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DoubleDizzle

Joined: 2/19/2007

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Why Do Guys Lash Out ? Posted: 5/15/2009 9:45:19 PM
Yeah, I would agree with Mista and say it's definitely not only men who do this, I've caught many women in lies and they lash out by pulling out "brown cards" and such against men. It's a reaction to feeling cornered. The best way to deal with this is to be upfront about the expectation of honest in a relationship; other men AND women may not be as interested in this expectation as you are and you'll find out right away.

DoubleDizzle

Joined: 2/19/2007

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If you think you are a nice guy, that's cool... but maybe you are really just an Posted: 5/15/2009 8:00:46 PM
Dude, awesome thread... I actually just got rejected from a girl i met on here who I was only trying to pursue for friendship at the moment, and her reasoning was the whole "nice guy BS". You nailed what she said pretty much verbatim. Also got it more than a few time when I was actually romantically trying to pursue a girl. Don't know what exactly else to say about the topic other than I feel your pain dude :)

DoubleDizzle

Joined: 2/19/2007

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Is it Possible? Posted: 9/29/2008 10:26:34 PM
I can't answer for him, physical appearance is a plus, but people really make men seem more shallow then the majority of us are. Most men are more interested in being with a woman that is our compliment, like in our habits, hobbies, intellectual level, etc. Someone we can be comfortable with. Ask your boyfriend if he's comfortable with you in general or if you ever make him feel uncomfortable on any level. That'll show how much he likes you.

DoubleDizzle

Joined: 2/19/2007

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Guys Who Post Long Term and Don't Mean It?????? Posted: 9/29/2008 10:19:30 PM
A.S.is is right, sometimes it's just that the guy may not think you're the "one" I post "long term" on my profile, because I know that If I find the right I can settle down, but that doesn't mean the first one that comes my way is the right one lol....

DoubleDizzle

Joined: 2/19/2007

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What will get your romantic attention Posted: 9/29/2008 10:05:24 PM
I don't think it has to be obvious but it does have to be physical. Usually it's a range, like sitting next a guy with your shoulders touching when there's obviously space to be sitting a bit farther apart. Also when you're walking next to each other kinda bump into him like you're flirting. That kinda stuff. If he's obviously shy than hold his hand. That kinda stuff.

DoubleDizzle

Joined: 2/19/2007

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How do u know your in love Posted: 9/29/2008 10:00:08 PM
oops read the thread wrong...ways to show you're in love is through the amount of time he wants to spend with you. Also, there's some places I take girls for dates, and then there are some places that I feel comfortable in that are my hangouts. If I take a girl to my hangouts than that's usually a good sign.

DoubleDizzle

Joined: 2/19/2007

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How do u know your in love Posted: 9/29/2008 9:57:33 PM
I've only fallen in love with one girl out of say 12 girlfriends roughly, so I can say that for me it's looking to the future and imagining you two being together til you're like 90 or something. Then imagining how happy or sad you'd be. If you're imagining that you're happy with the person, then you're in love.

DoubleDizzle

Joined: 2/19/2007

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why woman like eating a pussy more than sex Posted: 9/29/2008 9:45:31 PM
Dude, if you don't, YOU'VE BEEN LIED TO! Seriously, at least 70% of women can't have orgasm from intercourse alone. Lot's like both, lot's like the "concept" of intercourse better than oral--especially foreign women where intercourse is really the only game in town for them--but seriously oral or at least heavy petting is the only way to go. An exception to this is girl-on-top, where they can grind, but oral is most assured way to bring women to climax.

DoubleDizzle

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Why are men still single and please be honest Posted: 9/29/2008 9:22:22 PM
I'm single because I am tired of relying on bars to meet girls and in my university every girl is apparently taken. Any girls out there like tall nice guys? lol

DoubleDizzle

Joined: 2/19/2007

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Ever notice that women w/o kids are much 'tighter'..down there?? Posted: 9/29/2008 9:05:53 PM
I'm serious, he said it's a Croatian folk saying, any Croatians out there confirm?

DoubleDizzle

Joined: 2/19/2007

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why woman like eating a pussy more than sex Posted: 9/29/2008 8:56:03 PM
Love it, love it, LOVE IT! I'm above average "down there" but one thing I know my wang can't do is have most women multiple orgasm...just not possible. With Oral and strategic fingering however, it's certainly possible with some women (not all women can multiple but it's always good to give it a shot). I like having intercourse too but that's more just to be close to my partner and cuddle etc...I think girls like that for the same reason; it's more intimate. Only problem is with some partners, I would go down on them and when they're having an orgasm, they'll just pull my face into their whole vulva and damn near suffocate me! It's definitely not for the faint hearted lol...

DoubleDizzle

Joined: 2/19/2007

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Ever notice that women w/o kids are much 'tighter'..down there?? Posted: 9/29/2008 8:37:44 PM
The best way I ever heard that put was a Croatian friend of mine. He said in Croatian accent, "vagina like pond been disrupt by stone. After childbirth always loose like ripple by stone hitting, but after stone hit, wait and it be normal again." Truest words EVER.

DoubleDizzle

Joined: 2/19/2007

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Gals; please help my profile! Posted: 9/21/2008 10:47:34 PM
Well, besides that only two or three of your comments are relevant after taking that into consideration... But I'll add those two of three suggestions into my next revision, thanks! :)

DoubleDizzle

Joined: 2/19/2007

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Gals; please help my profile! Posted: 9/21/2008 10:29:19 PM
Did you read my revision I put up? Thanks for the comments anyways :)

DoubleDizzle

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Gals; please help my profile! Posted: 9/21/2008 9:30:55 PM
I'm not trying to attract guys dude lol

DoubleDizzle

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 9/21/2008 9:09:26 PM
I'm Dan, I live in South City, I've had a profile up here for awhile but just discovered the forums lol... Need to find a girl who likes tall guys :)

DoubleDizzle

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Gals; please help my profile! Posted: 9/21/2008 7:11:38 PM
Thanks Audrey :) I don't think I wanted to delete too much off of my profile, but I did like a few of the recommendations, like consolidating some of the text or not being too negative. So here's what I was planning to update it to, please comment if it sounds any better than what's up there now: "Hello everyone my name is Dan! I work full time in Loss Prevention at the Gap while I complete my Bachelors degree at UMSL in Public Policy Administration with a minor in Criminal Justice. After graduation, I would like to have a job as a policy analyst. Ultimately, I plan to use that experience and my degree to start a non-profit trying to help poor communities fight crime. My friends would describe me as a good listener because make a concerted effort to understand and relate to others. I am part hopeless romantic and part pragmatic; not every girl wants or appreciates romance. I try to be friendly and good natured to everyone I meet because I believe that eventually a heart becomes cold and dull without occasional displays of random cheer. As far as my habits or routine I like to eat healthy and I workout at least two times a week either doing a little weight training or Judo. Competing in Judo and Jiujitsu is a hobby of mine. The complexity of thought and form in them is amazing to me; you feel like an artist making a painting. I am not very vicarious with sports so I like playing sports more than watching them. I have a passion for reading and what I read ranges from nonfiction (my favorite) to the occasional romance novel (my secret favorite lol). My ideal women would be intelligent, compassionate, funny, adventurous, open-minded (culturally), and who is engaging to be around. In return, they would find a man with the same qualities and someone who would give them 100%. If you like what you see send me a message :)"

DoubleDizzle

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Gals; please help my profile! Posted: 9/20/2008 3:36:49 AM
Thanks everyone, I'll make as many corrections as I can and post back on here!

DoubleDizzle

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Gals; please help my profile! Posted: 9/19/2008 8:10:03 PM
I'm just trying to see what others though of my profile. I'm your basic, decent guy trying to find the same in a woman. Up until now my profile has done okay but I'm looking for anything on there that might turn off people. Any constructive criticism is welcome and thanks in advance. :)

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