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largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 17 (view)

Expectation of anger Posted: 9/7/2012 5:48:24 PM
I rarely agree with Literate, but my first thought when I read the post was to immediately look at the pic and think, well no shyt Sherlock. If your idea of who you are is someone who points guns at the world, then yes, it's a good profile pic.

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 35 (view)

Look different in person than photos Posted: 9/3/2012 11:18:07 AM
Oh for gods sake who cares who looks better than who. (whom?) OP asked about what she could do. OP get better pics, and for the love of all thats good ignore the rest of this thread! *resists with great willpower the urge to comment on my own appearance

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 110 (view)

Bittersweet excitement.....buying a house w/o someone to share the fun Posted: 8/24/2012 7:34:32 PM
Congratulations organic! I am settling in nicely to my new place... and a new guy in my life also. ;)

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 9 (view)

House sitting for the EX wife/husband....strange??? Posted: 8/22/2012 6:31:05 PM
I don't see anything wrong with it. It is quite possible for people to be divorced and have a civilized relationship- the other person IS after all the parent of their children. I know couples who divorced but had the other stay with them while recuperating from surgery- AND were with another partner at the time. I know families who have Christmas dinner all together. None of those couples were having sex with each other or went back to each other. He's not staying with her, he's taking care of her pets (possibly animals he is familiar with). I don't see how doing her a favour is a red flag.

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 34 (view)

Advice on talking about exclusivity Posted: 8/21/2012 10:45:31 AM
So I don't know, how does this work? If you do have sex and discover there is little physical chemistry, are you only exclusive for a couple of days? Or do you say, if this part of our relationship goes well, I expect we will be exclusive? Surely by having sex it doesn't mean you are exclusive for years? Well if there was little physical chemistry (although I do think I would know that before having sex) then we wouldnt keept seeing each other, rendering the question moot. IOW, while we were seeing the other and sexually involved, there would be no other parties involved.

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 4 (view)

Writing that 1st message. Posted: 8/21/2012 7:56:10 AM
It is called ask a girl. But apparently only the guys felt moved to reply. Anyone can reply.

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 117 (view)

Would you date someone who lives in a tent? Posted: 8/19/2012 10:30:45 AM
Hi Vanelli, haven't seen you here in a while. Always love to read your posts.

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 20 (view)

This is really freaking me out here... :S Posted: 8/19/2012 10:29:09 AM
Thank you for posting about this. I am sure there are many of us who would not know about this type of thing, and are now safer internet dating because of your post. Sorry you had to take flak for it here. It would certainly creep me out, and probably most women. If you were a girl no one would have told you to get over it- interesting eh?

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 81 (view)

Monster Children Posted: 8/18/2012 9:31:12 AM
I was being very descriptive to make a point if 'Adult' conversation offends you, I'm sure there are plenty of Teen sites that would suit you. It is totally inappropriate to refer to a CHILD as any type of whore. This is a child- the only 'adult' conversation that would apply to your comments would be pedophilia. Mature respectful sexually appropriate adults do not sexualize children in any way. And that has nothing to to with 'adult' conversation.

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 107 (view)

The more people I date Posted: 8/15/2012 1:45:16 PM
So all those 'wonderful' men had one attribute the OP liked. Why would you think you could find one man with everything? It is possible that some of the qualities you are looking for are mutually exclusive. That wealthy hard driven executive type isn't going to be available to spend as much time with you as you want. The laid back guy who is so sweet to you isnt going to be pulling in that salary you seem to want. And so on. In the meantime you will drive every man away from you looking for the unattainable. Here's my advice. Figure out what THE most important thing is to you, and the ONE big dealbreaker. Look for that in someone you are attracted to. That's not settling, that's called having priorities.

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 34 (view)

Have that guy and his 'junk' banned? Posted: 8/15/2012 7:30:26 AM
How come I never get penis pics here? If I go on a chat site to chat I get them all the time, but never on POF. Hmmmm.....

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 45 (view)

ignoring texting game Posted: 8/13/2012 11:28:59 AM
It's hard to know how serious things are between OP and her guy. Or how long they have been seeing each other, to know if there is an actual 'pattern'. So I don't feel like I can comment on that. BUT. There have been some posts that suggest the guy is off with a woman and playing games. Just gotta say- any good player will have no problem finding the time and privacy to send a few texts while away with someone else. Texts mean nothing! Quite frankly, it sounds to me like he's an average guy who went off with the guys and forgot to text his gf because he felt no need to, maybe even forgot. That can happen even when someone is crazy in love with you. Stop LOOKING for signs of disrespect. You should be able to know when someone is disrespecting you, and it won't be because the poor guy forgot to send you a text. (And even apologized about it)

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 197 (view)

Plain Janes Better Than The Pretty Ones? Posted: 8/1/2012 12:47:27 PM
Why do we continue this ridiculous discussion of rating women ( and sometimes men) on their perceived rating or rank based on physical attraction.... I`m moving myself into the IDGAF category of woman from now on. It`s a much nicer home than the lower tier most of yàll have me placed, based on body and all that other stuff. And oddly, once in a while a man finds me there and even with the lack of bleached hair, makeup and lipo, finds me wildy attractive. And I likewise.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 33 (view)

Friends with Benefits... Found someone Else Posted: 7/30/2012 9:30:43 PM
I thought thats what I said, 'unless you're cheating on them" I read what Ms Micki wrote to mean if you were having sex with multiple partners but not pretending to be in an exclusive relationship. People who do that should obviously take precautions, but that's really their own business, no one else's.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 22 (view)

Friends with Benefits... Found someone Else Posted: 7/30/2012 1:55:35 PM
As long as you aren't hoping from one bed to another......it's noone's business. It's no ones business what you do- unless you're cheating on someone.

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 18 (view)

Friends with Benefits... Found someone Else Posted: 7/30/2012 10:06:25 AM
I dont know why you would feel guilty about anything you did before you met someone. My personal position with a guy- and I tell him- is what he does until we have sex is his business. If we are going to be sexually involved, at that point I want exclusivity, and an understanding that we have some commitment towards each other. If we are dating and he goes out and gets laid, its none of my business. Not unless we become sexually involved.

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 20 (view)

Asking to meet someone Posted: 7/30/2012 10:01:45 AM
SO I was talking to this guy for about a week, and he seemed interested but never said anything about meeting. So jokingly, I said (typed) you know, people actually meet here! He instantly came back with- do you want to meet? Seems he thought perhaps I just wanted to chat, and he didn't want to be pushy. It's not that easy for guys to always have to be the instigators. Once I gave him the signal, he was full steam ahead. Just had date 3...... :) (Go ahead and ask, so what if he says no then move on and don't waste your time chatting)

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 5 (view)

Looking for my best friend and whatnot Posted: 7/29/2012 8:57:01 PM
Why wouldn't a woman want a good man? Should she want a bad one? even if she did want a bad one she isn't most likely going to advertise for one. I do not understand why this is such a difficult concept for you.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 5 (view)

dating Posted: 7/29/2012 8:55:34 PM
We figure out why we are here 34 weeks after registering. We have to be on a date which requires too much perfection because those are the POF rules. Section 27 subsection iv Hope this helped.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

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Looking for my best friend and whatnot Posted: 7/29/2012 8:53:27 PM
I gather you would like to meet a woman who is more creative, or thinks a bit differently than most of the women whose profiles you are reading. Not sure what age range you are looking at and if that might be one reason. What's available is what's out there. Unless you want to write them and tell them ;) Maybe looking in real life might produce more compatible partners????

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 80 (view)

Clip in extensions on middle aged women? Posted: 7/28/2012 2:33:44 PM
However, I like to please me, I feel like a feminine, romantic, sexy woman w/ longer hair. This. Its when we feel sexy that men also find us sexy. Not all men, of course not. But more men will find a woman sexy who feels sexy. Of course there has to be a basic level of attraction. But it is based on so many things- well for people of depth it is. So you go right ahead and do whatever you want to do Angel. :) Enjoy the extensions. I have some, have only used them a couple of times- I'm just not good enough with doing hair stuff. Fun tho.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 15 (view)

Cancelling a first meet Posted: 7/25/2012 8:25:44 PM
After having guys cancel last minute (never had a no show) I am torn in my answer, because what if she turned down the tickets, and then HE didnt show, or cancelled? I do believe in honouring commitments to meet. Not sure what I would do. Offering to take him to dinner sounds good.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 24 (view)

Am I A Fool? Posted: 7/24/2012 8:25:57 PM
You got some advice. Ignore what you don't feel applies or is rude. Why let a bunch of strangers ruin your day. You came here to get a variety of opinions, you got them.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 19 (view)

Am I A Fool? Posted: 7/24/2012 2:39:46 PM
You're feeling a void right now- all those texts!! Get busy, find something new to consume you- something positive for yourself. You will be OK.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 68 (view)

Trying to not date someone based on looks... Posted: 7/24/2012 10:06:01 AM
^^^^^^^^^^ I wish there was a like button here

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 22 (view)

what does this mean? Posted: 7/22/2012 9:46:18 PM
Im guessing he wants to take you to Dunkin Doughnuts on his bike. Sort of a coffee date?

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 9 (view)

he says he wants more, but doesnt show it? Posted: 7/14/2012 8:48:09 PM
How are the two of you so alike? He wants to have sex in his car, you want to spend time doing other things with him also. He wants you to suck his**** you don't. Those are pretty big differences. Liking the same food hardly makes up for that. Not to mention his complete disrespect for you. A suggestion? When you break up with him, don't do it in person this time.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 468 (view)

Why do men think it is okay to bother ladies at the gym? Posted: 7/14/2012 7:31:34 PM
I burped really loud; needless to say he got off. Who knew? I've been doing it wrong all this time.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 54 (view)

Has the definition of 'dating' changed and no one told me? Posted: 7/13/2012 6:11:53 PM
I've experienced the brokeness before, only difference with me is that I smell that off the muscle and they never get the opportunity to share that stank with me again. Wow. Something does stink here.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 12 (view)

Forgot how confusing dating is... UGH. Posted: 7/13/2012 10:21:30 AM
This is for Gurugi Healthy bodies come in all shapes and sizes. This is not a forum to make personal attacks based on your personal preferences.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 417 (view)

attractiveness difference Posted: 7/11/2012 7:07:45 PM
I had the same thought as cawk...

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 2 (view)

Has the definition of 'dating' changed and no one told me? Posted: 7/11/2012 6:42:11 PM
If you dislike this guy so much why on earth have you seen him so many times?

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 586 (view)

We talked about weight, well, what about height? :-) Posted: 7/11/2012 5:27:40 PM
LOL don't guys check that out automatically?

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 304 (view)

Living on a shoestring budget Posted: 7/10/2012 1:53:26 PM
Children don't starve to death, but families do live in shelters, which is a pretty hellish way to grow up. Overweight children in poverty are usually malnourished, and overweight due to substandard food, lack of fresh vegetables and fruit which are far more expensive than pasta . Not sure how this thread evolved to this, but I am pretty sure we are off topic...

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 33 (view)

When is a gift not a gift?? Posted: 7/8/2012 12:10:23 PM
I think they are both nuts, and agree, who buys shoes for someone else?

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 19 (view)

Is it alright to be overweight and a carpenter? Posted: 7/7/2012 7:10:23 AM
Windchymes I tried to message you privately but you don't accept mail from my country. Karen Carpenter died from complications pertaining to anorexia- your comment was not very funny. edit: yes different people find different things funny. Given that Carpenter died from her thinking it was not alright to be overweight and a carpenter, I find it very hard to see what could be funny in your comment. I am sorry you found it funny.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 18 (view)

Is it alright to be overweight and a carpenter? Posted: 7/7/2012 7:09:38 AM
Windchymes I tried to message you privately but you don't accept mail from my country. Karen Carpenter died from complications pertaining to anorexia- your comment was not very funny.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 327 (view)

attractiveness difference Posted: 7/7/2012 5:46:15 AM
wiki and Websters are great sources for a description of that particular word (confident) I know I am going to regret getting sucked back in to this thread. But she asked what YOU mean by confident, not for a definition. Confident is a word which is subjective, relative. *smacks self on head, wtf do you dive back in to these threads?

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 104 (view)

Bittersweet excitement.....buying a house w/o someone to share the fun Posted: 7/4/2012 12:16:32 PM
I like the purple door, CYnthia- I may have to copy you on that one! I am making a sewing room for myself also- something I have always wanted but of course never had spare room for. Gotta focus on the positives, right?

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 58 (view)

who should pay for an airline ticket the one that make most or the one that dont make almost nothing Posted: 7/3/2012 11:37:41 AM
The OP has her occupation down as teacher. What the hell does the OP teach anyway...please don't say english or writing. Hopefully that's as bogus as the rest of her profile! I know there are different standards in parts of the US, but I would hope there is some basic literacy required for teachers.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 267 (view)

attractiveness difference Posted: 7/3/2012 10:21:39 AM
Why can`t it be the other way around for a change? [/quote} Why not? Let me know when you find a guy willing to look at things the other way around ;)

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 53 (view)

who should pay for an airline ticket the one that make most or the one that dont make almost nothing Posted: 7/3/2012 10:19:59 AM
Never once did my ex husband and I argue about money. We each worked as much as we could, and contributed everything we had. We never once had a fight over money while separating either. I know that is hard to believe. Thus, I never knew this was such a big issue for people. I sure am learning.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 52 (view)

No dating criteria on some profiles Posted: 7/3/2012 9:40:06 AM
I wish they had a restriction, on dyed up, miserable materialistic women,who want and expect everything, without doing anything So am I good as long as I don't dye my hair? ;)

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 51 (view)

No dating criteria on some profiles Posted: 7/3/2012 9:39:18 AM
I wish they had a restriction, on dyed up, miserable materialistic women,who want and expect everything, without doing anything So am I good as long as I don't dye my hair? ;)

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 48 (view)

who should pay for an airline ticket the one that make most or the one that dont make almost nothing Posted: 7/3/2012 8:22:28 AM
When I was in a LDR, one of us would pay for the ticket, one would pay the other costs. I can see her telling him she cannot afford to buy a ticket., and then it would be up to him if he wanted to offer. I mean if she cannot afford it she just can't. But if I were asked to pay for someone else (and most likely with an air of well you can afford it so you should) that would get my back up. People like to offer, not be told what to do. And if he didn't offer, oh well, she wouldn't go. It always amuses me to read people's (read men) assumptions about women ( or vice versa too, to be fair). I'm sure it has to with previous experiences, but it gets so wearisome for men to make assumptions about me because of things other women have done. But then again, no one here asks me out LOL.

Largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 264 (view)

attractiveness difference Posted: 7/3/2012 8:10:36 AM
LOL Cap'n. Men are required to have balls, women are to be attractive. OP there is nothing wrong with your looks.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 102 (view)

Bittersweet excitement.....buying a house w/o someone to share the fun Posted: 7/3/2012 6:38:04 AM
LOL he didn't put it together.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 222 (view)

Living on a shoestring budget Posted: 7/2/2012 7:52:21 PM
I think one of the big differences is between first marriages and later relationships. In a first marriage, especially one where you are raising kids together, blending incomes and finances makes sense. If the woman`s income is lower it is usually because she is staying home raising the family, so her financial contribution is in terms of lost economic opportunities. However, when we are older, and meet someone we have obligations outside of the relationship. We have our own children, etc. We have already created our lives- purchased homes, made retirement plans. So it makes sense that people do want their partner to bring if not an equal, at least a not grossly disproportionate financial contribution. And for people who have been financially taken to the cleaners after a split- well you cant blame them for being cautious.

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 100 (view)

Bittersweet excitement.....buying a house w/o someone to share the fun Posted: 7/2/2012 5:53:22 PM
Im sort of figuring all that stuff out also- tons of blinds and curtains to be hung, and all kinds of other stuff. I think I've used up favours- I have construction going on soon (building a main floor flat) I may have to hire some help. My date the other night drove me to IKEA and drove home my purchase in his truck for me ;)

largo2

Joined: 12/13/2011

Msg: 63 (view)

Would you date someone who admitted to previous affairs Posted: 7/1/2012 10:51:39 AM
I don't know, Welsh, I don't think these are all the same people. I havent said any of those particular things (well if he has ED and cant or wont get it treated, yes I wont date him) I wouldnt date someone who was mean to animals. That would be way worse than someone who had made a mistake and cheated. I wouldnt go out with someone for whom cheating was a way of life.

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