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videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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My profile any good? Posted: 8/7/2009 7:20:55 PM
Mr. Magnificent..... please live up to your name. Your profile is missing you. Why are you magnificent? Who are you? What interests you? Besides giving a shy girl the time of day....(if she is hot and perhaps may shag you, just what is implied, in my opinion). Granted, I am much older than you are. But let me know who I am getting acquainted with. If he has the balls to call himself Mr. Magnificent, then why?......even if he is being funny, let me know. Your picture is nice.

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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A little overweight, very curvey, ....and I hear this. Posted: 8/7/2009 7:08:49 PM
lovingly hold his 'family jewels", sigh, smile, bite your lip,look him deep in the eyes and say "Grow a couple of inches and I'll make love to you---grow a bit of girth too". Give him a sensual smile, lick your lips and walk away.

videogirl

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What would be the most important advice for someone in love? Posted: 6/11/2009 7:40:02 PM
If you were advising a friend, what would you say? If you put the relationship in the perspective of happening to a dear friend, then you will think about consequences more. Best of luck in your relationship!! I hope that you are blissful and fulfilled, even after the lust wears off.

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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would you get mad Posted: 5/18/2009 7:47:25 PM
Bullet dodged.... by both parties.

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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What Women Want: The Measure of a Male Partner Posted: 5/17/2009 2:41:42 PM
Wow! A very comprehensive list you've got..... As the previous poster said, all of the above. But really the main ones are kindness, honesty, intelligence and humor. All of the others on the list are pretty much included in these or are fabulous extras. Sexiness (in my eyes) and silliness are the two most important extras to me.

videogirl

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Is he truly busy or just not that into you? Posted: 5/15/2009 8:24:41 PM
Sounds like you might be way better off if you just move on. Disappointing, but true. If all of the excuses are actually true ones, he will contact you. Most likely, he's just "not that into you". So sorry.....

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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am i to picky Posted: 3/27/2009 8:27:39 PM
Yes! You are t0o picky! You are 22 and think that perfection is attainable. Make sure you don't overlook the "average" girls who may be wonderful for yho while trying to get the "perfect". the cliche may be correct, she may be under your nose and you might miss her because she might know you too well.

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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Have trouble getting girls my age or younger on here. Don't know why Posted: 3/27/2009 8:18:08 PM
HAHAHAHAHAHA! You want a women YOUNGER than you are? Chronologically or mentally?

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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Does being open and honest kill the interest? Posted: 3/12/2009 9:48:31 AM
I have a question, do you only talk about yourself, your book and your crisis of faith? Were the back and forths between you and the women consisting of them asking questions about yourself and you answering them? If so, it's not that you are open and honest that is crushing the relationship, it is disinterest in the other person. The poster who spoke about the political prisoner said something very important.... I paraphrase "he was so joyous and was so interested in everyone else" I have found a great number of people on POF that are monologists looking for an audience.

videogirl

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POF starting the long slow slide to a Pay-only site? Posted: 3/11/2009 5:12:11 PM
Of course it will go to pay-only..... it's pretty inevitable. But then, there will be another free site that will start up and all the fishies will swim over there. But then, we'll all have to put up with the "plentyoffish, yes we are different than the rest of the sites" commercials, starring actors posing as actual users. hee hee......

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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I have a theory about movie interests? Posted: 9/27/2008 9:33:33 AM
Chicago was all right...not fabulous. But I'm waaay out of your teen/early-twenties demographic. I'm more of a classic suspense kind of woman.... hitchcock movies.

videogirl

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Paul Newman Dead At Age 83 Posted: 9/27/2008 9:29:35 AM
Awwww..... I'm so sad. He was gorgeous, talented and classy. He and his wife stayed married and didn't have to flaunt that fact. If only the ya-yas of today's celebrities could have taken lessons.

videogirl

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First Date Pet Peeves Posted: 9/7/2008 8:35:37 PM
KevinLovett -- what is boom-hocking? Or do I want to know?

videogirl

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Sex at 70 Posted: 8/30/2008 7:27:24 PM
Umm...... find a willing younger man? Cougars are now cool.... At least, I hope so.

videogirl

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what did my ex-fuck buddy want?? Posted: 8/30/2008 7:12:23 PM
oh, and mr happy pants, you cannot be that age!

videogirl

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what did my ex-fuck buddy want?? Posted: 8/30/2008 7:11:27 PM
Oh, you know what he wanted..... to see if he could get it! ego trip, maybe. or maybe just being a "have cake and want more" kind of guy. Who knows. Do you feel lucky that he's not your "boyfriend"?

videogirl

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I'm really just not interested.. Posted: 6/8/2008 8:18:19 PM
I've perfected the art of looking queasy when they start talking about all the pregnancy related things...... eeeeesh...... But hey, start looking forward to all the funny poopy stories when the baby is born..... it's just swell.....the stories don't stop at the birth. ....... yay. Another thing to do is to always carry a paper or folder in your hand and have a well-timed meeting or appointment to go to...

videogirl

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what do you think? Posted: 6/3/2008 4:22:14 PM
sorry, but he's playing games. I think he's probably married or involved. Move along........ there are better men out there.

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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What women really want? Posted: 4/3/2008 6:43:56 PM
Oooh, I hope I wasn't too mean... I didn't mean to be...... it's just how I see it.

videogirl

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What women really want? Posted: 4/3/2008 6:40:23 PM
Hmmmm....... somehow your logic doesn't add up. (And if it helps, neither does the woman's) You made a date. Your ex had a change of plans, okay. This happens a lot. But you broke your MADE plans. You didn't say how old your daughter is, but you DID break a commitment so your daughter didn't need a BABYSITTER. Why? She wasn't sick, was she? Kids have babysitters all the time, especially when the parents aren't together anymore. To the woman it was "Oooooh, I get a chance to be with my daughter, I'll break my date." - why would it ever be different in the future....? And this was the FIRST date???? hmmmmm...... think about it. When a woman dates a man with children it is a given that she will always come second to the children -- it's just a question of how far behind she is..... you have made it very clear with your actions. But the woman was wrong too. You didn't choose your ex. You chose your daughter, well, you chose to be your daughter's babysitter. You are not ready to date....... focus on your daughter until you are.

videogirl

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She is married, I am married, what do I do? Posted: 3/31/2008 6:50:36 PM
Please, don't act on any of your impulses......! You are MARRIED. Plus, dear god, the havoc it would wreck at work...... You are going through a rough patch in your relationship, either an obvious one or in your heart. Please back away from your office "wife" and take a look at what you are wanting with her -- besides the mind blowing sex - what is missing in your marriage that you are searching for it elsewhere. Just novelty? Do you have kids and your wife is too tired for mind-blowing sex or even to talk with you? I don't know..... it could be a huge bunch of things. I don't know your situation. But it seems as if this woman stands for things you want, along with the chance to have mind blowing sex with a new person. Did you ever have that with your wife? How can you get it back? Sometimes it IS the LITTLE intimacies that go away, and with it the big intimacies. The joking, the laughing, the non-sexual touching. On the other hand, this may be a sign that you and your wife need to really get down to whether you all should be together...... if you are thinking of cheating, there is definitely a reason. Good luck.

videogirl

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Why say only friends then have sex? Posted: 3/26/2008 5:42:27 PM
The women just wanted to get laid...... they were saying "Hey, yeah, I'd love to sleep with you, but I don't really want to deal with any of your real life .... so thanks! It was fun! Bye!"

videogirl

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Just an Idea Posted: 3/23/2008 6:08:52 PM
Hmm... I have nothing against chatting with someone from another country. I think it would be a whole lot of fun. The whole "left his wife and now lives in the states" thing makes me feel weird about it. hmmm......

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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instant messeges Posted: 12/15/2007 10:37:04 AM
I used to like the IM until I realized that most of time what happened was someone wanted me to talk dirty with them or to watch their cam...... so I turned mine off.

videogirl

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Has anyone been to Russia ? Posted: 12/2/2007 9:17:52 PM
Russia is great! But I went on a tour..... english-speaking guides were very necessary. Moscow was nice, interesting , so wonderful to see it after all of the years of it not being a place I could go. The Moscow circus was fabulous! Very creative and cirque du soleil - ish, plus animal acts. If you like art or history at all, even a little bit, you MUST go to St. Petersburg and the Hermitage. UNBELIEVABLE. Russian and world history takes on a whole new meaning when you see it. I know I only saw bits and pieces, but I gained a whole new appreciation for the country and its people. It is Vast and amazing. Great vodka, Too :-)

videogirl

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Tempenduraa Rice Posted: 12/1/2007 1:54:57 PM
You know when I clicked on this post, I thought I was going to read a rant about Condoleeza Rice..... Surprise!

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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How to read her Posted: 10/30/2007 6:32:56 PM
Ten -- I'm so sorry that you are in this mess... it really sucks. I know. Okay..... here is the tough love for ya..... Where are YOU in this story? What is in it for you? What do YOU want? On what terms do YOU want a relationship with her? When I divorced, I learned a ton about myself, things that I didn't know, some things that I didn't want to know about myself, mainly that I let other people control my actions in life. I was always wondering how to make someone act the way I wanted them to. What I needed to know was that I can only affect my own actions, not someone else's. Now what does this have to do with your situation? Don't really know. But sit yourself down and say to yourself...."What do you want to do with your life? " If you want to have your ex decide what happens, great! That's a decision you have made for yourself! Own it!! If you don't, decide what will make you happy and do it. It's TORTURE-ally (is that a word??) hard to do, but you do it for yourself! And each time you make that decision, it gets easier. It's still not easy. But I have become more a person, more sympathetic and more whole by making decisions based on my guidelines, not someone elses. I hope that helps. You are truly in a bad place, but it will get better >

videogirl

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Where are all the good men at??? Posted: 10/15/2007 4:53:59 PM
Aaaaaah...... the question of the ages.......

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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The future of relationships... Posted: 8/18/2007 3:00:19 PM
If they are teenagers, they are still being roped in by the Cinderella story and all of the trappings.... I wouldn't worry too much. Teenage girls may be talking and thinking about rings and stuff, but go ahead and let them.... They have plenty of time to worry about pregnancy, disease, infidelity, bills, marriage, children.... Probably if you overheard teenage Boys talking, you'd be worried about relationships too..... They probably would just be talking about boobs, butts and getting laid (or how to get laid). Teenage years are tough.

videogirl

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Whats The Difference ? Posted: 8/12/2007 7:19:30 AM
Wow! 44 Boz. Thank you for succinctly putting the complex law......... Well done! It's so emotional and difficult, this subject. OT: That show is VERY interesting all around (I'm biased, I know the producer and editor) That young guy who went to prison ends up the cellmate of a child molester. He isn't told of the "cellie's" crime.

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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Whats with women that invite their dogs into the bedroom to sleep? Posted: 8/7/2007 4:47:36 PM
ohhhh, tossed salad..... sigh.....OF COURSE you are allowed to express your opinions here! Just when you accuse people of mental illness and say that they are sad, old, childless women who project they latent motherly instincts onto an animal and you feel sorry for them and are disgusted by them at the same time.... you will be chastised for it. I'd like to express my opinion as well. I would prefer a warm, cozy, furry NON-JUDGEMENTAL bed campanion. Not necessarily a four-legged one..........

videogirl

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If she only had one Condom, a potential relationship could have been saved. Posted: 7/15/2007 7:00:28 PM
hmmmm.... well put, heart bandit!

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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English guy in America? Posted: 7/14/2007 8:57:18 AM
Hey Gord! As far as I know, american girls go weak for an accent ---- so have a blast! But, remember, you have to be nice as well.....

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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Bored with myself and the same old record I keep playing in my mind Posted: 7/14/2007 8:24:03 AM
I think packagedealx3 is right on about this, as well as some of the previous posters...... I, too, was cheated on by my ex-husband.... and it really HURT. I kept trying to call him and speak to him and kept feeling terrible about myself and my situation. Then I was given some great advice: Calling him was like a drug. I would obsess about it, think about it, want it, want it, want it --- then when I did call him, I felt bad about it. Sort of like being addicted. So......... just think about having to wean yourself off of the "drug" of your ex. I know this is not easy because of the children, but perhaps those interactions with him could be strictly "business", no exchange of personal information either way, only children-oriented information. The less you know about him and the other chicky, the better. And the less he knows about your life, the better. He's not part of your life anymore, except when it comes to the kids. Then you can BUILD your life, get out and do something you enjoy, that you maybe gave up when you were married. Perhaps learn to play guitar, take a language, take up ballroom dancing -- something for YOU! You'll rediscover who YOU are, as opposed to who someone's wife was..... Just passing on advice given to me that helped me...... Good luck, there is light at the end of that tunnel, keep going!

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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Help, why is she contacting me after so long? Back to square one. Posted: 7/2/2007 5:30:50 AM
IMO, Rob, she was getting back in touch with you to make sure she still had power over you. For three months, she was feeling almighty and powerful because you were constantly trying to figure something out that she WASN"T ABOUT to tell you. This made her feel like she was sooooo fabulous that you were just begging to have her back. Now, you've done the very best thing ---- let it go and gotten on with life. But the drug of your calling and texting and constantly paying attention to her has been taken away from her. SHE WANTS IT BACK. I'm not saying she wants you back or your relationship back, she just wants the attention and power. Keep going down the road to recovering yourself. You are doing the right thing, keep moving away from the situation!

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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10 Ways to Ruin a First Date Posted: 6/29/2007 5:57:34 AM
..... talk about their children endlessly, complete with pictures. And, as said before, talk bitterly about an ex.......

videogirl

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Does he like me? How can I get over this? Posted: 6/26/2007 6:56:27 PM
Um...... he's married. Your crush will lessen over time, just keep reminding yourself that he is married.

videogirl

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Ladies, are you attracted to a certain ethnicity in a guy over another one Posted: 6/25/2007 7:23:59 AM
I tend to be attracted to white guys too...... no rhyme or reason, just like them......

videogirl

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Dentists love um or loathe um........ Posted: 6/22/2007 5:42:51 AM
I hate them! Not personally, just the idea of them.... and that needle coming towards my mouth --- aaaaaah! I get so wound up that the dentist SUGGESTED that I take valium before sitting in the chair..... It makes all the difference.

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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Why do women want smart, funny guys?? (small rant will be included) Posted: 6/19/2007 10:43:36 AM
Because there is only so much time one can spend in bed..... Seriously, after the intial lust has worn off, a rockin' bod is boring if it isn't attached to a person you can talk with and laugh with.

videogirl

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Rejected by eHarmony!!!! Posted: 6/19/2007 5:14:19 AM
don't worry, that site is pretty terrible..... and too expensive! This one is better!

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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I hate groupies Posted: 6/18/2007 12:08:18 PM
I really like this idea: " "the character of a person is only determined by what one does when nobody is looking...." thanks piano4te!

videogirl

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More than friends? Posted: 5/30/2007 6:13:54 AM
PrettyinPunk -- It sounds like you are being very careful and that is great! As for my $.02 --- be even more careful. And listen to curlygirl's advice about trying to keep your head clear while smitten. Some guys are great friends but terrible boyfriends. They are loyal and honest when they aren't sleeping with you, but once they do, they just can't keep the loyal and honest person they were 'in the mix' for some unknown reason. Yes, this is experience talking and it is heartbreaking. When he returns.... ask him about his comment and then listen to his answer and watch body language -- both could say that he is keeping you as backup girl or could say that he is really interested. good luck, you are in a difficult position.

videogirl

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I can't say yes to sex because......... Posted: 5/29/2007 7:55:06 AM
Hey Bourbon.... come over to the US.... American girls go weak in the knees for a cute guy with a british accent. You'll be all worn out after a week.

videogirl

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Is your Persona the same at work as outside of it ??? Posted: 5/28/2007 9:17:23 AM
I am very different from my work persona! It's really quite strange. At work, I'm kind of strict and a bit of a "hard ass", but in real life I'm a bit of timid mouse..... weird. Also, at work, I'm a bit of a neat freak ---- at home, not so much.... hahahha

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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What happened? Posted: 5/25/2007 7:05:06 AM
I'm sorry to say this Christoph -- but she was probably not interested but couldn't find a way to not give you her number without being rude. Chalk this one up to experience and move on, my friend......

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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arrogant men Posted: 5/24/2007 9:13:21 AM
Sorry, Mattie, you've experienced the DC scene in all it's gory.... I mean glory... There seems to be a high proportion of arrogant twits down near the Capitol. And no, I'm not just talking about the politicians! DC is a tough town, but there ARE good people here. Try staying away from downtown a bit. Don't give up hope... and definitely steer clear of THAT guy and his cronies. Bleah.:

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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Who's job would you like to have Posted: 5/23/2007 12:14:24 PM
My dream job would be to be the voice of some of the major commercials.... you know, like Visa, GM, Mercedes.... the one who's voice you hear. I could work from home but be a "hollywood" person, my voice would be famous but I wouldn't have to put up with paparazzi or interference in my life..... AND I wouldn't have to get out of my jammies to work if I didn't want to!!!

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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Would you revisit something later? Posted: 5/10/2007 11:56:00 AM
acqua: I think you are right to let it stay in her court. Who knows? She may just be sorting out her feelings and will get back in touch in time. I would not put the rest of my life on hold for her though..... get out and enjoy yourself! Perhaps you may meet someone else whom you really click with!

videogirl

Joined: 2/12/2007

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Pet Peevs that drove you crazy about your last partner,......... Posted: 5/10/2007 7:03:11 AM
If only you lived closer, crashtest..... A man who loves to iron...sigh

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