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 Author Thread: Woman and Drama
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Woman and Drama
Posted: 11/20/2009 6:20:37 PM
I work in law enforcement. Men are just as dramatic and gossipy as women. They might express it differently, but it is there. 100%.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Tell him how I feel or shut my pie hole?
Posted: 11/11/2009 7:11:24 PM
I agree with the guy who said shut your piehole because it is your ego talking. If the only reason you want him is because he has said no, then it is completely your ego. If you ever get what you want, you will end up quickly discarding him and any friendship you two have.

Frankly, it is pretty immature. I'd spend my time figuring out why I needed to be wanted.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Housing tax credit costing more than it help.
Posted: 11/9/2009 6:32:59 PM
I just bought my house in July. I can tell you the only things on the Socal market are foreclosures and short-sales, many of which are in poor condition. I would like to see the numbers for certain regions to see the impact.

Also, the math doesn't "work" out in many things we are taxed for. The whole tax credit was to get people into the market earlier or push them over the edge into buying to help boost up the home sales. According to the real estate numbers in the last month, it did have an effect as the phase out date neared, the sales dropped. Whether you agree with it or not, it is a bit more complex than deadbeats sucking on the government teat.

Also, the loans for FHA have tightened up to the point where even the banks are getting hesitant to sell on FHA loans. Mine is an FHA, and I am far from a deadbeat. Now these people taking out multiple loans? I seriously question their sanity. Chances are they do have poor credit and cannot qualify for an FHA or traditional loan.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 118 (view)
 
A little overweight, very curvey, ....and I hear this.
Posted: 11/8/2009 8:17:25 PM
There is a difference between having preferences and being a jerk. There is also a difference between taking the sting of rejection and moving on and being totally spineless and self-hating as well.

This is a case where both have managed to meet each other.

If you don't like the way someone looks, smells, walks, talks, you move on. You don't hand them a list of things they need to change to meet your "standards." That is just rude and downright mean. Who is to say your standards mean anything? Only you. That list might have a lasting impact on someone who is otherwise perfect for someone else--just not you. This guy was being a jerk. He was playing games and getting off on having someone want to please him so badly.

The OP is...I cannot make up my mind whether or not she is just attention whoring or really, truly hates herself so much she would bother with thinking twice about such a turd of a man.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Racism in Dating
Posted: 1/4/2009 11:00:13 PM


That's the one thing people on POF seem to omit...it's their ethnic preferences in dating...it is such a big deal to many people...as much as we like to "pretend" that it isn't, ...we have a right to choose who we date, or not date, but if you don't specify those you absolutely prefer NOT to contact you, then how would one know?... be man or woman enough to say so...and anyone that thinks racism is "dead" in America, is so , so sadly mistaken...yes we have come along way...but a long way is still ahead...


Agreed. POF should add ethnicity/race preferences like other sites. That way, you do not have to deal with anyone who is a closed-minded bigot when all you want is to try to open a line of communication.

I'm so sorry this has happened to the OP. What a bunch of crappy people.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
I Just Took Personality Test...
Posted: 1/4/2009 10:42:52 PM
I'm an INTJ/INSJ switch on the tests (I feel I am really an INTJ though.)

So, if you think you have it bad, try the maximum oddity INTJ.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 138 (view)
 
3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/19/2008 10:13:46 PM
The 3rd/5th date rule is for people who want sex. If they don't get sex within that specified time, then they know the person is looking for something more than sex and they do not continue to waste their time getting involved. They move on to the next one to bang, then the next, etc.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Does age & gravity affect a man's scrotum?
Posted: 8/12/2008 9:36:02 PM
Google Cisco Adler and then you tell me....

I mean, my god, and he isn't some old man.

Lulz.

Messages this short? Jesus, do we have to write dissertation now or what? Some threads don't require 500 word responses...
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Must be college educated?
Posted: 8/11/2008 8:03:10 PM
It is no more shallow to want someone with a degree and a decent job than it is to say you want someone "attractive."

In fact, I'd say it is less so because the said person is placing a value on stability and the ability to see things through. In order to get a degree, a person must spend 4 years of study and work in order to get that paper. While it may not mean much to some, for others it says that the said person took the time and made the effort to educate themselves in order to have a broad basis of knowledge and more simply, to advance their career goals. A degree and a stable job tells a prospective partner that the said person cares about enhancing themselves and providing a stable future. Plus, there is the fact that you might have shared interests if you have a similar educational background.

So no, it's not anymore shallow to require a degree than it is to require a "hot bod" or "attractiveness" or "good height" all of which are things that say nothing about the personality of the person or how they are going to be as a partner.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 80 (view)
 
15 minute meeting
Posted: 8/3/2008 6:31:44 PM
Well, I suppose the 15 minute coffee meet-up is better than the, "let me know what you're wearing and stand on the corner, I'll come by" meet-up.

The 15 minute meetup is nothing more than a way for people to gauge whether or not they are totally grossed out by you or if you are completely nuts. It works the same for you--you can easily say, "ok I'm done, have a nice life" and be gone.

Yes, people have a tendency to form rash judgements but then again, the whole online dating thing is nothing more than a large supermarket of potential partners. People want to pick the "best" according to a list but forget that the list should be thrown into the trash the minute you find someone you click with, which is why so many people completely fail.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 55 (view)
 
love vs. in love REALLY need a guys opinion on this case.
Posted: 7/31/2008 11:13:18 PM
In love and love are the same. If you are in love with them, you love them. Some people cannot differentiate between lust and attraction and love, so they come up with cutesy ways to get around it. I feel very sorry for you if there is a difference.

And please do not assume things about my experience. If someone tells you they love you but are not in love with you, it basically means they do not love you and are willing to stick around as long as there is some benefit to themselves. Quit kidding yourself that is has any other deeper meaning than that.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 38 (view)
 
love vs. in love REALLY need a guys opinion on this case.
Posted: 7/28/2008 8:36:23 PM
"in love" and "love" are the same things and anyone trying to tell you differently is just trying to pull your leg, have his cake and eat it too.

I also think you are old enough to know better than this. I also think you can do better than this. Why are you wasting your time with this man?
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 159 (view)
 
gold diggers in orange county/south california!! any good ones left??
Posted: 7/28/2008 8:33:01 PM
Sorry, but 9 times out of 10, it's the truth. Women who are hot, know they are hot, and have higher expectations and demands of men because they know they can get it. It's supply and demand. As long as men put a high demand on looks, women who have them are going to make similar demands of a man's wallet.

How many times have I read on these boards men describing a "quality" woman as one with good looks and not with atributes that would actually make them a quality person (ie morals, honor, loyalty, etc.) How many times have I seen men complain that they spend money on dinner and "she wasn't even/all that hot." Men dug their own holes and kind of have to deal with getting out now.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 157 (view)
 
gold diggers in orange county/south california!! any good ones left??
Posted: 7/27/2008 1:55:04 PM
Men who complain about golddiggers are usually men who want hot chicks but can't afford them.

Sorry guys, make more money and maybe you can get a "higher quality" woman as you guys like to say.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Gender-based condiments?
Posted: 7/24/2008 9:33:33 PM
I have:

2 kinds of mustard
1 jar of relish
1 jar of saurkraut
1 bottle of red hot
1 bottle of shiriachi (chili sauce)
various Asian soy blends
1 bottle of worsteshire
2 jars of mayo: one light and one wasabi flavored

uh...and much more.

I don't think you can genderize condiments. I think the most you can tell is whether or not someone likes to cook or eat. :)
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Is it still polite to...
Posted: 7/13/2008 3:32:53 PM
A first date, yes!

A first meeting, meet-up, coffee date, no!

The first offline meet-up is a no expectations kind of thing. If you show up showing that you are invested (flowers, etc) she is going to run fast because there is basis for such an investment. But if you meet up, like each other and set up a real first date, then the flowers should be appreciated. If they aren't, that's a fish to throw back in the sea.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
You know, that is totally unfair!
Posted: 7/12/2008 11:47:48 PM
Please don't say "I'm into fitness." Believe it or not, there are lots of us fat cow whales that do enjoy fitness activities and we do work out regularly. We just are fat.

So just say, "no BBW" or "no one over X weight." The we know exactly where you stand. (Obvious dealbreaker for me even if I was thin.)

Of course, my favorites include the men who do have all the code language for "NO FAT CHIX!!!LULZ!!!!!" and send emails upon emails until you finally answer, "uhm, did you not notice I am FAT!!!!LULZ!!!!" Then they either go away or tell you some BS about oh you're not too bad. No thanks bud. You made your bed, sleep in it.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Online dating etiquette? When to meet...
Posted: 6/16/2008 8:26:20 PM
2 weeks. If you don't meet within then, you're never going to meet.

Just send a few emails, ask to meet for coffee someplace near her, if she says yes, then meet for 15-20 minutes max and go home. Then send her a nice email or call if you liked her.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 154 (view)
 
Short Vs Fat comments. Why does one seem less offensive?
Posted: 6/11/2008 8:24:04 PM
Short guys are usually picky to a limiting extreme. It is kind of a protectional loop. No one meets their standards so they never have to be rejected, but then they never get dates because no one meets their standards so then they complain and blame it on their shortness.

I'm sure there are many short guys who this does not apply to but it has been my personal experience.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Ladies, is a man with morals important to you?
Posted: 6/11/2008 8:21:13 PM
I think the OPs real question or topic is:

"Is a man with my morals attractive to women?"

He needs to be more specific about his morals too. Who is going to say its ok to steal, lie or cheat? Like someone mentioned before, the people who think that is ok certainly aren't going to admit in public.

Maybe if you were more specific like:

"I don't believe in sex until the relationship is monogamous"

or

"I don't believe in excessive vanity or material consumption"

Then someone has something to talk about. Or at least argue about ;)
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Single men still living with parents
Posted: 6/10/2008 7:37:10 AM
What part of "in my experience" is hard to understand? That has been my experience. My experience has been with men. In my experience men who live at home past the age of 25 are generally emotionally stunted because they have never had to do for themselves. Mom cooks, cleans, etc for them, wakes them up in the morning, essentially does everything for them. Seriously, do you think this is an OK scenario? I don't. I don't think it is ok to have your parents do everything for you. If you are 30 years old and haven't figured out how to use a washing machine, you are severely limited in more ways than one.

I put myself through school and have lived on my own since 21. I feel at some point, you have to become an adult, move out, and be responsible for your own bills, rent, etc. It is part of becoming a responsible, contributing member of society.

Maybe it isn't the financially best option but many things in life aren't. I also think it is a parent's responsibility to raise an adult who can function within society--not make sure they "find themselves" or go through 15 years of schooling. This idea it is OK to mooch off of mom and dad because it allows yourself to be "self-fufilled" and have better finances is indicative of the selfish, me-first society we live in.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Single men still living with parents
Posted: 6/9/2008 5:38:41 PM
I would never, ever, think of burdening my parents my moving back in with them. They have done their job of raising a child. Now it is time for me to be the grown up that I am and take care of business, which means working to put a roof over my head.

The only exception would be if there were a serious or severe downturn in my life where it would be a choice between homelessness or living at home. If I had kids, then that would be a consideration. Moving back home because rent is too expensive or you want to "find yourself" and quit your job is just BS, IMO.

In my experience, people who live at home for an extended period of time, without ever living on their own, are generally very immature and incapable of caring for themselves or being in a stable relationship. When you have a grown man or woman living at home and having mommy cook, clean, iron, do their laundry, make their beds, there is something wrong. Very wrong. And there are a lot of 25-30+ year olds out there doing just that...and they aren't in medical school or anything close to it.

*Also, if you own the home, then your parents live with you not the other way around. I completely and totally respect people who live with extended family or are caretakers to their older parents. That is totally different than having mommy and daddy do for you. You are now doing for them.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 43 (view)
 
What kind of attitude towards life is attractive?
Posted: 6/7/2008 10:18:53 PM
N/m pointless.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 146 (view)
 
Short Vs Fat comments. Why does one seem less offensive?
Posted: 6/7/2008 4:47:59 PM
I am short and fat.

Someone calling me short is a descriptive term. It isn't loaded. Now, that may be the case because I am female but when people call me lil shorty or something of that nature it isn't offensive. If I see you, OP, and I say, "oh that short guy over there" I am simply giving someone an easy to find descriptor of you. I am not saying, "that short guy over there who is a big loser because he is so short." I don't know of anyone who would get that out of the first sentence. I've called other short guys fellow hobbits as a joke and they haven't gone all ballistic because its kind of an inside joke.

Now, I am one of the rare few who doesn't think fat is a bad word either. However, the way people say it, well, it is often meant in derogatory fashion. So when someone says "that fat chick" they aren't just saying fat chick, they are saying fat chick in a manner that displays disgust or repulsion. There is the difference. Look at all the derogatory and nasty things said about fat people here. People are quite open about their fat hate.

So no, I don't think short people get made fun of more than fat people. Short men might get some ribbing, but I have really never seen it personally. I have however seen people say and do some horribly cruel things to fat people.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 96 (view)
 
Why Lie!?
Posted: 5/9/2008 10:22:19 PM
Why are chunky guys, short guys, or highly mediorce guys the ones who are the most worried about whether or not their date is fat or hot?

I don't know. I guess my opinion is that when someone shows up radically different than their photo, yes it is a huge problem because they are not happy with themselves or are complete liars. Either way, it is a self-esteem black hole you don't want to get sucked into.

But if a guy says he is 5'10 and he is really 5'8", for me those two inches aren't really an issue. It might be an issue to a woman who is 5'8" but for me, I probably would never notice. 10lbs, 20lbs difference from the photos? Again, I probably wouldn't notice the difference between a 36 waistband and a 38. Not a big deal either.

People will put things to circumvent the search criteria. I think you can tell when someone is really fat by their photos. So unless the photos are really old or fake, I have a feeling some people are just making a fantasy image in their head, putting their eggs in one basket and then ending up disappointed when someone doesn't measure up. If it is really that super important to you, then get full body pictures or a webcam session.

Or better yet, meet the person in person with NO expectations and maybe if it isn't a romantic click you might meet friend will help you widen your social circle so that you can meet the right one.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Best license plate car combos...
Posted: 5/9/2008 10:07:27 PM
I'm too stupid to get some of these: SKMNDMN? pinklytaurus?

Maybe put the translation? I am horrible at these things!

And my message is too short.

And my message is too short.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Keeping up with Smartypants
Posted: 5/6/2008 5:53:52 PM
4 years of English, math and science should be required.

Kids are no longer capable of solving simple arithmetic problems or constructing a basic sentence. What's worse is that they think Jesus had a pet raptor.

The rest of the stuff, while worthwhile, should come secondary to the basics of *any* educational system. We have serious brain drain in this country because our students aren't given the proper foundations in math and science.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
what is too kinky for most women?
Posted: 5/4/2008 5:14:09 PM
OP, it sounds to me like you have a fairly typical domination fantasy. You wish to be dominated by a woman. I would suggest finding a dating site that caters to that need because most people here aren't going to go for it. Do a google search and you will likely find plenty of women up your alley (pun intended.)

As for the actual mechanics, yes, there is a reason why men, even straight men, like anal stimulation. The prostate is analogous to the g-spot in women and many men find that it is highly arousing. There is nothing gay about it.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Why Lie!?
Posted: 5/4/2008 11:30:57 AM


Its a sad world where fat is average.


Why?

I think it is a sad world when the sole determining factor of worth and attractiveness is clothing size.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Places not to take dates in California
Posted: 4/27/2008 9:11:25 PM
I love the tar pits too. The whole area is interesting actually.

Maybe if you asked nerdy girls out they would have appreciated your efforts.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 44 (view)
 
How early do women start there periods.
Posted: 4/26/2008 5:30:11 PM
A young girl does not need a pelvic exam until she is sexually active or there is reason to believe she has been sexually molested/assaulted. Come on now. You're a bit nuts if you would send a 9 year old in for a pelvic.

The guy is asking asking about puberty anyway. My suggestion to the OP would be to get a book and read it since he seems to be asking a lot of "girl issues" type questions lately. This isn't stuff that should be news to anyone who has access to amazon.com or a library card.



Who needs a pelvic exam?
All women benefit from routine gynecologic screening, including a pelvic exam. Most experts agree that the first pelvic exam should take place within three years of the onset of sexual activity or by age 21, whichever comes first. Your doctor can recommend how frequently you need to be examined, but many women have a pelvic exam once a year.


http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/pelvic-exam/WO00129/rss=1
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
When do women start to shave there legs
Posted: 4/19/2008 4:34:41 PM
If she is furry with white peach fuzz, then I wouldn't let her start shaving. 9 years old is pretty young and there is a tendency for parents these days to allow their kids to be initiated into adult activities at younger and younger ages.

If she is menstruating and her hair has gotten darker and thicker ***and*** she is asking to shave, I would probably let her do it. That is just very young and I would probably take her in to the doctor and see if anything is up. I know kids are heavier and starting their periods earlier, but 9 is pretty young. 11-13 is more normal. I would rule anything out first in order to make sure she doesn't end up super short like myself :)
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Best Steak For Women (Secret)
Posted: 4/5/2008 2:43:20 PM
I like all steak except for any kind with a bone in it or that is excessively fatty. Tenderloin cuts are my favorite though. I choose tender over flavorful but I totally understand people who feel the opposite because my second favorite is pan seared sirloin. YUM!

nycritcette OMG I AM DROOLING!
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Women and traveling
Posted: 4/5/2008 2:35:05 PM
PMed you travelingdave.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 123 (view)
 
Does the Marriage Strike worry you?
Posted: 4/5/2008 2:28:56 PM
Nope. When I meet someone with whom I wish to marry, either we will decide to do so together or I will move on. I would doubt that I would get to that point with someone who has such a completely different life orientation than myself anyway.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Eating Healthier?
Posted: 4/5/2008 12:14:30 AM
I am one of those people that does not believe that healthy equates to low-fat or even worse, non-fat items. I prefer some "lite" dairy options such as sour cream because of taste preferences and I can read the label and determine if it is light because it is made with low fat milk instead of cream or whole milk. Almost everything else is low-fat or non-fat because they have replaced the fat with gelatin, sugar, and artificial flavorings, which I think are far worse than the fat. Fat isn't the enemy, it is necessary in our diets and it is part of what makes food aromatic and satisfying.

I have found that when I stopped eating processed, boxed crap and started cooking from scratch using whole foods, my skin looked better, my hair shinier, and I felt a lot better. I relapse into the lazy pattern of prepackaged foods now and again but honestly, I find that when I do the above, I feel much more satified with what I eat and better overall. I also eat less. It can be really hard to cook for one when cooking from scratch, but making smaller batches and divvying up what you make into meals and freezing them also helps.

So my advice is to skip the diet food, the packaged food and start eating whole foods like fresh fruits, vegetables, whole grains, beans, legumes, nuts, lean meats, olive oil, etc and drink plenty of water and you will feel and be much healthier. Grill, bake, or broil instead of fry and you should be fine.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 93 (view)
 
WOMEN MEETING MEN AT A CLUB
Posted: 4/3/2008 5:37:50 PM


Perhaps that's not the best choice, but a person who keeps saying that his choice is not quite working out and yet does not want to consider the alternatives is also not making the best choice.


What's that saying about the definition of insanity??? How's that go???
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 142 (view)
 
The California RE market
Posted: 4/3/2008 5:04:19 PM
I don't think they should be bailed out for the simple fact that the market was over inflated and it is now correcting itself. If people are bailed out, then the market cannot move and the prices won't drop. The prices, at least in SoCal, need to drop significantly before the average working Joe can afford a home using the traditional mortage approach.

I can't afford to buy a house unless it is some cardboard box in ghettotown and I make somewhat decent money.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 86 (view)
 
WOMEN MEETING MEN AT A CLUB
Posted: 4/3/2008 4:52:50 PM
I don't know who wrote this but:


And I will still stick to my theory that I see the most quality (nice looking) women at a club or bar.


If the only criteria for quality in a woman is being nice looking, then yes, please stay at the club and bars. Your priorities are skewed.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 63 (view)
 
WOMEN MEETING MEN AT A CLUB
Posted: 4/2/2008 8:53:01 PM
Clubs aren't set up to meet people in a meaningful way. They are set up to mingle, dance and drink and that is all. Mingle for many people means try and hook up. For others it means getting a few numbers.

I personally do not like clubs for the above reasons. They are way too loud and I cannot hear a thing. The women are all in a competition to be dressed as the biggest hooch. Everyone is drunk. Men are running around trying to hook up before closing time. It isn't fun to me because it seems so desperate. It's just not my thing.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
YOUR POF Rules and Regs
Posted: 4/2/2008 8:40:27 PM
Hey! We live in the same city :)

I do not have any hard rules other than if someone sends me a message in text talk, I delete it.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
PLAYER OR NOT A PLAYER
Posted: 4/1/2008 10:28:31 PM
Well, in all honesty, does anyone expect to meet anyone of lasting relationship material at a club?

It's noisy, it's crowded, and everyone is drunk or halfway there. If you find someone really interesting and they are interested in you, get out of that environment asap and go elsewhere, even if it's the jack n the crack on the corner. At least you can see what they really look like outside of the dark.

I've never understood why people expect more out of an environment designed not to give it.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
colored contact lens. Thoughts?
Posted: 4/1/2008 10:23:36 PM
I think it is an easy and fun way to experiment/play with your appearance without doing anything drastic like cutting all your hair off and dying it an odd color. I don't think most people notice unless you point it out to them.

I have blue eyes and am looking to buy a pair of brown lenses just for fun. I think it would be fun.

It is no more fake and dishonest than any other cosmetic or clothing enhancement.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
PLAYER OR NOT A PLAYER
Posted: 4/1/2008 10:17:32 PM
If you are at a club, a guy gets your number, you split up and he is getting others, then why is this a surprise?

The way I see it is if you are so interested in that guy, right then and there, then say, "hey, let's jam over to Starbucks/whatever and chat where I can hear you." You've shown interest and if he wants to get to know you, he'll come along.

If you're at a club, having drinks and dancing, it's called mingling. You get a bunch of numbers and he gets a bunch of numbers. If he calls and you remember him, great! If he doesn't who cares? He is just a random guy at the club.

How many of you women would get turned off if the guy expected you to not get any more numbers the rest of the night? If he was watching you for that? You would probably say he was a possesive weirdo. Well, you're doing the same thing. Get over your ego and just enjoy yourself. It's a freakin' club!
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 233 (view)
 
Super short women wanting WAY taller guys?
Posted: 4/1/2008 5:15:30 PM
Why are angry people who don't live in California posting here?

Damn, pimp your novel elsewhere b0rg.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Should I consider that I've been dumped?
Posted: 3/29/2008 5:10:20 PM
I think you are very insecure and if you continue on this destructive path of insecurity and bad behavior on your part, he will end up dumping you.

I hope you learned your lesson here and that is to give someone the benefit of the doubt AND to call and let your voice be heard. You spent a lot of time worrying about nothing because you have so little faith in yourself. Maybe it is time to find a professional to talk to and work through your issues.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Californians more judgemental?
Posted: 3/29/2008 12:20:18 AM
No, because McCain will win.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
It's not worth a billion dollars
Posted: 3/28/2008 5:06:42 PM
Wow. You would actually kill someone for money?
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Californians more judgemental?
Posted: 3/27/2008 7:02:38 PM
In general, SoCalifornians are way more superficial than any of the people I have met throughout the states.
 kittybiscuit
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 183 (view)
 
Super short women wanting WAY taller guys?
Posted: 3/24/2008 9:55:47 PM
I've never dated a short guy because short men don't give me the time of day. Anyone over 5'4" is taller than me even in my big shoes. Short men are too busy posturing and trying to find some hot bimbo "worthy" of their time.


Oh well, I'll take my 6 plus footers with all the pride in the world.
 
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