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heartwinners

Joined: 2/20/2007

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would you date a stripper? Posted: 8/24/2008 5:04:47 PM
If I didnt want a long term relationship and can handle a short term fling and not let it get to me yes I would date one. I'm looking for a long term relationship so that rules out dating a stripper. The lure of easy money and being around constant temptations and drugs is not a good recipe for a long term relationship.

heartwinners

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would guys date a female cop? Posted: 8/3/2008 6:05:10 PM
The golden rule for dating cops male or female should be never date one. Most cops let the authority power get to there head. The power trip and relationships dont mix well. Makes for a bad relationship for either sex. Theres to many fish in the sea to waste it on dating cops. Cops and criminals have one thing in common, they both go after the easiest target.

heartwinners

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I quit believing Posted: 7/20/2008 8:47:00 PM
I've been treated the same way. We're both nice and we have a heart of gold. We're both attracted to people that are opposite of us. I always seem to get involved with the people that are selfish and everything is centered around them. I dont know why its just a natural attraction. I think the both of us should try and develop an attraction to people like us . Nice people that think about others. If we focus on those type of people and learn to love those type of people we might find ourselves with a compatable mate. The next time we find ourselves being attracted to a person opposite of ourselves we need to take a deep breath and say to ourselves "This person is not for me" and turn the other way. Its alot easier to say it than to do it .Im sure . But we have to do it or else when going to be miserble for the rest of our lives. Good Luck, James

heartwinners

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Why is Hillary Losing? Posted: 5/11/2008 5:24:01 PM
Obama is the first Democrat to win a nomination without winning a big state. Hillary's getting robbed in this primary. Obama is being backed by the super elite of this nation. Something is going on we dont know about yet and Im not buying into this Obama Scheme. Obama is not showing all his cards .

heartwinners

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Does True Love Ultimately Require Marriage? Posted: 5/11/2008 5:17:58 PM
Amen to what Southernlass said . 100% true. Marriage is not for the faint of heart. Without marriage you have nothing to signify your love for one another. Love has to be based on a committment.

heartwinners

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A bum of a question Posted: 5/11/2008 4:18:27 PM
Hey you responded to Mr homeboy good . He is a bigot for making the comments. It shows ignorance oh his part. Your point is a good point. And to be honest with you the thought popped in my head but then I thought to myself is it really worth it to say something to him. I just thought it would be best to ignore him and go on. Thanks for your comment

heartwinners

Joined: 2/20/2007

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A bum of a question Posted: 5/11/2008 4:09:31 PM
Congradulations you had the best answer. You hit the nail on the head with your comment Thank You very Much

heartwinners

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Does True Love Ultimately Require Marriage? Posted: 5/10/2008 6:08:27 AM
To express your true love for someone an ultimate committment has to be made. In this case it would marriage. If you really love someone you would marry them.

heartwinners

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Living together before marraige Posted: 5/10/2008 6:07:03 AM
I used to be totally against this but I might have to reconsider now because my last marriage didnt work out because we didnt know what it was like to live together prior to getting married . If we would have lived together we would never have gotten married

heartwinners

Joined: 2/20/2007

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18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man? Posted: 5/10/2008 6:04:47 AM
Depends on the maturity level most 18 year olds arent very mature even though I have met a couple that are. As for the 40 year old man he sounds like he may have some serious issues. Perhaps he cant pick up someone his own age

heartwinners

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A bum of a question Posted: 5/10/2008 5:59:03 AM
It took place in Bermuda

heartwinners

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A bum of a question Posted: 5/10/2008 5:58:39 AM
Kudos Thanks for the reply

heartwinners

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What is considered Physical abuse Posted: 5/9/2008 6:52:23 PM
Thank you for your reply, No doubt I should have left the room I have never been in that situation before. I reacted the wrong way. I have never put my hand a woman before. I have learned a valuable lesson from this. Thanks, Jim

heartwinners

Joined: 2/20/2007

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What is considered Physical abuse Posted: 5/9/2008 6:52:14 PM
Thank you for your reply, No doubt I should have left the room I have never been in that situation before. I reacted the wrong way. I have never put my hand a woman before. I have learned a valuable lesson from this. Thanks, Jim

heartwinners

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What is considered Physical abuse Posted: 5/9/2008 6:48:37 PM
thanks for the reply, No doubt I reacted wrong to the situation I have never been put in that situation before. And I should have left the room. I have learned a valuable lesson from this. Thanks again

heartwinners

Joined: 2/20/2007

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What is considered Physical abuse Posted: 5/9/2008 6:45:57 PM
Thanks for the reply, I have never been in a situation like that before. That woman was verbally abusing me the whole trip . But it was still no excuse for touching her. No doubt I should have walked out of the room. I have never put my hands on a woman before while being angry. And I will never react that way again. I have learned a valuable lesson from this. Thank you again, Jim

heartwinners

Joined: 2/20/2007

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What is considered Physical abuse Posted: 5/9/2008 6:36:52 PM
You sound like a very sensible man. And thank you for your honest answer. I have never been in that situation before and I acted wrong by trying to get her to shut up by shaking her with my hand. It was wrong and I will never do it again. I have never done anything like that before. And I am ashamed of myself for not handling my emotions and taking the verbal abuse like a man. This woman verbally abused me the whole trip.But it still was no excuse for doing what I did. Thanks again Jim

heartwinners

Joined: 2/20/2007

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What is considered Physical abuse Posted: 5/9/2008 5:43:57 AM
I just posted a message in this same forum Titled: "A bum of a question" You can refer back to this forum topic for a prelude to this forum topic. The verbal attack after the choosing option 2. To leave the bum and go back on the ship. After the incident with the bum we return to our stateroom. The verbal attack begins . She jumps on me immediatly for choosing option 2 which is to not say anything to the bum to protect her honor. I chose to just leave an avoid a bad situation. She begins by calling me worthless and weak and scared of a bum. Mouth obsenities by the ton. Even as she taking a shower she pops her head out of the bathroom door and gives me the finger and mouth's off every couple of minutes. Im trying to keep my cool the whole time but by the 5th time she sticks her head out of the bathroom door to give me the bird and mouth another obsenity I rush to the bathroom door open it grab her by the arm shake her really hard and tell her to shut up I have heard enough about the stupid bum thing. Then I let go and slam the bathroom door. Shortly after she accuses me of abusing her. Question? Is that considered physical abuse and did I react wrong? Your comments and suggestions are welcome

heartwinners

Joined: 2/20/2007

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A bum of a question Posted: 5/8/2008 9:43:11 PM
Your in your 8 month of dating and you take your girlfriend on a cruise. Your drinking one day at the beach toward the end of the day the two of you are headed back to the ship. You stop by a bar situated near the cruise ship and see a couple that you know from the cruise and the couple is conversing with a worthless bum. The bum makes a comment about your girlfriend covering up because her cleavage is showing. The bum and your girlfriend exchange a couple of words . The bum leaves and comes back more drunk than before and is shooting his mouth of to your girlfriend and everybody else. What would you do? 1 Tell the bum to shut up 2 Just leave the bum alone and leave with your girlfriend to the ship 3hang out with the bum and be buddy's 4 buy the bum a drink I chose answer number 2 Was I in the right? My girlfriend got mad because I didnt choose answer 1 not only did she get mad but she cussed my out called me every name in the book which lead to a heated fight and her breaking up with me when we got home. Was my girlfriend in the right? Your insight and feedback would be useful . Please place your comments and answers to the questions here

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