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Where have all the True and Honest Guys Gone? Posted: 12/21/2007 6:59:51 PM
It seems this query goes both ways, doesn't it?

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when girls say they need space Posted: 3/28/2006 6:30:33 AM
It's all about control. It appears your engagement with this woman did exactly what it should have - enable you to see the aspects of her real self hidden by the ecstasy of 'love'... It's definitely time for you to see this woman is like many others and is only exercising her control in the situation to 'have her cake and eat it too', unfortunately at the expense of you. Be smart. Be strong, though I know that's easier said than done. About a year ago I made the mistake of 'hanging on' to a woman I thought I knew...baked her one too many loaves of organic bread, one too many unwanted cell phone calls - and wound up with a six month jail sentence on a Felony Stalking rap. Cost me many things dear to me (self respect, $10,000, my business, by life in a town I thought I loved) and now, while I continue to reassemble my life, I see what a fool I was to believe in a woman who was in fact quite evil. Moral to the story: there are ALOT of women out who will make a far better match with you. Don't play her game, because the cards are stacked in her favor. Be strong, move on, and know that's 3,000,000,000 minus 1 you have to bother trying to find love with.

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Why women rule the world. Posted: 2/2/2006 6:56:21 PM
Exactly right...women only rule weak men.

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Why women rule the world. Posted: 2/2/2006 6:54:08 PM
Too many women, or at least too darned many, THINK they rule the world, when in reality the only power they have is what men have allowed. Just look at history, through the ages, it's always been might makes right. These days it's too bad woman have chosen to misuse the modern gift of social equality, which in turn some unwisely degrade to Femi-nazi behavior - which is something men really want nothing to do with. And where did this whole "better than thou" concept arise from....many people who make it a practice to dislike the opposite sex really need to take a long look at themselves and learn to like what they see before they disparage the opposite sex...who admittedly can be decietful and delightful at once...everyone, both men and women, need to be wary of disingenuous motives. I'm still hurting from having someone whom I thought was a genuine lover show her true colors by having me sentenced to six months in jail because I made the mistake of being honest and loving - two precarious qualities to exhibit in this 'new millenium'. I've learned my lesson - which is to be careful to whom you are vulnerable, because our laws stack the deck unfairly in the favor of women. And Linda, you may need to chill just a little, because no-one's trying to breach your insecurities...if you want to think you 'rule the world', that's cool. O'kay. You rule the world. And if that's the case, why are you doing such a shitty job????

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I could never understand people who commit suicide over heartbreak..........until now. Posted: 1/27/2006 8:49:04 PM
I found it helps to know that other women find you desireable, and in so doing validate your self worth....although, after my last breakup, which led to my spending three months in jail for a silly cell phone call, sometimes I'm left thinking it best to find someone who truly appreciates you for who you are, because life is for living, and finding joy in sharing togetherness with an appreciate other. Anyways, here's a poem I wrote on the subject, kind of a modified sonnet: ON DEATH I don't like to write on death, or even recognize it's there; But when we smell it's sodden breath and see it gaze with solemn stare Upon the people we love most I see life as an empty pit. For when they go to be his host, there's naught to do, but sit and sit, To think about the reasons why, how could they just so quickly die? and leave us all to dream and stir. To start awake with frightened cry, and stare till dawn and wonder why. Anyways, remember that tomorrow the sun will rise, and that things will get steadily better and that in the words of Kahil Gibran's "The Prohet": the deeper sorrow carves into your being, the more future joy you can contain....or something to that effect - someone took my copy of that wonderful book.

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I could never understand people who commit suicide over heartbreak..........until now. Posted: 1/27/2006 8:48:54 PM
I found it helps to know that other women find you desireable, and in so doing validate your self worth....although, after my last breakup, which led to my spending three months in jail for a silly cell phone call, sometimes I'm left thinking it best to find someone who truly appreciates you for who you are, because life is for living, and finding joy in sharing togetherness with an appreciate other. Anyways, here's a poem I wrote on the subject, kind of a modified sonnet: ON DEATH I don't like to write on death, or even recognize it's there; But when we smell it's sodden breath and see it gaze with solemn stare Upon the people we love most I see life as an empty pit. For when they go to be his host, there's naught to do, but sit and sit, To think about the reasons why, how could they just so quickly die? and leave us all to dream and stir. To start awake with frightened cry, and stare till dawn and wonder why. Anyways, remember that tomorrow the sun will rise, and that things will get steadily better and that in the words of Kahil Gibran's "The Prohet": the deeper sorrow carves into your being, the more future joy you can contain....or something to that effect - someone took my copy of that wonderful book.

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Why is smoking pot a crime? Posted: 1/14/2006 5:50:04 PM
It's really pretty simple. The gov/cops/Judges etc main objective is people CONTROL. Mind control, money control, freedom control, pleasure control......and this control racket has spawned a real cottage industry of law enforcement and social-psychiatic types to charge money for 're-habilitation' of criminal 'pot-heads' and other non-criminal types who've been ensared by the legal system...and the law enforcement' cottage Industry which has formed to fill the legal 'need' provides a convenient, controlled way to return money to the system and is an excellent way to spend money in a non-productive manner... which is the real crime of the law enforcement system gone wild as we see it today. Please don't get me wrong, however, because I know we do need a ready law enforecement system to keep the true criminals at bay, and.......hey, this sounds alot like I just huffed a huge spliff or something... but I've not done that for years....because the legal consequences are waaaay too severe.

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Worst dump ever Posted: 1/12/2006 10:19:20 PM
Worst dump happened not too long ago....the woman I fell for decided after being a real temptress and snagging my heart to cast me off just as fast....only my heart never heard, and when she put an official 'no contact' order on me I thought, oh well, maybe next time...then, after a two month contract out of town I returned home and made the totally stupid mistake of calling her on a cell phone to try and apologize and boom, with four hours I was in JAIL with a six month sentence....all for being honest, following my heart and...I admit, pretty dumb, to break the law by contacting her with 'just one more try'...well that last try to make up cost me 110 days in jail, ruined my consulting firm business, cost me about $8,000...and taught me to NEVER EVER date an ex-cop! No disrespect intended toward any law-enforcement types, just the lesson I've learned for me. Now I'm almost out of the woods, might soon start a new job in a different state, and put all this super-psycho feminazi stuff behind me! All for trying to respond with total kindness. Go figure.

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Will all the nice guys stop asking why we dont want them! Posted: 1/11/2006 6:13:08 AM
Count your blessings when the worst thing you must endure is female rejection...last Spring the 'perfect woman' in my life, Paula W. chose to display her insecurities by applying the power which our government bestowes upon every woman when she had me sentenced to SIX MONTHS in jail because I baked her loaves of bread or called her on the cell phone or sent her one romantic email poetry....believe the heinous b*tch tells you they're not interested any more, don't try to be a nice guy and re-ignite the flame of love, or you'll soon be labeled a 'stalker' and be put in JAIL...where the real 'nice guys' are found.....makes you wonder if William Shakespear's Romeo would have been labeled a stalker and thrown in JAIL for his romantic tactics....moonlight poems under her balcony window-pane sounds like breaking and entering to me or the DA/Judge...the New Millenium Romeo and Juliet would run like this: Romeo, of Romeo...where for-are thou? Romeo? Look no more for your love at your doorstep...aye, look yonder for him Juliet, they've put him in JAIL for being too nice! Hmmmmmm....soon enough women will find all the 'nice guys' they feel so free to reject have seen the light and will let them be their own best friends....twiddle dee and twiddle dumm.

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how do you get revenge on someone you loved Posted: 12/28/2005 6:44:01 PM
lori => After reviewing all the responses to your request for revenge ideas I was a little disappointed because I was eagerly reading in the hopes of getting an idea for myself....the last woman (and in retrospect she may not even deserve that kind description) I was with just so happened to be an ex-cop (I've learned to NEVER date a cop ever again) who PUT ME IN JAIL for 109 days of a 180 day sentence because I sent her loaves of home-baked bread and sent her original love poems on the Internet...but I learned too late how totally un-loving and uncaring this woman really is. Having been out, but still on probation, for almost six months, I've been a good boy and played it cool and made it a point to avoid all contact....at least until my probation is up and I get my confiscated property back...THEN I'll feel free to do as I please, although anything illegal will come right back on me, so I'll just have to be satisfied with legal annoyances, which I won't divulge here......so you see, revenge may be sweet, and may be something you focus on night and day while in jail, but the reality is as everyone else says, do your best to make him/her sorry they did you wrong.....and perhaps take perverse joy in the thought that they will forever be looking over their shoulder because they know in their heart they did you wrong...and what comes around always goes around. Still, it's kind of a secondary satisfaction that despite being legal and safe does't give you the immediate satisfaction of a truly cruel response....so I suppose it's best not to stoop to the depravity of him/her and follow the dominant advise of everyone else....be cool, and trake heart in the knowledge they will get what's coming to them without your efforts to speed the inevitable.

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Wyoming forum rules Posted: 7/16/2005 8:35:35 PM
Hmmm....so many rules right from the start...Oh well, I suppose that's the New Millenium mentality required today. Seems positively un-Wyoming, if you ask me.

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What am I doing wrong ladies???? Posted: 3/6/2005 7:21:07 AM
Gotta have lots of money!

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 2/14/2005 2:27:53 PM
EVERYONE TOGETHER NOW: THIS IS OUR YEAR!!! (so let's do it right)

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 2/14/2005 2:21:39 PM
Hi everyone...hope you're having a splendid Valentine's Day!!!

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anyone ready to move on?.!!!!!! Posted: 2/11/2005 6:59:18 PM
After learning that my ex was with someone new less than a month after we split, I realized a certain sorrow period to honor the relationship is important, and helps you to heal for your next episode in life....I take some comfort in the fact that Ms. Ex returned to her ways so quickly, because I know that will ensure certain heartbreak...but oh yeah, I forgot, SHE'S HEARTLESS!

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