I was there he texted me and called me a couple of times I just ignore my phone, cause i was busy. The next day he texts me asking what I was doing the night before. He asked where I was at, who I was with, were they male or female, where I slept, what we did. I was really taken back by all this telling him that I thought it was none of his business who I was with or what I did. When did being a pyscho/stalker become the new thing? Is it just me or is this guy really crazy? I haven't really talked to him since then just cause that really scared me. I don't really know how to tell him I think your crazy please stop calling me. If anyone has any suggestions I'm open to them.


Some of this has undoubtedly been said...

It is NOT a self esteem thing. It is a happiness thing, and when the chemicals are surging strongly enough you don't want the good feelings to stop...

Clingy is what happens when you get TOO in love with someone. It has warning signs *but* some of what you said about him asking about males being there is a valid boy friend concern too.

Clingy is a relationship killer though...so....when spotted, sit your mate down and have a chat about it.

They need a hobby or 5.
When the feelings get that strong, they need to go workout or focus on detail oriented tasks.
They need to be occupied with things other than you.

All these things distract the heart (and the chemicals) and let you both get on with more important things.

It is curable and recognizable if spotted before you put up a post like this, because I'm betting you're already about to dump him.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
When it's over...
Posted: 8/22/2007 5:03:55 PM

Posted By: depeche gurl on 8/21/2007 359 PM
Subject: When it's over...
Message:Assuming there was nothing blatantly wrong in your relationship and there were no valid reasons to think it would end... if you were the one that was broken up with, were you completely blindsided or was there an inner voice that was trying to warn you ahead of time? If you did have that gut instinct, did you listen to it or choose to ignore it? And, if you had that same voice inside your head about a current or future relationship, how would you handle it?


That inner voice as you describe it is your brain trying to re-engage itself. When we're in love the heart wants nothing more than to continue to enjoy and be happy...unfortunately the heart's vision can be extremely near-sided...and you happily shut down your brain and listen to your heart.

The problem being...you miss stuff. Important stuff.

Ya, I was blindsided by now ex of 2 years, but my case was far from typical and I can never see myself in that circumstance again. Not in a current relationship, doesn't apply...future relationship...I wouldn't dare be that in love again.

Hold lightly cause you never know what the hell is waiting 2 steps down the road...and never forget to keep some heart for yourself...
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Normal for a man to get aroused by a woman other than girlfriend/wife?
Posted: 8/5/2007 3:09:41 PM

Posted By: ladydallas on 6/2/2007 1118 PM
Subject: Normal for a man to get aroused by a woman other than girlfriend/wife?
Message: I think i know the answer to this one but wanted other's opionion on it.
Is it normal for a man to get sexually aroused by a woman other than his girlfriend/wife to the point were he will masturbate while fantasizing about her?
Or do you think that there may be something wrong in the relationship if he becomes aroused by another woman?


Well I saw something so ugly and unexpected on a girl I loved once it actually caused me to stop cold and if I hadn't regained my composure with a little creative visualization, would have ended things right there. So for that reason alone, love em or not, some porn/suggestive material can be a very good thing for a man to have in mind when dating the sub par. Even if ya love em. Especially then.
 Texican940
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Not exactly their face!!!!!!!
Posted: 8/5/2007 1:58:54 PM
Ya and people can be taken by liars and you don't really KNOW till you're in the situation and after having to deal with that I don't have a high tolerance for liars on these sites.
 
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