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imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

Internet vs. real life Posted: 9/11/2009 12:43:36 AM
I agree with HarleyHottie, I would think the majority of us just looking for the most part to say Hi and see if there's something there. If someone on the street says Hi to you, do you just ignore them? I know for women there is always the stalker issue. But maybe sayin Hi back....? Read delete I personally take as an insult and move on. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Nipples 201 - Mammary Support Mechanisms Posted: 6/10/2008 7:25:15 AM
Walking with my girl, my arm around her shoulder and my hand casually resting against her breast. I like to sneak a quick caress and a bit of a pinch on the nipple when I think I can get away with it hehehe. Extra padding......boooooooooo Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

Msg: 26 (view)

do some guys really like a really big AZZ? Posted: 6/9/2008 5:03:04 PM
A huge butt doesn't do much for me but plenty of guys out there that DO like it. I didn't know what Kim Kardashian looked like but that's a bit much for me. She seems disproportionate to me somehow with that large of a posterior. God Bless variety and differing tastes!!! Oh and I'm white and definately like Mayo LOL!!!! Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Clean-Up afterwards...disturbing???!!!!??? Posted: 6/9/2008 4:50:45 PM
Without an exact count, it seems pretty well split 1/3 each agree disagree and or on the fence. She'll get a kick out of your posts, thanks all. Like I say it's a non-issue with the two of us, just curious how others felt about it. Good point Scruffydude, I'll make sure I don't give that impression to her. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Why do we men have this incessant urge to check women out? Posted: 6/9/2008 12:32:58 PM
Maybe just a quick glance to admire gods handy-work. On ocaission a followup glance to admire the Ladies fashion/makeup sense and pride in her own appearance. I'm pretty well controlled if my SO is anywhere in the same city as I am I will squelch the natural inclination to have a quick peak. Momma didn't raise no fool after all...... Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Clean-Up afterwards...disturbing???!!!!??? Posted: 6/9/2008 10:19:55 AM
Okay, so my GF and I have been together for 8 Months now and we are very happily sexually active (Monogomously) with each other. The topic came up somehow a few weeks ago about clean-up after the "deed". I will go to the bathroom and wash up myself then bring a warm cloth back for her to clean up with. She mentioned this practice disturbed her at first thinking that somehow I felt she was unclean and in a hurry to get cleaned up and get her taste/fluids off me. I was a bit self concious about this the next few times we were together until she assured me that she didn't feel that way anymore and wanted me to do what I was confortable with. We both thought this would be an interesting topic for the forums and to see what others' thoughts would be on the matter. This is in no way a "sticking" point and really is a non-issue to the two of us at this point, just wondered what others thoughts might be. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Anyone else into hugging? Posted: 6/8/2008 8:14:59 PM
I love hugging my girl from behind as she is cooking or washing the dishes. Spin her around and kiss her gently and slowly on the lips. Yea hugs rock IMO. I don't see an attraction to hugging someone I don't REALLY care for, doesn't do a thing for me personally. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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The Kinky Test Posted: 6/6/2008 11:42:43 AM
314 geez what a prude I am Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Would you ever sell yourself.........? Posted: 6/6/2008 9:59:12 AM
Reminds me of the woman telling a man "For $200 I'll do whatever you want. Then he hands her a paintbrush and tells her to paint his house" LOL I wouldn't want to sell myself I don't think. Would feel like I was debasing myself. Turning something fun like sex into work.....but if it were a one time thing were you'd be set for life...dunno. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Can men have full body orgasms? Posted: 6/6/2008 6:42:11 AM
Oh yea during a particularly intense orgasm, all tensed up and shaking. Love when that happens. Just makes it hard to stand up afterwards LOL!! Really turns my girl on though. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Reading too much into the little things? Posted: 6/6/2008 6:04:31 AM
Sounds like a sweet guy, hope you let him down gently. I'm also very affectionate but not for anything more than to show my gal I care. Hope this all works out for you OP, sounds like you pretty much have it together. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue? Posted: 5/24/2008 1:41:39 AM
Any man who cares whether the woman in his life is satisfied will learn to do what she wants and likes "south of the border", as well as other things she likes. It kind of goes with the bigger picture that if you want a good active sex life with the woman in your life, you have to think of her pleasure and satisfaction, not just your own. The bottom line is, the best sex is when each are serving the needs of the other person, and not just thinking of their self. I've always had the best sex when I put HER pleasure first, because she will reciprocate, and drive me mad. Truer words were never written............ Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Orgasmic breasts Posted: 5/24/2008 1:11:12 AM
I love making my girl climax that way. I coined the phrase "Boobie-gasm" for it LOL!! Gotta just love a womans wonderous body. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

Msg: 26 (view)

tickling as foreplay Posted: 5/19/2008 5:41:19 PM
I should write a book on what I know of this so far. Sensual caressing is the way to go guys. Kissing and sucking gently on her neck or nipples. caressing VERY gently up her back and sides, up the backs of both her arms. Careful on her sides those are very sensative..... Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Delayed Ejaclation Posted: 5/19/2008 5:33:00 PM
Saw is that Tantric related? Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Who works harder in bed, men or women? Posted: 5/19/2008 5:00:06 PM
OP, the thing that turns me on is to pleasure my partner and to hear her responses to what I am doing to her. I would say, I definatly work harder initially. That being said, when she is trashing around and gets to a level of desperation that I know very well, I know I'm about to be gettin my arse tore up!!! In short, with the right partner and technique, it all balances out my brother. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Au contraire mon frere Posted: 5/19/2008 4:33:37 PM
Oh I can definately see I could be severally bashed for my comment so I will try to make it as exact as I can and get my point across correctly. Generally speaking, most of the women I have had extended relationships with (and there have been several but not hordes) I slept with them on the first date. Now, I won't deny that many of us guys are attracted by sex, and many would take what is given regardless of our feelings. For me, I really really enjoy the woman I'm with at that time and think she has definate "Staying" potential before I'd ever bother taking her out. If a night of passion is in the cards, it helps confirm my initial suspicions about the Lady I have in my Sights. I think though, that many of the responses are making the sexual experience more than it is. Don't get me wrong, I'm a very sexual person and love it. Sex is NOT the be all and end all of a relationship tho. I would say, if there wasn't good sex at the least, I would probably need to move on to another relationship. At 43 I was exclusively with each of my ex-wives 7 years and 15 years several others for shorter periods of time. Lady's search for your men, try to see the "Inside" them, not the ride, bankroll or whatever, find something substantial you find very appealing about that particular person. If you can't, keep looking =) Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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I'd do her, I wouldn't do her.... Posted: 4/18/2008 2:26:51 PM
I thought there were 3 category's NOW Not now but maybe later Doubt ever but I'll keep my options open just in case =p Just KIDDING Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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I'd do her, I wouldn't do her.... Posted: 4/18/2008 1:59:40 PM
Don't forget that many of us guys don't get a FIRST date because of whatever notions the gals we were pursueing might have of us. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Swinging i don't get it! Posted: 4/18/2008 1:51:48 PM
I wouldn't be able to handle the thought or sight of someone else with my girl. Just me though, eh, to each his/her own. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Serious Question.... Posted: 11/7/2007 5:29:26 AM
I suspect that we all get frustrated on this site and consider giving up on it. I like to look at this as an adventure and most of the gals I've met and didn't find the "One" with, I'm still fast friends with. Heck it's just fun meeting and sometimes dating on this site I think. Love that little "Butterfly in the belly" feeling of a new relationship. Hang in there OP, there's bound to be "the One" for you out here somewhere. =) Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Code blue!!! This forum needs to be brought back to life!! Posted: 11/7/2007 5:20:39 AM
Spokane present and accounted for!!

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Do I just attract all the winners? Or am I setting the bar too high? Posted: 11/4/2007 6:40:23 AM
I've had pretty decent luck here too, many fewer Psycho's then I'd normally run across ROTF!!! Gotta love the the diversity of the people in this world........ Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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PLEASE READ I NEED YOUR INPUT!!!!!!! Posted: 10/25/2007 10:22:42 AM
I'm wondering the same thing as some of the other posters....perhaps she got knocked up or thinks she is knocked up by another "less desirable" guy? Oh goodie, DNA test in your future if the Prego one comes up positive.........sorry dude!! Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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What is my age range?? Posted: 10/23/2007 8:30:33 AM
I'm 43 going with a gal who is 50, we're quite happy together actually. When I was 30 I married a gal 12 years my senior........that probably wasn't such a hot idea LOL!! The youngest I've dated was only 3 years younger than me though sooooooooo, do what you feel comfortable with =) Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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why no replies? Posted: 10/17/2007 6:32:55 AM
It does take a bit of time to get into the "Groove" here. As most others have said, good punctuation and thought needs to be in your profile. I'm 43 and your pic makes you look quite a bit older than I am. Consider what another poster recommended and upload pics of you being active. Good luck and take your time on here, lots of great gals here!!! Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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What’s the most important thing that men don’t understand about women that they should Posted: 10/13/2007 4:54:00 AM
I'd think that they want to feel appreciated and not treated like objects. Putting her on a pedestal on occaision probably isn't such a bad idea. That includes truelly listening, treating them special and going out of your way to delight them from time to time. There's not one single thing we need to know I don't think, but rather a lot of little things........ Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Spokane singles get together in October 13th/07 at park for a pot luck lunch Posted: 10/12/2007 9:05:36 PM
Boomer, I'm SO sorry man but something popped up and I won't be able to make it tomorrow after all. I hope you have a good turn out though and lots of others show up for you!! Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Pumpkin-Palooza Posted: 10/9/2007 5:28:20 PM
Wow sounds like a rocking time, tell me this is close to the Spokane area........I'm new to the area but it sounds familiar. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Spokane singles get together in October 13th/07 at park for a pot luck lunch Posted: 10/9/2007 6:00:35 AM
Boomer, I'll for sure be there, I work till 2:30 but will be there as soon as I can get showered up and over there. I'm thinking we should just do Riverfront park and not Manito to avoid any confusion about it. Heck even if just 4-6 of us showed up it'd still be a fun time. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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rape or just stupidity? Posted: 10/7/2007 6:03:12 PM
Stop just means we're changing positions =D But seriously, I think the vast majority of us think that No or Stop mean exactly that. If there were a good reason I'd probably pout a bit then get over it. If she just "Changed" her mind, well hell yes I'm SO outta there LOL!!!! Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Spokane singles get together in October 13th/07 at park for a pot luck lunch Posted: 10/2/2007 5:31:26 PM
Boomer, Goin ab0ut it all wrong......Manito park October 13th 1-5PM in the rose gallery (I think that's what it's called). Bring a Light snack to feed 5-10, Light snack is either 2 big bags of chips or home made dip or entre of some sort. This is informal people so don't expect to get fed and full at it. What we HOPE is there's a guy/gal that will fill you up afterwards........... >=) Kevin Okay now THAT's an invitation...........

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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insults and control and projection Posted: 9/30/2007 8:32:56 PM
OP there is someone for all of us out here somewhere, I'm hoping that mine is on this site. Live and let live for all those that aren't my "One" when I get an email from a gal that I'm not interested in, I just let her know (Very gently) that I don't think it'd work. Some of us out here live ettiquette on the web as well as in life in general. Nice post, don't know why they try to delete it though.............. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Spokane singles get together in October 13th/07 at park for a pot luck lunch Posted: 9/30/2007 4:58:48 PM
Boomer, I sent out 20 emails on it and sounds like at least 3-4 of the gals will be coming to it. I think I have someone to take as well so there'll definately be a few of us there but what time? Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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what is an appropriate time frame to meet in person? Posted: 9/28/2007 6:28:36 AM
I'll meet when she is comfortable with it. Sometimes that's a few days and sometimes it's several weeks. If it drones on and on I'm probably needing to move on at that point though. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Does a guy mean it when he says he doesn't mind waiting? Posted: 9/28/2007 6:11:34 AM
Leeanne I always love your posts.......... "Some men don't mind waiting - but they sure as hel! want you to hurry up!!!!! No man will wait for what seems like forever and with the short attention span, that can mean a few days!!! " Of course I'll wait for you darling.........are we there yet???!!!??? Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Fine? Oh no, I should just be in Jail! Posted: 9/28/2007 4:36:48 AM
Tracy, It's been almost 6 months since I tallied mine up and it's still the same. Almost all the guys have me beat and alot of the gals do too LOL. 350 pffffffff Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Cold Responce vs. Read/Deleted Posted: 9/27/2007 3:47:14 PM
Not only was I NOT obnoxious, I hadn't had contact with her previously. How did she know to block me before I'd ever contacted her LOL. I mean I had no idea until my initial email wouldn't go thru due to me being blocked...........strange stuff. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Panty Masterbation Posted: 9/27/2007 6:24:28 AM
Personally, when I get those panties off, they have flown clear across the room and too far out of reach for such activities LOL. Hey to each his/her own though, sounds less twisted than whips and chains I guess. BUT hey every one has their own tastes. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Spokane singles get together in October 13th/07 at park for a pot luck lunch Posted: 9/27/2007 5:21:34 AM
Well hell, guess I'll have to go Stag LOL!! Hey I'm still up for it though and think it'd be a blast to put a real face to all these profiles. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Cold Responce vs. Read/Deleted Posted: 9/26/2007 7:04:23 PM
I'm actually THRILLED when I get a thanks but no thanks LOL. Renews my faith in some peoples humanity and generally I will respond back with a sincere thank you for the very nice reply good luck fishing!!! Or something along those lines. Oh here's one for you, I emailed a gal who was new to the site, as soon as I hit the Send button I get "This user has blocked you........." Oooooooooookay what that was all about I have no idea LOL!!!!! Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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He's Fan-freaking tastic! Why can't i get over that he's a Charmer? Posted: 9/26/2007 4:18:26 PM
I recently met a girl from here and really really liked her so of course I poured on the charm. I'm a bit of a romantic anyhow but definately going out of my way to really do it up when I'm around her. Think that perhaps he really DOES like you and is going out of his way to impress you. Besides some of us really like being a gentleman, romantic AND Charming!! Kevin

imjustmekevin

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The perfect 10 Posted: 9/25/2007 4:26:39 AM
Oh I missed the point I was trying to make in my last post. What I was meaning to say was that although I don't consider myself anywhere near being a 10, I'm intelligent fun funny etc. I'm a true gentleman and treat the Lady I am with like a goddess. Which is better Ladies, eye candy or a guy that cherishes you? If I were with a gal who looked like a Model I'd probably be constantly worried about some other guy catching her attention or her constantly getting hit on. Physical attraction is different for all of us which is kinda cool. Each of us is SOMEONE's 10.......... Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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The perfect 10 Posted: 9/25/2007 3:41:30 AM
I'm hell and gone from being a 10 perfect or otherwise LOL!! I'll tell you, I'm looking for a "Relatively attractive, witty, fun-loving etc etc etc. To me a woman who I can be myself with, enjoy being around and attracted to, is a 10 (On the attractive scale not size 10). Size does matter, in that I don't want to be with someone twice my size is all. Squish poor lil Kevin would be BAD!!! Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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you just came...stop or continue? Posted: 9/24/2007 6:23:52 PM
Oh heck yea don't you DARE stop LOL!!! We'd stop just as you're about to orgasm.....that'd be justice I think. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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chicks that approach the guy first... Posted: 9/23/2007 12:39:42 AM
I love being approached first, heck if I think it's not going to work I thank her and let her know I just don't think there's alot there but appreciate the email/IM whatever. The Girlfriend I have now actually opened the AV window 3x to me on PoF and didn't type anything the first two times. The third time I was getting a bit miffed by it and as I was typing a somewhat irked comment in the AV window, I noticed that she was typing so had to backspace back over what I was ABOUT to send LOL. The rest is history =D Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Spokane singles get together in October 13th/07 at park for a pot luck lunch Posted: 9/23/2007 12:30:17 AM
Start getting solid plans so we can get it to folks. Time, place and what types of things to bring. I let 20 others know about it, hopefully a few of them told others as well. I intend on being there, actually I might have that Saturday off which would be cool. I'll bring a date, that makes at least two of us......... Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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If the local men and women arn't working out for ya.... Posted: 9/22/2007 5:14:42 AM
So Cal boy here, Profile is hidden at the moment while I date a certain Fishie from here and see how it goes. Perhaps I'll be back perhaps not LOL. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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what do women really want. Posted: 9/21/2007 3:21:53 PM
Rghtgrl4you Hurt my Brain LOL!!! I'd guess what women wants is a confident man who cherishes her and makes her feel special. Of course there has to be some amount of physical attraction and it's different for each and every one of us. Personally, I love that we are all looking for different things and what makes each of us "Happy" can be so different as well. Kevin

imjustmekevin

Joined: 2/20/2007

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Spokane singles get together in October 13th/07 at park for a pot luck lunch Posted: 9/21/2007 2:04:45 PM
I'm up for it and will bring my sweetheart from here as well. I know quite a few of the Ladies on this Site and will let them all know. This forum isn't visited that often so many won't yet know. I usually work Saturday till early afternoon so mid afternoon works well also. Kevin

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