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Marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 45 (view)

stroking mens ego's ( no pun intended ) Posted: 1/22/2009 12:08:37 AM
Tuezdaye & Ozarksgalzelch truly know the art of seduction!! You get what you give....so give all you got.

Marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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LIbido issues plague a good marriage Posted: 1/14/2009 5:13:59 AM
funone04u, I was trying to be funny guess it didn't work. Very observant however.......to bad your not as observant with your marriage I changed it to tripple, hope that makes you feel better.

Marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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LIbido issues plague a good marriage Posted: 1/14/2009 4:48:40 AM
I don't check posters profiles usually, but now that I'm aware that you are looking for IE then shame shame actually double(make that tripple) shame. Now go sit in a corner!!

Marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 2 (view)

LIbido issues plague a good marriage Posted: 1/14/2009 4:24:47 AM
Maybe you should get medical advice as opposed to relying on people who don't know her, her health issues etc.

Marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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Could I Just Be To Young For Him? Posted: 1/14/2009 3:33:58 AM
You should look at yourself and think of how you have enabled this situation to cont.

Marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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Could I Just Be To Young For Him? Posted: 1/14/2009 2:27:11 AM
Why are you confused?? He told you what he wants. If it's not something your into leave. Pretty simple actually.

Marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 956 (view)

Why do women date mutiple guys at once? Posted: 1/14/2009 1:59:39 AM
It depends, some are not looking for a LTR. However if you find a girl who is looking for a LTR but dates multiple guys it's because she is insecure of her ability to keep a partner.

Marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 35 (view)

Girl your dating screwing another guy what would you do? Posted: 1/14/2009 1:31:33 AM
For the love of god do you really need to ask people for advice on this?? First off she won't give you an answer about exclusivity BBBEEEPPPP, then she talks sexually with some stranger BBBEEEPPP, the you get ditched for new years BBEEPP. Are you going to ask this question once you get an std from her? Life does not happen unexpectedly as you may think. We are giving constant signs to warn us but choose to ignore them. You are a man and woman want you!!! You just have to realize the true power and quality you have. Dump this girl, stand tall with chest out and get another one. Don't be lazy and just accept what someone is willing to give you.

Marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 21 (view)

should i change??? Posted: 1/14/2009 1:05:32 AM
You won't like this but your being lazy. If you want something go out and get it. Take responsibility for your wants and needs being fulfilled. Most woman wait for everything from a man. If you don't put action into your life, life will do it for you and you may not like what it has planned as you are finding out.

Marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

my boyfriend being stubborn, can you explain this? Posted: 1/14/2009 12:56:16 AM
Sounds like your being a nag!! It's obvious this is not the first time the two of you have talked about it. It's to the point where he is trying to avoid the conversation and you keep bringing it up. Maybe stick your hand up his bum and pretend he is a puppet. That way he can say the exact words at the percise time you want to hear it. Of course we should be there for our partners but if the same issue keeps coming up I would get bored of repeating myself. They avoid each other to keep the peace what more do you want from the man. You kinda sound needy.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 200 (view)

Why men don't marry anymore Posted: 1/13/2009 2:55:41 AM
I really want to get married, but I've never been under house arrest before . Knowing my personality I don't think i'll like it.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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DO YOU THINK MUSIC,MOVIES AND TELIVISIONS ARE REASON RELATIONSHIPS GO WRONG? Posted: 1/7/2009 4:32:41 AM
Yes it does ruin your/our perception of how life is. It is basically brain washing! Anytime you need someone to tell you how to think, dress, etc your probably not living to your full potential.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 44 (view)

I'm just a girl who can't say no....to him.... Posted: 1/7/2009 3:44:50 AM
Op I would not take the advice of most people telling you to dump him. Most people giving advice are either jealous, jilted, and carry too much baggage. You know what he wants and expects so he is not playing you. He has mood swings...who doesn't? You have been able to read his body language and know when to leave him alone. Your having a good time with this man so enjoy but remember he is not looking for a relationship. By you wanting more you may feel a little diappointment when it doesn't happen. Don't forget you don't need advice from people to make a choice of whats good for your life. (I think I just gave you advice, but you get what I'm saying) Good Luck and enjoy the good times with this man.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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Advice on a not-so-average scenario requested. Posted: 1/5/2009 10:26:41 PM
Someone will have to make the sacrifice and move. If not it will be a long distance relationship and as your experiencing right now, that is not going to work!! Good Luck Bud

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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Abortion without telling... Posted: 12/31/2008 4:05:58 AM
^^^^ O brother give me a break!!

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 26 (view)

why do my dates want to rush? Posted: 12/29/2008 2:19:57 AM
Sounds like you feel your too good for anyone. Try not to hold out for the perfect person, they don't exist.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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Magazine article on Mandingo Parties Posted: 12/26/2008 4:53:33 AM
What is this an episode of roots?

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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doing something foolish and regretting it Posted: 12/25/2008 3:25:21 AM
Everything you said here tell him and attach an apology. He probably won't accept it but atleast your mind will be at rest.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 187 (view)

I called my girlfriend a PIG by mistake... What do I do now? Posted: 12/23/2008 3:44:39 AM
She called you something and you returned with a snide remark. Sounds even to me. Princess should get a step ladder when trying to get off the horse. As for people suggesting jewlery... well i think there is a name for that. I think you have lost one testicle with all the sucking up you've been doing. You both made a mistake and should squash your beef. Since she wants it to continue get her a bag of truffles!!

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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I want him back, how do I go about doing this Posted: 12/23/2008 12:18:52 AM
How was the relationship between him and your kids?

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 35 (view)

His little manhood problem is causing ME problems...advise? Posted: 12/22/2008 11:37:25 PM
Sorry but your man loves the pity party, if he didn't he would have dropped the topic sometime ago.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 25 (view)

It just died Posted: 12/22/2008 5:04:13 AM
And what is your question? The two of you were not even married.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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Guys Confuse Me! Posted: 12/16/2008 12:00:43 AM
Man @46 you'd think the bull would end and you'd want to settle down with somone. Sorry but this is just sad tit for tat @46 come on people.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 224 (view)

Does the size of the ring matter ? Posted: 12/15/2008 2:52:02 AM
Everytime I come to these forums I lose a little faith in people. I think I will forever be a bachelor. Gorge Clooney, Gene Simmons, Oprah know what they're doing!!

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 162 (view)

are bellies sexy or not Posted: 12/14/2008 11:10:14 PM
I don't mind a little belly, I don't expect girls to have a perfect 6 pac like myself.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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Guys keep your legs shut............ Posted: 12/12/2008 2:12:44 AM
Anyone who doesn't have a third leg really can't explain their point of view.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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Guys keep your legs shut............ Posted: 12/12/2008 1:15:55 AM
Because my pen*s and balls make it uncomfortable to close my legs. I used to get up for women and open doors until they stopped saying thank you.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 23 (view)

Did I do the right thing Posted: 12/8/2008 1:34:36 AM
Sounds like your butting in. Could be a jealousy issue. If you don't have a man I think your trying to break em up. Trying to get the girl to go clubbing, then trying to ruin his name by speaking ill of him to anyone that will listen, going behind his back. He doesn't talk behind your back he calls you on the phone and tells you what he thinks of you. Is he controlling not enough to say. You being jealous high possibility from the info you shared. To answer you question no you did not do the right thing.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 2 (view)

not Will you marry me? Posted: 12/5/2008 2:55:10 AM

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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You call this Dating? Posted: 12/5/2008 12:28:24 AM
Don't give up this was just a freak accident. 99% of the men you date will not do this they will just start a thread instead.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 173 (view)

submissiveness Posted: 12/4/2008 8:01:40 PM
Thanks op for returning to answer questions. I don't know if I'm missing something but I'm still unclear as to what the guy did wrong. Are you saying he is wrong in not wanting to eat leftovers? Or is he wrong for telling you to go away? Or are you saying it's wrong to cater to your husband? Man who ever said woman are confusing hit the nail on the head!

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 157 (view)

submissiveness Posted: 12/4/2008 7:09:10 AM
Windroper I tried to get you to understand earlier but it may have been too complex so I'll try this: I'm rubber your glue what you say bounces off me and sticks to you!!! Now consider our beef to be squashed!

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 148 (view)

submissiveness Posted: 12/3/2008 10:57:20 PM
NOLA Chick Guess the same could be said for the op. Shouldn't get pissy cause hubby doesn't like leftovers! But I'm guessing you wouldn't give her that type of advice. Embarrassed? Me? No, still stand by my post. You should read some of your posts and re-evaluate embarrassing, childish, insensitive, and rude. I was planning on telling you to STFU, but I'm .....yeah that would be rude and your entitled to your opinion without me being verbally abusive, but then again maybe your used to being disrespected.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 125 (view)

submissiveness Posted: 12/3/2008 3:14:07 PM
Are you serious? So in your mind if someone has an oposing opinion either with post 111 where you clearly said STFU or your post I think number 34 which states, "It's whatever I put on the table. The man can open his mouth to eat it or STFU. If it is my duty to do the cooking (and it always was), those are his options." Which was said in your head. You think that is a perfectly heathly attitude to have in a relationship and shows respect to others point of view? If I guy doesn't want to eat something that does not make him an a**hole. On posts or in your mind, going around telling people to STFU is not healthy. If you think it sooner or later it will show in your behaviour and people will pick up that you want them to STFU. I don't think I'm the one who needs therapy.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 120 (view)

submissiveness Posted: 12/3/2008 2:23:39 PM
please explain post 111 . And before someone starts whining about homemaking and parenting being a 24/7 job, until you've done that AND worked full time STFU

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 117 (view)

submissiveness Posted: 12/3/2008 1:09:50 PM
WindRoper, if the way you conduct yourself on these forums is indicative of how you act in a relationship it's no wonder mariages are declining. You are both verbally and mentally abusive and exude a stench that is vile. Your the type of girl that would wake her husband up 3 in the morning, to complain that he folded the clothes wrong. Get used to living common law because no man would want to be locked up in a marriage contract with you. STFU nice why could you not present your position without telling another person to shut the fck up? It's because you can't, it's not in you. I know your used to passing alot of WIND when you speak, and at the same time trying to ROPE a mans nuts to be displayed your mantle Windroper, but mine are too big to be intimidated. 24/7 is impossible. Is parenting/maintaining home hard work? Yes of course it is, but nobody does anything 24 hours a day, seven days a week. When you state this, it's as if you are putting yourself above other people. I know it's the norm for tv to present men in a dull light but that's not reality. We don't just come home and the work is done for us either, our work continues as well. Both men and woman in a healthy relationship do what it takes to survive in life. To constatly make it a competition who does more is unhealthy and someone will feel unappreiated. I think the sooner we recognize each other as a group, and not as races or genders,the better we will become at comunicating, without the need, to tell someone, to shut-- the fck-- up. Just look at this present situation with the op. There is no doubt in my mind that if this was two women or two men, we would be disscussing the fact that the parties did not comunicate with each other. The fact that they happen to be male and female have brought apon the scourolous accusations of him being controlling and abusive. The op has not given us enough background info to make those aligations.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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My gf won't even let me touch her down there Posted: 12/3/2008 3:47:10 AM
Get better acquainted with your hand he's getting jealous of her anyway!!

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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My gf won't even let me touch her down there Posted: 12/3/2008 3:19:18 AM
Buddy this girl is rare in todays world sounds like a keeper. Take your time.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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submissiveness Posted: 12/3/2008 2:59:47 AM
She posted her problem and can pick a solution based of the advice given. Most of the time in forums the op's post a problem; they get upset with the advice, and then adds other posts to try and turn the tides in their favor.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 101 (view)

submissiveness Posted: 12/3/2008 1:49:46 AM
serenityCW I agree with you 99.5%, but I have to say this 24/7 thing is getting on my nerves when I hear it. Nobody and I mean nobody watches their kids 24/7. When do you sleep? Even with a newborn it's impossible. My son and daughter play outside, go to friends house, play vid, watch movies, do school work, go to school,play sports. You don't actually mean 24hrs. a day seven days a week and if not why do people always say it. I know it's off topic but someone explain where this notion came from!!! When I work in peoples homes I can be there up to 5 hours. If it's a man or woman at home I can tell you they aren't watching their kids for even a hour. Kids are off doing there own thing while the parents are usually talking to me preventing me from completing my work.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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submissiveness Posted: 12/2/2008 6:38:21 PM
I think what one of the posters suggest was good advice. Maybe one day out of the week you guys eat leftovers and he fends for himself. That being said him not liking leftovers is irrelevant! My ex didn't like rice no biggie to me, if it was my turn to cook guess what I made rice....... and I took the extra 5 min to peel a couple of potatoes for her. It's not like he sprung it up that day, the op knew of his preference before hand, and decided to still make a meal with left overs anyway, and did not tell him of the plan. That seems passive aggressive. One poster pulled up a previous situation where he told his wife not to back talk to her sister. This is a guess so I could be wrong, but it seems that he does not partake in verbal assaults. When the op came to him a few minutes later he was probably still upset and thought it best not to say anything that could further aspirate the situation.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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submissiveness Posted: 12/2/2008 4:32:01 PM
QUICKSILVER217 I agree he should have asserted himself and asked that next time he be informed so he could make changes. It's too bad he was treated like a doormat and not given the opportunity to spend time with his wife and children.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 75 (view)

submissiveness Posted: 12/2/2008 4:31:26 PM
Soory my bo boo

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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I cheated Posted: 12/2/2008 4:18:05 PM
Sorry bud no advice here. You cheated case closed...NEXT *NOTE* Sage advice from Dr.Marina is 100% accurate, however satisfaction in not guaranteed ***

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

Msg: 71 (view)

submissiveness Posted: 12/2/2008 3:50:38 PM
It's pretty clear why the divorce rate is so high. If people find it's just too much to go out of their way to let the spouse know the family is eating then good god everyday life must be a total drag. I'm going by what the op has said, which is she didn't even invite him to dinner. This means he didn't know they were eating, and not only that he had no opportunity to make something for himself so he could enjoy dinner with his family. Do you really think saying, "Honey I'm wiped today and don't feel like cooking but there is chicken or pork in the fridge if you want." is too much to ask? Who knows the guy may have responded by saying," You know what babe you made a huge meal the other day let's just order some pizza." You work as a team in a relationship if you want to be independant stay single. If I don't like to eat leftovers that's my choice, but let me know when we are having leftovers so I can make something eles for myself and enjoy dinner with the family. Stop making this the battle of the sexes and work as a couple. If the two of you had just talked this whole thing would have been squashed and op please think hard about the responses here. This is not something and I repeat not something to hold a grudge over. We are spoiled people in America and ready to bolt at the first sign of trouble. Talk, talk and talk again when if something is bothering you and work hard to maintain a healthy relationship. Most people on here are still bitter from whatever happened to them in their previous relationship. They give advice based on their past which has nothing to do with your story. I know you two will work it out and remember that you both love each other and your kids. Try and do things as a family which will increase the bond and always talk about how you feel so the other party has a chance to make a change. Good Luck

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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submissiveness Posted: 12/2/2008 7:39:14 AM
smoranean, everyone has their opinion and even though I don't agree with your views I respect your right to voice your position. However I ask that you direct your response to either myself, other posters, or the op and leave my mother out of the topic. My mother taught me how to cook, and when I was in a LTR our rules were who ever got home first started dinner. If for some reason dinner was not made their was a heads up before hand so other arrangments could be made. I could not imagine cooking dinner for my son and daughter and not making something for my SO. I guess at that time we loved each other and would often look out for each other. This required us to talk which is something that was not done in this situation. Also I think you have some anger issues and should get them resolved before you enter a relationship.... and by the way it should be **your mother and not yo momma**. If you want to repond to me maybe get your GED first and i'll try and come down to your "Ghetto" slang.......you feelin what I'm saying G GOOD LORD

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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submissiveness Posted: 12/2/2008 4:12:09 AM
smoranean, I don't understand...if the norm in this house hold is that the wife makes the dinner for the family why would he then make dinner for himself? Also if she was not making him something to eat why not give him a heads up so he can make something for himself and eat it With the family. smoranean...sounds like your trying to turn this into a gender issue and I'm not sure it applies here. lelathecat I don't think hubby was even aware that the family was eating. Op said she didn't invite him.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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submissiveness Posted: 12/2/2008 3:58:22 AM
I'm starting to wonder if the issue you are having is due to the fact that he doesn't eat leftover food. Were you upset that you would have to make a meal for him instead of having a night off from cooking with the left overs????

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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submissiveness Posted: 12/2/2008 3:29:54 AM
I don't remember the op saying anything about him being late...as a matter of fact she said she did not invite him to eat. Sounds like he was in the home and she and the kids just started eating dinner without telling him.

marina3515

Joined: 2/22/2007

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submissiveness Posted: 12/2/2008 2:39:49 AM
If you don't work outside of the home then I could see where he is coming from. If you both work outside of the home then a compromise is in order. I think he has an issue with you making something to eat for the kids and yourself and for some reason you left him out. Ohh and by the way asking people not to judge is impossible. In order to give you advice I have to judge the situation and the behaviour. When asking for advice you take the good and the bad and JUDGE which is the best solution for you.

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