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sandiblusher

Joined: 2/15/2007

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Do men want a woman who has her opinions? Posted: 7/5/2008 2:13:15 AM
Ok I know I will give my opinion but.....I have learned this...there is a right way to do that and def. a WRONG WAY to give your opinion. I think men like to hear the ladies opinions but not to over-bearing for them in which I can be sometimes but....I AM LEARNING! And if you hurt their feelings by doing so, it probably isn't cool that you two are together either because you can't go the rest of your life and "hold it in" or one day all the years of that will come out at one time. OUCH watch out. GIve your opinion jus do it gently and let HIM always feel that he is still right. Its called respecting and horning your man... Thats MY OPINION!!

sandiblusher

Joined: 2/15/2007

Msg: 23 (view)

How do you know if too much is too much Posted: 6/15/2008 1:48:18 PM
I did NOT have sex w/ him......Sorry Wasn't im MY master gameplan!!!

sandiblusher

Joined: 2/15/2007

Msg: 22 (view)

How do you know if too much is too much Posted: 6/15/2008 1:45:21 PM
Ok Sir, Zentimes He invited me to HIS house for dinner 2 times and called and texted me everyday, before I even did anything. Then after the 2nd dinner, I did put the card in his box. Of course, I have not been in touch w/ him since then about 5 months and moved on, but I am really just a caring person! If my son (according to your great observation in my profile of my pictures) yes, that is my son, received a card from someone in the mailbox, I don't know how HE WOULD REACT..... But as someone said. Live and Learn. Don't think he was married, I think HE THINKS he was ready for a committment but....not really, he now is texting me and stuff and I'm just not playing games. And yes, I did write a BOOK in my profile, because what I am and want is what I wrote. THanks to all of you for your opinions. I am sure I have many more questions, like why do people put pictures up that are really OLD ones and say they are recent...Don't get it. That's why I put the one of me up that said on there NOT A RECENT PIC...lol Thanks everyone

sandiblusher

Joined: 2/15/2007

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How do you know if too much is too much Posted: 6/12/2008 7:59:44 PM
I see now, KY...I dated a guy from Louisville one time..Good guys there.

sandiblusher

Joined: 2/15/2007

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How do you know if too much is too much Posted: 6/12/2008 7:58:40 PM
Do you think it was because I took the card to his house and left it in the mailbox. Oh well, move to the next one.......Where do you live? I don't know yet how to look at the profiles and all this stuff.

sandiblusher

Joined: 2/15/2007

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How would you feel if this happened to you? Posted: 6/12/2008 7:52:22 PM
OMG how I have to comment on this! I would be pissed! Sorry, I really didn't read everyone elses posts but listen ladies come on especially if its your first or second even 5th date and she went to all that trouble like we all do, to look good for him, he just wasn't getting it. I know men, that is the first thing they have said to me, wow, you look great and love your shoes even asked where did you get them. No he wasn't "gay" he really was a detailed man. BUT....some men we have to remember are not very detailed...Woman are all details...we tell them when they ask us "how was your day" we say things like, well, I got up at 7:00 brushed my teeth, took a shower, went to work, talked to everyone blah blah the whole day in detail. Men on the other hand (some of them not all) are bottom line people.....They just want the bottom line answers, so maybe for that guy he really didn't care about your shopping, shoes or how good you looked and who knows maybe he was nervous. But I would have been upset! I know for me, (maybe it's a self consciene thing) but I never go anywhere without trying to look my best because you just never know. But....when it comes to going out on a date, I try even harder to look my best and when I buy a new pair of shoes even if they were old ones I would like him to say something about something. MY OPINION ONLY! :) hope that helps... Sandi

sandiblusher

Joined: 2/15/2007

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How do you know if too much is too much Posted: 6/12/2008 7:40:02 PM
Ok, I have a question for ANYONE! I am a lady that when I like a gentleman and I feel in return he is interested in me, I let him know by things such as, sending a card, texting him during the day to say "I'm thinking about you", maybe buying him a gift (something small at first) anyway those types of things. Recently, a guy and I went out about 5 - 6 times in which of those dates things were pretty intense! No we did not sleep together but it was close. He invited me to his house and cooked a meal for me, had the fire going (ok, yea in Florida, but it was the mood thing), had some wine and it was a great night. I left! The next day, I happened to be in a card shop NOT shopping for him but for my parents anniversary, while there I found a card that just simply said this "thank you" on the front and inside was something like, for just being you....OK, here is the question: I lived at the time about 1/2 mile from his house, on my way home (not that I didn't want to spend the money on a stamp), I stopped and put the card inside his mailbox at his house!!! About 3 hours later I received a text from him, that I was crazy, and I needed to slow down big time and I broke the rules to any relationship. I came home and had an email from him saying about the same thing. He never did say why. But I am assuming it is because I put the card in his mailbox instead of mailing it, or.....beause I gave him a thank you card...Was it wrong for me to do that? My thought process was this, that HE would appreciate the fact I took the time out of my busy day to swing by his house and put the card in his mailbox not thinking that he might think I was "stalking him, or going through his mail", but honestly I did not mean a thing by it other than to go the extra mile. When is too much too much? I love to show the guy I am with that I care and I am thinking about him. It's like foreplay all day long before they get home. HELP PLEASE!!! Because to this day, I still don't know what upset him so much. He now does text me saying hello and I am nice back and say hello but never have brought that subect up. Any thoughts? Sandi - Tampa Florida

sandiblusher

Joined: 2/15/2007

Msg: 906 (view)

Hello for Orlando Posted: 6/12/2008 2:41:57 PM
Hello Dwayne So here's the deal, I moved here 1 year ago, and I go to Orlando weekly because I LOVE IT THERE! Went on the "skycoaster" last weekend, It was great...Just wanted to say hello from Tampa! Sandi

sandiblusher

Joined: 2/15/2007

Msg: 905 (view)

Snipe hunting Posted: 6/12/2008 2:39:16 PM
I went SNIPE HUNTING before! It was great! My 18 year old son took me....but you better be careful because here in Florida you have to make sure you dress for it....It can get very difficult...Its great...try it...

sandiblusher

Joined: 2/15/2007

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OK FROM VERY HOT FLORIDA "TAMPA" Posted: 6/12/2008 2:37:11 PM
Hello, My name is Sandi and I recently moved to TAMPA from Maryland...I am 46 years YOUNG and since living here, other than Dale Maybry WHERE ARE THE MEN? Anyway, I am trying this POF thing. My frineds all tell me it works. Well, if it does, I promise to rent a plane and have it fly across the Superbowl this year and advertise that POF introduced me to "THAT ONE"....But anyway, I am one that loves life and after you read my PROFILE (OR BOOK), I hope to hear from you, my other name on here is Misshappy! I have no clue why there are two (2) of me, but there are...So, men in Tampa, let's see what's out there. Thanks and hope you have a great day!

sandiblusher

Joined: 2/15/2007

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LAKELAND PREVIEW PARTY and BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION Posted: 11/6/2007 3:27:07 PM
Ok this will be my first, but I will be there! Can't wait to meet some new friends here in Florida! Thank you

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