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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/28/2007 9:36:11 PM | I'll be honest, I haven't read the entire thread. I mean, at 33 pages, how many people that came in late have. I skipped through a couple pages and noticed that it seemed to be mostly men in their 30's or 40's, women of all ages. Where's the young guys? You know, the ones that always have an opinion? Being 19 years old, and male, I figured I qualified to try and make up for this apparent no-show
Personally, I wouldn't want to date anyone older than 25, and no younger than 17. Some people will look at that and realize, yea, that's a big range when you think about it, because while I may only be 19, even I realize the amount a woman can mature even on a yearly basis from 17 to 25. What it comes down to is an indiviual assessment, because I can name a 17 year old more mature than any of your choice of 40 year olds and I can name a 25 year (or 2) that make tweens look mature.
As for myself, do I make any claims on being mature? If the occassion warrents it, sure, I can make you forget that I'm still experiencing life and instead have you thinking that I've lived out a lifetime worth of experiences. But hey, I'm 19, I'm enjoying the fact that if I want to let loose, I'm going to. I'd say with no thought to consequences, but unfortunetly those days are long gone.
Started to stray. Back to the dating side of things. What do I see in someone 5 or 6 years older than me? I couldn't care less about money or social status or job security. (I do care, don't get me wrong, it's just not top of my list. I don't want to be a bum for the rest of my life, I do have ambitions :P) I'm more about the simple pleasures. Someone who knows what they want from life, who's ready to be serious in a relationship instead of searching for what they like and don't like. Someone who's experienced the paradox that a real relationship can be, the pain and the joy, and knows that in the end it's better to have that special someone to share it with instead of 'spreading the love'. Someone who knows the difference between infatuation and the real deal. Someone who realize that it's not going to be all rainbows and puppy dogs, relationships take real work, time and energy, and lots of it. Someone who is beyond the point of "She did what? Where? With who? Why? Oh, this I've go to share with everyone." Maybe to everyone else that sounds like a load of bunk, but to me... that's the real deal, that's what I'm searching for and I'm not stopping til I find it. | | | |
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